
Kvvle
@Kvvle
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Posted by Kvvlejust said it because I did?
Do you think she really likes me or just said it because I did? Aside from her saying that and the kiss she doesn't really show that she wants to be with me. Also, Why do you think she is so hot and cold? Any tips on how to remediate this? Thanks!

Posted by Capri-sunAbsolutely
1. We suck at communication
Plus she's a female so she might look for you to take the lead on initiating conversation.

Posted by Capri-sunHaha didnt remember but yeah I believe in that 🙂Posted by marshmallowPosted by Capri-sunAbsolutely
1. We suck at communication
Plus she's a female so she might look for you to take the lead on initiating conversation.
I remember you saying that...that's why I included the last part 🙂
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Posted by KvvleIt's your right to not be with someone for whatever reason. Don't feel guilty about it.
Just updating this...
I broke things off with her. Things were going well for a while...but just wasn't working out for me. I really liked this girl but imo it was a dead end. There were a lot of issues that I think are a bit too personal to share. Long story short, I cut things off cold and abruptly. It's been three weeks and she's still calling me and also messaging me on social media. She's also resorted to calling me from different numbers. Is this normal? Does she need closure or something like that? I really just want to move on...
Also, I hope this doesn't make me come off like a jerk but she did and said some pretty f'd up things.
Posted by KvvleGive it a few weeks and she should come to her senses and get the hint that it's over. If she's still bothering you, then yes...she probably needs closure. Give it to her if you really want to move on.
Just updating this...
I broke things off with her. Things were going well for a while...but just wasn't working out for me. I really liked this girl but imo it was a dead end. There were a lot of issues that I think are a bit too personal to share. Long story short, I cut things off cold and abruptly. It's been three weeks and she's still calling me and also messaging me on social media. She's also resorted to calling me from different numbers. Is this normal? Does she need closure or something like that? I really just want to move on...
Also, I hope this doesn't make me come off like a jerk but she did and said some pretty f'd up things.
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Anyway, I really like this girl. We met online and have been talking for a little bit. We went out a few weeks ago and had a great time. At least, I thought we did. However, there were some red flags. I honestly had no idea if she was into me until she started flirting with me on our second date. Our first date was great, we talked for hours but it was hard to tell if she was romantically interested aside from great conversation.
A few nights ago, I let it slip that I like her and she says "I know" and laughed but quickly added that she likes me too (Progress! Yes!). We went out again this past Saturday and had great convo again. The conversation was more serious though, we talked about things such as kids and family. We kissed that night and the next day we couldn't stop texting one another. But today, it's crickets. That's part of my problem. She's very hot and cold with me. We'll be on one day and off the next. When we're on it's non-stop communication, when we're off she barely responds. It's a little off putting because I'm not that great with communication to begin with but I'm trying to be better with her. However, when she acts cold, I act colder because I don't want to bother her or be 'that' person who doesn't get the hint. But out of the blue, she will contact me and give me sh** for it and we're back on again. Rinse, Wash, Repeat.
I appreciate any advice.
Do you think she really likes me or just said it because I did? Aside from her saying that and the kiss she doesn't really show that she wants to be with me. Also, Why do you think she is so hot and cold? Any tips on how to remediate this? Thanks!