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Capricorn Women
How does cap women act towards ex's and how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with. How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken. How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship?
Cap female here.
I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
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I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
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I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
No communication, unless we parted on amicable terms I usually want nothing to do with an ex.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
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*Exactly
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
Do you mean like saying "I love you" constantly? Becausw that seems like an empty phrase to me.
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Like saying 'I love you' because you mean 'I love you'; pretending to be not vulnerable when vulnerable; etc.
Those Capricorns who do not overcome the natal urges that characterize Capricorns are often the selfsame Capricorns who struggle with expressing their emotions.
Clear Communication is fundamental to the positive success of all successful relationships.
Posted by Accountz
How does cap women act towards ex's and how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with. How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken. How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship?
Speaking strictly for myself :-
How does cap women act towards ex's : Indifferent or cordial
how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with: Courteous , if not bothered too much but if the person is too clingy then a bit irritated .
How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken : Cautious
How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship : The perception changes with time and age. Younger me was all about feeling. Today its still all about feelings but i know how selfish people can be , no matter what you have done for the other person. So now its more about feelings combined with practicality . A relationship is ideal in which you dont have to give up on your personal growth.
Cutting all loose ends. No talks, no calls, unfriending on social media. Complete cut. I don't need extra baguage on my journey to a better life
Posted by NineAvenue
They often want to stay chatty and keep you around for backup sex buddy.If they tell you a lot of their personal feelings and secrets, they are life timers.
...of course not all caps are this way.
This is a fact.
They love to keep the ex's on standby just incase you fuck up.
In my eyes that's disloyalty..
Seasoned 42 year old cap woman here ...
Gonna b honest here ....I only keep people in my life if need them for something . Harsh , I know . But if they aren't for my gain then they aren't in the picture . Yes, I have kept an ex around for sex . I keep one ex around because his family is well to do in the community and good to network with.
I forgive and forget in time but I do not keep in touch with any of my ex's, there is a reason why we broke up and usually it is him messing up somehow so they lose the privilege of being in my circle. It would have to be very special connection that I would make an exception.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
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And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
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Example:
Hey babe I've noticed you've been kind of distant lately. It makes me miss you, and I'd like to be there for you with whatever you're going through. I want you to feel like you can talk to me . Is there anything I can do to close some of this distance, or help you out? I want you to know I'm here for you.
Like that. In a calm manner.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
Example:
Hey babe I've noticed you've been kind of distant lately. It makes me miss you, and I'd like to be there for you with whatever you're going through. I want you to feel like you can talk to me . Is there anything I can do to close some of this distance, or help you out? I want you to know I'm here for you.
Like that. In a calm manner.
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Oh ok and & then you would just help them with whatever it is if you are able to? & what happens if ur not able to help them which usually is well I just can't but I've notice with caps it's always a way and don't you have to have known that person for awhile before u offer a helping hand? Like how long will u have to know a person to help them? I know I have so many questions but I just wanna learn.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
Example:
Hey babe I've noticed you've been kind of distant lately. It makes me miss you, and I'd like to be there for you with whatever you're going through. I want you to feel like you can talk to me . Is there anything I can do to close some of this distance, or help you out? I want you to know I'm here for you.
Like that. In a calm manner.
Oh ok and & then you would just help them with whatever it is if you are able to? & what happens if ur not able to help them which usually is well I just can't but I've notice with caps it's always a way and don't you have to have known that person for awhile before u offer a helping hand? Like how long will u have to know a person to help them? I know I have so many questions but I just wanna learn.
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Just be supportive and positive . Depending on the situation sometimes I need people to pull me out of funks I get in if it's emotional. If it has to do with general life stuff just be supportive. Odds are if you're not close you'll never know what's bothering them. Sometimes even not then if you are close. We are definitely suffer in silence kind of people.
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
Example:
Hey babe I've noticed you've been kind of distant lately. It makes me miss you, and I'd like to be there for you with whatever you're going through. I want you to feel like you can talk to me . Is there anything I can do to close some of this distance, or help you out? I want you to know I'm here for you.
