@tender
10 Years
Virgo woman
Posted by thesculptor
Hmmm.....I've only dated one before... but from experience, some people may call it "mean" when they say really straightforward, hurtful things but usually those words are meant to help... they are meant to assist/aid or to maybe serve as a wake-up call. First time I met her was when I was much younger, I was in awe that someone can be both so ridiculously kind and at the same time so devastatingly critical- the combination of someone who seems to sincerely want to help you do better while insulting you at the same time. I saw it as "tough love." And more importantly, I saw her as someone very genuine- a rare gem in a world of people who'll only do shit for you if they get something in return. Nope, this chick did things just coz she wanted to "fix it up." Totally melted my heart. :3
Selfish?
I didn't see her as selfish. In fact, she even goes out of her way to help. She's always so compassionate and into taking in strays. I loved her very much, in my own sort of way- by not telling her about it. (which is one of the stupidest things I've done but I was in high school at that time). We went out for some time and just drifted away- mutually making excuses (mine were stupid fake excuses, don't know about hers tho).
Didn't really work out coz we.. well, kinda sorta drifted away from each other but what a gal 🙂
Just wanted to say thank you for sharing this story. It's always awesome in dxp when a story transports you to a memory...in my case one from 12 years ago. Down to the ages and the "not telling her about it". Virgo men...
Oh. My. God.
The nagging.
*Throws self off cliff*
**FYI I'm allowed to say this since I'm married to one**
***Still wouldn't trade it for a "water sign connection"***
Posted by SensitiveBlues
so you guys really take long naps all the time.i always thought my ex was cheating or doing something stupid behind my back when he was on his long long long azz naps
who naps? grow folks don't nap
weirgos
Shit.
We nap all the time.
Then bang.
Naps are the business. Though after like 5hrs its not quite a nap anymore. I loooove sleeping and resting. I dont understand why children dont like nap time. Like fuck you, if I could revert back to a 5 yr old Id nap my ass off like it were a sport.
Posted by Quantum
Oh. My. God.The nagging.
*Throws self off cliff*
**FYI I'm allowed to say this since I'm married to one**
***Still wouldn't trade it for a "water sign connection"***
Well maybe if you guys did everything PERFECTLY the first time there wouldnt be any nagging ‚‚‚
Posted by tender
What's its like to date a virgo woman..their characteristics..nature and how mean and selfish they can be...WONDERING
We can be shy to open up. We take some prying to open up sometimes. Other times we're like fuck it nothing to lose and we're WAY too honest lol
Just be a gentleman, be yourself, lighthearted and fun...
hope that answers your question
Seriously disturbing.
Posted by Peanutbutter
Naps are the business. Though after like 5hrs its not quite a nap anymore. I loooove sleeping and resting. I dont understand why children dont like nap time. Like fuck you, if I could revert back to a 5 yr old Id nap my ass off like it were a sport.😆
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Lol, Im serious. I cant be the only one who loves to sleep this much.
You know cats sleep for a minimum of 16hrs a day. Tigers & Lions? 18-20hrs a day. If reincarnation exists I want to come back as a damn feline!
Posted by tender
how mean and selfish they can be...
††
It all depends on her interest level toward you.
Seriously disturbing.
for a Pisces sure it is 😛
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When I receive similar texts I'm like "I want to smack you in the face... but then I can't get too furastic because, by not knowing what you're typing, you're not doing it on purpose ".
Fortunately I don't date Virgos anymore, I'm on the Aquarius bandwagon now 🤔
Seriously disturbing.
for a Pisces sure it is 😛
When I receive similar texts I'm like "I want to smack you in the face... but then I can't get too furastic because, by not knowing what you're typing, you're not doing it on purpose ".
Fortunately I don't date Virgos anymore, I'm on the Aquarius bandwagon now 🤔
LMAO! FORTUNATELY!
same aquas lane is the best 🤔click to expand
Imagine a 3some with those signs. Mind treetrunkery at its best. For the following month. I wouldn't leave the apartment.
Posted by tender
What's its like to date a virgo woman..their characteristics..nature and how mean and selfish they can be...WONDERING
Posted by Peanutbutter
Naps are the business. Though after like 5hrs its not quite a nap anymore. I loooove sleeping and resting. I dont understand why children dont like nap time. Like fuck you, if I could revert back to a 5 yr old Id nap my ass off like it were a sport.😆
Lol, Im serious. I cant be the only one who loves to sleep this much.
You know cats sleep for a minimum of 16hrs a day. Tigers & Lions? 18-20hrs a day. If reincarnation exists I want to come back as a damn feline!
