Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
Romance at the STD clinic
I don't know if it's romantic, but I sure would be happy to hear that from my boyfriend, because it shows that he is responsible and that he seeing me in his future

Posted by BornCapricornI think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
Posted by elogeanIt sounds crazy, I know. Maybe I don't know the word right, but I'd take that in front of a candle lit dinner any day.π
I don't know if it's romantic, but I sure would be happy to hear that from my boyfriend, because it shows that he is responsible and that he seeing me in his future
Posted by starloverlol I know it sounds crazy. This was another dimention of our relationship that I think was romantic. But maybe I don't know the word right. What do you think is true romance?
Not romantic at all
Sensible and very responsible
You are yet to experience true romance
π
Posted by truecapThank you! *blushes*.Posted by BornCapricornI think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.click to expand
Everything is magic with him, so it's not difficult. π
Posted by KoniuchaBring someone and we can make it a doubble date. First date at a STD clinic sounds perfect, doesn't it? π
I'll take a date anywhere at this point! π
Posted by starloverlol We're all different. I can understand if you don't think it's romantic.. I'm surprised that I do. πPosted by truecapAll about perception i guess CappyPosted by BornCapricornI think it's great that you see that as romantic! Happiness is all about how we choose to see things and you have a wonderful attitude. No wonder he sees you in his future!
Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.
STD Clinic and romance just didn't do it for me, but it could *catch* on
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Posted by ManilaVicelol Why do you think so?
it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic

EEEP this is so sweet! And I would be the same and totally think it was romantic. Lol.

Ask the clinic to put a lot of candles around and rose petals all over the floor..
Posted by ImpulsvI know. We have to take one test now and then another one in three months, because HIV doesn't show until then. Thank you for your comment! Maybe I didn't know and then it would be really good to know! π
I still wouldn't do it without conforms. If he's tested today n he had sex yesterday it will not show till months later!
Posted by Rambunctious76No, I think we'll skip the tv and he'll wear a condom when we wait instead. πPosted by BornCapricornWhen you're both waiting to see the doctor and you cuddle up against him while watching a video about safe sex?Posted by elogeanIt sounds crazy, I know. Maybe I don't know the word right, but I'd take that in front of a candle lit dinner any day.π
I don't know if it's romantic, but I sure would be happy to hear that from my boyfriend, because it shows that he is responsible and that he seeing me in his future
Unconventional yes, but definitely romantic.click to expand
Posted by ManilaViceThe movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?Posted by BornCapricornidk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love storyPosted by ManilaVicelol Why do you think so?
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Posted by MlleFiskNow that's romance! He can never say no to that! πPosted by ManilaViceWould you share a piss cup with me by candle light?
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Posted by CapricornKatTihi I'm not alone! π
EEEP this is so sweet! And I would be the same and totally think it was romantic. Lol.
Posted by CancerOnTheCuspOf course! π
Ask the clinic to put a lot of candles around and rose petals all over the floor..
Posted by ManilaViceAre you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?Posted by BornCapricornnah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!Posted by ManilaViceThe movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?Posted by BornCapricornidk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love storyPosted by ManilaVicelol Why do you think so?
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Posted by Rambunctious76Mmmm. I'm thinking...πPosted by BornCapricornYou can be either of them.Posted by ManilaViceAre you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?Posted by BornCapricornnah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!Posted by ManilaViceThe movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?Posted by BornCapricornidk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love storyPosted by ManilaVicelol Why do you think so?
it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
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Posted by ManilaViceI just thought, how did he knowβ Just kidding. πPosted by BornCapricornlmao not at allPosted by ManilaViceAre you saying I'm the hooker or the drunk?Posted by BornCapricornnah but it's between a drunk and a hooker lol!Posted by ManilaViceThe movie? I haven't seen it. Do they meet at an STD clinic?Posted by BornCapricornidk but i thought leaving las vegas was a great love storyPosted by ManilaVicelol Why do you think so?
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Posted by BornCapricornI'm so HAPPY for you and him!!!!!!!!!!!π He is def a responsible guy and cares about your health and his. Also that he plans on being exclusive with you. Keep this guy around for sure!! One guy I dated seems like forever, I asked to please get checked even if I have to pay for it but he never did. I told him I am not touching him until he shows me proof he is clean because I voluntarily showed him my papers, proving I am serious about our relationship and ready to be exclusive with him without worries. He always claimed to be clean and said he had NO prob with showing me he was but NEVER did. So we never had sex. More ppl should be like that. A split decision because you were so horny and TOO DAMN lazy to get blood drawn for 5 mins and checked for life threading diseases can change your life FOREVER.
Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.

