Posted by BlueMarshmallowPosted by Gemalit
Do you ever find that you attract men who are in a relationship? I find it very annoying and rather upsetting at times because for me loyalty is everything and yet i only attract the cheaters 😭. I was told its because I'm "different" and quirky, (same thing really) but its becoming very annoying.
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Posted by nanobot
I attract men who are attached, if I am attached or single. I have had at least 3 men off the top of my head, who have been in serious LTR and message me regularly when things go south in their relationship. I find the whole thing very odd, because these are men who I haven't had any sort of intimacy (emotionally or physically) with, so it makes me wonder if they think I am the type of woman who would fuck around with them while they are involved with their girlfriends or if they have an attraction to me throughout their relationship and don't act on it until they have a "break" or something.
One man was a libra, I had mutual friends with from school so I thought he kind of added me as a networking thing. It turns out that he was in a relationship with a taurus woman for so many years and he wasn't happy with her weight gain and he said that she didn't have much of her own identity - thoughts, values, and opinions of her own, and just attached to him and whatever he thought. He messaged me when he was "on a break" and drunk, telling me I was beautiful and he always admired me but he could never talk to me since he was in a relationship and he would love to meet. I was single at the time but it didn't feel right, so I declined. He finally broke up with her and still messages me from time to time.
A capricorn man who tells that we would have been great together and he wishes that we would have dated, while he was with someone. He said that I didn't take him serious. We were both single at the time when we met and I sensed a weird vibe with him that didn't feel trustworthy. He still messages me these things and he has a girlfriend now.
A pisces man who I was closer to at one point. We were both single. He got with a taurus woman and just had a baby with her. He invited me to his birthday years ago, got plastered, and told his girlfriend to leave and that he wanted to be alone to catch up with me! I didn't even remotely imply that I wanted that. I never heard from him for years after that night. She banned me lmao. Now since they broke up, he claims they will get back together for the sake of their child but he is messaging and calling me nonstop, texting me with job offers, that he needs me in his life, and I am forever the one that got away, knowing I am in a relationship.
I really wish I understood this behavior of these men and what about me, makes them say and do these stupid ass things while they are in relationships. I don't want to be a person who comes off like the woman to go to when your relationship sucks, so I have been conscious and reflecting about it. To me, this is inappropriate behavior of a person who's in a relationship. So even if I was single and they were too, they aren't loyal! Look what they do in their relationships. So crazy smh
Posted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
Posted by nanobotPosted by GemalitPosted by nanobot
I attract men who are attached, if I am attached or single. I have had at least 3 men off the top of my head, who have been in serious LTR and message me regularly when things go south in their relationship. I find the whole thing very odd, because these are men who I haven't had any sort of intimacy (emotionally or physically) with, so it makes me wonder if they think I am the type of woman who would fuck around with them while they are involved with their girlfriends or if they have an attraction to me throughout their relationship and don't act on it until they have a "break" or something.
One man was a libra, I had mutual friends with from school so I thought he kind of added me as a networking thing. It turns out that he was in a relationship with a taurus woman for so many years and he wasn't happy with her weight gain and he said that she didn't have much of her own identity - thoughts, values, and opinions of her own, and just attached to him and whatever he thought. He messaged me when he was "on a break" and drunk, telling me I was beautiful and he always admired me but he could never talk to me since he was in a relationship and he would love to meet. I was single at the time but it didn't feel right, so I declined. He finally broke up with her and still messages me from time to time.
A capricorn man who tells that we would have been great together and he wishes that we would have dated, while he was with someone. He said that I didn't take him serious. We were both single at the time when we met and I sensed a weird vibe with him that didn't feel trustworthy. He still messages me these things and he has a girlfriend now.
