Gemini man blocked me after i told him that my father passed aways

I knew this gemini man since months and we became close i really liked him. And i thought that we are friends.

Anyway i use to contact him more than he does.

He sometimes dispear but always come back.

a week ago my father has passed away.So i felt sad and alone i texted him to inform him.

He was offline for more than 3 days..

By the time he saw my msg

I was in the emergency room with my mum.

So i didn't see his msg also i missed his call.

After few days i texted him back via whatsapp.

And told him that my mum is in the clinic.

He asked me if am ok

I told him i feel much better .. just worried about my mother.

He told me to be strong and everything will be alright.

I told him i hope so.

And that was the end of our conv.

After few days i wanted to text him.

So i was surprised that he blocked me.

Just like that out of the blue

With no reasons.

So i sent a msg to his num.

Asking if he blocked me?

He did not reply.

I texted again saying that there's really no reason to do it.

Because i never call to bother u

Or text u everyday to disturb u

Anyway thank u.

I was 100% he recieved my two text msgs but he did not reply.

Also am 100% he blocked me because i added his num to my other profissional mobile phone num to check if he did block me from my personal num .

At the end i said well he is free i will never text him again.

This morning he texted me from his facebook.

And called me from his messenger ..

But i didn't answer.

He left a msg saying

That he changed his phone number.

I was very angry because i can tell he is lying.

I texted back this msg (" hi i hope you're fine..

Anyway you're free to choose who to keep in touch with and who u want to block from ur life.

I really was upset at first when u blocked me

Because there's no reason to do so.

I never bothered u or disturb u.

I always respected my boundries with u.

But after all it's ur choice.. u are just a person that i knew for short of time.

So if u want to go just do it

I have no idea why u blocked me.i wanted to text u to know the reason but now..

I no longer care ... i just lost my father .. the most important person to my life just left us for good .. so why i would care if u decide to block me?!!! And leave without giving a reason

And

Please do not think am stupid

Because am not .. i know and am sure that u didn't change ur phone number and i know that u blocked me.

Now pls stop texting me.

And do not try to call me.)

This was my reply to him.

I thought he will explain why he blocked me.

But he blocked me again on facebook.

I really have no idea why he did so.

Im really curious why?!

Sorry I did not read whole thing, but I’m so sorry to hear about your father. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. Gemini does not sound like a very nice person. *hugs*

Posted by librak924

Sorry I did not read whole thing, but I’m so sorry to hear about your father. If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me. Gemini does not sound like a very nice person. *hugs*

Thank u so much

Hugs

Love & light

Posted by colliding99

he doesnt wanna deal with your baggage

Well i didn't call him

Or cried to him.

When i informed him it was just an info

To him and everyone i know.

... what makes me surprised the lie to give it as a reason for the block.

Posted by TheRabbit

Tl;dr

Sorry about your father.

This Gemini sounds like a piece of shit.

He needs to be punched in his dick and balls.

What makes the block more funny

The stupid lie he gaves me .

Posted by colliding99

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by colliding99

he doesnt wanna deal with your baggage

Well i didn't call him

Or cried to him.

When i informed him it was just an info

To him and everyone i know.

... what makes me surprised the lie to give it as a reason for the block.

yeah many dickheads find a way to escape when things get hard

tell him good riddance and move on

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Yes when he called me on messenger and i didn't reply.. and he left that stupid msg saying he changed his number.

I told him what i really think of him.

And indirectly that he's a stupid liar.

Posted by dilettante

is this the gemini who is married?

No he is not married

He is single

Posted by 7s

Lol bro, c'mon. Is this for real?

You first made a thread about all Gemini's you've ever known having bad breathe...

Then a "gemini making confused." Your words ...

Now one blocked you after your father's death?!

And you have multiple accounts badge. There's obviously an agenda here.

Is this harukka?

I lost my old account i forgot my password

So i made new one.

And this is another gemini.

I knew since a year.

And we started becoming friends in juin.

And yes my father passed away.

Who is the crazy that will lie about a person death.

Posted by Foxy777

I am really sorry about your father.

Anything that happens right now will sting ...I remember being at the funeral of a friend ..someone closed the door harshly and i burst into tears about it. Its not logical. You are just more fragile when you are going through hard times.

Your body mind and soul is going through a lot.

Are you sure thinking about this guy blocking you is not just your mind trying to distract you from the grief of losing your father?

