I have to step in and disagree about the theory that it's nearly impossible to find a soulmate. Contrary to the popular idea of a soulmate, a soulmate is not just one person in the world who is "the one" for you forever. We have many soul mates. A soul mate is simply a person we connect with on a more spiritual, subconscious level. Our parents, our children, our best friends, our spouses, they all might be soulmates. We all have a "soul twin" who generally tends to fill the criteria of what some people would call "the one". Sometimes you don't find them until you're about to die, but you always find them.