A pisces man who I was closer to at one point. We were both single. He got with a taurus woman and just had a baby with her. He invited me to his birthday years ago, got plastered, and told his girlfriend to leave and that he wanted to be alone to catch up with me! I didn't even remotely imply that I wanted that. I never heard from him for years after that night. She banned me lmao. Now since they broke up, he claims they will get back together for the sake of their child but he is messaging and calling me nonstop, texting me with job offers, that he needs me in his life, and I am forever the one that got away, knowing I am in a relationship.
I really wish I understood this behavior of these men and what about me, makes them say and do these stupid ass things while they are in relationships. I don't want to be a person who comes off like the woman to go to when your relationship sucks, so I have been conscious and reflecting about it. To me, this is inappropriate behavior of a person who's in a relationship. So even if I was single and they were too, they aren't loyal! Look what they do in their relationships. So crazy smh
I can relate! Its made me worry non stop, "do i just give of home wrecker vibes?" "A hump and dump?". Because men in relationships seem to love me but single men dont. And i think ive kind of figured it out (or part of it).
I feel safe when a guys in a relationship, I can be my self without worrying about coming across as I'm coming on to them (have alteria motives) But most of all they have partners so therefore i should only be viewed as a potential friend. So I'm care free and just natural around them. However thats began to change lately as I'm beginning to realise that logic is flawed.
So...the first guy it ever happened with I dont know his sign. But the second one was a capricorn. An aries, another Capricorn and an Aquarius (two of them!).
Recently it was a Capricorn (old acquaintance). I told him I wasnt interested as he had a girlfriend. His reply was they had separate lives. Then an Aquarius, he wad a very close call, found out weeks after talking with him he had a girlfriend. I pulled back fast, I felt very betrayed by that one.
And recently (the last 5 days) a friend (Aquarius) has also said the same as the Capricorn, I really cannot catch a break!
So i really sympathise with you, This shit stinks.
Right! Since we have never been involved with these type of men, I don't think its fair to think that you would give off homewrecker vibes. I've been in LTR myself, most of my late teens and 20s myself so I'm not a casually romantic or sexual person. I've had 1 FWB for a year. I think its just men bored in their relationships and trying to test out the waters and stray. I mean, we don't know who else these guys are talking to but probably not just us. They might be up front if we asked the next time it happens.click to expand
Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.click to expand
Posted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chartclick to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lolclick to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lolclick to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemalitPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
I think thats a reason to 😂. But damn mid life crises girl... 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes. Hahaha oh god. Being with a man in his mid-life crisis is a wild experience. Not for the faint hearted for sure 😂click to expand
Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chart
Hmmm, I think karma will catch up to her some day, or maybe it has and she was just goof at hiding it? I always feel like people know when I'm feeling a certain way or if I'm struggling but they really dont. I'm seen as very emotionally stable and ive got my shite together (i do NOT) 😂. So i feel like she may have had her dish served to her, whether she learned from it or not id another matter.click to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
Important thing is we KNOW we fucked up!
And we don’t fight it...
Like...ok...I am fucked up but I have more actions in a day than you have in a...lifetime...so GTFO!
Makes them MAD as hell!
And they shit all over us like we give a fuck! They just don’t understand we do what we do whenever we want to do it!
I know! We are too complicated!
Let them figure us out.
Helloooo bozos! Smart enough?
Lmao
That is so true. We do what we wanna do, whenever we wanna do it. I think thats something we never outgrow as gems lol the problem is people tend to judge us unfairly when they dont understand us even 1% of the time. Its so easy to blame us and say we are bad people coz we just say FINE. OK. Coz we dont care most of the times lolclick to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemalitPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemalitPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
I think thats a reason to 😂. But damn mid life crises girl... 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes. Hahaha oh god. Being with a man in his mid-life crisis is a wild experience. Not for the faint hearted for sure 😂
Rather you than me 😂😂
Yes!!! Lol oh you would not believe my dating stories. I can make a funny book out of it. Like sex in the city 😂click to expand
Posted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chart
Hmmm, I think karma will catch up to her some day, or maybe it has and she was just goof at hiding it? I always feel like people know when I'm feeling a certain way or if I'm struggling but they really dont. I'm seen as very emotionally stable and ive got my shite together (i do NOT) 😂. So i feel like she may have had her dish served to her, whether she learned from it or not id another matter.
