TrueTaur57
@TrueTaur57
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Thoughts about us? Cap guy, Taurus girl.
With a very heavy heart he once told me that he is adopted. He does not know who are his real parents or birth time or birth place. The couple who adopted him only knew his birth date through his card during his adoption.
Posted by Tom_SawyerHahahahaha — good one!
Didn't read anything past the first sentence but I think I might be qualified to answer.
How to know of a Capricorn male likes you?
First the Capricorn male will lock his eyes on you and proceed to shout out mating calls to the arch demon "Moneyus" in old Goatish.
He will then start throwing large sums of $ $ $ on the ground and dance around the $ $ $ to get an erection.
You will understand that he has gotten an erection when he starts kicking his left leg against the ground.
Do not be freaked out by this or you have 0% of being with the Cappy man.
The ritual will continue with him snapping the neck of a rat, slitting the animal open, drinking it's blood and throwing the corpse on the ground with the $ $ $ .
He will then undress and start predicting the future of the two of you by throwing pennies in the circle.
If the corpse catches 2 pennies out of 5 - you are doomed, if 3 out of 5 - he will be yours.
This is how how I've seen Cap dudes give love signals.
Posted by Tom_SawyerSo they don't huh? 🙂
Didn't read anything past the first sentence but I think I might be qualified to answer.
How to know of a Capricorn male likes you?
First the Capricorn male will lock his eyes on you and proceed to shout out mating calls to the arch demon "Moneyus" in old Goatish.
He will then start throwing large sums of $ $ $ on the ground and dance around the $ $ $ to get an erection.
You will understand that he has gotten an erection when he starts kicking his left leg against the ground.
Do not be freaked out by this or you have 0% of being with the Cappy man.
The ritual will continue with him snapping the neck of a rat, slitting the animal open, drinking it's blood and throwing the corpse on the ground with the $ $ $ .
He will then undress and start predicting the future of the two of you by throwing pennies in the circle.
If the corpse catches 2 pennies out of 5 - you are doomed, if 3 out of 5 - he will be yours.
This is how how I've seen Cap dudes give love signals.
Posted by CapzHe rejected me previously. I am not going to lead this time.
you know how to code plus you are doing pole dancing, wtf he's waiting
Posted by CandicornI am actually not into him romantically.
I vaguely read anything. My attention span right now smh. Sounds like you're good to go 🙂
Posted by CapzSo tonight we are talking very less. It seems that he does not want to talk. I don't like people playing game. Last night he asked me to text him back within seconds. Today he is opposite. In any case I am not going to lead him, he had rejected me in the past.Posted by TrueTaur57capricorn like challengePosted by CapzHe rejected me previously. I am not going to lead this time.
you know how to code plus you are doing pole dancing, wtf he's waiting
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Does Capricorn bluntly ask for sex? Because he just did! And it made me feel super horny. He also told me that both of his room mates are moving out so for next couple of months, he is going to be home alone.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to have just physical relationship with him. I like him but if I want him, I want him completely.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to have just physical relationship with him. I like him but if I want him, I want him completely.
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Does Capricorn bluntly ask for sex? Because he just did! And it made me feel super horny. He also told me that both of his room mates are moving out so for next couple of months, he is going to be home alone.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to have just physical relationship with him. I like him but if I want him, I want him completely.
"I am actually not into him romantically."
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
Posted by CapzHeh, don't get me started on Cap men & their "cuteness" & "stares" (innocent & sensual) -__-Posted by TrueTaur57taurus are cute
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
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Posted by Capz😄 I naturally know when to be seductive and when to be shy. I always thought Capricorn men are shy, sarcastic and hardworking. He is blunt. But he is opening up to me a lot more than before. Usually our conversation time is between 10 to 1 in the night. We do talk in the daytime too but less as work ism important for both of us. He does not know that I am a virgin.Posted by TrueTaur57taurus are cute
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
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Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Posted by ImpulsvFeels like I am gaming him? Maybe unknowingly I am seducing him. Imagine a girl who pole dances, wear short clothes, earning good and knows how to hold a conversation is available. Maybe I am leading him, oh god no!!Posted by CandicornYeah so whos gaming who.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by CandicornI am actually not into him romantically.
I vaguely read anything. My attention span right now smh. Sounds like you're good to go 🙂
So tell him that if you feel it's necessary. Set clear boundaries.
