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Signs a GEMINI man or woman are falling in love...
How to Tell if a Gemini Is Falling in Love
A Gemini in love often shows increased communication, playful teasing, and genuine interest in your thoughts. They may seek more time with you and share personal stories. Their behavior becomes more open and expressive as they develop deeper feelings. Recognizing these signs can help you understand if a Gemini is falling for you.
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Really?
Posted by Koinu
You will find them on dxpnet.
Stay put as in, don’t cheat?
Posted by PinsNNeedles
They stay put
With women - you'll have to check their underwear. If they change it at least once a week (normally - they wear the same pair the whole month) - they're in love.
With men - it's the almost same but with socks.
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
Oh shit, I’ve been being stalked the last few months.
Posted by emeraldgem
I will stalk you....................learn everything about you.
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
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lol Because I've had one in love with me before 😄
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
lol Because I've had one in love with me before 😄
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Was he utterly annoying?
How did it go?
Posted by Koinu
You will find them on dxpnet.
I didn’t know dxp is predominantly Gemini forum...🤔
You know what? I’ve seen the same socks for a while now.
Posted by neves
With women - you'll have to check their underwear. If they change it at least once a week (normally - they wear the same pair the whole month) - they're in love.
With men - it's the almost same but with socks.
Posted by neves
With women - you'll have to check their underwear. If they change it at least once a week (normally - they wear the same pair the whole month) - they're in love.
With men - it's the almost same but with socks.
Why do I have to change underwear at all like if I didn’t shower every season?
🤷♀️
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by neves
With women - you'll have to check their underwear. If they change it at least once a week (normally - they wear the same pair the whole month) - they're in love.
With men - it's the almost same but with socks.
Why do I have to change underwear at all like if I didn’t shower every season?
🤷♀️
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You wear the same draws for a month? 😷
Posted by Jumpin_Jupiter
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by neves
With women - you'll have to check their underwear. If they change it at least once a week (normally - they wear the same pair the whole month) - they're in love.
With men - it's the almost same but with socks.
Why do I have to change underwear at all like if I didn’t shower every season?
🤷♀️
You wear the same draws for a month? 😷
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That’s how I am saving for my retirement because according to CC I will be donated to the Chinese science...🧐
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
lol Because I've had one in love with me before 😄
Was he utterly annoying?
How did it go?
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No. I need the clinginess. I don’t mind it. Gemini men love being treated like babies. Lol. I like doing that.
We broke up for other reasons but we were together for a long time. He just never grew up and was responsible.
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
lol Because I've had one in love with me before 😄
Was he utterly annoying?
How did it go?
No. I need the clinginess. I don’t mind it. Gemini men love being treated like babies. Lol. I like doing that.
We broke up for other reasons but we were together for a long time. He just never grew up and was responsible.
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Treated like babies? They don’t let you licking their lollipop? 🤷♀️
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by saggurl88
They bug the hell out of you and don't leave you alone
😂😂😂😂
How do you know THAT? Are we THAT obvious? 🤷♀️
lol Because I've had one in love with me before 😄
Was he utterly annoying?
How did it go?
No. I need the clinginess. I don’t mind it. Gemini men love being treated like babies. Lol. I like doing that.
We broke up for other reasons but we were together for a long time. He just never grew up and was responsible.
Treated like babies? They don’t let you licking their lollipop? 🤷♀️
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I think all men like that lol.
They show you their emotional side. They generally like to keep things light, however when you see those barriers start to break down and they show you the more serious/ hidden side and then see if they start getting emotional around you like they can’t contain their feelings for you any longer. I would say within 6 months you should know.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Most of this video is what happens when you court a female Gemini. At 4:15 is when the Gemini decides she cares back.
Edit: did anyone see that? Had the wrong video loaded. lol
Nah, that didn’t look right 👀 😆
Posted by LittleStar
#1 sign is planning activities with you or inviting you to literally everything in their life. They want to spend time with you and make you a part of their life.
But I find before that stage I typically act very abrasive or cold toward people I have feelings for. Or just act as rejecting and disinterested as possible. 😂🙄
Lol that’s the part that’s make you want to CHOKE them really bad! Why must they act like that, it’s not becoming.
True indeed.
