Gemini Manipulation

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Chachacha on Thursday, November 21, 2013 and has 10 replies.

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@Chachacha
14 Years

why yall lie when you mad? Excuse my ghetto, what i meant was why do you say untrue things when mad. I notice that my gemini will say things like i dont like you i hate you, just try to twist stuff when at the end of the day im still your girl, and just like you wake up with me you go to bed with me. i dont understand why they feel the need to make you feel confused mad and uncomfortable. like its not a relationship.

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

I did this when I was much younger. It was a win-at-all-costs thing, and I would definitely say things I didn't mean just for the effect. Is he young?

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

My exhusband was like this and he would do everything he could to win. He had this strong need to come out ahead - over EVERYONE. Not one apology from him ever for anything. I think it gives him a power trip to see people make peace with him, other than the other way around.

An very, very unattractive trait.

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@GemStar05
14 Years1,000+ Posts

smh@ this...ALL GEMS lie, ALL Cancers are whiners, ALL Virgo men are weak, ALL Aries women go after married men, ALL Taurus people love to eat, etc...give me a break at this generalizing!

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@Chachacha
14 Years

umm i come off as american because my music is not of a canadians and i was making a joke with the ghetto thing. i have satellite but no interest in BET vixen you burn the urbs

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@AbstractRay
13 YearsGemini

I once got into a fight with my current and believe me he was being a whiny baby jerk face so I left and told him I don't wanna date him anymore....I did mean it bc we were constantly getting into fights ...manipuation is a no.no.

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Chachacha
and no hes 22 which might be young in your eyes but maturity does not come with age

Well, ok, granted "young" is a relative term, so I'll just say that my early 20s is the age when I was doing what he's doing, and then I learned to be different in later years. So, what I'm saying is there is hope that he'll mature. Geminis are capable of making large changes due to our mutability.