King_with_a_Sting
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Posted by cappygolightly
So you think she is too boring but that you will be friends?
From your post I reckon she simply doesn't want to be of interest to you. She's probably seen your picture on these boards posting stuff about wanting to use her and has told you she's a cappy just for a joke. 😉
I doubt that, considering this is an old picture and I've changed my look from this.
But your probably right about her not being interested in me. I don't think she is and thats ok. I actually don't think she is interested in dating any man right to be honest. Gathered from what I have observed from her behavior and the chat we had she seems like shes more interested in her goals than having a relationship. Maybe she figures having a relationship will hold her back from the things she wants to do.
doesn't mean I won't still say hi to her and be friends. its not like im gonna be up in her face everyday trying to talk to her, that's not my style . I throw a little bait out and see if they bite then I wait for them to real themselves in, if they don't bite I find another girl. its all gravy though cause there is a different girl in my class who's always giving me smiles and whatnot so i think im gonna hit her up 🙂
A girl with her own goals and ambitions! How booooooooorrrrringgg! 😉
She's just focused and determined. That should be admired and respected! The apparent lack of interest isn't necessarily even that, there just isn't any room for you (or anyone else most likely) while on her current journey.
I find ambition and dedication to one's cause or path to be of great interest. You said you would be friends, maybe if you delve into what she sees her purpose in life to be and where she is headed you will find that those are the things that make her not so boring after all.
I find ambition and dedication to one's cause or path to be of great interest. You said you would be friends, maybe if you delve into what she sees her purpose in life to be and where she is headed you will find that those are the things that make her not so boring after all.
yeah that's what I figure there isn't any room for me and from the looks of her behavior anyone else. I'm not taking it personal at all. I actually admire ambition in a girl and the willingness to do something with her life I hate girls that are pretty and think that everything should just be handed to them on a silver platter. Life isn't fair I know that Im just not the kind of guy that would hand a girl whatever she wants just cause shes pretty. I'm a good looking guy and good looking women compliment or show intrest in me all day long. Not just cause of my looks but I have a complimenting personality that most find me clever and funny. So its refreshing to see a girl that actually wants to do something with herself other than just mooch her entire life, what a turn-off.
unfortunately there are aspects to my personality im sure capricorn women do not find attractive, I've managed to seduce a few but one things start getting deeper they always back out. Oh well maybe they aren't for me but thats ok because I know that I can always find another as long as I take care of myself and respect my body and have a good career, then everything else will just fall in place.
unfortunately there are aspects to my personality im sure capricorn women do not find attractive, I've managed to seduce a few but one things start getting deeper they always back out. Oh well maybe they aren't for me but thats ok because I know that I can always find another as long as I take care of myself and respect my body and have a good career, then everything else will just fall in place.
fucking-A... the boy is 20! give him a break! give his cap girl a break! even though we hopefully continue to grow and strive from our relationships, he's at an age where's he's learning a helluva lot about them. let him live it, learn it, and grow from it. he'll fuck up a lot. we all do. he will figure out what works best for him soon enough.
lol of course im not gonna put a girl on my number 1 list when im first getting to know her. Life just doesn't work that way. Note that every girl I have dated she has been the only girl on my mind. I remember this one time I was out of town and I was chillin in a jacuzzi by myself and this hot blond girl, fine body and everything defiantly better than the girl I was with comes and jumps in with me in this skimpy bikini and kept trying to talk to me even though I was constantly giving her a cold shoulder, I blew her off like "please girl you ain't sh1t" even though she was lol. then I found out my girl was going on camping trips and cheated on me .. and i don't wanna tell the rest.
I think i just really like them cause their motivated to do something with themselves. Not to mention the way they dress and act shows they got lots of self respect, which I also like. Like I said its a major turn off for me for a girl to think she is just pretty and deserves to be given everything because of that. Its a disgusting mentality. And FYI im not a pretty boy who think I just get things with out lifting a finger. Thats the exact opposite of me actually I might be confident in the way I look but that doesn't mean I expect things because of it. If I find that unattractive in women why would I do that? I know the world is full of hypocrisy but thats one thing im not hypocritical of.
Yeah I have goals for myself Im taking business classes at the college working on a bachelors in business, so I can proceed to law and maybe do business law or something. I think having a gf that has goals too would be great cause she would help you achieve them not hold you back like alot of the girls I've been with. Sad to say most girls only want to take not help you gain anything. And that ranges from All types of women pretty or ugly, rich or poor that mentality doesn't discriminate.
Oh by the way I've been told I look like tom cruise, never Ethan hawke though. Whos that?
I think i just really like them cause their motivated to do something with themselves. Not to mention the way they dress and act shows they got lots of self respect, which I also like. Like I said its a major turn off for me for a girl to think she is just pretty and deserves to be given everything because of that. Its a disgusting mentality. And FYI im not a pretty boy who think I just get things with out lifting a finger. Thats the exact opposite of me actually I might be confident in the way I look but that doesn't mean I expect things because of it. If I find that unattractive in women why would I do that? I know the world is full of hypocrisy but thats one thing im not hypocritical of.
