have you had these before? Or just recently? It could be that your intuition has been higher lately. Pay closer attention to what your dreams are telling you maybe
I've never met my dad's father, whom I had always believed to have passed away from a disease. I recently found out that he actually died in a freak accident related to falling off a truck while clinging on to the side.

I'm not entirely sure about this idea but the thing that caused me to think of the possibility is that I was told by my relative that I looked like my grandpa. I asked my dad afterwards if he thought I looked like him and he replied with 'a bit.'

I did a bit of searching on the internet on signs that you're a reincarnation of a family member and here are some of the possible signs that popped up in my head:
-I resemble him (that could be a genetics thing though)
-From a young age I always had this HUGE fear of any type of freak accident happening. Like when I was 6 I was riding a carnival ride that swung you around in a circle and all I could look at were the chains in which the seats hung by at the top and I imagined them breaking and me dying.
-I also had a huge fear of being in a car accident every time I was in a car. Or of my parents being in one whenever they were out for too long.
-My birth date is 10 days before the date that my grandpa died (not the same year however)
-Not sure if relevant, but my dad used to be very hard on me and critical of everything I did while growing up. He was also pretty emotionally distant
-Once when I was 14, I was with my dad one day and I noticed that he was starting to have white hairs on his head and I started to tear up instantly. I told my friend this after it happened and she found it funny and a bit dramatic that I reacted in that way

That's all I can think of for now. Are there any other signs? I was wondering if maybe there is some sort of karmic connection us if this does happen to be true...I don't even know what to think.

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Saturn conjunct venus I just learned is a struggle


I guess that you take your love life seriously.
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Yeah, but most of it is my fear of emotional intimacy and getting into a relationship. My inability to really open up to someone. Apparently people with my aspect are going to have a harder time with relationships overall because we have a hard time expressing how we feel.
Being emotional is totally fine too, but it's definitely harder for guys sometimes because you don't want to show all that emotion as much. Don't deny them though, listen to your feelings and emotions because they tell you something more.
The first realistic and practical vision you have that you described is very typical Virgo behaviour. Wanting a family and that traditional route, being successful in a job etc. The second dreamy, getting lost in your own world you described is what a Pisces Moon is like...I've known a few pisces mooners and I can definitely understand where that's coming from.

The reason you feel so confused about your identity is because your Sun and Moon are in opposition. Virgo and Pisces are in opposite signs. Now, in a relationship, this would be a good thing because two people, the Virgo and Pisces would be drawn to each other because opposites attract. However, when these two aspects are in one's natal chart, it can be conflicting for the person because they constantly feel on the opposite side of things and may feel like they are two different people. Your Sun is your ego, and your Moon is your inner emotions and your soul. In your case, your ego wants that normal and perfect life but then your emotions get lost in a fantasy world where you dream of an idealistic vision and have romantic thoughts about life, view it through a rose-coloured perspective etc.

I think the best thing you can do to work at this hard aspect is to find your balance. It's okay to have different sides of you wanting different things. Nothing is ever black and white. Sometimes we're just complicated individuals who are able to see things through different perspectives and feel different things. I'd suggest to think about why you want the things you do, what influenced you to feel the way you do etc. You can can even use the grand visions of the Pisces to help you be creative to achieve those realistic Virgo goals. It's the way you work things out and use the skills you already have within you that counts.

Also, the Scorpio in your chart probably increases your ambition/drive and emotions too. Learn to deal with your emotions as well and don't get carried away with avoiding real life responsibilities or going into escapism mode (I have pisces planets+aspects that make me do this too)
It might just be that they didn't feel you were compatible with them. I think it really depends on the girl and other aspects of her chart. Libras typically enjoy being in a relationship and sharing their life with another person. They like to have something to cling to and to feel needed. I know a lot of Libra girls who are still young (young adult age) and have been in a long-term relationship for several years. Their minds are constantly changing but as long as nothing happens that makes them question the other person, they usually don't really do anything. Well one Libra/Gemini moon girl I knew would test her friends and then got mad because they didn't react in the way she wanted or say what she wanted to hear... (which is quite stupid and immature in my opinion)
What do you mean common sense in every life?