Posted by bumboklatt
They tell you legit information
So what’s the point of the coldness?
Posted by LittleStar
#1 sign is planning activities with you or inviting you to literally everything in their life. They want to spend time with you and make you a part of their life.
But I find before that stage I typically act very abrasive or cold toward people I have feelings for. Or just act as rejecting and disinterested as possible. 😂🙄
tand. How long does this last?
Posted by LittleStar
Posted by Brickhouse27
So what’s the point of the coldness?
Posted by LittleStar
#1 sign is planning activities with you or inviting you to literally everything in their life. They want to spend time with you and make you a part of their life.
But I find before that stage I typically act very abrasive or cold toward people I have feelings for. Or just act as rejecting and disinterested as possible. 😂🙄
I prefer to not feel emotionally vulnerable and prefer having control and the upper hand.
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What a coincidence? I’m a Pisces and he’s a Gemini.
Posted by LittleStar
Having a Pisces husband with a much higher tolerance for my childishness and a much higher EQ has done wonders for me.
g everything to the tee. I didn’t have much patience before but darn it I have to learn some now. He’s always doing things to make me smile and laugh. He wants to be on the same plan, and the list goes on.
Posted by LittleStar
Posted by Brickhouse27
I can understand. How long does this last?
Posted by LittleStar
Posted by Brickhouse27
So what’s the point of the coldness?
Posted by LittleStar
#1 sign is planning activities with you or inviting you to literally everything in their life. They want to spend time with you and make you a part of their life.
But I find before that stage I typically act very abrasive or cold toward people I have feelings for. Or just act as rejecting and disinterested as possible. 😂🙄
I prefer to not feel emotionally vulnerable and prefer having control and the upper hand.
Your message is a little cut off but it really depends on how much time we spend together and how must trust gets developed. If we are only acquaintances it may never go away and it may never get said forever. But if we become closer or more comfortable then I might drop hints of the truth and then act exactly opposite of the hint so it’s not too obvious. 😂
So basic mixed messages to everyone else in the world.
If you view Geminis as teenagers when it comes to love you might be more than a bit accurate. You would need a lot of patience to wade through bullshit until eventually we mostly tell the truth.
It’s not lying to avoid consequences or to be shady it’s just to avoid being put into a box or discarded. We really like keeping a bit of ourselves to ourselves and then we really hate being disliked by those we care about. 🤷🏻♀️
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For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
Yess omg this is all happening to me. Yesterday I got 49 text messages in less than 10 minutes.
Posted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
t even said anything. He was looking for me.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yess omg this is all happening to me. Yesterday I got 49 text messages in less than 10 minutes.
Posted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
Were the two of you having a dialogue?
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Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
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Posted by Brickhouse27
No I hadn’t even said anything. He was looking for me.
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yess omg this is all happening to me. Yesterday I got 49 text messages in less than 10 minutes.
Posted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That shit is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
Were the two of you having a dialogue?
That's too much. That's just too damn much.
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Wait, he sent you 49 texts messages saying what? Were they funny? Serious? Memes? What do you mean looking for you? How old is he?
It was him talking and a lot of emojis. He is 42.
Posted by WateryGem
Wait, he sent you 49 texts messages saying what? Were they funny? Serious? Memes? What do you mean looking for you? How old is he?
Posted by Brickhouse27
It was him talking and a lot of emojis. He is 42.
Posted by WateryGem
Wait, he sent you 49 texts messages saying what? Were they funny? Serious? Memes? What do you mean looking for you? How old is he?
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you gonna let this man win?!
don't be weak, send him 50 in return!
t!
Posted by virgoOPPP
Posted by Brickhouse27
It was him talking and a lot of emojis. He is 42.
Posted by WateryGem
Wait, he sent you 49 texts messages saying what? Were they funny? Serious? Memes? What do you mean looking for you? How old is he?
you gonna let this man win?!
don't be weak, send him 50 in return!
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Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
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What are you not used to?
rsonalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
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Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
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🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
quarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
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Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
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I agree with you, I don't know why most act like they are the same personality all the time. My mars is in Virgo, virgo/scorpio dominant, I'm pretty calm for the most part, with a nice tough of happy Gemini energy. :-)
I am concerned that a 42yr old sent so many texts so fast, that's weird. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
been dealing for a year now but it got serious in October of last year. That was the first time he has ever done that.