I have no idea who talks to someone everyday, multiple times a day, & for what reason....especially if you aren't into him romantically. That concept is foreign to me.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkSo true! He stares at me when I am looking at somewhere else. It's very sharp, he does not even blink, just stares seamlessly. And then it feels way too awkward with an uncomfortable silence.Posted by CapzHeh, don't get me started on Cap men & their "cuteness" & "stares" (innocent & sensual) -__-Posted by TrueTaur57taurus are cute
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
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Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
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Posted by TrueTaur57I get that from this cap man that comes in & out of my life currently. When he stares at me like that, I know I'm peaking his interest about something. Your story was similar to mine, minus the sharing every little detail about his life with me. This one is very reserved. Only guy to ever keep me intrigued from time to time. I'm still a challenge to him because I'm a "goody two shoes" to a certain extent, sparking his curiosity. I would go more in depth but I've done that too many times in old threads. So for now, I just continue to live my life while he lives his. If something happens then it happens, I'm in no rush whatsoever.Posted by SugarandSpunkSo true! He stares at me when I am looking at somewhere else. It's very sharp, he does not even blink, just stares seamlessly. And then it feels way too awkward with an uncomfortable silence.Posted by CapzHeh, don't get me started on Cap men & their "cuteness" & "stares" (innocent & sensual) -__-Posted by TrueTaur57taurus are cute
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
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I'd set the boundaries straight away. Sounds like he might just be after friends with benefits. Make it clear what you're looking for and ask him the same.
Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
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Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
Posted by WonderWoman14Okay 🙂 Thank you, I will talk to him about it soon.
I'd set the boundaries straight away. Sounds like he might just be after friends with benefits. Make it clear what you're looking for and ask him the same.
Posted by SugarandSpunk🙂 You are doing it right. I am glad to know your experiences with a Cap man. I think I will start distancing him now when I got to know few inputs here. It was going good before. Not it feels is going towards physical pleasure only.Posted by TrueTaur57I get that from this cap man that comes in & out of my life currently. When he stares at me like that, I know I'm peaking his interest about something. Your story was similar to mine, minus the sharing every little detail about his life with me. This one is very reserved. Only guy to ever keep me intrigued from time to time. I'm still a challenge to him because I'm a "goody two shoes" to a certain extent, sparking his curiosity. I would go more in depth but I've done that too many times in old threads. So for now, I just continue to live my life while he lives his. If something happens then it happens, I'm in no rush whatsoever.Posted by SugarandSpunkSo true! He stares at me when I am looking at somewhere else. It's very sharp, he does not even blink, just stares seamlessly. And then it feels way too awkward with an uncomfortable silence.Posted by CapzHeh, don't get me started on Cap men & their "cuteness" & "stares" (innocent & sensual) -__-Posted by TrueTaur57taurus are cute
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
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Posted by CandicornThank you Candicorn. 🙂Posted by TrueTaur57
Hey candicorn,
I was not lying. Pardon me if it felt so. All I wanted to say was, I don't want just physical relationship with a guy, I would want him completely.
And yes when asked I told him that I need love and emotions to make love. He texted back that people don't need to be in love to have sex.
I really feel that he just want to have a physical relationship. That's why I asked how to know if a Capricorn man likes you.
The way he asked for sex indeed turned me on. But that still does not mean that I lied about wanting him and saying opposite on the forum 😢 I told everything as a truth to get a help.
He literally told me that he wants to do it in shower whenever I am comfortable. It's so much straightforward. I felt like I am talking to a Scorpio guy.
If I don't deserve a help, it's okay too 🙂
Thanks.
I was referring to the part you said that you aren't into him romantically.
If you feel he just wants sex, trust your gut.
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Posted by Capzbut cute!Posted by TrueTaur57capricorn we are annoyingPosted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
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If he bluntly told you he wants to have sex, then that's what it is. Nothing more or less. Its up to you and what you want, which I'm still unclear of. I can only imagine if he's as confused.
Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
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The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
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Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
Posted by TrueTaur57They absolutely do. They also have an amazing sense of humor too. Sometimes the humor is used to hide how serious of a person they can be depending on age.Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
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The one in my life is young but incredibly intelligently mature for his age when speaking about serious things which what attracted me in the first place. When we used to talk on a daily, after a week or so of knowing me, he would say some sexual jokes here & there, and I would just laugh or giggle. He knew right off the bat that I wasn't an "easy girl". However, that still kept him interested. Long story short, after hanging out again recently, we became a little more comfortable with each other and he saw a tiny preview of another side to me, his curiosity flew through the roof. He managed to keep it respectful and not persuade me to do something I didn't want to do which I appreciate very much and I told him that since some guys would've still been persistent and maybe even try to force something. He knows I'm celibate and plan to stay that way until I'm either 110% comfortable with someone or until I'm in a committed relationship again, he respects that as well. He clearly wants to live his life and so do I after some real thinking and I'm ok with that. My advice to you is keep it 100 with him right away. At the end of the day, you're being honest not only with him but with yourself. This will either scare guys away or keep them around for however long they choose to stay till.
Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
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He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
Posted by pinkbird03+1Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by pinkbird03:O Sex for me is a mystery. I am thrilled to feel what will happen when it will happen. So far it always happen in my mind. Whenever someone, anyone is even jokingly talks about it, it pretty much turns me on. My friend and her husband once asked me to be their third wheel in a threesome (I don't know why) but I did not want to do that.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Previously he was talking around sex round and round but not straight towards it. Last night he did and now he is comfortable talking about it bluntly. It's not even 12 hours and he asked me again. Twice he talked about it and twice I had rush of blood in my body and my mind started thinking about it 😢
I need emotions and care to touch a guy to the core. I am battling to not think about it as a good prospect. I know he likes me but it's going towards having fun rather than being serious.
I should stop talking to him.
@TrueTaur57....
Take this from a Taurus' perspective.
I don't believe that you're into him, but rather intrigued about what his intentions are/were.
You were firmly rejected by him in the past, and probably wasn't given a clear, concise reason as to why you were rejected.
This could be a bruised ego, which is a fairly common characteristic with us Bulls.
Which explains this persistent need to get in to this Cappie's head.
And the 14-sentence questionnaire/statement you posted on this forum.
You asked how to proceed, and hoped that you didnt crush his feelings.
No misunderstanding, just reassurance and then feedback on how to make a graceful exit.
The dilemma?
He may not want a relationship....just sexual intercourse with no strings attached.
Which of course is triggering your insecurities.
...And at the present time,putting you in a position where you now feel emotionally conflicted.
You say you're interested.
And then you're not.
I think "You're not."
The Cappie's intentions are irrelevant.
Don't overthink it.
Enjoy the cup of coffee, his company, time, and if the chemistry isn't there anymore, don't sweat it.
Take this from a Taurus' perspective.
I don't believe that you're into him, but rather intrigued about what his intentions are/were.
You were firmly rejected by him in the past, and probably wasn't given a clear, concise reason as to why you were rejected.
This could be a bruised ego, which is a fairly common characteristic with us Bulls.
Which explains this persistent need to get in to this Cappie's head.
And the 14-sentence questionnaire/statement you posted on this forum.
You asked how to proceed, and hoped that you didnt crush his feelings.
No misunderstanding, just reassurance and then feedback on how to make a graceful exit.
The dilemma?
He may not want a relationship....just sexual intercourse with no strings attached.
Which of course is triggering your insecurities.
...And at the present time,putting you in a position where you now feel emotionally conflicted.
You say you're interested.
And then you're not.
I think "You're not."
The Cappie's intentions are irrelevant.
Don't overthink it.
Enjoy the cup of coffee, his company, time, and if the chemistry isn't there anymore, don't sweat it.
Posted by SugarandSpunkOh thank god, they joke about it. I will talk about it to him 🙂 What do you want Mr. Goat?Posted by TrueTaur57They absolutely do. They also have an amazing sense of humor too. Sometimes the humor is used to hide how serious of a person they can be depending on age.Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
The one in my life is young but incredibly intelligently mature for his age when speaking about serious things which what attracted me in the first place. When we used to talk on a daily, after a week or so of knowing me, he would say some sexual jokes here & there, and I would just laugh or giggle. He knew right off the bat that I wasn't an "easy girl". However, that still kept him interested. Long story short, after hanging out again recently, we became a little more comfortable with each other and he saw a tiny preview of another side to me, his curiosity flew through the roof. He managed to keep it respectful and not persuade me to do something I didn't want to do which I appreciate very much and I told him that since some guys would've still been persistent and maybe even try to force something. He knows I'm celibate and plan to stay that way until I'm either 110% comfortable with someone or until I'm in a committed relationship again, he respects that as well. He clearly wants to live his life and so do I after some real thinking and I'm ok with that. My advice to you is keep it 100 with him right away. At the end of the day, you're being honest not only with him but with yourself. This will either scare guys away or keep them around for however long they choose to stay till.click to expand
Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03:O Sex for me is a mystery. I am thrilled to feel what will happen when it will happen. So far it always happen in my mind. Whenever someone, anyone is even jokingly talks about it, it pretty much turns me on. My friend and her husband once asked me to be their third wheel in a threesome (I don't know why) but I did not want to do that.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
Previously he was talking around sex round and round but not straight towards it. Last night he did and now he is comfortable talking about it bluntly. It's not even 12 hours and he asked me again. Twice he talked about it and twice I had rush of blood in my body and my mind started thinking about it 😢
I need emotions and care to touch a guy to the core. I am battling to not think about it as a good prospect. I know he likes me but it's going towards having fun rather than being serious.
