@saggurl88
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A gemini guy making confused.
Posted by emeraldgemFirst things first. Is he married or not?
No he is not
Am sure
But he said he is.
Posted by saggurl88Why are you so curious if he's told you he was married? That could explain his coldness if he doesn't want to be bothered with you.
I left him in peace.
But he insisted to not cut contact and asked to see me in egypte
Posted by Norah_1986Posted by saggurl88Why are you so curious if he's told you he was married? That could explain his coldness if he doesn't want to be bothered with you.
I left him in peace.
But he insisted to not cut contact and asked to see me in egypte
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Well, I think you will know what he wants if you see him there. He clearly is hiding his social status so he is free to do what he wants. He did tell you he was married, from his own mouth. So you have to decide for yourself if you are fine with what he's asking.
He is married, and you know that.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Norah_1986Posted by saggurl88Why are you so curious if he's told you he was married? That could explain his coldness if he doesn't want to be bothered with you.
I left him in peace.
But he insisted to not cut contact and asked to see me in egypte
Well, I think you will know what he wants if you see him there. He clearly is hiding his social status so he is free to do what he wants. He did tell you he was married, from his own mouth. So you have to decide for yourself if you are fine with what he's asking.
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No in all his recent interviews he said he is single
Even when i checked his facebook
And all his status he talk about how he feels lonly ..
All his friends are joking asking him to get married.
When we talk
Over the phone he is always alone.
Where's this wife?
No idea...
Posted by emeraldgemLet's just say he is not married. It is weird dating famous people. I dated a comedian who shall remain nameless - and it was just not a normal life. You take a back seat to their career and they have people hanging over them all the time.
Ask him his wife's name. Ask him how long he's been married. Ask him how many children he has. Ask him why if he's married does he have an interest in YOU.
I asked all these questions already
And he said he has been married since 5 years with no kids.
Asked him if his wife work same job like him
First he said she's jobless
Than when i asked him again
He said she is a dentiste
.. his interviews
His social media
Shows that he is single
Even when we speak in the phone
I feel peace around him
That he lives alone.
And in one of his fb status ..
He wrote how single life is awful
And he feels lonly.
So his friends told him its time
To get married.
He reply to them.. no thx
Posted by emeraldgemYes - but did you ask the FINAL question? Why is a married man wanting to see you?
Well i did when i cut contact
And he said he likes my energy
And like me as a person .. he wants to know me more.
And he begged for me
Not to cut contact because he needs me.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPerhaps he told you he is married so you won’t try to make a fling into a relationship. Maybe he is really married and keeps it a secret for his image.
But we speak alot and he is always always alone at home.
Which woman will accept this?
And which woman to accept to be a secret
Really strange.
Posted by Norah_1986Posted by saggurl88Posted by Norah_1986Posted by saggurl88Why are you so curious if he's told you he was married? That could explain his coldness if he doesn't want to be bothered with you.
I left him in peace.
But he insisted to not cut contact and asked to see me in egypte
Well, I think you will know what he wants if you see him there. He clearly is hiding his social status so he is free to do what he wants. He did tell you he was married, from his own mouth. So you have to decide for yourself if you are fine with what he's asking.
No in all his recent interviews he said he is single
Even when i checked his facebook
And all his status he talk about how he feels lonly ..
All his friends are joking asking him to get married.
When we talk
Over the phone he is always alone.
Where's this wife?
No idea...
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So then what is the issue? You already know that you want to meet up with him, and like his efforts. Do you really really care what's coming out of his mouth?
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by emeraldgemThis is too weird for me already. If he's married get the hell out of there.
But he begged! You have to do it if they beg!
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I really like him
He called and texted from his private number
So i also wanted to keep in touch.
Posted by Phantom_DangusPosted by Norah_1986Posted by Phantom_DangusPerhaps he told you he is married so you won’t try to make a fling into a relationship. Maybe he is really married and keeps it a secret for his image.
But we speak alot and he is always always alone at home.
Which woman will accept this?
And which woman to accept to be a secret
Really strange.
You seem to be entertaining the idea. This is too messy.
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Those business trips get lonely
Omg, a Gemini man is 🤯 and then you had lots of 💰 😆 Some Gemini love to live double lives, secrets and they are Master manipulators remember that. He said he’s married, he probably is and his wife doesn’t live with him. This explains why he told you( so you can’t blame him when he doesn’t want a relationship) he probably keeps that part private, maybe it was arranged 🤷🏻♀️ Point is, no man would say that with good intentions of a future with someone.
Hes not going to stop calling because this whatever is Interesting and it can lead to sex.
Hes going to get everything he wants from this whatever with you...
The question is, will you get everything you want?
Posted by Norah_1986Posted by emeraldgemFirst things first. Is he married or not?
No he is not
Am sure
But he said he is.
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There can be 2 possible reasons why he told he is married -
1. He is really married
2. He has lied to you, so that when things take a serious turn between you two, he can say he's married and that he can't give you exclusivity atm and can easily run away.
Either way you don't want to deal with a guy who does any of the above. So imo stay away from him and say that you can't be involved with a married person.
Posted by Norah_1986Posted by emeraldgemFirst things first. Is he married or not?
No he is not
Am sure
But he said he is.
click to expand
There can be 2 possible reasons why he told he is married -
1. He is really married
2. He has lied to you, so that when things take a serious turn between you two, he can say he's married and that he can't give you exclusivity atm and can easily run away.
Either way you don't want to deal with a guy who does any of the above. So imo stay away from him and say that you can't be involved with a married person.
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Why are you so curious if he's told you he was married? That could explain his coldness if he doesn't want to be bothered with you.