Cap Sun, Cancer Moon, Aries Ascend, Venus Aqua

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But ummmm... One other question :
What's your thoughts of moving in with your s/o?? How soon is too soon.. my cap asked where "We" moving but since saying that hadn't took steps towards that.. is he serious Or nah... (I think it's soon but I would love seeing/having him around more) *LDR

Okay I lied.. 1 more.. 😁

If you tell a woman you love her and she questions it. Does that hurt your pride & you sort of take it back?
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1. For me, it depends on the connection. But if I am feeling you like that, the yes, I want you to move in ASAP. Why?- I want to fall asleep and wake up next to you everyday. That means the world to me- I used to watch my ex-sleep all the time (mostly because she ALWAYS feel asleep before me lol). Is he serious, I don't know for sure but I would say probably- well if you want him to take steps don't be so skeptical of his ideas. If you're interested in that, let him know- and if your not- same thing and tell him why.


2. I don't say that unless I mean it. So it doesn't matter if you believe it or not-- that's your choice. How I feel is how I feel. It would be helpful to know you're not there yet (which is fine) so we can be on the same page but that isn't going to change how I feel about you.
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If you aren't interested in someone, do you let them know straightforward if they approach you?

If you're dating someone and lose interest do you give explanation or just ghost them, slow fade?

Do you ever intentionally do things to get females to stop liking you?


1. Yes I tell them. I had to tell a friend that recently and it sucked. But, honesty works best for everyone in the end.

2. I tell them I'm done. If they ask why I'll tell them. Ghosting is wrong and weak, man up and own your choices. The slow fade requires to much effort- if I'm out, I'm out. No need to drag it on and waste my time and yours. It takes a lot for me to walk away (when we are serious), so if I'm there then its a wrap.

3. Nope. Again, waste of time.
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1} Do caps make things "official", because they really like you? In that instance, do you prefer something long term?

2} Are dates important to you?

3} Why do you work so hard? To the point of overworking, never making time for "Life"?

4} What is the perfect day for a cap, you have a whole day to do what you want, what is the perfect past time?

5} When do you "know" you're "in-love"? How are you with your lady? What signs should a woman look for?

6} You are Aqua Venus like my man... I'm his first scorpion woman. After his long term relationship with his kids mom, he was single for 3 years but dated around.. & made thing "official" with me on the first date. I see often that you prefer Scorpion woman.. SO: What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like? Any dislikes? Why did those connections end with you and those particular women?

7} Why do Aqua Venus Caps cheat. (Seems to be a consistent trait of you guys.) I haven't been cheated on yet. Or that I know of.

*Sorry, I know it's a bit much to answer.. But.... You said whatever we wanna know.. Therefore: Answer away...



Lawd!!!

1. Its very rare that I do that in the first place. The other fellas @sirxavier, @parisiancappy and the rest may view this differently. So, yeah, its not something I play around with. If I am the one declaring then you've got me until you treetrunk it up.

2. Dates are very important, not only just to figure you out but, to keep things interesting.

3. Because I have 3 main goals in life; 1) be a good father to my kid(s) (when/ if I have any), 2) be a good husband to my wife (when/ if I get married) and , 3) Be in a position to provide whatever help I can to my family. Working hard to be successful in my career carries with it the benefit being financially stable and thus is a good platform to build towards success on all three. Further, until I actually have a S/O to come home to every night, I see no point in slowing down at work.

4. Hmmmm start the day with a hike in the mountains. Then have a good lunch. Chill for a bit , reading, sleeping, treetrunking (no particular order). Head out later for dinner and a live music performance. Grab dessert/ drinks someplace then call it a night. My favorite pastime is reading, btw.

5. When do I know I am in love? When I clear out space for you in my closet and dresser so you can start leaving clothes at my place- without you ever asking me to do so.

6. A. What are the traits of a scorpion lady that you like?
Too many to list them all but I guess the first would be their bluntness with their opinion- they aren't scared to be wrong (at least they seem that way). I come from a family of very strong women, any woman I choose would need to be able to hold her own. Never have to worry about that with the Scorps I've met. Second would be how passionate they can be- the intensity is enthralling. Finally, I love the fact they don't need me, they want me-- huge turn on. I could go on but I am going to stop here.

B. Any dislikes?
Stubborn. I understand wanting your way but you have to compromise sometimes.

C. Scorp#1 She had kid, and how we met was kinda shady on her part but I ended up moving for a job before we really connected. Scorp#2 She was 8yrs younger and not looking to settle down-- had a lot of fun though. Scorp#3 She cheated.

7. Ain't this some bullbutter?!?!? smh
1) Its not a consistent trait, 2) We cheat for the same reason any else does-- cause we want to. Seriously, all this analysis of cheating usually misses that crucial point. Yeah there are circumstances, yeah there are things to consider, yeah people make mistakes. But, bottom line, no one forces you to cheat, its a choice you make- and you make it without your partners input-- so its all on the cheater and their choice.
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Not me. If I "disappeared" then I couldn't care less about you or what you are up to.

