Romance at the STD clinic

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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
I think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
I think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
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Thank you! *blushes*.

Everything is magic with him, so it's not difficult. πŸ™‚
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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
I think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
All about perception i guess Cappy


STD Clinic and romance just didn't do it for me, but it could *catch* on

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lol We're all different. I can understand if you don't think it's romantic.. I'm surprised that I do. πŸ™‚
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I don't know if it's romantic, but I sure would be happy to hear that from my boyfriend, because it shows that he is responsible and that he seeing me in his future
It sounds crazy, I know. Maybe I don't know the word right, but I'd take that in front of a candle lit dinner any day.πŸ™‚
When you're both waiting to see the doctor and you cuddle up against him while watching a video about safe sex?

Unconventional yes, but definitely romantic.
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No, I think we'll skip the tv and he'll wear a condom when we wait instead. πŸ˜„
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it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
lol Why do you think so?
idk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love story
The movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?
nah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!
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Are you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?
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it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
lol Why do you think so?
idk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love story
The movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?
nah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!
Are you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?
You can be either of them.

#roleplayideas
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Mmmm. I'm thinking...πŸ˜„
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it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
lol Why do you think so?
idk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love story
The movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?
nah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!
Are you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?
lmao not at all
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I just thought, how did he knowβ€” Just kidding. πŸ˜„
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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
I'm so HAPPY for you and him!!!!!!!!!!!πŸ™‚ He is def a responsible guy and cares about your health and his. Also that he plans on being exclusive with you. Keep this guy around for sure!! One guy I dated seems like forever, I asked to please get checked even if I have to pay for it but he never did. I told him I am not touching him until he shows me proof he is clean because I voluntarily showed him my papers, proving I am serious about our relationship and ready to be exclusive with him without worries. He always claimed to be clean and said he had NO prob with showing me he was but NEVER did. So we never had sex. More ppl should be like that. A split decision because you were so horny and TOO DAMN lazy to get blood drawn for 5 mins and checked for life threading diseases can change your life FOREVER.
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Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
I'm so HAPPY for you and him!!!!!!!!!!!πŸ™‚ He is def a responsible guy and cares about your health and his. Also that he plans on being exclusive with you. Keep this guy around for sure!! One guy I dated seems like forever, I asked to please get checked even if I have to pay for it but he never did. I told him I am not touching him until he shows me proof he is clean because I voluntarily showed him my papers, proving I am serious about our relationship and ready to be exclusive with him without worries. He always claimed to be clean and said he had NO prob with showing me he was but NEVER did. So we never had sex. More ppl should be like that. A split decision because you were so horny and TOO DAMN lazy to get blood drawn for 5 mins and checked for life threading diseases can change your life FOREVER.
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Thank you for your comment!

Yes, I agree! The way for him to know if he's clean is if he's a virgin or if he has a resent test done. If he's a virgin it doesn't matter because you can't know that for sure and if he got a resent test, then why not just show you. Weird. I must admit that we have sex without the tests, but only with condom. Good you got rid of that guy!
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Not hot at all - it means the dude has been with some "questionable" women or MEN in the past, and also doesn't trust you.
Think about it!
He wasn't a virgin when we met at all, I already know that and he know that I know. I don't think it's about not trusting me more than that I or he can't know. I only had sex in relationships before but I could have something anyway. we don't know before we're tested.
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Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Yes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
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Lol...yes yes. 9 long months
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I learned from a SAG aunt said she will never and has never had sex without condoms n been married 40 years. Why for obvious reasons anybody can say they are exclusive or even married and still have some side action or have or slip, or be an unknown carrier
I think I'm rolling with that
That's the safest way for sure, you can never know, but if I had that little trust in him I would go crazy because of that and can not be with him anyway. And maybe it's worth getting the minor forms of STDs and by that know that he's cheating? No, probably not, but I think I will take the chance without condoms when the tests are ready...if we're clean of course.
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Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Yes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
Lol...yes yes. 9 long months
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Omg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you? Good you got rid of him!
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Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Yes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
Lol...yes yes. 9 long months
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Omg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you?
Yep....bye Felisha lol
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Not romantic at all

