Very confused about myself, need help.

Who says you cant do both? Its ok to be you. As long as you are not a cheating, lying inconsiderate selfish and materialistic prick, you will do just fine.

Do not put too much pressure on yourself My dear Virgo. I see the confilct in your charts already but its a beautiful thing that you can understand both sides of life.. i.e the spiritual and the phsysical (water and earth). Very beautiful its something Cancerians are usually great at doing and very few of them for that matter.

You are still very young ... the best thing to do is, go with the flow, its your moon in Pisces thats kicking your spiritual side (Most likely during a waning/new moon situation)....

My advise is go with the flow ok? and understand When its time to be earthy i.e focus on work,career etc (your virgo side) go for it and be focused and work as hard as you can knowing another side will kick in soon.(your water intuitive side) ...

When your water intuitive side kicks in (use this time to relax and get in touch with your spiritual side and this time its ok to be emotional.

Let me use this opportunity to make something very clear to everyone who might read this... its ok to be emotional (humans are 70% water and we the only creatures on earth that shed tears. I think dolphines do not sure.).

You see when you get emotional and shed tears, thats you getting in touch with your soul...

Plus there are two destinies for each human True & False destinies & both can be fufiled. (of course your true destiny is way more important as thats for the development of your enternal soul)....

Hope this helps and it was written from a position of deep love and genuine kindness....



Mephisto

The first realistic and practical vision you have that you described is very typical Virgo behaviour. Wanting a family and that traditional route, being successful in a job etc. The second dreamy, getting lost in your own world you described is what a Pisces Moon is like...I've known a few pisces mooners and I can definitely understand where that's coming from.

The reason you feel so confused about your identity is because your Sun and Moon are in opposition. Virgo and Pisces are in opposite signs. Now, in a relationship, this would be a good thing because two people, the Virgo and Pisces would be drawn to each other because opposites attract. However, when these two aspects are in one's natal chart, it can be conflicting for the person because they constantly feel on the opposite side of things and may feel like they are two different people. Your Sun is your ego, and your Moon is your inner emotions and your soul. In your case, your ego wants that normal and perfect life but then your emotions get lost in a fantasy world where you dream of an idealistic vision and have romantic thoughts about life, view it through a rose-coloured perspective etc.

I think the best thing you can do to work at this hard aspect is to find your balance. It's okay to have different sides of you wanting different things. Nothing is ever black and white. Sometimes we're just complicated individuals who are able to see things through different perspectives and feel different things. I'd suggest to think about why you want the things you do, what influenced you to feel the way you do etc. You can can even use the grand visions of the Pisces to help you be creative to achieve those realistic Virgo goals. It's the way you work things out and use the skills you already have within you that counts.

Also, the Scorpio in your chart probably increases your ambition/drive and emotions too. Learn to deal with your emotions as well and don't get carried away with avoiding real life responsibilities or going into escapism mode (I have pisces planets+aspects that make me do this too)

Being emotional is totally fine too, but it's definitely harder for guys sometimes because you don't want to show all that emotion as much. Don't deny them though, listen to your feelings and emotions because they tell you something more.

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Who says you cant do both? Its ok to be you. As long as you are not a cheating, lying inconsiderate selfish and materialistic prick, you will do just fine.

Do not put too much pressure on yourself My dear Virgo. I see the confilct in your charts already but its a beautiful thing that you can understand both sides of life.. i.e the spiritual and the phsysical (water and earth). Very beautiful its something Cancerians are usually great at doing and very few of them for that matter.

You are still very young ... the best thing to do is, go with the flow, its your moon in Pisces thats kicking your spiritual side (Most likely during a waning/new moon situation)....

My advise is go with the flow ok? and understand When its time to be earthy i.e focus on work,career etc (your virgo side) go for it and be focused and work as hard as you can knowing another side will kick in soon.(your water intuitive side) ...

When your water intuitive side kicks in (use this time to relax and get in touch with your spiritual side and this time its ok to be emotional.

Let me use this opportunity to make something very clear to everyone who might read this... its ok to be emotional (humans are 70% water and we the only creatures on earth that shed tears. I think dolphines do not sure.).

You see when you get emotional and shed tears, thats you getting in touch with your soul...

Plus there are two destinies for each human True & False destinies & both can be fufiled. (of course your true destiny is way more important as thats for the development of your enternal soul)....

Hope this helps and it was written from a position of deep love and genuine kindness....



