so he's in russia and i'm in the usa

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virgosoul
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so the thing is my crush or whatever you call it is currently studyin in russia,and we talked a lot like a lot lot.He's a capricorn man and i'm a virgo woman.He's always always hot n cold like but when i'm in a bad mood because of him he noticed it eventhough i didnt show him,but he tried to put me into a better mood.But the thing is i don't really know what we're doing right now.He keeps the conversation going,sometimes it feels like he cares but sometimes it feels like he is too ignorant but he asks alot of questions about me up until know.He's two years older than me and i'm still in high school,he used to go to the same school like mine that's where i knew of him,but he didn't even notice me back in high school,and now he's studying in russia,he started talking to me and whatever BUT I CAN'T TELL IF HE'S INTO ME OR HE'S NOT CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME
(and also he send me pics about his surroundings in Russia all da time)
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Online dating is like if we all tried to bang our mandatory pen pal from grade school. Forget any romantic notions right now and just consider him a pen pal. Even if he thinks he's interested in more, he's under a lot of stress right now and may feel totally different when he gets home. It'd be one thing if you guys were established before he left, but this is not the time to try to start something or get something off the ground. Entertain him if you want, but don't get sucked into compromising yourself or putting your life on hold in the process.
This.
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Posted by RamOfPeace
Is he just an international student, or is actually *from* Russia? Because if it's the latter one then I've got bad news for you, moja dorogaja.
damn... why all the hate on Russians? My guy is Russian and he is wonderful. As are all other Russians I have met without exception...
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D ya sama Russkaya, I don't hate myself 🙂) I just know my own kind, especially men.
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Is he just an international student, or is actually *from* Russia? Because if it's the latter one then I've got bad news for you, moja dorogaja.
damn... why all the hate on Russians? My guy is Russian and he is wonderful. As are all other Russians I have met without exception...
D ya sama Russkaya, I don't hate myself 🙂) I just know my own kind, especially men.
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aquamila
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Posted by RamOfPeace
Posted by aquamila
Posted by RamOfPeace
Is he just an international student, or is actually *from* Russia? Because if it's the latter one then I've got bad news for you, moja dorogaja.
damn... why all the hate on Russians? My guy is Russian and he is wonderful. As are all other Russians I have met without exception...
D ya sama Russkaya, I don't hate myself 🙂) I just know my own kind, especially men.
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Ahaha damn.. for once I get to use my Russian keyboard and dxp turns it into questionmark diarrhea.. I said that Russian men aren't so bad at all. The ones I know are all raised to be chivalrous and polite. And do you live abroad? If yes, why did you leave Russia?
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Posted by virgosoul
so the thing is my crush or whatever you call it is currently studyin in russia,and we talked a lot like a lot lot.He's a capricorn man and i'm a virgo woman.He's always always hot n cold like but when i'm in a bad mood because of him he noticed it eventhough i didnt show him,but he tried to put me into a better mood.But the thing is i don't really know what we're doing right now.He keeps the conversation going,sometimes it feels like he cares but sometimes it feels like he is too ignorant but he asks alot of questions about me up until know.He's two years older than me and i'm still in high school,he used to go to the same school like mine that's where i knew of him,but he didn't even notice me back in high school,and now he's studying in russia,he started talking to me and whatever BUT I CAN'T TELL IF HE'S INTO ME OR HE'S NOT CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME
(and also he send me pics about his surroundings in Russia all da time)
Honestly, I'd just enjoy the conversation and not read anything into it. I wouldn't put any eggs in this basket because of the distance. Continue to date others and keep the friendship going with this guy. Don't rule out anyone else and don't sit around waiting on this guy. (It'd be different if you were in a relationship before he left). There's no harm in that. When he moves back to the States, you'd be able to tell a lot more about where he stands. Otherwise, I wouldn't put any hope or worry until he moves back home.
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Posted by aquamila
Posted by RamOfPeace
Is he just an international student, or is actually *from* Russia? Because if it's the latter one then I've got bad news for you, moja dorogaja.
damn... why all the hate on Russians? My guy is Russian and he is wonderful. As are all other Russians I have met without exception...
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I read that he is American, but studying abroad.