Why can't I stop thinking about him?

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Posted by Muderface

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Just wondering if it's just me lol

https://imgur.com/zm5ITca


It's that moon trine Pluto and the ASC conjunct Pluto.

It's probably not only you either...


Awww thanks for commenting on my dead ass thread hon 😂😘😘
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😂😂. Aww you're welcome. I'm sure others will comment soon 😘
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Maybe it’s that’s moon square mars

I have had that aspect with a couple guys I’ve liked

It’s hard for me to say if they feel the same? How do they act towards you?


He seems nervous which makes me nervous hahaha


Hmm I think there is a possibility he likes you too 😏 do you find he looks at you a lot? Does he try to be around you often?
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The staring he does but he also stopped taking lunch with me. Leaves the lunch room if I enter 😂😂
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Maybe it’s that’s moon square mars

I have had that aspect with a couple guys I’ve liked

It’s hard for me to say if they feel the same? How do they act towards you?


He seems nervous which makes me nervous hahaha


Hmm I think there is a possibility he likes you too 😏 do you find he looks at you a lot? Does he try to be around you often?


The staring he does but he also stopped taking lunch with me. Leaves the lunch room if I enter 😂😂


Hmm 🤔 very interesting... a part of me feels like if he stares at you, and also gets nervous around you, there is a possibility of attraction, if that’s the case then it’s possible that the synastry shows there is mutual attraction. I think notice his behavior around you more. If you try talking to him more and notice he’s nervous he may like you but maybe he’s shy? Is he the shy type? But also I would assume he’d try to be around often too.
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He's not a shy person but he is 12years older with 2 kids in their early 20s. I'm not gonna force him to interact with me. Just this pull to him I find mental. I'm keeping away😂 thanks girly for the chat😘
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His Neptune in your 7th can feel bewitching 🙂 He might feel good to you and know how to soothe you, but he could feel just out of reach at times. His Pluto so near your 5th house cusp might also play into your fascination with him.


So it's all just one sided eh lol


I didn't see his houses in the image. was his birth time used in calculating the chart? I can look at more too, was just focusing on how he affected your relationship houses
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No birth time sorry. Oh I'll appreciate it so much hon! But only if you're not busy😘
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His Neptune in your 7th can feel bewitching 🙂 He might feel good to you and know how to soothe you, but he could feel just out of reach at times. His Pluto so near your 5th house cusp might also play into your fascination with him.


So it's all just one sided eh lol


I didn't see his houses in the image. was his birth time used in calculating the chart? I can look at more too, was just focusing on how he affected your relationship houses


No birth time sorry. Oh I'll appreciate it so much hon! But only if you're not busy😘


Harmonious aspects in order of listed strength:

His sun conjunct your Mars: mutually energizing, inspiring, and uplifting

His moon trine your Pluto: The relationship is a profound source of emotion for both. Emotional safety and security felt on both sides.

His Lilith conjunct your Mars: The relationship can be freeing and stimulating for you. He is a source of energy and gives you confidence to go your own way, and he likely feels the same. High sex drive. If other hard aspects are dealt with successfully, with patience and maturity, it should reduce any possible trouble and strife which could arise from this aspect (I think conjunctions can be frictious sometimes).

His Venus sextile your Jupiter: Good aspect for shared goals (especially in what you see and expect from the relationship). Both are willing to think the best of each other and forgive when necessary (some hard aspects involving Mars/Pluto might lessen this effect at times, but focusing on the positive through the hard times should help you get through them successfully).

His Venus sextile your ascendant: He is encouraging and supportive of you, increasing your confidence.

His NN conjunct your Pluto: You help him grow into his best self. This aspect could take some time to develop and benefit from, but if the relationship survives the hard times he could reach a great point in fulfilling his potential.

His Neptune trine your Mars: He could inspire your creativity and propel your artistic, spiritual, or compassionate drive

His Jupiter trine your Saturn: Involvement with him could open doors for you in achieving your goals.