Common sense to me is knowing what to prioritize and how to take care of work and yourself. Like getting work done and then playing, not saying yes to people if you have something you need to get done etc.
I just saw this on my front page and realized I had a conversation with you in another thread about Capricorns not showing emotion lol.

From everything that he has done so far, such as starting a relationship with you when he hasn't had a real one in 3 years, not wanting to break up with you, suggesting to be friends even when you were breaking up with him, shows that he does like you a lot. I agree with what everyone else is saying about the actions thing though. Actions do speak louder than words, and us Capricorns know that. You said his moon sign is a Taurus, so maybe that's why he's moving reallyyy slow. He may feel comfortable enough to not put in as much effort as you'd want him to because he feels this relationship is secure and that you are crazy enough about him so the relationship itself isn't threatened if he continues to put work over you. At the same time, it seems like he's not really listening to your needs or putting you as a priority.

Maybe you can try to speak with him about finding a middle ground where you can meet each other halfway. You want more quality time spent together in person but he's really into his work. So maybe you can work around that and find a suitable amount of time you can spend with each other per week for example that works for both of you.

But I definitely see how work is so important to a Capricorn though, especially since he's in his 30s and has two kids to support.
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I can be friendly with a lot of people, but liking someone romantically is a little difficult.

The nature of my conversions with you is the biggest indicator of my attraction.

If I'm interested into you, our conversations will mostly revolve around our life experiences.

I will try to figure you out. You can expect a lot of personal questions. I will also remember everything you ever told me. I want to know what makes you tick.


This energy sounds very Scorpionic. That is why I also asked for Mars and Moon signs.



Describes me fairly well and my moon's in Scorp.

But I'm Aqua Venus. Throws a wrench in things. Guys I'm just being friendly with think I'm interested and the guys I'm interested in need to be hit over the head to realize it.
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My moon is in scorpio too but venus in pisces and this is true for me. I have an easier time being friendly with guys I don't like while I'm more awkward with guys I do..
I stare/look at them a lot. I accept their invite to go out. I ask them questions and laugh at their jokes. I tell them more personal things. I remember what they said before and follow-up on it. I help them with things. I try to meet them halfway when it comes to communication.

Most of the time though I don't really express interest though...it's hard for me to do so unless I have a strong indication that the guy likes me, or is expressing strong interest. Cause I'm afraid of giving more than I get and seeming too needy.

Scorpio moon, Pisces Venus, and Aquarius mars.

Anyone who can give me some insight into my behaviour pleasee tell me why I feel like there's something wrong with me or maybe I'm really just not into showing interest or not doing anything. Or if it's something to do with fear of rejection or attachment..
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We repress our inner-most emotions and we don't like to seem vulnerable or weak. We want to appear like we have it all together even if we don't.


Is that why my cap is nonchalant when we have "emotional" conversations. It's almost like "whatever, yea I like you alot" but when I back off he is very aggressive when trying to get my attention & win me over again. It's so weird to me.. :/


Yeah Capricorns don't like to really get emotional in front of others or even be/act touchy-feely. If he's showing his affection through actions then I'd say don't worry about it, cause we're more action-type people who show we care through gestures. Also he could be more emotionally repressed because he's a guy and doesn't know how to respond in the way you want back.

What's his moon sign?


I can tell. But in public and when we're together he's so affectionate & cant keep his hands off of me! 😍

His moon is in Taurus ??? Good sign or? 🤔


That explains that since Taurus is really sensual and physically affectionate. And I'd say the double earth makes him a more sensual and physical person, and that'd be good for you if you're compatible with those



So that explains why it's harder for him to "communicate" his feelings.... It comes easier when he can show it through actions (touch).. That makes things difficult in a LDR because we only have communication most of the time.. He is so loving with his words face to face though... It's really weird. LOL! Our first date, he was hypnotized by me.. I would glance at him or stare for a bit and he would just look in awe and say "you are SO freakin sexy" lol

