Stalking Cappy Ladies?

Soo Ladies...

how does it feel being stalked by someone who's really nice but remains anonymous?

lemme rephrase it...

Saw a girl in facebook and she's a Cappy, shes active in internet, blogs(you name it) and shes quite a talented person. I follow her in all of her blogs and activities, with only 1 name. I used the term Anonymous cuz i know pretty much a lot of things about her and she doesnt know anything about me, except the only username that i use on all of her in her blogs, and me being a Taurus Guy. I really admire her a lot. I send messages to her about Sun signs and things, she politely replies to all my PM's.

But the problem is, i feel something wrong. There's something in her PM's that kinda says like: "Its cool of you to share things to me and its really nice. But i dont know you, and its kinda awkward. Please stop following me. Its Creeping me out!" Since then i feel like drained and i dont want to be active to her blogs anymore. But being stubborn about it. I regularly visit to some of her blog and dont really reply to anything since then.

I know Cap ladies put a high wall and requires someone to tare it down. But i think i have overdone it and kinda scared the Lady. I feel sad now. 😢

Posted by MorningMist29

Wall of Text.

Well actually i was just being... i think i...*sigh*...

You guys be the judge...



We we're having a conversation about her Sign - Capricorn. And i was asking her regarding about the topic "is it true that Cap's 4yrs are already Mature" thing.

It doesnt sound creepy to me...

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Its not only stalker behaviour, its also downright obsessive behaviour...keep that one in check!

What do you mean by "Keep that on check"? Is it Positive or Negative?

if Negative: But i really like her... 😢

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
YOur behaviour reminds me a little of this song:

Eminem - Stan

I have become one of my favorite songs... I feel like a monster now 😭

I dont feel like following her anymore...

I think you have just let me realizes the BIGGEST Error of my ways. And i appreciated it for you opening my eyes into it with a that song. I used to sing it with a couple of my friends and discussing about it how fucked up the guy is. And we laugh furiously about it. But then i just realize... That person is also me.

Something has got to change, to improve who i am. To be a BETTER person.

*OverAnalyticBullhead returns to his room and back to old lifeless boring habit of CSS, Php, and MySQL Coding*

Should've used OverObsessive than OverAnalytic with my name... Stupid me.

Posted by ellessque
everything is grey like its been quoted.

I'm an I.T. Student with Major on HTML, CSSS, and Php. I think i know things around.

Every step you take every move you make you belong to me lets get together and cut this little fucks nut off.

Posted by ellessque
be careful Mr. Tate, he will html your ass right off the internet.

just look what he did so far 😛

didnt really changed anything >_>. except bypassing the swear filter with a basic code.

Anyways, its been along day, its 1:30 in the Morning and i need some sleep. I'll send her a message tomorrow for being to creepy and obsessive about her. And hope she'll understand.

Anyways... How does Cappy Ladies handle or react to obsessive people—

I suppose it doesn't matter whether we view it as stalkerish or obsessive... he views his own behavior that way and is suggesting he has a problem that he is finding difficult to control. They make drugs for that 🙂

Unless I missed something, he did not indicate that she is threatened by his actions/words. And even if she views it as a little odd, she may take solace in the fact that it is just via the internet and therefore shrugs it off as she continues to communicate with him. If she was truly bothered by it, or bored with it, she would simply ignore him and/or block him if she had the ability. She may, in-fact, be flattered she has a "follower".

Now, if he starts driving by her house... THAT'S CREEPY!

Posted by MorningMist29
He's a stalker remember. He could have done things straight but he rather do it in a round about way.


1:30 huh. Where are you? India?

Actually, i live in Philippines.

Posted by lildol
I suppose it doesn't matter whether we view it as stalkerish or obsessive... he views his own behavior that way and is suggesting he has a problem that he is finding difficult to control. They make drugs for that 🙂

Unless I missed something, he did not indicate that she is threatened by his actions/words. And even if she views it as a little odd, she may take solace in the fact that it is just via the internet and therefore shrugs it off as she continues to communicate with him. If she was truly bothered by it, or bored with it, she would simply ignore him and/or block him if she had the ability. She may, in-fact, be flattered she has a "follower".

Now, if he starts driving by her house... THAT'S CREEPY!

