need some insight

Hi im a pisces and been involved with a gemini man lately, were not officially in a relationship but we already went out on a date and we seem to be really attracted to each other.. he says he is interested in me and even ask what im looking for a guy so i said i dont need the looks all i want is a sincere and not a player man.. if he doesnt txt me i dont txt him i just go with the flow, and also i dont want him to think i am soo into him he might pull away.. i dont get this combo really its my first time to be dating a gem guy so i have no idea hows it if they work out or what.. all i know is sometimes he is fickle.. im not sure if were compatible too this is our placement pls share some negative/positive insights,.. thanks in advance.. i appreciate it..

Him:
Sun gemini
Moon cancer
Rising virgo
Mars pisces
Mercury taurus
Venus aries

Mine
Sun pisces
Moon pisces
Rising cancer
Mars taurus
Mercury aries
Venus aries

prepare yourself to argue over anything and everything.
geminis will argue for enjoyment and maybe with both your venus in aries you will too.
but geminis will take it too far for the pisces and itll just make you frustrated and insecure in the relationship.
his mars is pisces so that would explain the attraction he has for your kind.. but maybe youre attracted to guys who are assholes?
his cancer moon could be a big indicator he is not acting as the ridiculous gemini he would usually be. sooo id take it slow and dont get too involved until youre sure you like the real him cuz his chart makes me mad.

lol. im talking out of my ass though
dont base it off of charts.
im living with a pisces and it all turned out well. gl

It looks like you have some good astro-compatibility here tho the challenge with 2 mutables is getting you 2 to agree and/or commit to anything LOL. Seriously, it sounds like this combo could work tho it really does depend on the couple and their circumstances. If he treats you right and makes you happy, that's the best indication you could get of the possibility this could go the distance. Good luck and keep the lines of communication open between you two. That's key with a gemi.

PS: My ex was a gem sun cancer moon. Cancer moon can make you REALLY moody. More moody than Cancer suns I believe. But it will give your gemi an emo depth you'd find essential. Just saying...

Posted by prettypiscean
Hi im a pisces and been involved with a gemini man lately, were not officially in a relationship but we already went out on a date and we seem to be really attracted to each other.. he says he is interested in me and even ask what im looking for a guy so i said i dont need the looks all i want is a sincere and not a player man.. if he doesnt txt me i dont txt him i just go with the flow, and also i dont want him to think i am soo into him he might pull away.. i dont get this combo really its my first time to be dating a gem guy so i have no idea hows it if they work out or what.. all i know is sometimes he is fickle.. im not sure if were compatible too this is our placement pls share some negative/positive insights,.. thanks in advance.. i appreciate it..

Him:
Sun gemini
Moon cancer
Rising virgo
Mars pisces
Mercury taurus
Venus aries

Mine
Sun pisces
Moon pisces
Rising cancer
Mars taurus
Mercury aries
Venus aries

Anything is possible if both are willing to do the work and compromise... Seeing it's only been one date, play it by ear. Get to know each other and just lay it all out on the table in the meantime.

I'm a gem sun, cancer moon and I like to know where I stand with the other person, via actions (not words).

You'll never know what might happen unless you try. And, trying is half the battle. 🙂

Yes anything is possible but that natal chart dont seem too promising. He has the same venus and mars as me. the aries in your chart better be strong else you are thus going to be too emotional for him or not stimulating enough. But he will also drive you up the wall with his indecisiveness with love. And if yall are "talking" or w.e hes talking to plenty other unless your super interesting. What makes it even more incompatible is the fact hes a gem. They dont do well with water signs because they dont really operate on an emotion level which is worse then it sounds. Im an aries who is also not so emotional but it drives me crazy how detattched by nature they are. since hes a gem pay attention to his words for he is always trying to hint you something on a direct level even if hes going to change his mind later. He will remember what he;s said and use it against you. all is sweet until your pinned in a relationship and you start to notice ones lilith more and more.

Posted by Geminems
prepare yourself to argue over anything and everything.
geminis will argue for enjoyment and maybe with both your venus in aries you will too.
but geminis will take it too far for the pisces and itll just make you frustrated and insecure in the relationship.
his mars is pisces so that would explain the attraction he has for your kind.. but maybe youre attracted to guys who are assholes?
his cancer moon could be a big indicator he is not acting as the ridiculous gemini he would usually be. sooo id take it slow and dont get too involved until youre sure you like the real him cuz his chart makes me mad.

lol. im talking out of my ass though
dont base it off of charts.
im living with a pisces and it all turned out well. gl

I wish someone warned i for are arguments are the worse. You know what really grinds my gears is when hes willing to have a full out private argument infront of anyone like his friends.

oh i stopped that really quick. im not sure what it is about being a pisces( i blame the venus in aries) but the whole.. downtalking you//arguing with you publicly is awful

"no one was around though."
"we are in a friggen grocery store, its embarrassing -__-"
good to know im not the only one

no no fighting in public is not a pisces thing! i would never do that and hateloathedespise if anyone tries to do that with me. i have lots of air in my though so.. who knows.

To everyone who's stated their insights on my thread, thank u soooo much, appreciate it.. the problem i have is communicating with him coz i get really really shy to txt him first i mean if he doesnt text me i wont (he txt me everyday though), if he doesnt ask me out i wont coz i feel like if i do he might think im soo excited abt him and he might pull away and get bored. So far we have not argued abt anything which is good.. i wanted to initiate a convo but im not really sure how to do it with him i mean i know im good at words not to sound too conceited but he was charmed by me when we started talking and few days after he ask me out.. and now idk wtf is wrong with me coz i cant seem to get myself to talk lol maybe bec im sooo attracted to him i know he is too --- but--- i get freaking worried that i am starting to invest feelings and that scares the hell of me, so what i do is im trying to avoid it bec i know once ive invested im hell screwed while im not sure if he can recipcrocate that.. i know like u said communicating is key the key to geminis but everytime we talk a piece of me goes to him i like Him a LOT but im scared that once im hooked damn thats it.. does geminis takes long before they realized they want u? I know i sound insane im sorry lol

You don't sound insane....

For me, I have water in my chart. Sooo.... I wouldn't mind if you threw out the idea of a date/getting to know me better. I also know what I want right away, but still play it causiously. Let things flow the way they're going to flow...

And, don't be afraid to communicate with him. "Most" gems I know, including myself, are very open-minded and you will find that he will be easy to talk to. Not to metion we also can touch on ANY and every subject happily. 🙂

Thanks to everyone here at the gemini forum @misslissa; @geminems; @belugablues; @chachacha.. i just realized how welcoming and accomodating u all are.. u guys are awesome!! Thanks..