Cap Sun, Aries Ascend, Cancer Moon, Venus Aqua

Posted by youngali
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Posted by Sagiluv27
I dated an ex and I was really into this guy for like 8yrs seriously butterflies and all that's a long time to have feelings for a person who is out of the picture, he came back and we tried to rekindle what we left behind, I realized that he wasn't for me, I realized I no longer wanted someone like him for myself, I also realized that it was good that he came back because after hanging out for several months it allowed me to get closure for myself it also allowed me to get over my feelings for him. Yes the image I had of him before changed drastically after he came back, but that was good, that's all I needed to walk away & get him out of my mind and life completely. I said my goodbyes, he still reaches out and wants to hang out but I will always refuse because giving someone a second chance makes you realize a lot of things... I really hope you give this guy a second chance to see what life has in store for you as far as lessons, in your case it can be the opposite of my story, but you'll only know if you give it a try. Good luck 🍀


Thank you!



My advice?

Ditch him, date me...

ijs




😏😉 smooth.


LOL

On a more serious note, I've never gone back to an ex. There is only one where I would even mildly consider it and, frankly, she is not worthy. That being said, and since your ex and I share a lot of placements, this most likely isn't a result of loneliness- something serious is there-- even though he may not know how to express it. Be patient and keep doing things that make you happy-- like @-elle- said. Treat your interactions with him as a bonus and a have serious convo when your both ready.

Orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

you could just do what I said earlier!!!



lol thanks for the feedback. i've already decided to not go backwards. i attempted to call to talk about my decision, but no answer. waited 2 hours for a response, but nada. so i went ahead and blocked him. 😂

besides, second option sounds better. 😉🙃😜
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I'll bring the champagne, you bring the fried chicken. We'll make the waffles.
Posted by youngali
Posted by daron76
Posted by youngali
Posted by Sagiluv27
I dated an ex and I was really into this guy for like 8yrs seriously butterflies and all that's a long time to have feelings for a person who is out of the picture, he came back and we tried to rekindle what we left behind, I realized that he wasn't for me, I realized I no longer wanted someone like him for myself, I also realized that it was good that he came back because after hanging out for several months it allowed me to get closure for myself it also allowed me to get over my feelings for him. Yes the image I had of him before changed drastically after he came back, but that was good, that's all I needed to walk away & get him out of my mind and life completely. I said my goodbyes, he still reaches out and wants to hang out but I will always refuse because giving someone a second chance makes you realize a lot of things... I really hope you give this guy a second chance to see what life has in store for you as far as lessons, in your case it can be the opposite of my story, but you'll only know if you give it a try. Good luck 🍀


Thank you!



My advice?

Ditch him, date me...

ijs




😏😉 smooth.
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LOL

On a more serious note, I've never gone back to an ex. There is only one where I would even mildly consider it and, frankly, she is not worthy. That being said, and since your ex and I share a lot of placements, this most likely isn't a result of loneliness- something serious is there-- even though he may not know how to express it. Be patient and keep doing things that make you happy-- like @-elle- said. Treat your interactions with him as a bonus and a have serious convo when your both ready.

Orrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

you could just do what I said earlier!!!

Posted by youngali
Posted by Sagiluv27
I dated an ex and I was really into this guy for like 8yrs seriously butterflies and all that's a long time to have feelings for a person who is out of the picture, he came back and we tried to rekindle what we left behind, I realized that he wasn't for me, I realized I no longer wanted someone like him for myself, I also realized that it was good that he came back because after hanging out for several months it allowed me to get closure for myself it also allowed me to get over my feelings for him. Yes the image I had of him before changed drastically after he came back, but that was good, that's all I needed to walk away & get him out of my mind and life completely. I said my goodbyes, he still reaches out and wants to hang out but I will always refuse because giving someone a second chance makes you realize a lot of things... I really hope you give this guy a second chance to see what life has in store for you as far as lessons, in your case it can be the opposite of my story, but you'll only know if you give it a try. Good luck 🍀


Thank you!
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My advice?

Ditch him, date me...

ijs


treetrunk= Aqua
Marry= Scorpio
Kill= Gemini
Gemini. They only have two operating modes: annoying and very treetrunking annoying
Posted by Chance_12
Posted by Virgorean
If it helps, you are our first choice for Virgos

As the cycle goes...

Caps want Virgos
Virgos want Tauruses
Tauruses want Caps

Such is life.