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I think you should stop talking to him. Having sex with a guy you like, but doesn't like you back is never ever a good idea. You'll end up heartbroken. And being this your very first time, i worry that you'll be super disappointed/heartbroken and it will leave some serious scars mentally. Don't let him ruin this special experience for you. He doesn't care about you. He cares about having fun with your body. Sorry for being a bit blunt.
Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by TaurusBull1977🙂 How wonderfully you told me exactly what I am thinking. We can only be friends or nothing.
@TrueTaur57....
Take this from a Taurus' perspective.
I don't believe that you're into him, but rather intrigued about what his intentions are/were.
You were firmly rejected by him in the past, and probably wasn't given a clear, concise reason as to why you were rejected.
This could be a bruised ego, which is a fairly common characteristic with us Bulls.
Which explains this persistent need to get in to this Cappie's head.
And the 14-sentence questionnaire/statement you posted on this forum.
You asked how to proceed, and hoped that you didnt crush his feelings.
No misunderstanding, just reassurance and then feedback on how to make a graceful exit.
The dilemma?
He may not want a relationship....just sexual intercourse with no strings attached.
Which of course is triggering your insecurities.
...And at the present time,putting you in a position where you now feel emotionally conflicted.
You say you're interested.
And then you're not.
I think "You're not."
The Cappie's intentions are irrelevant.
Don't overthink it.
Enjoy the cup of coffee, his company, time, and if the chemistry isn't there anymore, don't sweat it.
Posted by pinkbird03I will talk about it and then see what he has to say. I can only offer him friendship. I sensed while talking here that he is definitely going towards my body which is unacceptable. I need more respect than this.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03:O Sex for me is a mystery. I am thrilled to feel what will happen when it will happen. So far it always happen in my mind. Whenever someone, anyone is even jokingly talks about it, it pretty much turns me on. My friend and her husband once asked me to be their third wheel in a threesome (I don't know why) but I did not want to do that.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
Previously he was talking around sex round and round but not straight towards it. Last night he did and now he is comfortable talking about it bluntly. It's not even 12 hours and he asked me again. Twice he talked about it and twice I had rush of blood in my body and my mind started thinking about it 😢
I need emotions and care to touch a guy to the core. I am battling to not think about it as a good prospect. I know he likes me but it's going towards having fun rather than being serious.
I should stop talking to him.
I think you should stop talking to him. Having sex with a guy you like, but doesn't like you back is never ever a good idea. You'll end up heartbroken. And being this your very first time, i worry that you'll be super disappointed/heartbroken and it will leave some serious scars mentally. Don't let him ruin this special experience for you. He doesn't care about you. He cares about having fun with your body. Sorry for being a bit blunt.
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Posted by TrueTaur57So proud of you! Good luck!Posted by pinkbird03I will talk about it and then see what he has to say. I can only offer him friendship. I sensed while talking here that he is definitely going towards my body which is unacceptable. I need more respect than this.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03:O Sex for me is a mystery. I am thrilled to feel what will happen when it will happen. So far it always happen in my mind. Whenever someone, anyone is even jokingly talks about it, it pretty much turns me on. My friend and her husband once asked me to be their third wheel in a threesome (I don't know why) but I did not want to do that.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
Previously he was talking around sex round and round but not straight towards it. Last night he did and now he is comfortable talking about it bluntly. It's not even 12 hours and he asked me again. Twice he talked about it and twice I had rush of blood in my body and my mind started thinking about it 😢
I need emotions and care to touch a guy to the core. I am battling to not think about it as a good prospect. I know he likes me but it's going towards having fun rather than being serious.