Hahah right, never can tell! I believe in Karma too actually but I mess up from time to time 😄click to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
Important thing is we KNOW we fucked up!
And we don’t fight it...
Like...ok...I am fucked up but I have more actions in a day than you have in a...lifetime...so GTFO!
Makes them MAD as hell!
And they shit all over us like we give a fuck! They just don’t understand we do what we do whenever we want to do it!
I know! We are too complicated!
Let them figure us out.
Helloooo bozos! Smart enough?
Lmao
That is so true. We do what we wanna do, whenever we wanna do it. I think thats something we never outgrow as gems lol the problem is people tend to judge us unfairly when they dont understand us even 1% of the time. Its so easy to blame us and say we are bad people coz we just say FINE. OK. Coz we dont care most of the times lol
Exactly! We don’t care unless we do...
An example: what do you think about that man was shot?
Me: he is dead! He has family to worry about him now! I have my own shit to deal with! Do you think you care more than his family?
Common! If I can’t help it - I don’t dwell on shit like news! He was 15 at 2am on a streets being shot? He was selling drugs! I am sorry but I have stuff to do. Do you want tap water or ginger ale?
Oh dear. Most days I am like that. Not that I dont care about the world but I would rather put more effort on something I can control and can actually make an impact on. I dont like feeling bad for people. Nor do i like getting affected by things or people i do not have a relationship with. I really care abot family and friends tho. And my man.click to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemalitPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemalitPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
I think thats a reason to 😂. But damn mid life crises girl... 😂😂😂😂😂
Yes. Hahaha oh god. Being with a man in his mid-life crisis is a wild experience. Not for the faint hearted for sure 😂
Rather you than me 😂😂
Yes!!! Lol oh you would not believe my dating stories. I can make a funny book out of it. Like sex in the city 😂
Same here except the title.
Mine would be ‘sex in a suburbs’...
People think it doesn’t exist...
Lmao
Hahahaha Sex in the suburbs sounds so “desperate housewives season 1” hahaha mind you, i always imagine geminis to be in a tv series like that 😂click to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898Posted by GemalitPosted by Sag898
This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chart
Hmmm, I think karma will catch up to her some day, or maybe it has and she was just goof at hiding it? I always feel like people know when I'm feeling a certain way or if I'm struggling but they really dont. I'm seen as very emotionally stable and ive got my shite together (i do NOT) 😂. So i feel like she may have had her dish served to her, whether she learned from it or not id another matter.
Hahah right, never can tell! I believe in Karma too actually but I mess up from time to time 😄
Karma my ass!!! It can kiss it! Karma was invented to scare people shitless. And some are scared. However Pope now is under fire!!!
So what ta heck with us lowly souls if Pope screwed up?
Go Trump— Lmaoclick to expand
Posted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenusPosted by GemitatiPosted by ASCoppVenus
I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
Important thing is we KNOW we fucked up!
And we don’t fight it...
Like...ok...I am fucked up but I have more actions in a day than you have in a...lifetime...so GTFO!
Makes them MAD as hell!
And they shit all over us like we give a fuck! They just don’t understand we do what we do whenever we want to do it!
I know! We are too complicated!
Let them figure us out.
Helloooo bozos! Smart enough?
Lmao
That is so true. We do what we wanna do, whenever we wanna do it. I think thats something we never outgrow as gems lol the problem is people tend to judge us unfairly when they dont understand us even 1% of the time. Its so easy to blame us and say we are bad people coz we just say FINE. OK. Coz we dont care most of the times lol
Exactly! We don’t care unless we do...
An example: what do you think about that man was shot?
