Would you be ok if ..?

If the person you're seeing is sexually attracted to an ex?

A cap guy told me he is no longer romantically interested in his ex and he's seeing someone else at the moment who he's both romantically and sexually interested.

Just curious about what people think about guys like this, especially for the girls he's seeing at the moment. Does this mean he's not 100% into her?

So this guy is still date-able? I was just thinking if I were that girl he's seeing I would really not want to be with him because of this... Although men are know to be able to separate sex and love.

This cap is also a serial player who told me he goes through girls because he loses interest quickly. He is nothing like what I've been reading on this forum when it comes to being loyal. Or is this normal until cap guys find girls?

Whats his mars and venus placement? Sag in venus?

Not sure. All I know is his bday is 12/29

"A cap guy told me he is no longer romantically interested in his ex and he's seeing someone else at the moment who he's both romantically and sexually interested.

Just curious about what people think about guys like this, especially for the girls he's seeing at the moment. Does this mean he's not 100% into her?"


I guess I missed something. He's NO LONGER interested in the ex and seeing someone is IS interested in. Isn't this the way it's supposed to be??

I am assuming that's not how you meant to write it.

So, the new girl is a rebound and is likely to get hurt. He's not all the way into her or he wouldn't be thinking about the ex at all.

What brought on the conversation to start with? I'm sure he just didn't up and volunteer, "hey I'm still sexually attracted to my ex". How stupid would he be? So, that said. The girl must have drug it out of him and must be really insecure. Thus, her insecurity and doubt is going to make her unattractive to him and she is digging her own grave in this relationship.

Now, if the girl doesn't know, that's a different story. Maybe he's a friend of yours and you're asking from that angle. Just a curiosity thing.

Didn't you just make several threads about a cap recently? My intuition says you're asking this for yourself.

Posted by truecap
So, the new girl is a rebound and is likely to get hurt. He's not all the way into her or he wouldn't be thinking about the ex at all.

That's not to say he actually wants to be with the ex. She's an ex for a reason.

Posted by Ang
Not sure. All I know is his bday is 12/29

Thats my birthday..... what year?

Yes I wrote long threads about one cap but this one is just a friend. He's very open to me about his dating life.

So he said he is not romantically interested in a previous fling but still sexually attracted. He is currently seeing someone who he is both romantically and sexually attracted to. I used the term ex but I don't think he is or was in an official relationship with either girl.

According to him he loses interest fast so he moved on from one to the other within matter of 2 months.

I am doing much better now by the way, thanks for the good advice you gave me truecap. Time heals everything!

Oh and the current girl doesn't know anything about the previous .

I'm glad you clarified. I had several thoughts going on. lol!

It's nice to be able to talk to friends like that and get the male perspective and try to figure out what makes them tick. Helps understanding a guy when you're dating.

True. No one dates one person at a time nowadays. And I wonder next time I see someone will it be the same situation where the guy is sexually attracted to the previous girl. All I know is I won't be happy if that's the case. If I find out I prob would just not want to see him anymore... What do you think?

My Cap friend married an Aries but was/is still sexually attracted to his water sign(Pisces, Cancer) exes.

Wow and he tells you that but keeps it from his wife?

I guess it's just a typical male behavior?

Posted by Ang
True. No one dates one person at a time nowadays. And I wonder next time I see someone will it be the same situation where the guy is sexually attracted to the previous girl. All I know is I won't be happy if that's the case. If I find out I prob would just not want to see him anymore... What do you think?

Take it as a challenge and set out to win! 😉

Posted by Ang
Wow and he tells you that but keeps it from his wife?

I guess it's just a typical male behavior?

He'd be stupid to tell the wife! lol!

True cap, how do you stay so positive? I'm honestly disappointed because I know when I start dating again and I could be in that potential gf shoes. Knowing that just makes me not want to be serious anymore...
I'd probably always wonder if the next guy is truly interested 100% .

You can't let a couple of bad seeds bring you down. We can't expect all men to be the same. Yeah, there are a lot of bad ones out there, but there are a lot of good ones, too. Don't make the next guy pay for what the last guy did. Keep the attitude that its not you and just because that guy wasn't your destiny, the next one might be.

When it doesn't work out, it gives you a chance to find the guy that IS perfect for you. The previous guy was keeping you from finding the right one.

It's all in perception.