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Posted by ImpulsvTrue! Incubation period for most stds takes weeks-months to show. I work in healthcare and know. But to test for theses them takes only hours.
I still wouldn't do it without conforms. If he's tested today n he had sex yesterday it will not show till months later!
Posted by LibraFLgirlThank you for your comment!Posted by BornCapricornI'm so HAPPY for you and him!!!!!!!!!!!π He is def a responsible guy and cares about your health and his. Also that he plans on being exclusive with you. Keep this guy around for sure!! One guy I dated seems like forever, I asked to please get checked even if I have to pay for it but he never did. I told him I am not touching him until he shows me proof he is clean because I voluntarily showed him my papers, proving I am serious about our relationship and ready to be exclusive with him without worries. He always claimed to be clean and said he had NO prob with showing me he was but NEVER did. So we never had sex. More ppl should be like that. A split decision because you were so horny and TOO DAMN lazy to get blood drawn for 5 mins and checked for life threading diseases can change your life FOREVER.
Yesterday my boyfriend asked me if I could see us together in 3months and I said yes of course. So he says that he was going to check for STDs and HIV on tuesday and wondered if I wanted to go with him so we could be tested both of us so we can get rid of the condoms in 3 or 4months. It was so sweet! He is protecting us and he is seeing me in the future and he's responsible. He just gets better and better. So sweet! And then I thought, by boyfriend wants us to go check venereal diseases and I think it's really romantic. That is crazy in a way! What do you think? I'm going to still think it's romantic, but I'm wondering if you think things like that are romantic or if I'm the only one.click to expand
Yes, I agree! The way for him to know if he's clean is if he's a virgin or if he has a resent test done. If he's a virgin it doesn't matter because you can't know that for sure and if he got a resent test, then why not just show you. Weird. I must admit that we have sex without the tests, but only with condom. Good you got rid of that guy!

@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Posted by FinbuffHe wasn't a virgin when we met at all, I already know that and he know that I know. I don't think it's about not trusting me more than that I or he can't know. I only had sex in relationships before but I could have something anyway. we don't know before we're tested.
Not hot at all - it means the dude has been with some "questionable" women or MEN in the past, and also doesn't trust you.
Think about it!
Posted by LibraFLgirlYes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!

Posted by BornCapricornLol...yes yes. 9 long monthsPosted by LibraFLgirlYes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvThat's the safest way for sure, you can never know, but if I had that little trust in him I would go crazy because of that and can not be with him anyway. And maybe it's worth getting the minor forms of STDs and by that know that he's cheating? No, probably not, but I think I will take the chance without condoms when the tests are ready...if we're clean of course.
I learned from a SAG aunt said she will never and has never had sex without condoms n been married 40 years. Why for obvious reasons anybody can say they are exclusive or even married and still have some side action or have or slip, or be an unknown carrier
I think I'm rolling with that
Posted by LibraFLgirlOmg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you? Good you got rid of him!Posted by BornCapricornLol...yes yes. 9 long monthsPosted by LibraFLgirlYes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!click to expand

