why is my Capricorn girl so confusing??

alright guys i am a scorpio male 29 engaged to a capricorn girl 24... we got engaged like this year in march.. everything was going fine she slowly slowly started to open up untill finally after 2 months things started to get worse between us... i dont like girls that start to act like man infront of me... as those astrologer says cappy girls have a bossy nature and all that stuff yeah if she wants to be boss be in the home i dont mind that... then comes those big unchasable ambitions working to the limits of exhaustion knowing that ur husband has a well secured future providing you even the minute of the thing you need.. helping you in every aspect, fighting for u against every odd,, make an effort to sacrifice ownself for u,, before doing something we take u in our decisions yet you do the opposite ... and when u talk about something they always have this one word be mature mature mature.... and after that comes a big big problem of communication breakdown ego and all that stuff... do something silly and dont let your partner know about that... is that what u cappies call maturity—?... i dont even think so you guys know real meaning of maturity dont you

Shes not confusing, you are confused. You just don't get her. The caveman days are over. She's willing to put as much or more than you on the table. By not supporting her decisions you're making her feel worthless, thus why she is distant from you. Capricorns have to accomplish things on their own. Get used to it...

I'm a capricorn woman and dealt with a man who wanted me to quit my job. I fought with hm for years and finally quit only to have him cheat on me and leave. I was stranded without a job or a home. He too said the same things to me, that I dont respect him to be there for me and that he can take care of me. We aren't the kind of women that wants a man to "take care of us". We will take care of ourselves and you. We don't need saving. If you're in our lives, its because we WANT you, not because we NEED you.I asked him, what happens if we get divorced? He said he will give me half his wealth. To me that was the scariest thing, to be standing in a court of law asking for somebody else's money to live off.

In my opinion, if we got divorced, I would want to support myself and leave with what we came in with, I dont believe that men should be supporting women they're not with. I dont want to be tied to my past, dependent on his support, communicating with an ex regularly for money I need a clean break to move on. But he never got it. I gave up working after all the fighting as I was also dealing with family trouble at the time. It's been 10 years since, and I haven't been able to get back to the glory days I had in my career. Nobody wants to give me a job, since I hadn't worked for a long time. So I had to start from the bottom. The result is, since i pay my own way, my income is just enough to make ends meet. When I get a raise, cost of living has gone up and it just fits in. So if you love your woman, you will support her, and respect her for who she is, and understand that she sees you as an equal partner and not an ATM. Get used to it, or let her a find a real man who can. Also look out for her future. You cannot guarantee that you won't drop dead, leabing her in debt or with huge medical bills to settle. Or that you someday won't leave her for another woman. You can never make a promise, because you don't know what the future holds. So stop being selfish about your needs and egotistic way look out for her best interest too.

What are your placements 🤔



What do you mean by placements? Sorry I'm new here

Posted by Neno2

Posted by ScopioConfused


What are your placements 🤔

What do you mean by placements? Sorry I'm new here

Sun signs are only 2%

U must know other 98% of aspects,u learn that by doing a birth chart and reading about your placements that u find there

Go on google,cafe astrology birth chart



Sun, Cap, Moon, Cancer, Ascendant: Scorpio, Descendant: Gemini, Venus in Sag,

Planet Aspect Planet Orb Orb/Value

Sun Opposition Moon 8°41' -20

Sun Square Pluto 5°00' -27

Sun Sextile Ascendant 4°26' 23

Moon Trine Saturn 3°09' 118

Moon Trine Ascendant 4°16' 63

Mercury Sextile Mars 0°11' 404

Mercury Conjunction Jupiter 3°38' 497

Mercury Conjunction Neptune 3°18' 268

Mercury Sextile Pluto 1°14' 203

Venus Conjunction Jupiter 9°12' 58

Venus Conjunction Uranus 8°25' 63

Venus Conjunction Neptune 9°31' 17

Mars Sextile Jupiter 3°49' 117

Mars Sextile Neptune 3°30' 72

Mars Conjunction Pluto 1°26' 540

Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 0°19' 406

Jupiter Sextile Pluto 2°23' 141

Saturn Conjunction Ascendant 7°25' 41

Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°04' 53

is that her chart?



That's my chart.. I'm not sure what I should be highlighting here.. I posted the most common things people asked and what ever that chart is.. I have no idea how to read those things. Does my chart have any relevance to what I commented above or who I am?

What do u want from her? To spend more time with u?

Posted by halalbae
She wants to make money for herself. Nothing confusing about that. Scorpio men cant get it up for a woman they cant control. You want to monopolize her life while being trash at your own whim, with 0 consequences. Thats why you dont mind her being "the boss" at home while she feeds you and cleans your cage. Which translates to you want full-service mommying. As soon as she focuses on herself and own money, you lose that total control over her because you cant hoard the resources that afford her safety. She'll be in control of that herself.

Here Here! Exactly that!

I'm a Capricorn woman and that is what we are like.

We are independent and we know what we want.

We do not want to be controlled by any man or told what to Do!

Let us be ourselves and give us the freedom to be the women we are and then we will relax a little and actually let you love us xx