
candi3bb
@candi3bb
15 Years500+ PostsAquarius
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Posted by candi3bb
so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?
ugh. my heart ...runs*

Posted by Gemini78Posted by candi3bb
so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?
ugh. my heart ...runs*
This is hard 2 tell because U guys have an on and off relationship But U will know for sure where he stands if U go with him 2 meet his family...We he does introduce U 2 his folks he will either say 2 things right? This is my Lady or This is
my Friend...I say just go with the flow Then U will know how 2 handle it from there.
🙂click to expand

Posted by nats
Candi im a bit the same as misslissa. My friends are closer to me than my family. If your talking about instant family like brother, sister mum, dad then if I introduce you (and they live somewhere else), and im asking you to come on a trip with me to meet them etc then means Im serious about you and I want the rest of my family to be aware of this and to meet you.
I dont bring anyone home unless I think I will be with them for a while and unless i am taking them seriously.... In saying that, lets just say, my family has only met ONE person.
I dont think its moving too fast because havent you guys been together for at least like 3-4 months already?

Posted by Gemini78Posted by candi3bb
so my off again on again gemini bf has asked me to accompany him to trip to chicago and then michigan to visit his family. they're having this birthday bash for his dad at some lack house. At first i felt thrilled. then i felt this huge anxious "RUN detach" feeling. Im not comfortable meeting his family..but then again..im not? what is moving too fast for you guys— is this a big step for a gemini? or just a very typical one?
ugh. my heart ...runs*
This is hard 2 tell because U guys have an on and off relationship But U will know for sure where he stands if U go with him 2 meet his family...We he does introduce U 2 his folks he will either say 2 things right? This is my Lady or This is
my Friend...I say just go with the flow Then U will know how 2 handle it from there.
🙂click to expand

Posted by candi3bbPosted by Gemini78Posted by candi3bb
oh your right...okay its pretty obvious based on the "obvious" observations..he already mentioned me to his parents couple months back..so they know im his girlfriend...lol sorry i i should've been more clear.....
i guess it just feels...like with a gem u just never know. hence me always questioning lol (annoyed? yeah i would be too if i wasn't a lovely aqua)click to expand
hA hA oh ok im glad U cleared that up for me 🙂 He's already mentioned U 2 his parent's
that's really GooD...i think U should B ok i know some Gem's can B confusing
sometime's but believe me when a male Gem finds the right woman he will B
loyal it just takes a strong woman that's all. stay positive!!!


Posted by candi3bb
and what are your thoughts on someone seeking another in a relationship— but stops themselves when they realize what they are doing?
Well the person should not B seeking another relationship if he/she is
already in one...he/she stops themselves because they should not
have been doing it in the first place!
🙂
Posted by candi3bb
would it bother you that a lover of yours proclaims romantic words and actions but feels another?click to expand
Actually that would bother me because those words their proclaiming are not true
That's playing games U know what i mean...But everyone's different so it
may not bother most people!
🙂



Posted by candi3bb
hmm i guess i should start playing games with my bf. he states that he is so in love with me and only wants me. but couple months ago like janurary- contacts exs out of curiosity clicking on dating links just cause.
Posted by candi3bb
then its like only now he is taking me serious. is this a common trait amongst geminis? asking one to be exclusive but still look around?click to expand


Posted by candi3bb
but when i suggest so he detests that idea...im really open to things and i don't mind being in that type as long as i don't have to you know...fake a smile...look dumb and act sweet when im really anxious inside...yet i love him. hahaa
i've been conditioned to think he says things to feel them...not necessarily feels them then says it..


Posted by candi3bb
i like that "do what you have 2 do and what you feel"
dance dance dance




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ugh. my heart ...runs*