Like that. In a calm manner.
Oh ok and & then you would just help them with whatever it is if you are able to? & what happens if ur not able to help them which usually is well I just can't but I've notice with caps it's always a way and don't you have to have known that person for awhile before u offer a helping hand? Like how long will u have to know a person to help them? I know I have so many questions but I just wanna learn.
Just be supportive and positive . Depending on the situation sometimes I need people to pull me out of funks I get in if it's emotional. If it has to do with general life stuff just be supportive. Odds are if you're not close you'll never know what's bothering them. Sometimes even not then if you are close. We are definitely suffer in silence kind of people.
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Have u ever gave a man money? Or paid for anything when they were courting you?
Posted by rochellea
Cap female here.I like to be friends or at least on a speaking basis with my ex. If he's toxic to me, then I let him go completely and don't look back.
I like lots of good communication in my romantic relationships. I value security, stability and loyalty.
Exactly what she said^
I though Caps struggle with 'romantic communicating' or Romantically expressing themselves?
I used to, most caps still do( I still do sometimes). By good commination this means telling us what you need and communicating it in a healthy way.
And what's an example of someone communicating what they need in a healthy way.
Example:
Hey babe I've noticed you've been kind of distant lately. It makes me miss you, and I'd like to be there for you with whatever you're going through. I want you to feel like you can talk to me . Is there anything I can do to close some of this distance, or help you out? I want you to know I'm here for you.
Like that. In a calm manner.
Oh ok and & then you would just help them with whatever it is if you are able to? & what happens if ur not able to help them which usually is well I just can't but I've notice with caps it's always a way and don't you have to have known that person for awhile before u offer a helping hand? Like how long will u have to know a person to help them? I know I have so many questions but I just wanna learn.
Just be supportive and positive . Depending on the situation sometimes I need people to pull me out of funks I get in if it's emotional. If it has to do with general life stuff just be supportive. Odds are if you're not close you'll never know what's bothering them. Sometimes even not then if you are close. We are definitely suffer in silence kind of people.
Have u ever gave a man money? Or paid for anything when they were courting you?
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I'm actually gay, but on several occasions I have paid for stuff, and prefer to. I have dated people and gave them money when they needed it. I like it where sometimes I pay, sometimes they do. I don't like for things to be one sided. If I know they can't really afford it I'll pay, and won't let them. Money isn't really a big deal to me. Idk as long as you take care of your bills and stuff then how others are with money doesn't bother me. I like when someone is good with their money though bc I am.
I have a capricorn ex friend, we were together for a few years then ended our friendship abruptly after she rejected my love proposal. She is married now, and we have avoided contacting each other for like 4 years now. I was fine with that and moving on, but I'm hearing from her cousin that I hang with that she asks about me, and why I never come to anything she is hosting etc etc. We dont communicate so how would I know. She is reaching out through her cousin, but I have no idea why. Maybe she wants to catch up on old times, make peace etc but space and time and circumstance has made it such that I dont see the point now and I dont want to feel like I used to again if i meet her. I even posed the question here.
I suppose she feels its safe now to reach out, but why? Im a Gemini but Id never reach out. What is going on with her?
Posted by GemiGem
I have a capricorn ex friend, we were together for a few years then ended our friendship abruptly after she rejected my love proposal. She is married now, and we have avoided contacting each other for like 4 years now. I was fine with that and moving on, but I'm hearing from her cousin that I hang with that she asks about me, and why I never come to anything she is hosting etc etc. We dont communicate so how would I know. She is reaching out through her cousin, but I have no idea why. Maybe she wants to catch up on old times, make peace etc but space and time and circumstance has made it such that I dont see the point now and I dont want to feel like I used to again if i meet her. I even posed the question here.I suppose she feels its safe now to reach out, but why? Im a Gemini but Id never reach out. What is going on with her?
What made you fall in love with her?
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How does cap women act towards ex's and how do they treat men that they don't like or don't want to be bothered with. How do they act towards all men after they have had they're heart broken. How do they really feel about relationships and what's they're ideal relationship?