This is what I love about Capricorn's you are so blunt 😂





I mean, I actually find the whole disappearing thing disrespectful as treetrunk. So, if I feel comfortable blatantly disrespecting you like that, then your feelings matter very little to me.

That being sad, its a practice I've done my best to stop. No matter how bad someone else has treated you, you should try not to stoop to their level. You know, the whole trying to be a better person thing

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Do male caps secretly keep tabs on you when they disappear for a while? Will they watch you on social media or see if you're online on whatsapp? Or just not bothered because they have other things to focus on


Not me. If I "disappeared" then I couldn't care less about you or what you are up to.
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How do you guys see such situation?
It has only been a month but it feels like half a year maybe because we text everyday.


I see this as two children, one of whom needs to stop taking this seriously and focus on school and having fun.
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If only the men were as sweet as the women 😍

Thank you



@Capri-sun

SCORPIO WOMEN ARE THE BIZ-Nass!!! :*

Indeed!


I'm a teddy bear 😜


I've had my fair share of scorpions.. DEF Teddy Bears!! But Scorp on Scorp didn't work out too well IMO


lol I wouldn't know I guess the better stinger wins? 😜




Lol.. umm Scorpio men I dealt with were toooooo emotionally attached, more jealous than me.. I think I was too strong for them.. they often said I was a cookiemonster or shallow! DAMN!?!! there was only one that was more nonchalant but we had a really good relationship. I love him still but not "in love" if you know what I mean..


lol I was just joking about the last post but yea I used to be jealous but now I'm like 🙃


I still get jealous.. but I gotta grow up.. my man is 4 years older than me & he has a lot of female friends. He makes it clear that they are only friends nothing more & nothing less.. I had to swallow my pride and tell myself it's okay.. men can be friends with woman and nothing more.. even have sex and leave it at just sex. Woman are different sex means more to us than it does to a man.. I had to "think" like a man on this.. I'm confident in myself but I still feel a ways about things. 😆😫


Lol a few tried to make me jealous but it didn't work lol


Lol same with me! Specially if I'm NOT that interested! Doesn't bother me much anymore


Lol the ones that did I'm actually attracted to lol


What sign are you mostly attracted to through your dating experience?


Dated cancers caps and sags I'd say used to be cancer but now I think caps lol

Once you go cap, you don't go back


Lol! I've dated Scorps, Geminis & Caps! Caps def won me over. & not to mention the sex ! OMG FIRST MAN TO KO ME!! Lmao!! Out cold and feeling like $ a million bucks the next day!! & they like to cuddle..

But I've been told Caps only cuddle with "the right one" not all get that privilege? True?
I'll let the guys answer this one... @daron76, @sirXavier

I have no idea tbh. To me cuddling or lack there of isn't an indication of anything on my part.
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Depends on the cuddling;

In bed? - I'm mean if you made it that far, sure why not.
On the couch?- Gotta be special.
In public? We're getting married.









Yes, the more I get to know him the more I learn that he will show through his actions.. & that I just need to be comfortable & go with the flow.. I think it was more so of me being caring about his rest since he works hard., & not wanting to be a bother.. ALSO, I don't like talking to him when he's like that cause it's the count down til he's well off to sleep.. lol we actually went to sleep on the phone together last night.. so corny!! LOL 😂

Boy does this trigger flash backs.... sigh


Uhhh ? Mr. Daron??? Lol what could you possibly mean by that... & the "sigh" ?? Hmm? 🤔😏

Reminds me of some late night convos with my scorp when we were getting to know each other. Hours would fly by and we wouldn't notice.
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what ive realized is that when Capricorns care about someone they put said person on pedestal and once that person make the slightest mistake, they no longer exist in cap's life.

I understand that it hurts and I appreciate how aware most of you are of your own worth, but caps are intolerant of others.

and I don't think caps are cold, if anything they're highly sensitive hence the strong reactions to people slightest mistakes, comments...etc.

p.s: this isn't directed at OP, but caps in general.


Sensitive... YES! I've experienced this sensitivity with all caps that I know.. They just don't like BS... It does come off as cold because of the way they say things.. very blunt.. But if you know you're wrong... you shouldn't be surprised when you get a reaction..


am never wrong I'm a virgo

I don't find cappies blunt really, they're more in the passive side


UHHHHH!... Yea. LOL! One of my ex friends & current best friend are Virgos.. Ya'll are EXTREMELY sensitive, if anything.. & ya'll know it all and hate when ppl call you out. OPP! Just speaking from experience. No offense!


see...this is what I'm talking about

it happens every time I start analyzing caps motives they pull a P-Angel, turn the tables and be like and you're a critical annoying virgo blahblah

I be like duh! but you didn't answer my question? lmao

I JUST WANT TO UNDERSTAND CAPRICORNS


LOL! SORRY! Hahaa Im a Scorpio and it's said that Virgo and Scorpio get along well... I value my friendships with my Virgo friend.. Ya'll are cool peeps but the one I'm no longer friend's with was overboard with her sensitive butter and she was a possessive friend.. couldn't share me or something..? & That's not me.. I always have a number of groups of friends.. Not just stuck to 1 group of friends.. I'm just outgoing like that.. But I get you.. It's so hard to read a cap.. I'm in a relationship with one.. My dad is one and 2 of my sisters are Capricorns also... SO I know a little but trying to understand my man on another level than what it would be with family is def difficult..