Sensible and very responsible


You are yet to experience true romance

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lol I know it sounds crazy. This was another dimention of our relationship that I think was romantic. But maybe I don't know the word right. What do you think is true romance?
Making love in a wood full of bluebells

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That's a good one! I've never done that. We're in bed most of the time or somewhere else inside. The times we're been outside has been awsome, but not on the romantic side. And it's cold here and we haven't been together in warm weather. Any other suggestions? This is fun!πŸ™‚
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Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Yes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
Lol...yes yes. 9 long months
Omg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you?
Yep....bye Felisha lol
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Good girl! Off he goes!
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Not romantic at all

Sensible and very responsible


You are yet to experience true romance

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lol I know it sounds crazy. This was another dimention of our relationship that I think was romantic. But maybe I don't know the word right. What do you think is true romance?
Making love in a wood full of bluebells

πŸ™‚
That's a good one! I've never done that. We're in bed most of the time or somewhere else inside. The times we're been outside has been awsome, but not on the romantic side. And it's cold here and we haven't been together in warm weather. Any other suggestions? This is fun!πŸ™‚
You sound really nice πŸ™‚

Making love in the sea....laying on the shoreline is lovely

Walking in the snow

Dancing in your bedroom. πŸ˜›

Staring at each other over candles

Getting naked in a field and jumping on top of each other


...and more

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Thanks! *blushes* I think you sound nice!πŸ™‚

In the sea. Yes, I wanna do that! *waiting impatient for summer or trip abroad*

Walking in the snow. i've done that, but I'm not sure if 1cm snow counts. lol

Dancing? We'd be doing that for a second and move on from there.lol

We've staring at each other over the table...lol

Naked in a field? Yes!!!
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it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
Been there done that.

Great place to meet single moms.
lol

I remember you! You gave me great advice before! Maybe I wouldn't be with my boyfriend if it wasn't for you!

Huh?
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I checked. It was you! You did a great thing!!! You were very honest and that was good and you also gave me hope about him. Thanks again!
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He just wants to hit it raw, unfiltered, and unconcentrated.
Yes, probably. I can live with that. lol

...and he sees me in his future and is responsible too.πŸ™‚
Ok...not to bust your bubble but don't get carried way about the "future" bit., men are full of surprises. The real sign of that is proposing, and being engaged.
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That's not necessary the only sign. But now I know that it's happening. We're way too young and we just got together and I've got studys to do. But maybe in the future. It's just good to see that he sees some kind of future for us. That must be the first step. And I know you're gonna think I'm naiv, but I really think he's the one. But, like you say, I don't know yet.
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it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
Been there done that.

Great place to meet single moms.
lol

I remember you! You gave me great advice before! Maybe I wouldn't be with my boyfriend if it wasn't for you!

Huh?
I checked. It was you! You did a great thing!!! You were very honest and that was good and you also gave me hope about him. Thanks again!
Uhhh.. Okay. Cool πŸ™‚
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It is. Very cool! πŸ™‚
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you are most welcome! πŸ˜‰ i think you are one smart cookie πŸ™‚ i remember how i was when i was in college lol. never again lol
You read my thread. Did that make you think that I'm a smart cookie? No, I don't thnk so, I made really big mistakes there. But it's nice that you say it.πŸ™‚

I can't resist, I have to ask, what happened in college?:O
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too many mistakes to recall details lol. plus, i have selective memory πŸ˜‰

big mistakes made us learn the lessons well while we still have time to enjoy this life so yeah i think you are smart πŸ™‚
Selective memory can be really good!πŸ˜„

I try to learn from my mistakes, so we'll see what will happen.πŸ™‚

If you have more advice for me on how to handle him and things like that I'll listen carefully!!! It served me well last time! πŸ™‚