Any gems out there...

I would like to know what would make a gemini male female marry someone they didnt 'like' or 'love'?
Are gems capable of ever feeling 'love'?

Why would a gem lie to s.o. about wanting to get married when they have no intention of being married at all, best for them to be single instead of 'married', or to never ever go down that path at all?

Was it for the money? Was it coz it was a type of proving himself to 'get the girl' attitude I dont like at all? Was it coz the crowd he was in with told him to? and if he didnt they would have him killed? What reason was it for?

Ok the feeling of mutual friendship was there but then it stopped as soon as we got more 'intimate' or married and all that crap, now I want to know why someone would do this?

I dont understand how anyone regardless of their starsign would be so ungrateful and idiotic as to hurt anothers heart that tells me that they are heartless themselves and maybe would benefit from sorting himself out thoroughly before ever getting involved with another.

At least if it were all lies from your end it wasnt from mine. I was honest you werent and thats something you can never take aways from me.

Based on my experience with Geminis:
Yes, I think geminis are capable of love, like anyone else.
I do think they change their minds a lot, and I do think they can literally love someone one day and not the next.
I don't think it's intentional at all, or that they mean to hurt anyone, but I don't think they really think about the other person's feelings that much. It's more or less all about them.
It is very difficult to keep a Gemini. You always have to be on your toes. You have to give them the stimulation they need, you have to change with them, or they get bored and will certainly move on sooner or later.

We can love and we can love hard. Like Capgirl69 said, you have to changewith us. You have to be able to keep us interested. If he was into you and changed, there was something tgat happened that made him question his feelings. We also have to remember that the sun sign only gives a piece of information. What is in the rest of his chart? Venus, mars moon, rising..etc

I can't imagine this as a one way street. Normally, when a relationship fails, it's not just one persons fault.

With having said that, I've only witnessed one gemini in my whole entire life behaved as you described. He's also a DIAGNOSED sociopath. Other than that, all others (including me) display genuine love towards their s/o's.

Just my experience...

mfwb55, what sign are you, btw...?

Posted by scribble
I don't think Geminis change their mind about love one day to the next.

No they don't. Emotions change, not feelings. People mix up the 2 a lot. My EMOTIONS change everyday, sometimes within the next minute (not a Gemini, a virgo) but my feelings remain the same.

Posted by misslissa
I can't imagine this as a one way street. Normally, when a relationship fails, it's not just one persons fault.

With having said that, I've only witnessed one gemini in my whole entire life behaved as you described. He's also a DIAGNOSED sociopath. Other than that, all others (including me) display genuine love towards their s/o's.

Just my experience...

Facts...

Gemini's don't mean to hurt anyone, they just get bored. They don't want your drama or over emotional actions. If the sex is not being varied and you are not 50/50 with initiating sex and in different exciting places, the gemini is bored with sex with also. everthing has to exciting and fun to keep us with you. intiate sex in the car or in a park, movie theatre, etc. there is nothing worse than settling down with somebody and they just want sex in the bed and everthng is always the same day in day out.

I have to chime in here...we are all people here with emotions knowledge feelings and are all technically capable of doing the same things and even feeling the same things. I do not like this thread.

You gotta let that person go because they obviously rushed into a commitment before they were ready. This is another situation that could happen to anyone. I'm sorry that it happened to you though 😢 just remember to look out for yourself and follow your intuition. You must look put for your own happiness until you find the one your ready to share it with. And that's just life. It is not a fairytale...

Posted by JennGem
I feel love and on a deep level, I will give my heart to someone that is able to see through the walls. Someone I can connect with on a very deep level, with trust, to know they won't ever use it to hurt me. What happens with a lot of Gems I think in the beginning they go fast or paint a picture of what the person is like and when the picture doesn't match what they feel and see they aren't into the person anymore. Surface relationship vs deeper emotional relationship!!

I am a hopeless romantic and I want pure love that is going to fight through the hard times to grow closer to you as we do. I used to back in the day talk to people that I knew deep down, I never saw a future with but I just wanted to have fun. Now this is ancient years ago b/c I don't do that now. I don't date b/c I won't waste anyones time if I don't see a future with someone.

+1 🙂

Posted by JennGem
I feel love and on a deep level, I will give my heart to someone that is able to see through the walls. Someone I can connect with on a very deep level, with trust, to know they won't ever use it to hurt me. What happens with a lot of Gems I think in the beginning they go fast or paint a picture of what the person is like and when the picture doesn't match what they feel and see they aren't into the person anymore. Surface relationship vs deeper emotional relationship!!

I am a hopeless romantic and I want pure love that is going to fight through the hard times to grow closer to you as we do. I used to back in the day talk to people that I knew deep down, I never saw a future with but I just wanted to have fun. Now this is ancient years ago b/c I don't do that now. I don't date b/c I won't waste anyones time if I don't see a future with someone.

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id marry someone that i was very good friends with... but not passionate or 'lovey' with.. but i guess that means i'd like them still because im simply friends with them

we just sometimes get a bit caught up in ourselves to the point where we wish we were normal..and then we do the normal thing..but then we end up not happy..and still end up running away..