& I just had a talk with my babe last night and he kept answering my questions with questions so I was LIKE WTF!! I was getting so annoyed but if I say that then he gets sensitive.. it turns into a petty argument.. he shuts down and then we hang up.. The next day he'll talk to me like nothing happened the night before.. so knowing this, I just keep my mouth shut and I come back at another time about the situation.. He had also worked all day and was sleepy by the time we talked so you have to understand where they come from.. Sometimes it's not you.. just how they feel at the moment may come off as them being cold.. I'm learning this the more we get to know each other, how to react with him... WHen you assume they are being a ways, they hate that!! Sometimes you just have to ask and like my cap they will tell you.. Like I asked him "are you sure you want to talk right now babe? you sound sleepy.." He responded.. "I called you right? if I didn't want to talk I would have told you.." I'm dominate as a woman so butter like that boils me (smart ass responses, I normally react with an even smarter response) but I just let him think he rules this butter.. They love that butter!

That's the actions part speaking. The scorp had a similar comment and that is what I thought to myself in my head "if I didn't want to talk to you, then I wouldn't be on the phone with you right now"


Yes, the more I get to know him the more I learn that he will show through his actions.. & that I just need to be comfortable & go with the flow.. I think it was more so of me being caring about his rest since he works hard., & not wanting to be a bother.. ALSO, I don't like talking to him when he's like that cause it's the count down til he's well off to sleep.. lol we actually went to sleep on the phone together last night.. so corny!! LOL 😂
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Boy does this trigger flash backs.... sigh
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@starwars what was the question?

If it is ego? sometimes, I find that mostly in the getting to know each other stage or with people I consider acquaintances.

The pedestal part if I'm truly interested, yes you're up there & I think the world of you. If you make one mistake, I'm overly forgiving imo so that person still exists. They aren't immediately cut off.

If I'm unsure of my interest where I'm still getting to know you and haven't made a decision yet, then yes you're likely to no longer exist to me if you mess up. I will still be cordial if we have to interact with each other for some reason (work, school, etc.)

I consider myself more passive than blunt. Likely to just leave you the f alone than tell you that I'm pissed off because of x, y, z.

Sensitive, yes. Overly at times.


thanks for the insight

do you observe people before getting to know them? are you cautious in your approach or do you go with your gut feeling?
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Observe unless circumstances prevent it.
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Aqua Venus-- we can (not that we will) like just about anybody. Love is a whole other story ¯\_(ツ)_/¯


SO just found out my Cappy is Aqua Venus... Now he initiated our relationship.. But he says it will take him a while for love.. He has "so much more to get to know about me.." UNDERSTANDABLE... I feel the same.. Love is such a sensitive topic and should not be taken lightly..

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Well, for me, the way this plays out (in my relationships) my heart and my head don't work on the same time table. My heart will fall in love long before my head figures out what the treetrunk is going on.

Personally, the big tell (when it dawns on me) is my space. I can sleep with a woman, talk to her every day and enjoy her company but, in the morning, she needs to leave. But, if she ends up spending the whole weekend (or several consecutive days) then leaves and I miss her immediately-- it usually sends off alarm bells in my head. How rare is that feeling? I've only felt that way with 2 women.
Aqua Venus-- we can (not that we will) like just about anybody. Love is a whole other story ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
This has been a very good read so far.
I hope not! What you have to offer will eventually be given to you, with interest. But the only way to win the raffle is to play.

Maybe keep things light for and just have fun (at a level you are comfortable with of course)? No such thing as too old for that. Indeed, life is a marathon not a sprint.
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I thought if a man really wants a woman, he would pursue her.


He will.


In the very beginning I agree with this. However, after all the mind games and bs, it becomes very difficult to know how to proceed, thus killing the pursuit.


This is true @daron76 . Ty for your input. There hasn't been any mind games on my end, I just never told him how I felt because I didn't want to scare him away. I only like him a little, not a lot since I still want to get to know him. The more I know about someone, the more the connection grows for me and the more I'll want them. I mean, I can still be patient and see what happens but I can't make any promises.
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I was speaking in general and wasn't accusing you of doing this.
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I thought if a man really wants a woman, he would pursue her.


He will.
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In the very beginning I agree with this. However, after all the mind games and bs, it becomes very difficult to know how to proceed, thus killing the pursuit.
Can he do long distance?

Sure. 3 months isn't that long.

Are you two going to make it long term?

That is a helluva question. Caps and Aries don't work on paper but it isn't that bad in real life. Especially if its what you both want. He has a lot of butter going on right now, expect your patience to be tested.
my summation of the cap/ scorp relationship=

we have found the person we were looking for but we are both too skeptical to believe it.
If you get it right- fun times!

if you treetrunk up


scorched earth....