Me: he is dead! He has family to worry about him now! I have my own shit to deal with! Do you think you care more than his family?
Common! If I can’t help it - I don’t dwell on shit like news! He was 15 at 2am on a streets being shot? He was selling drugs! I am sorry but I have stuff to do. Do you want tap water or ginger ale?
Oh dear. Most days I am like that. Not that I dont care about the world but I would rather put more effort on something I can control and can actually make an impact on. I dont like feeling bad for people. Nor do i like getting affected by things or people i do not have a relationship with. I really care abot family and friends tho. And my man.
Don’t tell me you are just like me don’t care about people you don’t know who had died in drive-by shooting!!!
Those seriously awesome citizens who just drove by...shooting people...
You heartless bitch! Join me in my chamber...we can have a drink and discuss...not that shit! Wink...lol
Hahaha. Heartless bishes. Lol i do care but then it already happened. There isnt much I can do plus the fact that i am not in the US at all. So i have limited feelings about it. At the same time, I wanna make sure my immediate family members and friends remain sane enough not to commit any form of crime whatsoever. Financial and emotional support is available from me for free if they want it. So there’s that. Ok lets go to the chamber and discuss somethingelse 😂click to expand
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This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chart
Hmmm, I think karma will catch up to her some day, or maybe it has and she was just goof at hiding it? I always feel like people know when I'm feeling a certain way or if I'm struggling but they really dont. I'm seen as very emotionally stable and ive got my shite together (i do NOT) 😂. So i feel like she may have had her dish served to her, whether she learned from it or not id another matter.
Hahah right, never can tell! I believe in Karma too actually but I mess up from time to time 😄
Karma my ass!!! It can kiss it! Karma was invented to scare people shitless. And some are scared. However Pope now is under fire!!!
So what ta heck with us lowly souls if Pope screwed up?
Go Trump— Lmao
Do you live in the US? Ha he's got that sag moon!click to expand
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I attract any type of men. Single, taken, divorced, etc. but i prefer single. Remember you always have a choice in this life.
Well...I wish you were right! But!
When I was 18 I’ve met men who was 30 and he was my first huge love! He told me he was married after I was stoned with love...we had never had sex. But I screwed up in disrespectful dept and he left me.
Years later I found out he was divorced. Re-married and still feeling he was wrong for leaving me because he had never loved anyone like me. Idiot!
Then I’ve married my Cap husband who wasn’t divorced yet when we’ve met but he divorced and it’s 24 years now.
Then I’ve met Scorpio who is married and everybody knows I am going with this as I type...
So...probably yes! We have this tendencies to attract unavailable men. Why? Beat me if I know.
Anyone—
I guess its the way we are. Married men want to have an adventure in life, feel young, do things they have never done before. And thats exactly what we are. Gems dont stop living life. We do anything at least once. We dont even gaf what comes after and for men who are unhappily married they prolly see the light in the tunnel when they meet us. Even if it wont last. I dated someone who was separated and I was that for him and he was like 40 and i was in my 20’s. I was prolly his mid life crisis girl lol
Important thing is we KNOW we fucked up!
And we don’t fight it...
Like...ok...I am fucked up but I have more actions in a day than you have in a...lifetime...so GTFO!
Makes them MAD as hell!
And they shit all over us like we give a fuck! They just don’t understand we do what we do whenever we want to do it!
I know! We are too complicated!
Let them figure us out.
Helloooo bozos! Smart enough?
Lmao
That is so true. We do what we wanna do, whenever we wanna do it. I think thats something we never outgrow as gems lol the problem is people tend to judge us unfairly when they dont understand us even 1% of the time. Its so easy to blame us and say we are bad people coz we just say FINE. OK. Coz we dont care most of the times lol
Exactly! We don’t care unless we do...
An example: what do you think about that man was shot?
Me: he is dead! He has family to worry about him now! I have my own shit to deal with! Do you think you care more than his family?