But, I have a Moon in Libra. I guess that's a good match. I read that moon sign in Libra generally want/need a relationship to feel complete. Def true about me.. I have everything.. Job, biz, house, car, ^& man but since he's so far I still feel incomplete. That's why they say Moon in Libra usually like to marry or live with their partner..
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LOL Taurus is quite the charmer sometimes. I think Taurus and Libra have similarities as well as differences, but you can still make it work if you're able to resolve the differences that come up. For example, Taurus are more slow and won't mind being in one place for a long time, while Libra might get restless. But some things they have in common are both being ruled by Venus, love of beauty and aesthetics, and are romantics at heart.
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Aquas and the Aqua dominant seem to very interested in human nature. My best friend and I converse a lot on tells and unconscious cues from others that are indicative of things about them. We're both similar in that we only fully trust those that have proven themselves in situations where the pressure was on and/or there was something at stake. You'd be surprised at the number of people that either wilt under pressure or their first impulse is to think of themselves. I've always liked the quote "Adversity doesn't build character, it reveals it." I feel like I'm someone that friends can always count on when the chips are down and I like that as a characteristic in others too.


cant 'see" you yet Chance.. you're a capriquarius are you not? You embody many Aqua traits yourself..?


It's an interesting dichotomy. Work like a Cap..today was my 41st consecutive day of work of 10+ hour days (have tomorrow and Wednesday off though ) but I'm taking 3 months off this year because I value freedom and freedom of choice like an Aqua. Aqua dress style but with Cap colors. Like tradition like a Cap but with futuristic progressive ideals. Aqua ideas and concepts but with Cap action. I like the traits of both..and Caps and Aquas get along really well as neighbors.



This is so me. I'm a cusp too and before finding out that cusp signs were a thing, I never felt like I related 100% whenever I read Capricorn descriptions. I knew I didn't have that much ambition or was as driven as Capricorns are often described as. I'd say I like to take the easy and lazy route more sometimes, as well the more practical way.

What disappoints me is that there hasn't been as much information on the cusp signs that I've found online. Maybe I just need to look harder though. I also hate how I can act so different at times, or think of so many different ways I can approach something but not really know which is the right thing to do. I also have Aquarius mercury and mars so maybe that's why

What's your moon sign and what have your experiences been like with earth/water suns versus air/fire sun signs? Which ones do you feel like you click more with or are comfortable with?


I have an Aries moon and a prominent Sag Mars. My sun is my only Earth placement. I do feel a kinship to other Aqua Mercs and Aqua Venus.' Earth signs I feel are effortless to get along with..especially Virgo. There are already a lot of unspoken agreements. Water signs are pretty easy to get along with on a surface level. Fire is hit or miss and air is fun to talk to. For me, getting along has more to do with character traits rather than astrological.

I know what you're saying about being conflicted. Aries moon wants to go, go, go and is somewhat child-like. While Cap Sun is mature and is like 'let's think about this for a second.' Aqua Rising is like 'but have you thought about this.' I'm at my best when I'm combining all three using strong intuition and acting instinctually in the moment..it allows me to recognize things early which is always useful from a timing standpoint.

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Hmm I guess the sun sign is pretty prominent here. And I like your strategy about combining your elements and going with what you feel. It kinda relates to how I've been unwittingly basing my decisions and opinions more on astrological signs of myself and other people, which is probably not good. I'm still mentally biased now when I try to think about which signs I get along with best


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We repress our inner-most emotions and we don't like to seem vulnerable or weak. We want to appear like we have it all together even if we don't.


Is that why my cap is nonchalant when we have "emotional" conversations. It's almost like "whatever, yea I like you alot" but when I back off he is very aggressive when trying to get my attention & win me over again. It's so weird to me.. :/


Yeah Capricorns don't like to really get emotional in front of others or even be/act touchy-feely. If he's showing his affection through actions then I'd say don't worry about it, cause we're more action-type people who show we care through gestures. Also he could be more emotionally repressed because he's a guy and doesn't know how to respond in the way you want back.

What's his moon sign?


