True Cap Woman Need any advice?

Posted by bittercupcake
Are you cold emotionally...?

"My ex mother in law...has so many health problems..."

Yes I can be , my mother used to tell Me all the time growing up what's wrong with you? show some emotion, empathy or at least sympathy. I see emotions as a waste of energy. Emotions stand in the way of power, can hinder ambition and makes people look weak to me. My biggest fear is being pittyed. I take pride in being strong. Who remembers the weak? My great grandfather was the same way. Typical cap man never saw him drop a tear, very proud carpenter had 7 daughters one son. Lived in the deep south excellent provider. Worked into old age his children had the best of everything!!! He made sure of that he had the first automobile in his small town his children had the first colored TV, he bought land and built them all a house each that they all still own to this day. He was a hard man though he like I showed his love through actions not emotions. But was the exact same way in his old age he hated being pittyed had a lot of issues with his health but never cried wouldn't even mention it. He was that way up until he died. Honestly I think we process emotion as a waste of energy like hindrance, in our minds it is what it is. Crying won't change the outcome just tarnish our status.

Posted by Negail92
I'm a cap woman, need any advice or view points ask away.

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Posted by AerialView
what makes you true than other cap women?

Nothing, if '92 is her birth year. Just young and cocky.

No offense, OP. I know Cappy's are old souls, but a 25yo should think twice before answering for someone in their 30's, 40's... etc.

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Posted by AerialView
what makes you true than other cap women?

Posted by cappiegirl
I think Capricorns are very emotional but not in the standard way, plus we often hold things inside to be strong other people, focus on solution or making plan B/C etc. We are usually the rock for people around us therefore we cannot really break down anyway.