I should stop talking to him.
I think you should stop talking to him. Having sex with a guy you like, but doesn't like you back is never ever a good idea. You'll end up heartbroken. And being this your very first time, i worry that you'll be super disappointed/heartbroken and it will leave some serious scars mentally. Don't let him ruin this special experience for you. He doesn't care about you. He cares about having fun with your body. Sorry for being a bit blunt.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkAs long as you're comfortable with your situation! I personally would be worried about being seen as an option. That there's no gaurantee in any sort of commitment and that you could easily lose a good guy if that's what you think about him. But my experiences with dating has not been good! Mostly guys I've met from online dating sites. One man would not be exclusive until we had sex and was pressuring me to do it. He wasn't even dating anyone else, maybe just talking to them online. No, you cannot test me out like I'm a used car at a dealership. I ended it lol he was an ugly, terrible kisser anyways and didn't do anything at all for me sexually. And he's still single... (yea, I don't know what I was thinking) anyways... I just started dating a cap man and I just adore him. I completely love Capricorn men. I don't want to lose this one! Its so hard to find good men, which is what I'm really trying to get at. I know your situation is completely different and you seem content, which is wonderful, but just sharing my experiences of dating. In other words, don't move to update New York to find a man ?Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by pinkbird03I'm originally from NYC so I know what you mean. Now I'm in NJ but I occasionally visit the city from time to time since I miss it so much. I don't feel like an option since I know my worth. Right now, I want to focus more on my career and actually enjoy my life and travel. I've always been taken off the market so quickly by men because they knew I was wifey type, so I never gave myself enough time to be single and actually enjoy being single. Sort of enjoying it now. At times it feels weird because I'm not used to it and I'll feel lonely once in a blue moon, but overall, it's pretty great, especially if Im not wasting my time on the wrong person. No man will ever make me do something I really don't want to do. Mind games don't work on me anymore. Kissing is incredibly important to me. You have to be an amazing kisser to me, this cap definitely meets beyond my expectations lmao! Cap men are great men overall and I certainly hope you don't lose the one you are talking to. I definitely agree that it is hard to find good men, but I'm sure some of those good men have a hard time looking for good women like you & me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkAs long as you're comfortable with your situation! I personally would be worried about being seen as an option. That there's no gaurantee in any sort of commitment and that you could easily lose a good guy if that's what you think about him. But my experiences with dating has not been good! Mostly guys I've met from online dating sites. One man would not be exclusive until we had sex and was pressuring me to do it. He wasn't even dating anyone else, maybe just talking to them online. No, you cannot test me out like I'm a used car at a dealership. I ended it lol he was an ugly, terrible kisser anyways and didn't do anything at all for me sexually. And he's still single... (yea, I don't know what I was thinking) anyways... I just started dating a cap man and I just adore him. I completely love Capricorn men. I don't want to lose this one! Its so hard to find good men, which is what I'm really trying to get at. I know your situation is completely different and you seem content, which is wonderful, but just sharing my experiences of dating. In other words, don't move to update New York to find a man ?Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkYea that's true. I once heard on the radio that all the good girls are at home watching Netflix. I'm like yep, that's me now!! LolPosted by pinkbird03I'm originally from NYC so I know what you mean. Now I'm in NJ but I occasionally visit the city from time to time since I miss it so much. I don't feel like an option since I know my worth. Right now, I want to focus more on my career and actually enjoy my life and travel. I've always been taken off the market so quickly by men because they knew I was wifey type, so I never gave myself enough time to be single and actually enjoy being single. Sort of enjoying it now. At times it feels weird because I'm not used to it and I'll feel lonely once in a blue moon, but overall, it's pretty great, especially if Im not wasting my time on the wrong person. No man will ever make me do something I really don't want to do. Mind games don't work on me anymore. Kissing is incredibly important to me. You have to be an amazing kisser to me, this cap definitely meets beyond my expectations lmao! Cap men are great men overall and I certainly hope you don't lose the one you are talking to. I definitely agree that it is hard to find good men, but I'm sure some of those good men have a hard time looking for good women like you & me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkAs long as you're comfortable with your situation! I personally would be worried about being seen as an option. That there's no gaurantee in any sort of commitment and that you could easily lose a good guy if that's what you think about him. But my experiences with dating has not been good! Mostly guys I've met from online dating sites. One man would not be exclusive until we had sex and was pressuring me to do it. He wasn't even dating anyone else, maybe just talking to them online. No, you cannot test me out like I'm a used car at a dealership. I ended it lol he was an ugly, terrible kisser anyways and didn't do anything at all for me sexually. And he's still single... (yea, I don't know what I was thinking) anyways... I just started dating a cap man and I just adore him. I completely love Capricorn men. I don't want to lose this one! Its so hard to find good men, which is what I'm really trying to get at. I know your situation is completely different and you seem content, which is wonderful, but just sharing my experiences of dating. In other words, don't move to update New York to find a man ?Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
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We're the complete opposite! I've been single for about 7 years. For the first four or five, I just wanted to have fun. Did a lot of traveling and partying! Honestly was the best time of my life. Did some very cool things. But the last few years I've been looking for the right man. Unfortunately I didn't like the guys who liked me and the very few I actually did like didn't like me! So I guess right now I just appreciate this new guy because he's very different than the other men lately and he's putting a lot of effort into this relationship even though it's very new.