It helps that lions are the King of the Jungle lol.
I liking sleeping when I'm tired or high. I get headaches if I sleep too long but most of the time I need those Z's.
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Lions actually sleep more than lionesses since theyre the ones who catch dinner lol. fun facts.
Yes, I agree. Melting into your bed when youre hella tired or hella faded....... UGH. its the best
Posted by SensitiveBlues
so you guys really take long naps all the time.i always thought my ex was cheating or doing something stupid behind my back when he was on his long long long azz naps
who naps? grow folks don't nap
weirgos
Shit.
We nap all the time.
Then bang.
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Oh. My. God. This is amazing.
hope that answers your question
This is strange....I'm not the person with the blue background, I'm the person with the gray one.
Then again I'm very mutable so gray is a color that makes sense to me more 😄.
Posted by LuckyLibra979
They are bitches and manipulators
Your energy is horrendous.
Posted by thesculptor
It must be a bittersweet memory for you, I'm guessing..
^Not bittersweet, one of the fondest memories I have. 🙂
Posted by thesculptor
Did you see through him without him saying too many words?click to expand
I did.
"I was in a summer camp when I was younger and I met this Virgo guy. One day there was an orientation contest in a forest. He didn't want to partake in it so I said I will stop by his cabin when it's over. It started raining heavily and me and my team lost our way in the forest. Hours after all the teams have found their way back we managed to get back to the camp. I go to his cabin, he isn't there. His friends tell me he went into the forest to look for me. I stay put waiting for his return, 2 more hours pass. He comes into the room soaking wet and his first instinct is to run to his bag to find some warm/dry t-shirt for me to wear so I wouldn't get a cold. Before finding one for himself.
To this day one of my fondest memories."
^I shared this in a topic P made. How can I not see it when I am also attuned to the little things?
This was the song he sent me about how he saw me:
@thesculptor
And speaking of that song..*smirks*...this reminds me.
I was having a convo with him some years back...we talk from time to time. And I was bringing up that song and he went "Yeah, but did you watch the movie?"
I mean the song was how he saw me but the movie was how he believed I behaved (and virgo women in general lmao)
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0424136/?ref_=ttqt_qt_tt
"After three weeks of chatting with the thirty-two year old photographer Jeff Kohlver over the Internet, fourteen year old Hayley Stark meets him in the Nighthawks coffee shop. Hayley flirts with him in spite of the age difference and proposes to go to his house. Once there, she prepares a screwdriver for them and Jeff passes out. When he awakes, he is tied up to a chair, and Hayley accuses him of pedophilia. Jeff denies the accusation, and Hayley begins to torture him in a cat and mouse game"
"Jeff Kohlver: Look. I'm not the monster you think I am. But, okay, I crossed a line. Just call the cops. I'll turn myself in.
Hayley Stark: [as if narrating a headline] Cute Pedophile Pleads Guilty.
[speaking as a defense attorney]
Hayley Stark: "Aww, it's not his fault. He's sick. He has an addiction."
Jeff Kohlver: I'll do jail. Isn't, isn't that what should happen?
Hayley Stark: Yeah. You might. You might get jail time. I dunno: therapy, drugs, group discussions, notifying people when you move into a new house. How bad is that, really?
Jeff Kohlver: It'll ruin my career, ruin my life.
Hayley Stark: Well, didn't Roman Polanski just win an Oscar? "
"Jeff Kohlver: Fuck off.
Hayley Stark: Your conversational skills are really deteriorating as the day goes on. "
"Jeff Kohlver: You've been stalking me?
Hayley Stark: Ok, ok, let's get something straight. YOU have been stalking me. I went into different chat rooms with different nicknames and you would get to know each one. And as soon as you found out they were any but older than me you would just drop them like that. You took your time sniffing out someone my age.
Jeff Kohlver: I didn't talk to the others because they were boring. You and I connected.
Hayley Stark: [nodding sarcastically] Right.
Jeff Kohlver: Oh, come on, you think I faked all that?
Hayley Stark: You know, actually, it's kinda funny. Because every time I would mention some obscure singer or band, you knew so much about them. But not right away, it was like a few minutes later. Maybe enough time to look them up on the web? Jeff, you used the same phrases about Goldfrapp as they do on Amazon.com. Busted! Oh and by the way, I fucking hate Goldfrapp. "
How...insightful of him. I will have to rewatch this movie.
We'd be honest, be there for you, we'd criticize you to help, we'd be on our best behavior
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What's its like to date a virgo woman..their characteristics..nature and how mean and selfish they can be...WONDERING