I can tell. But in public and when we're together he's so affectionate & cant keep his hands off of me! 😍

His moon is in Taurus ??? Good sign or? 🤔
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That explains that since Taurus is really sensual and physically affectionate. And I'd say the double earth makes him a more sensual and physical person, and that'd be good for you if you're compatible with those
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Aquas and the Aqua dominant seem to very interested in human nature. My best friend and I converse a lot on tells and unconscious cues from others that are indicative of things about them. We're both similar in that we only fully trust those that have proven themselves in situations where the pressure was on and/or there was something at stake. You'd be surprised at the number of people that either wilt under pressure or their first impulse is to think of themselves. I've always liked the quote "Adversity doesn't build character, it reveals it." I feel like I'm someone that friends can always count on when the chips are down and I like that as a characteristic in others too.


cant 'see" you yet Chance.. you're a capriquarius are you not? You embody many Aqua traits yourself..?


It's an interesting dichotomy. Work like a Cap..today was my 41st consecutive day of work of 10+ hour days (have tomorrow and Wednesday off though ) but I'm taking 3 months off this year because I value freedom and freedom of choice like an Aqua. Aqua dress style but with Cap colors. Like tradition like a Cap but with futuristic progressive ideals. Aqua ideas and concepts but with Cap action. I like the traits of both..and Caps and Aquas get along really well as neighbors.

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This is so me. I'm a cusp too and before finding out that cusp signs were a thing, I never felt like I related 100% whenever I read Capricorn descriptions. I knew I didn't have that much ambition or was as driven as Capricorns are often described as. I'd say I like to take the easy and lazy route more sometimes, as well the more practical way.

What disappoints me is that there hasn't been as much information on the cusp signs that I've found online. Maybe I just need to look harder though. I also hate how I can act so different at times, or think of so many different ways I can approach something but not really know which is the right thing to do. I also have Aquarius mercury and mars so maybe that's why

What's your moon sign and what have your experiences been like with earth/water suns versus air/fire sun signs? Which ones do you feel like you click more with or are comfortable with?
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Aquas and the Aqua dominant seem to very interested in human nature. My best friend and I converse a lot on tells and unconscious cues from others that are indicative of things about them. We're both similar in that we only fully trust those that have proven themselves in situations where the pressure was on and/or there was something at stake. You'd be surprised at the number of people that either wilt under pressure or their first impulse is to think of themselves. I've always liked the quote "Adversity doesn't build character, it reveals it." I feel like I'm someone that friends can always count on when the chips are down and I like that as a characteristic in others too.


cant 'see" you yet Chance.. you're a capriquarius are you not? You embody many Aqua traits yourself..?
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I'm a capricorn-aquarius cusp and I'm always very cautious around people too. I don't reveal true things about myself but there's been time periods and with certain people where I don't even know what got into me and I would talk to them about the non-common/eccentric topics of mine I'm interested it, or reveal more personal things about myself if the situation/interaction feels like it requires me to
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I get told that I'm extremely intense or expressive with my eyes, and that I give very mean looks when I'm mad or upset. I used to get accused of the resting cookiemonster face because of my eyes... I literally have had to take notice of my face and eyes, because I don't want to make people think I'm mad or don't like them lol. I like to think I'm a recovering mean/intense glarer, and so far I've been unaccused of looking very mean/intense for like a year now haha. Scorpio moon here.


My friends sometimes say my eyes easily give off the look of disapproval or if I'm annoyed at something, they point out that my face changes (without me even realizing my face changes sometimes) I don't like how I'm so readable because if I'm tired or don't really enjoy talking to someone, it might show and the person will think that I dislike them. So I guess I don't have a very good poker face, or poker eyes lol.
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We repress our inner-most emotions and we don't like to seem vulnerable or weak. We want to appear like we have it all together even if we don't.


Is that why my cap is nonchalant when we have "emotional" conversations. It's almost like "whatever, yea I like you alot" but when I back off he is very aggressive when trying to get my attention & win me over again. It's so weird to me.. :/
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Yeah Capricorns don't like to really get emotional in front of others or even be/act touchy-feely. If he's showing his affection through actions then I'd say don't worry about it, cause we're more action-type people who show we care through gestures. Also he could be more emotionally repressed because he's a guy and doesn't know how to respond in the way you want back.

What's his moon sign?
I haven't. But I'm always wondering if i should be doing more. There seems to be some stigma around girls who do the "chasing."