Posted by pinkbird03That's awesome to hear! Yeah I've been single for about a year now, so it's still pretty fresh. So definitely no rush for me. I'm glad to hear he's different! If you ever want to chit chat some more about cap man, feel free to pm me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkYea that's true. I once heard on the radio that all the good girls are at home watching Netflix. I'm like yep, that's me now!! LolPosted by pinkbird03I'm originally from NYC so I know what you mean. Now I'm in NJ but I occasionally visit the city from time to time since I miss it so much. I don't feel like an option since I know my worth. Right now, I want to focus more on my career and actually enjoy my life and travel. I've always been taken off the market so quickly by men because they knew I was wifey type, so I never gave myself enough time to be single and actually enjoy being single. Sort of enjoying it now. At times it feels weird because I'm not used to it and I'll feel lonely once in a blue moon, but overall, it's pretty great, especially if Im not wasting my time on the wrong person. No man will ever make me do something I really don't want to do. Mind games don't work on me anymore. Kissing is incredibly important to me. You have to be an amazing kisser to me, this cap definitely meets beyond my expectations lmao! Cap men are great men overall and I certainly hope you don't lose the one you are talking to. I definitely agree that it is hard to find good men, but I'm sure some of those good men have a hard time looking for good women like you & me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkAs long as you're comfortable with your situation! I personally would be worried about being seen as an option. That there's no gaurantee in any sort of commitment and that you could easily lose a good guy if that's what you think about him. But my experiences with dating has not been good! Mostly guys I've met from online dating sites. One man would not be exclusive until we had sex and was pressuring me to do it. He wasn't even dating anyone else, maybe just talking to them online. No, you cannot test me out like I'm a used car at a dealership. I ended it lol he was an ugly, terrible kisser anyways and didn't do anything at all for me sexually. And he's still single... (yea, I don't know what I was thinking) anyways... I just started dating a cap man and I just adore him. I completely love Capricorn men. I don't want to lose this one! Its so hard to find good men, which is what I'm really trying to get at. I know your situation is completely different and you seem content, which is wonderful, but just sharing my experiences of dating. In other words, don't move to update New York to find a man ?Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
We're the complete opposite! I've been single for about 7 years. For the first four or five, I just wanted to have fun. Did a lot of traveling and partying! Honestly was the best time of my life. Did some very cool things. But the last few years I've been looking for the right man. Unfortunately I didn't like the guys who liked me and the very few I actually did like didn't like me! So I guess right now I just appreciate this new guy because he's very different than the other men lately and he's putting a lot of effort into this relationship even though it's very new.