Mephisto

Thanks a lot for this it definitely helped me, my one and only issue really is just the aspect of being 2 different people and I understand your suggestion about balance and going with the flow so you think I should just let it happen and literally just go with the flow and my feeling and what I'm into/seeing/feeling from day to day? Because for a while now I've just been trying to figure out one constant and solid me and stay and keep with that person and live my life that way and it feels like everytime I do that i'll be good for a while but then eventually the other side just comes back out anyways. So you think I should not try to like push one side out and ignore it and kind of assert one side over the other and just go with the flow?

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Posted by Mephisto
Who says you cant do both? Its ok to be you. As long as you are not a cheating, lying inconsiderate selfish and materialistic prick, you will do just fine.

Do not put too much pressure on yourself My dear Virgo. I see the confilct in your charts already but its a beautiful thing that you can understand both sides of life.. i.e the spiritual and the phsysical (water and earth). Very beautiful its something Cancerians are usually great at doing and very few of them for that matter.

You are still very young ... the best thing to do is, go with the flow, its your moon in Pisces thats kicking your spiritual side (Most likely during a waning/new moon situation)....

My advise is go with the flow ok? and understand When its time to be earthy i.e focus on work,career etc (your virgo side) go for it and be focused and work as hard as you can knowing another side will kick in soon.(your water intuitive side) ...

When your water intuitive side kicks in (use this time to relax and get in touch with your spiritual side and this time its ok to be emotional.

Let me use this opportunity to make something very clear to everyone who might read this... its ok to be emotional (humans are 70% water and we the only creatures on earth that shed tears. I think dolphines do not sure.).

You see when you get emotional and shed tears, thats you getting in touch with your soul...

Plus there are two destinies for each human True & False destinies & both can be fufiled. (of course your true destiny is way more important as thats for the development of your enternal soul)....

Hope this helps and it was written from a position of deep love and genuine kindness....



Mephisto

I should not try to like push one side out and ignore it and kind of assert one side over the other and just go with the flow?

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Yes indeed my gentle friend.

Go with the flow and love yourself because you are quite a special human being. There are not many like you around anymore and of the few that remain, even fewer recognise this and fewer still actually work to understand this unique ability.

Go with the flow for now and realise how special you are as this is a unique ability and gift. The sooner you recognise and appreciate this, more doors will open for you to work through in your journey towards fulfiling your true destiny.

Mephisto.

ps

(think of this as clark kent and superman) ...

That's the whole story and mythology behind the superheroe phenomena

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Posted by Desire4More

Posted by Mephisto
Who says you cant do both? Its ok to be you. As long as you are not a cheating, lying inconsiderate selfish and materialistic prick, you will do just fine.

Do not put too much pressure on yourself My dear Virgo. I see the confilct in your charts already but its a beautiful thing that you can understand both sides of life.. i.e the spiritual and the phsysical (water and earth). Very beautiful its something Cancerians are usually great at doing and very few of them for that matter.

You are still very young ... the best thing to do is, go with the flow, its your moon in Pisces thats kicking your spiritual side (Most likely during a waning/new moon situation)....

My advise is go with the flow ok? and understand When its time to be earthy i.e focus on work,career etc (your virgo side) go for it and be focused and work as hard as you can knowing another side will kick in soon.(your water intuitive side) ...

When your water intuitive side kicks in (use this time to relax and get in touch with your spiritual side and this time its ok to be emotional.

Let me use this opportunity to make something very clear to everyone who might read this... its ok to be emotional (humans are 70% water and we the only creatures on earth that shed tears. I think dolphines do not sure.).

You see when you get emotional and shed tears, thats you getting in touch with your soul...

Plus there are two destinies for each human True & False destinies & both can be fufiled. (of course your true destiny is way more important as thats for the development of your enternal soul)....

Hope this helps and it was written from a position of deep love and genuine kindness....



Mephisto

I should not try to like push one side out and ignore it and kind of assert one side over the other and just go with the flow?

Yes indeed my gentle friend.

Go with the flow and love yourself because you are quite a special human being. There are not many like you around anymore and of the few that remain, even fewer recognise this and fewer still actually work to understand this unique ability.

Go with the flow for now and realise how special you are as this is a unique ability and gift. The sooner you recognise and appreciate this, more doors will open for you to work through in your journey towards fulfiling your true destiny.

Mephisto.

ps

(think of this as clark kent and superman) ...

That's the whole story and mythology behind the superheroe phenomena

click to expand

Thank you very much, you are a great person.