Nah, Caps tend to take Virgos for granted. They would have to have a water moon or a significant water placement. Or a fire moon possibly. Otherwise, the traits are redundant. Caps like their partner to excite them. Virgo stereotypically lacks personality.

Caps will go for water all day every day over Earth..and for someone like me (with a lot of air and fire in my chart), I'd take fire over either as well.

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Yeah totally agree with this as far as water is concerned
Posted by poison_ivy
Yea, it doesn't work.. LOL!

You can do it.. Just gives him space.. They actually prefer space.. You'll go back and he'll act as if time never went by..

Reach out at your own free will.. don't base it on him..


This.
Posted by pinkbird03
Do cap men ever play the field when they are dating or do they only date one person at a time? If they date other girls, do they kiss multiple girls?? About how many dates does it take to be exclusive???

This guy says he's looking for something serious. But I met him online and lets face it, so many guys on there date multiple girls at once.


That is really a matter of preference. I prefer to play the field until or unless I have met someone worth dropping everyone else for. Yes, of course you kid wind up kissing all of them.. not really a big deal to me. How many dates until exclusive? Depends on how special you are.
Posted by Capladylike
How do you know if a cap man really cares about you?


I think that really depends on his venus placement. But the most common things would be; we do practical stuff for you and we let you near our family.
Posted by StrawberryJam
do you ever change your mind after you dump someone?

Yes
Posted by MoonyEYES88
Hello cappies! Can I lend your ear and advice, there is a capricorn man thats into me, flirty, and I think he may ask me on a date. I would like to tell this other capricorn man that although I adore him, Im already in a relationship. Will he become angry and cold with me?


wut?
Posted by Pumpkin33
Capricorn said he just wanted to be friends do I ever have a chance to be more? He is an amazing guy, we still hang out and we have never been intimate? I'm a Cancer, he is very special to me


hard to say. what is his venus?
Posted by youngali
Posted by scorpio24356
My cap man has never posted pics of his girlfriends. He says he will once he is married. We've already been together for a year, but it really bothers me. He talks about marrying me, but doesnt talk about me to many people or anything. I just wanna see him treat me how he would if we were married so i can decide if its worth it. I wont be with someone who wants to hide me for the rest of his life. He also has a lot of girl friends that he texts (and sometimes answers their calls) when we are on dates and sometimes even more than he talks to me. I doubt that half of them even know i exist in his life. I've tried to understand it or just ask him to respect our time when we find time together, but he just gets super defensive. Do you think he is hiding me to keep his options open? Thats what it feels like. It makes me wanna do all these things to him, but i know the result would be terrible so i dont.


I don't care what anyone says... he low key has hoes. proceed with caution.
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True...
Posted by LillyPetal
Posted by daron76
You have questions, we'll try to have answers. No question is too strange or taboo.


What style clothing do you prefer on women?
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Elegant in public. Subtle but sexy in private.
As an aqua venus, how I show love is a random surprise+ doing practical stuff for you. Its a coin toss between the two everyday.
Posted by WonderWoman14
Posted by youngali
My bad... i'm just now seeing this thread. 😂

I wasn't the biggest fan of my Aqua venus, but i'm liking it more and more everyday. could be worse, could've ended up with an over the top emotional venus and have it treetrunk my whole life up. lol
so yea, i'm grateful.

My sag sun, rising, mercury, uranus & neptune speak the same language as my venus. so i'm good.


Same I heard such negative things in the past but I like it. I'm none judgmental, I can get on with all people from all backgrounds. I read this and it describes me pretty well

http://www.alwaysastrology.com/aquarius-venus.html

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Nice link. I'm sold on this placement (not that I have a choice lol). It is always fun to see the surprise in her face when I do something random. Yet, what she doesn't know is that I am just a surprised as she is. I honestly have no idea where these ideas come from but eh, keeps things interesting.
Sorry but this is your fault- You have been "over it" for as long as I have been on this forum. You are under obligation to respond to him. The only reason you two interact is because you choose to do so. If you are/ were done with him, then nothing he does (short of violence/ verbal abuse) should warrant a reaction from you. In short; stop feeding the troll.
Wow. This thread actually happened. This should be interesting!

@poison_ivy

Oye, yo lei el primer pagina solamente. Que hicisite ahora mamita? Esepero que todo bien ahora.
It depends on the person, but it takes time. Could be 6 months, could be a year or more