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Posted by SugarandSpunkThank you ? and definitely!Posted by pinkbird03That's awesome to hear! Yeah I've been single for about a year now, so it's still pretty fresh. So definitely no rush for me. I'm glad to hear he's different! If you ever want to chit chat some more about cap man, feel free to pm me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkYea that's true. I once heard on the radio that all the good girls are at home watching Netflix. I'm like yep, that's me now!! LolPosted by pinkbird03I'm originally from NYC so I know what you mean. Now I'm in NJ but I occasionally visit the city from time to time since I miss it so much. I don't feel like an option since I know my worth. Right now, I want to focus more on my career and actually enjoy my life and travel. I've always been taken off the market so quickly by men because they knew I was wifey type, so I never gave myself enough time to be single and actually enjoy being single. Sort of enjoying it now. At times it feels weird because I'm not used to it and I'll feel lonely once in a blue moon, but overall, it's pretty great, especially if Im not wasting my time on the wrong person. No man will ever make me do something I really don't want to do. Mind games don't work on me anymore. Kissing is incredibly important to me. You have to be an amazing kisser to me, this cap definitely meets beyond my expectations lmao! Cap men are great men overall and I certainly hope you don't lose the one you are talking to. I definitely agree that it is hard to find good men, but I'm sure some of those good men have a hard time looking for good women like you & me 🙂Posted by SugarandSpunkAs long as you're comfortable with your situation! I personally would be worried about being seen as an option. That there's no gaurantee in any sort of commitment and that you could easily lose a good guy if that's what you think about him. But my experiences with dating has not been good! Mostly guys I've met from online dating sites. One man would not be exclusive until we had sex and was pressuring me to do it. He wasn't even dating anyone else, maybe just talking to them online. No, you cannot test me out like I'm a used car at a dealership. I ended it lol he was an ugly, terrible kisser anyways and didn't do anything at all for me sexually. And he's still single... (yea, I don't know what I was thinking) anyways... I just started dating a cap man and I just adore him. I completely love Capricorn men. I don't want to lose this one! Its so hard to find good men, which is what I'm really trying to get at. I know your situation is completely different and you seem content, which is wonderful, but just sharing my experiences of dating. In other words, don't move to update New York to find a man ?Posted by pinkbird03No, we are not exclusive. Never was. Only talking to each other and enjoying each other's company when we get the chance to hang out. I know he does not have intentions of dating anyone anytime soon. Neither am I. Was going through my own issues of moving on. Granted, we are both very attracted to each other and when we hang out, it's always an amazing time. However, I'm not rushing anything with any guy until I am 110% sure and ready. We have mutual friends and they all have said great things about him, about how he's a relationship guy with a great heart. Right now, I'd rather build a friendship with him and get to know him more. If I didn't think like this, I would've slept with him a very long time ago. Obviously that's not what I want.Posted by SugarandSpunkAre you exclusive? Are you only talking to each other? Does he have intentions on dating you in the future?Posted by pinkbird03This is true. We both shared our turns in talking about different topics here & there. He focused more on making jokes and making me laugh to the point of tears. But as I said before, I'm not in rush and neither is he, so we shall live our lives the way we've been living it. He's way too focused on his "careers" and has been going through sad stuff because of it, he can have all the space in the world right now. I can do fabulous just by myself. Especially since we're not dating on a serious levelPosted by SugarandSpunkYep, they definitely have a super silly side. But if you talk to them about anything serious, they get down to business. They are very good communicators, but you might have to start the conversation.Posted by pinkbird03I agree with her on this one. My situation is different since I had already talked with mine, so there's no leading on or confusion. Definitely talk to him and let him know how you're feeling and what you're thinking and remind him that you're a virgin and it means something to you. You're not going to lose it to just "some guy"Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03He texted me half an hour ago while we both are at work - I would want it anytime you want.Posted by TrueTaur57Posted by pinkbird03Caps sleep around? I didn't know that!Posted by TrueTaur57Why did he reject you? I'd say he wants to sleep with you because he's attracted to you and he thinks pole dancing is hot. Guys don't need to be in love to have sex like he said. Girls, on the other hand, are different. Capricorns will sleep around or look for hookups when they are younger or not ready to settle down in a serious relationship. When they are ready for something serious, they actually make you wait awhile. Or at least that's been my experience with two different caps.Posted by pinkbird03Thanks for your comment 🙂 I feel the same that he is kind of just attracted and wants to be done with it. I am going on dinner with him this weekend so let's see how he talks and behaves. And he had rejected me in the past, why would he want to sleep with me in this situation? Weird.
Ask him if he's looking for a serious relationship. Tell him you don't do friends with benefits. He sounds like he's just looking for a bootycall. Hope I'm wrong.
I'll not be a booty call ever. We had lots of fights last time when we parted off. Literally dog-cat fights.
Past story: We met through school festival and started talking over Facebook. The first time we talked, we talked for straight 6 hours. Sunday, 3 pm to 10 pm, January 2015. We liked each other, went on a date but as soon as he dropped me home, he said he is still in love with his ex. He asked me to be friends instead and we parted off after fighting for some time.
He does not talk about her to me anymore. So maybe he moved on. We both are 27. He had bought some gifts for me this time. :\
I just like to be sensual hence I started pole dancing. And I am at beginner level. I never showed anyone how I dance.