Don't worry about it anyway right now. You have your family and more serious issues to think about.

Yes that's the way to put it.

I wasn't really in contact with anyone since my father death.

I just notified all the persons i knew

And didn't check my phone much.

I was crying the next days following my father's death from heart attack.

And when i spoke with gemini it was really short i didn't even call him

To cry and even my text wasn't emotional.

When i found out he blocked me

I was surprised.

No idea really

Posted by 7s

Lol bro, c'mon. Is this for real?

You first made a thread about all Gemini's you've ever known having bad breathe...

Then a "gemini making confused." Your words ...

Now one blocked you after your father's death?!

And you have multiple accounts badge. There's obviously an agenda here.

Is this harukka?

By the way why are u calling me bro?!

Am not a guy

Am a girl.

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by 7s

Lol bro, c'mon. Is this for real?

You first made a thread about all Gemini's you've ever known having bad breathe...

Then a "gemini making confused." Your words ...

Now one blocked you after your father's death?!

And you have multiple accounts badge. There's obviously an agenda here.

Is this harukka?

Who is the crazy that will lie about a person death.

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You would be surprised the lengths people will go.

Posted by 7s

Lol bro, c'mon. Is this for real?

You first made a thread about all Gemini's you've ever known having bad breathe...

Then a "gemini making confused." Your words ...

Now one blocked you after your father's death?!

And you have multiple accounts badge. There's obviously an agenda here.Is this harukka?

Posted by Basorexia

Posted by 7s

Lol bro, c'mon. Is this for real?

You first made a thread about all Gemini's you've ever known having bad breathe...

Then a "gemini making confused." Your words ...

Now one blocked you after your father's death?!

And you have multiple accounts badge. There's obviously an agenda here.Is this harukka?

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What do u mean?!

You know who your friends are when things get tough

So sorry to hear about your dad 😥

The Gemini is a cold hearted shitehead...

Posted by colliding99

he doesnt wanna deal with your baggage

Everyone on this planet has baggage. Anyone who tries to act like they don’t are typically narcissistic fucks that are selfish and don’t have normal lives in the first place.

Baggage in this story= anything too close to real life.

This is a factor that keep fuck boys at bay so they can protect their fragile fuk boy bubble wherein they block out the fact that they’re aging, imperfect, gym rats with emotional dependency on gaining new attention to feed their crumbling egos.

The end

This guy is clearly showing you in a bright neon lights kind of way...that he’s not prepared for anything real, past the cordial pleasant nature you offered prior to your fathers death.

Sometimes people show us things in times of need that we ignore but later reflect upon and the hurt or realization of who that person is, sinks in when we have time to reflect.

This could be a friend who changes towards you after having a baby or a friend who becomes distant when you announce you’ve received a huge promotion. A best friend who becomes very toxic while being a part of your bridal party etc.

The point is, is that people SHOW you who they are in times of change and stress. You get little glimpses into who they are and the level of importance you play in their life.

Never look away in these moments because you learn the most valuable information during this time and you become more aware of who you have around you.

Don’t consider this Gemini a loss, girl you’ve been spared an evil Gemini lurking in your panties 👏😀

Thank the lord and be blessed he’s gone 🙏

Ps: I’m sorry about your father.

Posted by blvckphvse

I don't mean to be inconsiderate here, I am naturally skeptical, so I apologise..

But if my Father had just passed away the last thing I would care or worry about was some dude.. Or being on DXP to gain insight about it.. You likely wouldn't see me on here for quite some time. Just saying.

Very sorry about your Father.

It was already more than 3 weeks since my father death.

And i came here after i was done with grief

So keep ur judgement for urself.

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by emeraldgem

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by blvckphvse

I don't mean to be inconsiderate here, I am naturally skeptical, so I apologise..

But if my Father had just passed away the last thing I would care or worry about was some dude.. Or being on DXP to gain insight about it.. You likely wouldn't see me on here for quite some time. Just saying.

Very sorry about your Father.

It was already more than 3 weeks since my father death.

And i came here after i was done with grief

So keep ur judgement for urself.

You got over your father's death in 3 weeks? That's a neat trick. Mine died when I was 9, and I'm still not over it.

It was years before I could smell fresh flowers without thinking of death. All the flowers from my dad's funeral.

Yes. Fucking carnations!

Sorry to hear you've lost yours too.

