UH OH .....

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Yeppers, here I go again, I'm finally interested in another guy 😉 But hopefully he's alittle different then what I'm use to.

We work together, but within separate departments -- recently, my new boss decided to put us together because she thought it was the right thing to do (oh dear). Currently, we are both Team Leaders so we spend more then normal together.

Recently, he's been getting a bit more personally with me -- I have no idea if he does it with the other co-workers, but I do know that I have a different opinion about him verses everyone else, just because of what I know about him. Plus, I've gotten to know him a little outside of work and he is VERY different -- more real I would say.

Haha, he seems a bit more flirtly now since he's gotten to know me more --especially this week. Today, we were working together, he was more playful then usual, haha I don't know if it was because he was about to get the I-Phone or what. When our supervisor took notice, he stopped LOL.

There's some thing about him thats very enduring and it draws me in, but many reasons surrounding why I'm still a bit more reserved. However, I did warm up to him a bit and he seem to respond -- haha, it scared me too.

I'm at a lost, I don't really know what to do with all I have mensioned above ...
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Hi sagigoat!

Yeah, I'm busier then I want to be right now but it doesn't get done today then it won't get done 😄

Thank you so much for the info!

"From my experiences with virgos (yes more than one), as a cap female, NEVER rush it or show all your cards or be the aggressor to a virgo male. Just be his friend and respond to his nice gestures and show your sweet affections in a controlled manner no matter how crazy you feel for him. The way to get into his heart is the subtle way and be his trusting ally/coworker/friend."

Haha, actually thats kinda my game plan at the moment -- sagi/cappy cusps think alike 😛 I'm just curious as to how far all this will go, why? Because around this time last year he and I didn't get along not one bit LOL!!! We constantly bumped heads, over and over again -- I was happy to be separated after the summer was over. Now ... things are different, like we both have gotten to know each other and we realize that the other is not so bad. So my sweet affections in a controlled manner huh?

"Also, virgo men do not make space for ppl so if you don't fit into their life plan they back out without discussing with you. So if you want him, don't ever tell him something very different from his plan even if it's a joke (e.g. saying you are eventually going to move back to your hometown, saying you don't want no kid when he wants some)."

Okay, thats good advice because I did mension that he should major in technology instead of law enforcement because I feel that he is very intelligent in that area. Alrightly, I will stop being pushy 😉 Thank you.

"Btw, Dyr on virgo board is born on Sept 22 as well and he is in general pretty helpful. You can PM him if he doesn't respond to your posts. You are lucky that he is a Virgo/Libra cup. Much better communicator than mid sept virgos and less stubborn. Virgo guys can be VERY tricky and break hearts without even aware of it so take it slow by all means (especially he has a gf now). I can see the attraction bw him and you especially when his moon is in caps oh dear"

Yes indeed, there's a huge attraction between he and I and hope our boss doesn't realie it -- she's a virgo too :O :O :O Hahaha, most people don't know that Aqua/Capri moons go well together Hahaha, and the fact that we both have those moons is what makes everything worse. I didn't really know how strong it was towards me until the whole "finger nail situation" came about -- haha, I hope didn't get off on how I was stic