His Jupiter trine your Uranus: He could provide you with opportunities to change your personal course for the better. Good aspect for the personal progression of each

His Saturn sextile your ascendant: He might be in a position to help you achieve respect as you assert yourself in society.

His Saturn sextile your Jupiter: Similar effect his Jupiter trining your Saturn, but he feels it (to a slightly less powerful degree potentially)

His Mars trine your NN: He inspires you to quickly make strides toward achieving your highest potential.

His Uranus sextile your Saturn: This aspect could imply you both are willing to make changes (in case they involve sacrifices to your established life style , etc) for the sake of the growth of the relationship.This effect is enhanced by your Venus-Jupiter sextile.

His Uranus trine your NN: He gives you confidence to take risks in order to reach your full potential

His Saturn sextile your Lilith: This aspect could provide a healthy balance between freedom and challenging the status quo with boundaries and structure. Good aspect for mutual respect

Challenging aspects in order of listed strength:

His Venus square your sun: This aspect could require compromise on your part and understanding/acceptance of you on his part. Disagreements could occur when you act on your nature without careful consideration of the relationship and how your choice could affect his trust in you and his stability. He is moon and Venus in 6/22 of these aspects listed, while you are sun and Mars in 5/22 of these aspects listed, creating a trend of vulnerability and sensitivity on his end while you could come off aggressive and threateningly independent at times. This aspect may not play out so harshly, but it's good to be aware of potential trouble which could arise.

His moon square your Mars: Emphasizes his need to understand that your drive is not a threat to the relationship, and your need to consider his feelings through your actions

His Mars opposite your Mercury: This could inhibit the ability to understand each other and could require compromise from both. Your natural outlook and way of perceiving the world, as well as problem-solving style could provoke him without your intention. You may not agree with the fruitfulness of his style of taking action. When fights may arise, it could be good to remember how much you value the relationship and ask him how he would like to solve the problem and how you can make him feel important, as synastry implies he may need some reassurance that he matters to you.

His Pluto square your Mercury: He could be impatient with you and manipulative and resentful at times. The bad parts of this synastry seem to run with the theme of your own self-censorship and walking on eggshells (that's one way to put it: another more positive way to put it is that the relationship could require you to hone your tact and selflessness). Even when you put effort into being respectful and courteous, this aspect could be felt, in which case knowledge is power. Your harmonious Jupiter aspects could help you both maintain and optimistic outlook toward each other.

His Venus square your Uranus: This aspect could cause potential instability, but it seems that it would be you inflicting his insecurity and stress. If you have a stable and conventional attitude toward relationships and enjoy being thoughtful towards your partner this aspect may not be felt so harshly. This aspect could also imply difficult hurdles to overcome to be together (such as pre-existing external life conditions for each which keep you separate until change is sought).

His Pluto square your Neptune: This aspect could indicate some escapism on your end and his attempts to control you so he isn't left in an uncomfortable state of guessing where you stand and where your heart's at. Generous encouragement through words and actions toward each other should help lessen the harsh effects of this aspect (you may feel like you hold much of the responsibility to soothe him compared to his efforts to do the same for you, as you don't need so much reassurance according to synastry).

His Mars opposite your Neptune: This might be similar to your Pluto-Neptune square, except it indicates his aggressive reaction to your perceived attempts to avoid him. Daily check-ins while living by the principle of staying calm and respectful could help solve this square.

Hope this helps. You can also pull your composite chart on 12andus or horoscopeyourself.com without a birth time, and use that as a guide (refer to composite north node/midheaven; keep in mind the type of energy your relationship will hold especially in the composite personal planets)
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Wow! This was an interesting read but helped so much. If i dont get too chicken shit approaching him again ill tell yall how it goes 😂

Thank you so much!! I'm looking up those other sites as well.

Really appreciate you taking the time to do this. You're amazing and the bomb!😍😘😘😘😄