Meeting a Gemini man’s family...

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However any man family feels about you doesn’t matter unless man feel about you.

Some bring every woman to meet the family.

Some bring just ‘serious about’ woman.

He wasn’t dragging you across the country for them. So now when they moved closer their probably won’t mind meeting you.

You’ll never know intentions behind it unless he falls on his knees with a ring.

Otherwise it’s just...this is mom pop and this is Mary. What’s for dinner? Where do we sit?

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Is this normal? So I’ve been dating my s/o for about a year and 2 months. His family recently moved here where we are. I’ve had 2 recent encounters with his sister, but haven’t been warned. Is this normal, I’m wondering how does she feel about me?

Who cares how she feels about you? She can be hateful dumb bitch...so...never mind her.
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You know what, that is very true.
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Gotta bring me up to speed here. I am not sure what you mean about "haven't been warned".. warned about what?

Recent encounters with his sister.. Like you just bumped into her? Or he introduced you to her? Never met the rest of his family? If they recently moved there to be closer to him, wouldn't they want to meet you? Does he just visit them by himself and not bring you? I'm confused.. Lol

He didn’t warn me about meeting her before the meetings. I mean he did months ago but the 2 times, it was just like boom she was in front of me basically. I met the nieces and nephew, I was reconnected with his eldest daughter. It’s just mom n pops I haven’t met just yet. They haven’t been here long at all.
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If a Gemini wanted to conceal you from his family or vice-versa, he'll make damn sure of it. We are masters at that stuff.

The fact that he doesn't show any concerns is a positive sign. He is positive about you mixing up with his family and might be thinking for a long-term relationship.

Yeah he been said I was meeting them. I just had to wait til they actually got her. He always says we and is making plans for the long haul.
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However any man family feels about you doesn’t matter unless man feel about you.

Some bring every woman to meet the family.

Some bring just ‘serious about’ woman.

He wasn’t dragging you across the country for them. So now when they moved closer their probably won’t mind meeting you.

You’ll never know intentions behind it unless he falls on his knees with a ring.

Otherwise it’s just...this is mom pop and this is Mary. What’s for dinner? Where do we sit?

🤷‍♀️

I totally agree, especially since he has been married twice. We’ve been through some things, he knows i won’t hurt him but in the back of his mind he can’t help but to think a little negative but all I can do is continue to show him I’m not like the previous ones before me.
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Gotta bring me up to speed here. I am not sure what you mean about "haven't been warned".. warned about what?

Recent encounters with his sister.. Like you just bumped into her? Or he introduced you to her? Never met the rest of his family? If they recently moved there to be closer to him, wouldn't they want to meet you? Does he just visit them by himself and not bring you? I'm confused.. Lol

He didn’t warn me about meeting her before the meetings. I mean he did months ago but the 2 times, it was just like boom she was in front of me basically. I met the nieces and nephew, I was reconnected with his eldest daughter. It’s just mom n pops I haven’t met just yet. They haven’t been here long at all.

Ohh, okay I see. Yeah, it seems odd to me as well that he didn't give you a heads up or say anything about it. :/
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He told me a few months ago but he just sprung her on me
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Gotta bring me up to speed here. I am not sure what you mean about "haven't been warned".. warned about what?

Recent encounters with his sister.. Like you just bumped into her? Or he introduced you to her? Never met the rest of his family? If they recently moved there to be closer to him, wouldn't they want to meet you? Does he just visit them by himself and not bring you? I'm confused.. Lol

He didn’t warn me about meeting her before the meetings. I mean he did months ago but the 2 times, it was just like boom she was in front of me basically. I met the nieces and nephew, I was reconnected with his eldest daughter. It’s just mom n pops I haven’t met just yet. They haven’t been here long at all.

Ohh, okay I see. Yeah, it seems odd to me as well that he didn't give you a heads up or say anything about it. :/

He told me a few months ago but he just sprung her on me

Yeah, I'd expect a heads up about it as well. You wanna be a little prepared when first meeting the fam.
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My point exactly.