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Im not over it

But i didn't come asking right away

I always think of him

And i miss him.

Posted by TheRabbit

Tl;dr

Sorry about your father.

This Gemini sounds like a piece of shit.

He needs to be punched in his dick and balls.

So he will become puddle of pee...?

Yeah...good option Rabbit...

I am so shocked at everybody!

Doesn’t it occurred to ANY of you WHY is OP contacted her acquaintance 100 times when her parent died? Seems like her main focus was is to get that dude regardless of a funeral!

Weren’t there shit to do like helping family members etc.?

And texting 100 times ‘I am not going to bother you’ IS! IN! FACT! BOTHERING!!!

Posted by Norah_1986

I knew this gemini man since months and we became close i really liked him. And i thought that we are friends.

Anyway i use to contact him more than he does.

He sometimes dispear but always come back.

a week ago my father has passed away.So i felt sad and alone i texted him to inform him.

He was offline for more than 3 days..

By the time he saw my msg

I was in the emergency room with my mum.

So i didn't see his msg also i missed his call.

After few days i texted him back via whatsapp.

And told him that my mum is in the clinic.

He asked me if am ok

I told him i feel much better .. just worried about my mother.

He told me to be strong and everything will be alright.

I told him i hope so.

And that was the end of our conv.

After few days i wanted to text him.

So i was surprised that he blocked me.

Just like that out of the blue

With no reasons.

So i sent a msg to his num.

Asking if he blocked me?

He did not reply.

I texted again saying that there's really no reason to do it.

Because i never call to bother u

Or text u everyday to disturb u

Anyway thank u.

I was 100% he recieved my two text msgs but he did not reply.

Also am 100% he blocked me because i added his num to my other profissional mobile phone num to check if he did block me from my personal num .

At the end i said well he is free i will never text him again.

This morning he texted me from his facebook.

And called me from his messenger ..

But i didn't answer.

He left a msg saying

That he changed his phone number.

I was very angry because i can tell he is lying.

I texted back this msg (" hi i hope you're fine..

Anyway you're free to choose who to keep in touch with and who u want to block from ur life.

I really was upset at first when u blocked me

Because there's no reason to do so.

I never bothered u or disturb u.

I always respected my boundries with u.

But after all it's ur choice.. u are just a person that i knew for short of time.

So if u want to go just do it

I have no idea why u blocked me.i wanted to text u to know the reason but now..

I no longer care ... i just lost my father .. the most important person to my life just left us for good .. so why i would care if u decide to block me?!!! And leave without giving a reason

And

Please do not think am stupid

Because am not .. i know and am sure that u didn't change ur phone number and i know that u blocked me.

Now pls stop texting me.

And do not try to call me.)

This was my reply to him.

I thought he will explain why he blocked me.

But he blocked me again on facebook.

I really have no idea why he did so.

Im really curious why?!

Because you are a fucking psycho!

Your most important person in life died and all you worry about is this guy blocking/unblocking you!

Posted by dilettante

is this the gemini who is married?

Oh! 🤷‍♀️

That makes it almost interesting...

Posted by blvckphvse

I don't mean to be inconsiderate here, I am naturally skeptical, so I apologise..

But if my Father had just passed away the last thing I would care or worry about was some dude.. Or being on DXP to gain insight about it.. You likely wouldn't see me on here for quite some time. Just saying.

Very sorry about your Father.

Is it just you and me who’ve noticed that shit? 🤔

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by emeraldgem

Posted by Phantom_Dangus

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by blvckphvse

I don't mean to be inconsiderate here, I am naturally skeptical, so I apologise..

But if my Father had just passed away the last thing I would care or worry about was some dude.. Or being on DXP to gain insight about it.. You likely wouldn't see me on here for quite some time. Just saying.

Very sorry about your Father.

It was already more than 3 weeks since my father death.

And i came here after i was done with grief

So keep ur judgement for urself.

You got over your father's death in 3 weeks? That's a neat trick. Mine died when I was 9, and I'm still not over it.

It was years before I could smell fresh flowers without thinking of death. All the flowers from my dad's funeral.

Yes. Fucking carnations!

Sorry to hear you've lost yours too.

Im not over it

But i didn't come asking right away

I always think of him

And i miss him.

