Cap men,what do u think...

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by mika7 on Monday, September 23, 2013 and has 18 replies.

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@mika7
13 Years

If a girl who you used to like sometime,not long ago, comes to you and says:
Hello!
And then kiss you,friendly on the cheek
and ask you :how are you?
How would you react to that?is coming from the heart all this, and takes a lot of courage for the girl,being shy herself and the Cap man putting the famous wall around him..
Do you think is weird or cute?

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@mytheresa
13 Years

I would not do that! But maybe its good coz it depends on different cap man, most cap man will run away, i believe!! i think the problem is that they are different from other people, normally we think that is normal behavior for people show their emotion, but for them, it is awkward.

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@mytheresa
13 Years

btw, if you r the one who get the kiss, u should enjoy it! I wish my cap man can ask the same question, life is too short for that stupid wall. Enjoy the moment!!

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@mika7
13 Years

Sorry,guys!
Iam a girl who wants to do that for a Cap man-It was just an idea who came to my mind..
I wanted to ask the Cap men if it is a bit,outrageous,-),from their point of wiew!
The cap i know,is all prim and proper ,very formal,so i thought to break the ice ,in a friendly way,or..maybe not-)

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

I think a light touch on the arm would be much better.

I know you're looking for the male opinion on this, but as a female, in things were reversed, I would be freaked out by it. I mean - who might see? What would people think? Would people think I was with him? What if he has an ulterior motive? What if my current crush or boyfriend saw it? What would he think? What if he has feelings still and I don't, yikes!? How do I respond? What if I don't want him to touch me? Do I go along or shove him off? What if I get kooties? What if it is a sign of true friendship? and it would hurt his feelings if I over-react. Basically, very uncomfortable.

I think Tate's right, he might think you'd still be up for some R&R on the side.

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@truecap
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Posted by CluelessCancer
it's cute dumbass, you're lucky someone was that sweet to you to come approach you, you know how hard it is to be that friendly these days.

it's utterly difficult, people have to overthink, analyze, basic human touch!

See, that's the cancer perspective. A cap would stiffen up instantly and be uncomfortable. Especially if I don't know what it means.

A hug okay, but a stiff, distant one until I get my bearings.

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@truecap
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I just thought about if any of my exes did that, I wouldn't like it. But then, my scorpio part makes me cynical.

*shrugs*

I suppose it depends on how things were left when yall parted ways.