I will not sleep with him. I need proper relationship and emotions to even lose my virginity.
The two I've dated both told me they did when they were younger. They are both in their 30s now and take things slow. Your guy seems like he cares, but I'm not sure how much. Just don't let him pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
Do caps joke about having sex? because I have started joking about it now to him.
I am a virgin - man it's such a big deal for me!! taurus season just started and I am anyway have started feeling happier.
He's not joking. He's serious about wanting to have sex with you. I think you need to be serious with him and stop leading him on, especially because you are a virgin and this is very important to you.
We're the complete opposite! I've been single for about 7 years. For the first four or five, I just wanted to have fun. Did a lot of traveling and partying! Honestly was the best time of my life. Did some very cool things. But the last few years I've been looking for the right man. Unfortunately I didn't like the guys who liked me and the very few I actually did like didn't like me! So I guess right now I just appreciate this new guy because he's very different than the other men lately and he's putting a lot of effort into this relationship even though it's very new.
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I met him on Sunday. We were attending a small level local concert but our seats were at different sections.
Doors were open for an hour to enter. I asked him in the afternoon if he would like to pick me up and go together but he negated adding he is going for dinner afterwards.
When I reached there, he was waiting for me outside, which I was not expecting. He said he know about 15-20 people here and will catch me later. And he placed his hand on my lower back which I found sweet. I was wearing deep neck black backless top and jeans.
He found my seat and told me he will be back with drink. He even let me share his vodka 🙂 He told me I was simply looking gorgeous but then went back to his seat.
During concert he was texting me all the time. He said he can see me through his seat and if I would want, I can sit next to him as its empty. When I went there, he started teasing me by putting his arm on mine. He did not hold my hand though. It was difficult to get the artist's view so we both had to lean towards each other to see the artist playing. He is so much serious and with an intense tough look. And I was chirpy, fun and sitting next to him with a smiling face. I was so much shy, I did not stop blushing for a second sitting next to him 😄
While leaving I could not hug him back, there were so many people whom we know, I became super conscious. He warmly placed his hand on my back few times when we were leaving the hall saying goodbye.
He texted me again post his dinner that he is on his way back home and will talk to me once home. He said I never stop showing off (he meant I don't stop showing off my hot body) He asked me if I enjoyed the show and apologized that he could not hang out more.
I am not able to be brave and ask him if we are going anywhere. He does not talk about my body/sex anymore. He is become more sweet and involving. We talk day and night and conversations don't end. He replies back to my emoticons, thanks i.e. all those points where conversation has been ended, but he makes sure he keeps it alive.
I think he really likes me but is super shy. But I don't know how to take it to the next level. Or even do something or let him take the charge. Wish I could go more closer to him to love him too 🙂
Doors were open for an hour to enter. I asked him in the afternoon if he would like to pick me up and go together but he negated adding he is going for dinner afterwards.
When I reached there, he was waiting for me outside, which I was not expecting. He said he know about 15-20 people here and will catch me later. And he placed his hand on my lower back which I found sweet. I was wearing deep neck black backless top and jeans.
He found my seat and told me he will be back with drink. He even let me share his vodka 🙂 He told me I was simply looking gorgeous but then went back to his seat.
During concert he was texting me all the time. He said he can see me through his seat and if I would want, I can sit next to him as its empty. When I went there, he started teasing me by putting his arm on mine. He did not hold my hand though. It was difficult to get the artist's view so we both had to lean towards each other to see the artist playing. He is so much serious and with an intense tough look. And I was chirpy, fun and sitting next to him with a smiling face. I was so much shy, I did not stop blushing for a second sitting next to him 😄
While leaving I could not hug him back, there were so many people whom we know, I became super conscious. He warmly placed his hand on my back few times when we were leaving the hall saying goodbye.
He texted me again post his dinner that he is on his way back home and will talk to me once home. He said I never stop showing off (he meant I don't stop showing off my hot body) He asked me if I enjoyed the show and apologized that he could not hang out more.
I am not able to be brave and ask him if we are going anywhere. He does not talk about my body/sex anymore. He is become more sweet and involving. We talk day and night and conversations don't end. He replies back to my emoticons, thanks i.e. all those points where conversation has been ended, but he makes sure he keeps it alive.
I think he really likes me but is super shy. But I don't know how to take it to the next level. Or even do something or let him take the charge. Wish I could go more closer to him to love him too 🙂
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