If this is true (and you're not being incredibly insensitive and shitty by trolling us with this kind of thing), I am very sorry for your loss. It sounds like the Gemini couldn't handle dealing with this. Maybe he didn't feel he knows you well enough to be part of your support system. Losing a parent is heavy stuff. I'm sorry he did it in such a shitty way. You're likely better off seeing him leave your life.

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He is not even her bf!

And he had Dissapeared for weeks before!

Leave the guy alone! He probably just been another guy who hanged around for whatever reason...

As a geminin woman i can give you a few possibilities as i myself was in the same situation, a few years back my mom had cancer and it was a very painful period for me, and then a friend of mine(from work) her mother had a more serious situation and i didnt know what to tell her so i stopped contacting her because because of my mom i was in a dark place that i didnt want to go back to, and i didnt want to hear the news of her mother passing away...not cold as you may think just difficult to handle, maybe he is this way

the other scenario is because he acted irrationnally after u didnt respond(pride) and didnt want to seem clingy(we hate that) but he contacted u after he analysed the situation and realised his mistake, yes he might of lied to you about the number but facing him wont help, but the question is what do u expect from this man?

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

As a geminin woman i can give you a few possibilities as i myself was in the same situation, a few years back my mom had cancer and it was a very painful period for me, and then a friend of mine(from work) her mother had a more serious situation and i didnt know what to tell her so i stopped contacting her because because of my mom i was in a dark place that i didnt want to go back to, and i didnt want to hear the news of her mother passing away...not cold as you may think just difficult to handle, maybe he is this way

the other scenario is because he acted irrationnally after u didnt respond(pride) and didnt want to seem clingy(we hate that) but he contacted u after he analysed the situation and realised his mistake, yes he might of lied to you about the number but facing him wont help, but the question is what do u expect from this man?

My story with this man is sooo long

I've known him since 2015

And we had a strong connection

Its a very long story as i told u

But we started really talking and going out in dec 2018... we are not really dating we just agreed to be friends.

And we became really good friends

We talk about everything

We share everything

He is into meditation like me

And he likes spirituality subjects

But i don't know what happened to him.

Yes maybe i didn't reply to his call

And msgs after my father death

I wanted to grief my father alone.

I didn't have time to check my phone.

Or having the need to talk with anyone.

After weeks

I wanted to text him

And i find out he blocked me.

I texted him asking if he did.

He didn't reply

Next day he called me from messenger

And left a msg saying he changed his phone number.

I was angry and asked him to stop contacting me.

Two days ago

He texted me his new phone number and asked me

To reply.

But i ignored him and deleted his msg.

Posted by Norah_1986

Posted by lilyofthevalley987

As a geminin woman i can give you a few possibilities as i myself was in the same situation, a few years back my mom had cancer and it was a very painful period for me, and then a friend of mine(from work) her mother had a more serious situation and i didnt know what to tell her so i stopped contacting her because because of my mom i was in a dark place that i didnt want to go back to, and i didnt want to hear the news of her mother passing away...not cold as you may think just difficult to handle, maybe he is this way

the other scenario is because he acted irrationnally after u didnt respond(pride) and didnt want to seem clingy(we hate that) but he contacted u after he analysed the situation and realised his mistake, yes he might of lied to you about the number but facing him wont help, but the question is what do u expect from this man?

My story with this man is sooo long

I've known him since 2015

And we had a strong connection

Its a very long story as i told u

But we started really talking and going out in dec 2018... we are not really dating we just agreed to be friends.

And we became really good friends

We talk about everything

We share everything

He is into meditation like me

And he likes spirituality subjects

But i don't know what happened to him.

Yes maybe i didn't reply to his call

And msgs after my father death

I wanted to grief my father alone.

I didn't have time to check my phone.

Or having the need to talk with anyone.

After weeks

I wanted to text him

And i find out he blocked me.

I texted him asking if he did.

He didn't reply

Next day he called me from messenger

And left a msg saying he changed his phone number.

I was angry and asked him to stop contacting me.

Two days ago

He texted me his new phone number and asked me

To reply.

But i ignored him and deleted his msg.

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Sorry to bring it up again after so many days, but it's important to know the reason behind his actions before straight away labeling him as a liar.

A depressed Gemini or Gemini in OFF state tends to isolate himself from everything and everyone until his energy is regenerated. He doesn't mean to offend or cheat, his mind is just off-balance. And yea he could lie afterwards to save face but again, not with intention to harm but to make things right again.