Posted by WateryGem
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
I agree with you, I don't know why most act like they are the same personality all the time. My mars is in Virgo, virgo/scorpio dominant, I'm pretty calm for the most part, with a nice tough of happy Gemini energy. :-)
I am concerned that a 42yr old sent so many texts so fast, that's weird. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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Posted by Brickhouse27
My Mars is Aquarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
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Agh the post cut off... we’re you saying your moon is aqua and his is Taurus? It’s important to find out his Venus sign, that holds the key to his love, and what he looks for in a mate 😉 and your Mars shows what you look for in the ideal partner.
they're always there ALWAYS for a sign said to want their space they definitely take up a lot of yours if they're into you
source: my gem smothers me but I love that about him
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
My Mars is Aquarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
Agh the post cut off... we’re you saying your moon is aqua and his is Taurus? It’s important to find out his Venus sign, that holds the key to his love, and what he looks for in a mate 😉 and your Mars shows what you look for in the ideal partner.
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What’s the site that used a lot to find the Venus and Mars?
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
My Mars is Aquarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
Agh the post cut off... we’re you saying your moon is aqua and his is Taurus? It’s important to find out his Venus sign, that holds the key to his love, and what he looks for in a mate 😉 and your Mars shows what you look for in the ideal partner.
What’s the site that used a lot to find the Venus and Mars?
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Try Alabe.com
Posted by WateryGem
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
I agree with you, I don't know why most act like they are the same personality all the time. My mars is in Virgo, virgo/scorpio dominant, I'm pretty calm for the most part, with a nice tough of happy Gemini energy. :-)
I am concerned that a 42yr old sent so many texts so fast, that's weird. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
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Yup, in fact, I would think someone moody would appreciate a dual personality or at least understand it 💁🏻♀️😆
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
My Mars is Aquarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
Agh the post cut off... we’re you saying your moon is aqua and his is Taurus? It’s important to find out his Venus sign, that holds the key to his love, and what he looks for in a mate 😉 and your Mars shows what you look for in the ideal partner.
What’s the site that used a lot to find the Venus and Mars?
Try Alabe.com
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This one charges.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by WateryGem
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
I agree with you, I don't know why most act like they are the same personality all the time. My mars is in Virgo, virgo/scorpio dominant, I'm pretty calm for the most part, with a nice tough of happy Gemini energy. :-)
I am concerned that a 42yr old sent so many texts so fast, that's weird. 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Yup, in fact, I would think someone moody would appreciate a dual personality or at least understand it 💁🏻♀️😆
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LOL your right I’m saying I’ve never experienced this until now with him so it’s like geesh, am I’m like this?
Posted by Phantom_Dangus
So, I can tell what it's really like for me, but it's embarrassing, and I don't know which placements cause it. Once I feel "allowed" to admit I'm falling for someone, I get so knocked out by the hormones involved in the "falling in love" stage I start acting like a stereotypical lovesick fool, thinking everything about that person is great. They can do no wrong. I hang on their every word. I am always excited to hear from them and panic if too much time passes. I can't sleep or eat properly and begin to lose weight. I do everything in my power to keep them from knowing how bad it is, so I've never been sure how much it shows. Eventually, if things progress between us, and he makes me feel loved back, that feeling eases into a deeper love. I know I've reached it when I feel a mixture of irritation and "d'aw" when he does one of his annoying habits, instead of not even noticing he can be annoying, and I relax and feel secure enough not to get jealous easily. I've only made it that far three times. Things would usually blow up in the middle of the infatuation stage. I've been married for a very long time now, so we've been through many other stages.
Aww this is so cute. This looks similar to what I’m noticing and it’s getting worse. How long you been married?
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
My Mars is Aquarius and how is Taurus. I’m not certain on the Venus signs for us.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.
Posted by Moonbutter
Posted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.
Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?
Agh the post cut off... we’re you saying your moon is aqua and his is Taurus? It’s important to find out his Venus sign, that holds the key to his love, and what he looks for in a mate 😉 and your Mars shows what you look for in the ideal partner.
What’s the site that used a lot to find the Venus and Mars?
Try Alabe.com
This one charges.
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