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I think your right about the: "he views his own behavior that way and is suggesting he has a problem that he is finding difficult to control". I was simply trying to broaden my view about how Cappy ladies would react in this particular scenario, I dont really want to Scare the Lady. If I Will or probably did scared her then i will continue no more, that simple, but w/o to mention shedding some tears in the process. If she feels flattered, then i would still continue with a growing force(Taurus Traits) with more determination.

Now that you people mentioned that what i did was "Wrong" and pin pointed the wrong part of it, as i normally do, i change what is wrong as soon as possible - i really really REALLY dont want to bother other people. And the worst part of it, them being paranoid about me.

Actually this didnt happen once. This happened rather to all ladies i admire, without knowing that what i thought was "Determination" was a false self-interpretation of "Obsessiveness". That word Obsessive didnt came to me just now. People in other forums throws that words to my face in all my Crush related Threads. I have ignored about it, and didnt really cared cuz their way of saying it was rude and unconvincing.

Most of the time, i went overboard. When i see her having fun with another guy, i just drop dead jealous to the bone. I dont want to talk to her, cut all communications, eye contact and even crossing paths - Being as cold and sturdy as a rock; i think thats just me being an Ass. And when she gets worried and wants to talk about it i simply try say "Nothing, Its a family problem..." then leaves her all alone confused, when actually it was me being over jealous about her. Then the worst part comes, i send "Cursing Messages" to her and leave the author unnamed, confusion fills her eventually ruining her entire day. I found it was an appropriate revenge for her. But then, the problem wasnt her... It was me all along. Actually, right now, as I'm typing all this wall of text i'm crying my heart of while listening Eminem - Stan.

Now, I've pieced out every single detail that i need to look out for when i fell in love or admire a new girl in my life. Today has been a stepping stone of the beginning of a new development of characteristics and personalities. I shall never do the same mistake as what i did before ever again. Thanks you all guys for spending time with me as my life slowly unfolds to a new interpretation. Special thanks to Shaka_laka_boomboom for the Song

Now i feel that i creeped the hell off the pants of this board... 😭

Listening: Stan - eminem (Explicit)
Mood: Content

Instead of sending her a of apologies. I tried the other way around...


This was her reply.


I actually have a great conversation with her in the past 2 days. Just right now we ended chatting cuz shes gona sleep.

The feeling of Obsession has finally subsided, i have controlled my emotions, but not 100% . I still need time for that to develop and practice. Whenever i fell in love in first sight, i play Stan - Eminem (explicit Ver.) it helps me realize the situation is probably gona happen again.

Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Im proud of you 🙂 seriously..not in a condescending way, its awesome man! 🙂

Thanks, I've been like this when i was young. I always "fight" my way to find out what wrong with me so i can get along easily with anyone.

Posted by tooseriouslol
yeah, i'm really proud of you too bullhead 🙂.

they say that taurus are stubborn and slow but you recoginze something in yourself that you don't like so fast and take actions to correct your behavior immediately, now that's f'n impressive regardless what sign you are!


btw, don't worry about being boring and thus not wanting to share who you are because of that. serious. a girl who has a lot going on does not need all her friends to be so active like her you know. someone got to be the listener so she can feel understood right lol 😉. your sincerity and depth of knowledge / understanding on things you know are good enough to impress anyone.

good job and good luck cutebullhead 🙂.

Thank a lot; I apreciat the compliment 🙂
I only tend to be stubborn to things i have experience and proven right. Regarding about this one "your sincerity and depth of knowledge / understanding on things you know are good enough to impress anyone". I tried my best for ppl to be comfortable with me and changing my nature was the answer. Problem is people pretty much dont notice it at all and explaining to them personally will make them realize about it, but usually ends up bad and calls me a jerk for no apparent reason. It was hard changing at first when i was young, but then it was a breeze years after.

Posted by ellessque
do you have venus in scorpio?

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This will probably cover up your question...

sick, sick, sick, fuckers.
Not you Ella

Posted by katie2333
wow. what is it with guys and their obsessions?

play a video game or something. just not one with real people in it. you might get obsessed too.

I DID got addicted to video games. Wasted 3 weeks of my life dedicated for Gaming. I played furiously From 8PM ~ 4AM and 10AM ~ 3PM, NO BREAKS. Name all the games. Except the latest one like MW2 and etc. But then after those 3 weeks i became stomped, then self realization settled in. That was a year ago, now i have dedicated my life doing productive things and i have full undivided attention to my studies to finish college. 🙂

Posted by james tate
sick, sick, sick, fuckers

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Excuse me?

O.K. Over your excused