Posted by BornCapricornPosted by LibraFLgirlOmg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you?Posted by BornCapricornLol...yes yes. 9 long monthsPosted by LibraFLgirlYes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!click to expand
Yep....bye Felisha lol
Posted by starloverThat's a good one! I've never done that. We're in bed most of the time or somewhere else inside. The times we're been outside has been awsome, but not on the romantic side. And it's cold here and we haven't been together in warm weather. Any other suggestions? This is fun!πPosted by BornCapricornMaking love in a wood full of bluebellsPosted by starloverlol I know it sounds crazy. This was another dimention of our relationship that I think was romantic. But maybe I don't know the word right. What do you think is true romance?
Not romantic at all
Sensible and very responsible
You are yet to experience true romance
π
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Posted by LibraFLgirlPosted by BornCapricornGood girl! Off he goes!Posted by LibraFLgirlOmg! That long and he still didn't take a test for you?Posted by BornCapricornLol...yes yes. 9 long monthsPosted by LibraFLgirlYes, I agree. How long had you known him? Yes, condoms break. We're careful, but I know it's not 100% . But if we didn't do anything we would get mental deseases instead. lol
@BornCapricorn
Thanks....I thought it was weird as hell too. It's not like I was asking for his freaking social security number lol. Just keep in mind too, condoms break!!
Yep....bye Felisha lolclick to expand
Posted by starloverThanks! *blushes* I think you sound nice!πPosted by BornCapricornYou sound really nice πPosted by starloverThat's a good one! I've never done that. We're in bed most of the time or somewhere else inside. The times we're been outside has been awsome, but not on the romantic side. And it's cold here and we haven't been together in warm weather. Any other suggestions? This is fun!πPosted by BornCapricornMaking love in a wood full of bluebellsPosted by starloverlol I know it sounds crazy. This was another dimention of our relationship that I think was romantic. But maybe I don't know the word right. What do you think is true romance?
Not romantic at all
Sensible and very responsible
You are yet to experience true romance
π
π
Making love in the sea....laying on the shoreline is lovely
Walking in the snow
Dancing in your bedroom. π
Staring at each other over candles
Getting naked in a field and jumping on top of each other
...and more
π
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In the sea. Yes, I wanna do that! *waiting impatient for summer or trip abroad*
Walking in the snow. i've done that, but I'm not sure if 1cm snow counts. lol
Dancing? We'd be doing that for a second and move on from there.lol
We've staring at each other over the table...lol
Naked in a field? Yes!!!
Posted by starloverHmm. I may just surprise him one day. π
.....dressing up
French maid
Naughty nurse
Sexy chauffeur
Burlesque
Hooker
Lol
Posted by GetMistedlolPosted by ManilaViceBeen there done that.
it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
Great place to meet single moms.click to expand
I remember you! You gave me great advice before! Maybe I wouldn't be with my boyfriend if it wasn't for you!
Posted by capricornmoonYes, probably. I can live with that. lol
He just wants to hit it raw, unfiltered, and unconcentrated.
...and he sees me in his future and is responsible too.π
Posted by GetMistedPosted by BornCapricornI checked. It was you! You did a great thing!!! You were very honest and that was good and you also gave me hope about him. Thanks again!Posted by GetMistedlolPosted by ManilaViceBeen there done that.
it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
Great place to meet single moms.
I remember you! You gave me great advice before! Maybe I wouldn't be with my boyfriend if it wasn't for you!
Huh?click to expand
Posted by capricornmoonThat's not necessary the only sign. But now I know that it's happening. We're way too young and we just got together and I've got studys to do. But maybe in the future. It's just good to see that he sees some kind of future for us. That must be the first step. And I know you're gonna think I'm naiv, but I really think he's the one. But, like you say, I don't know yet.Posted by BornCapricornOk...not to bust your bubble but don't get carried way about the "future" bit., men are full of surprises. The real sign of that is proposing, and being engaged.Posted by capricornmoonYes, probably. I can live with that. lol
He just wants to hit it raw, unfiltered, and unconcentrated.
...and he sees me in his future and is responsible too.πclick to expand
Posted by GetMistedPosted by BornCapricornIt is. Very cool! πPosted by GetMistedUhhh.. Okay. Cool πPosted by BornCapricornI checked. It was you! You did a great thing!!! You were very honest and that was good and you also gave me hope about him. Thanks again!Posted by GetMistedlolPosted by ManilaViceBeen there done that.
it would have been sweeter if you met someone in the std clinic
Great place to meet single moms.
I remember you! You gave me great advice before! Maybe I wouldn't be with my boyfriend if it wasn't for you!
Huh?click to expand
It's great to hear that you got what you wanted and are starting 2016 in style lol
Posted by iCloud9I remember you!!! It was your post that made me know that I liked the guy who is my boyfriend now. Everyone had said it page after page and after your post I finally got it!
It's great to hear that you got what you wanted and are starting 2016 in style lol
Thank youuu!!!
you are most welcome! π i think you are one smart cookie π i remember how i was when i was in college lol. never again lol
Posted by iCloud9You read my thread. Did that make you think that I'm a smart cookie? No, I don't thnk so, I made really big mistakes there. But it's nice that you say it.π
you are most welcome! π i think you are one smart cookie π i remember how i was when i was in college lol. never again lol
I can't resist, I have to ask, what happened in college?:O
too many mistakes to recall details lol. plus, i have selective memory π
big mistakes made us learn the lessons well while we still have time to enjoy this life so yeah i think you are smart π
big mistakes made us learn the lessons well while we still have time to enjoy this life so yeah i think you are smart π
Posted by iCloud9Selective memory can be really good!π
too many mistakes to recall details lol. plus, i have selective memory π
big mistakes made us learn the lessons well while we still have time to enjoy this life so yeah i think you are smart π
I try to learn from my mistakes, so we'll see what will happen.π
If you have more advice for me on how to handle him and things like that I'll listen carefully!!! It served me well last time! π
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