Synastry help

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gemgirl28
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10 Years

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Hey you all 🙂

I need some help with the synastry chart with this virgo guy (his time of birth is unknown so ignore ascendant etc.). Specifically I understand the aspects separately but have trouble putting it all together...for example neptune square venus is pretty bad right? but how do the other aspects affect it? what is the general feel you guys get by looking at the chart?

A little backround: we met quite unexpectedly a little over a month ago online and the timing was totally wrong (he is moving to another city end of next month) but there was something unusual as if we knew eachother forever...some weird kind of familiarity where you can just sit with the other person for hours not talking or doing something and be completely happy.
Also I havent slept with him and I get the feeling he respects me more because of that (the first time in my life I didnt sleep with a guy right after we met; at first I did it because I wanted to get to know him better, having met him online and then I didnt want to risk getting attached to him when I knew he was going to move away). We have been on 4 dates each at least 6 hours (one was 15 :p) and it is always as if we are together. He is really affectionate and just sweet and caring.

One week ago he started pulling away(=not talking on the phone and texting all the time, but still initiate texting) with the excuse that he is busy with his thesis. At first I thought typical virgo:p then I thought he is not interested anymore because he wants sex and he knows I wont have sex with him but then he gave me the impression that he was also a bit confused, because he doesnt know what we are doing..We dont know each other well enough to decide to be exclusive and do long distance, but if he didnt move we would 100% give it a try and I think he doesnt see the point of seeing me (when he wont even get sex) but still likes me and doesnt want to stop talking to me.I have pretty much made my choice, because I know it is not going anywhere..I really like him as a person and I would really like us to stay friends although I dont know if he also sees it that way. I was just curious what impression you get from looking at our chart 🙂