Dating a gemini man
Dating a gemini man
I'm aries .I have been dating a gemini man for 6 months off and on he always makes dates but never shows.But he wants to talk on the phone with me all day everyday.
Why are you calling it dating, if he never shows for dates?
And what do you mean by he "never shows": Did he stand you up? Did he cancel it the last moment?
And what do you mean by he "never shows": Did he stand you up? Did he cancel it the last moment?
My Gem bf never takes the initiative when we are making plans. He always asks me: "What do you want to do? Where would you like to go? What would you like to eat? What time? etc And he's Aries Moon and Mars! I even had to choose his meal from the menu.
He does organise his numerous hobbies without involving me, though.
He does organise his numerous hobbies without involving me, though.
He just didn't show up
That's rude.
He comes over and we went out a few times .Then when I tell him how I feel about him he stops calling
But he says he loves me
hang in there
it can work out very well in time!!!
Boy ! I hope I don't have to deal with this kinda ish!!
I'm dating a gemini guy too .. We just started may 1st ! Get use to a lot of the disappearing ! Mines is soo confusing one min he's like I can't wait to see you the next he's like fuck off lol have the whole bipolar thing going on .. I dealt with a Scorpio guy who was hot & cold to me for 7 months so it doesn't bother me that he disappears anymore .. I've learned not to take it personal ! My gemini man has been sucking at communication lately though . B/C his attention span sucks ! & he's been with his family visiting !
Posted by renee148
He comes over and we went out a few times .Then when I tell him how I feel about him he stops calling
I think you were a little too fast telling him your feelings. Slow down. You barely know him. You haven't figured out all his quirks yet.
If him coming over meant you guys were just having sex and only went out a few times, you were giving it up too fast and he might be moving on to conquer another. Geminis get bored easy. They kind of like a challenge.
There is a history here. I think he's using you. Sorry, but you deserve better. Move on and find someone else who will treat you properly.
My exhusband stood me up one time when we were first dating. I was cool about it, but got my point across. I told him I wasn't about to sit and wait around for him. I waited 30 minutes then went out to the club and met up with some people. He never did it again.
If a man thinks you're just going to be a doormat and sit around and wait for them, then they feel like you won't care and they'll do it again and again and again. Must draw boundaries from the very first incident.
Posted by renee148
I'm aries .I have been dating a gemini man for 6 months off and on he always makes dates but never shows.But he wants to talk on the phone with me all day everyday.
My exhusband stood me up one time when we were first dating. I was cool about it, but got my point across. I told him I wasn't about to sit and wait around for him. I waited 30 minutes then went out to the club and met up with some people. He never did it again.
If a man thinks you're just going to be a doormat and sit around and wait for them, then they feel like you won't care and they'll do it again and again and again. Must draw boundaries from the very first incident.
Posted by truecap
There is a history here. I think he's using you. Sorry, but you deserve better. Move on and find someone else who will treat you properly.
Posted by renee148
I'm aries .I have been dating a gemini man for 6 months off and on he always makes dates but never shows.But he wants to talk on the phone with me all day everyday.
My exhusband stood me up one time when we were first dating. I was cool about it, but got my point across. I told him I wasn't about to sit and wait around for him. I waited 30 minutes then went out to the club and met up with some people. He never did it again.
If a man thinks you're just going to be a doormat and sit around and wait for them, then they feel like you won't care and they'll do it again and again and again. Must draw boundaries from the very first incident.click to expand
Oh, the ex is a gem.
Posted by Geminithefox
hang in there
blast from the past
i used see you on the Aries board alot.
hey!
Im an Aries OP and I stay far very far away from Gems. And Any guy who stands me up even once wont be able to get another chance to do it. Been there done that. Sounds like he's keeping you on a string.
I'm a Aries
Hey
So you think it will work out. Well he has gotten a Lil better in spending time .I have to stop answering the phone for 20 days and let him chase me
One thing you need to realize with Air signs is that just because we COMMUNICATE (air) our feelings and wishes doesn't mean we actually FEEL (all other signs??) them! So he might have had every intention of wanting to meet you but ultimately he just didn't feel like it.
...is blank? 😛
Obviously he's invisible!
renee148
GeminiVixxen is right, you have to leave it alone.
Saying that he said he loves you, is just kidding yourself. No one who loves you would disrespect you in that way. A guy I know I feel didn't respect me enough to return a message I sent him, two weeks later and he's blowing up my phone because I've moved on, I don't have the time or patience to train someone, either you are going to be a good fit and we 'get' each other or your not. Keep it simple. Actions speak louder than words (It's always said but never sinks in, believe it).
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