Yeah I have goals for myself Im taking business classes at the college working on a bachelors in business, so I can proceed to law and maybe do business law or something. I think having a gf that has goals too would be great cause she would help you achieve them not hold you back like alot of the girls I've been with. Sad to say most girls only want to take not help you gain anything. And that ranges from All types of women pretty or ugly, rich or poor that mentality doesn't discriminate.
Oh by the way I've been told I look like tom cruise, never Ethan hawke though. Whos that?
I think its cause they squished my picture, I look sort of like that but not quite.
Posted by mountain_and_sea
I meant to say - you??ll see an OLDER VERSION of yourself 🙂
lol i did that man is old, that a good reason why Iam stop smoking and gonna drink more water everyday and eat plenty of vegies. my family acutally has young looking genes so hopefully that will help. He kinda does sorta too except he is old lol, is that man a ladies man too? 😛
Posted by mountain_and_sea
I guess so.. He cheated on his wife :/
I just found out he is a crab lol.
I'll bit my face has gotten more gaunt I probably look more like a young version of ethan hawke rather than tom cruise. I might have been told that once just don't remember. i remember being told i look like tom cruise though but probably cause i know who he is and not ethan hawke.
Just in my own town people think they have seen me around before I kinda hate having my face cause its easy to remember
i found some young picture and sh1t i really do like like him especially this one with a side age of his face. his old picture his face is sucked up he must have done drugs and drank
Posted by mountain_and_sea
What do you mean a crab? He's a scorpio, I read it just now...
tom cruise is a crab he is born on july 3rd, ethan hawke is the scorpio. My birthday is close to his he is nov 6th, im on the 10th.
Posted by mountain_and_sea
Oh, ok.
Yes, as I said - I see a scaringly great similarity between you. I don't see ANY tom cruise in there to be honest...
yeah i agree i probably look more like him, tom cruise is ugly anyways, my boy ethan is a ladies man you can just tell with that seductive look 😛
Posted by mountain_and_seaPosted by King_with_a_StingPosted by mountain_and_sea
Oh, ok.
Yes, as I said - I see a scaringly great similarity between you. I don't see ANY tom cruise in there to be honest...
Yes, "your boy ethan" seems to be quite a handsome devil. Guess that puts you in a good position. But remember, it will take more then that... Now go get them tiger! 🙂click to expand
lol oh believe me im well aware, girls like money and security more than just good looks alone. Its fine though its a very down to earth practical way of looking at it, you gotta eat and you gotta live well, and good looks don't pay the bills 😱 I wish they did but that would only be in fantasy land
Posted by mountain_and_sea
lol, I want to call you ethan for some reason,
Anyway, eathan, lol! - don't be fooled. Girls don't neccessarely want money and security. Sure, that's great and all - but what's more important is that everybody is looking for someone to fill that empty space in their hearts, and love them for who they are inside.
Everybody wants to find that special someone, who will find them equally special. And that's all there is to it!
But you??ll find out, soon enough...
Bye! 🙂
ok maybe one day, bye for now though 🙂
Posted by ninjamu
fucking-A... the boy is 20! give him a break! give his cap girl a break! even though we hopefully continue to grow and strive from our relationships, he's at an age where's he's learning a helluva lot about them. let him live it, learn it, and grow from it. he'll fuck up a lot. we all do. he will figure out what works best for him soon enough.
Well ... I knew an awful lot by the age of 20 and I'm still learning life lessons.
I think its good that he's getting this sort of feedback, to encourage his behavior would make him less of a man when he's about 27, 28 and so-on.
I've seen it, I know.
Posted by Shaks
Youre still too immature to display the kind of staying power most cappy girls look for in guys, you miss the ability and patience to be willing to dig deep into her personality so she becomes more comfortable showing the other sides of the personality, those sides she probably keeps reserved for the very special people, obviously you'll never be one of them.
You call her boring based on one or two convo's with her, now tell me how shallow is that? didnt shallowness happen to be one of your turn-offs? I think you've got to take a good look in the mirror before you open your mouth.
This is the reason cappy girls usually go for guys that are older than them.
Shaka hit the nail directly on the head. YAY!
This is so true, you typed it before I could Shaka lol.
To me, there are two kinds of cappy women.
Capgirl 1 -- ambitious, determined,kind, take-no-prisoners, resourceful, warm-hearted
Capgirl 2 -- insecure, no ambition, jaded, irresponsible, will-give-alot-but-take-alittle, low self-esteem.
This can apply to all girls but we are talking about zodiacs here.
Posted by CapriciousCappy
A girl with her own goals and ambitions! How booooooooorrrrringgg! 😉
Thats totally what I was thinking CC lol!
Posted by cappygolightlyPosted by King_with_a_StingOh well maybe they aren't for me but thats ok because I know that I can always find another
I think that's the unattractive bit. You don't seem to be into them enough so if you give the approach in real life that they are simply dispensable commodities then I can understand how cappy ladies would be turned right off. I guess we want to be seen as special by our lover and not so easily replaced.click to expand
Yep, exactly.
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I know one when I see one. Maybe if she had more intrest other than school It might work but she pretty much told me all she does is go to school then go home study and go to school the next day, any other information I had to pry out of her so I just got bored with it and didn't bother. of course I was nice to her 🙂, we'll be friends.