Common! If I can’t help it - I don’t dwell on shit like news! He was 15 at 2am on a streets being shot? He was selling drugs! I am sorry but I have stuff to do. Do you want tap water or ginger ale?
Oh dear. Most days I am like that. Not that I dont care about the world but I would rather put more effort on something I can control and can actually make an impact on. I dont like feeling bad for people. Nor do i like getting affected by things or people i do not have a relationship with. I really care abot family and friends tho. And my man.
Don’t tell me you are just like me don’t care about people you don’t know who had died in drive-by shooting!!!
Those seriously awesome citizens who just drove by...shooting people...
You heartless bitch! Join me in my chamber...we can have a drink and discuss...not that shit! Wink...lol
Hahaha. Heartless bishes. Lol i do care but then it already happened. There isnt much I can do plus the fact that i am not in the US at all. So i have limited feelings about it. At the same time, I wanna make sure my immediate family members and friends remain sane enough not to commit any form of crime whatsoever. Financial and emotional support is available from me for free if they want it. So there’s that. Ok lets go to the chamber and discuss somethingelse 😂
Fuuuuuck! And all this time I thought you are local! Lol
Suresie I am also saying live your life and take care of your family!
What else can you do? Join idiots on the streets walking with posters for whatever cause? No way! They just skipping working!!! I don’t know who feeding them. Probably those who make the posters...lol
So...is it my chamber or yours?
Mind you...I have to be back by 9am every day! I am working with crazies! They don’t take no for an answer...❤️
Hahaha! I’m in Asia. We have a different issue here. China!!! Lol taking ownership of everything 😂 that I care aboit coz I dont wanna be paying rent to a chinese immigrant lol i do get your point about those spending time doing rallies in the streets. Its been done for years and it never gets anywhere. There is always going to be a different approach that will work better than that. Something more efficient. When I was in NYC before Trump was elected there were people with posters walking around federation square rallying against Hilary then in front of Trump tower there some rallying against Trump. And then there was a half naked cowboy. I focused more on the cowboy 😂 it was Winter ffs. Hahahaha. Your chamber because I think its Scorpio-prone quality! I am curious how you kept a Scorp. Mine is easy for you. Its Aqua!!! Lolclick to expand
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This happened to my Gemini friend. Her boss ( he's a dentist ) she's an assistant.
She told me he started hitting on her when patients would leave the room and once walked up to her grabbed her boobs.
I asked if that bothered her cause thats extreme sexual harassment and she was like " nah I kind of like him"
Ok?
Than apparently he came home with her one night after work and they fucked. She told me it wasn't good but than he would text her when he was with his family asking for dirty pictures and if he could buy her lingerie lol
I guess it stopped after that cause she'd see his wife walk into the office with their new born baby and she said it was too weird
She is now happily engaged to some guy now so it obviously didn't ruin her life or anything
I notice Gems have this blasé attitude even when they are standing next to a burning building lol
I just think it's funny as hell
See thats a little extreme, Id have knocked his teeth down his throat and showed his wife ALL of the messages . That guy was scum and she was a little to "carefree". Something that I have always thought and lived my life by is "do to others what youd want done upon yourself" (I basically believe in karma). So to me the other person is just as guilty as the cheating partner. But hes more scum I guess because i think she learned from that.
Right. Yeah remorse isn't a huge thing I see her go through lol but somehow everything works out for her. Maybe she has some lucky sag placements haha I've never checked her full chart
Hmmm, I think karma will catch up to her some day, or maybe it has and she was just goof at hiding it? I always feel like people know when I'm feeling a certain way or if I'm struggling but they really dont. I'm seen as very emotionally stable and ive got my shite together (i do NOT) 😂. So i feel like she may have had her dish served to her, whether she learned from it or not id another matter.
Hahah right, never can tell! I believe in Karma too actually but I mess up from time to time 😄
Karma my ass!!! It can kiss it! Karma was invented to scare people shitless. And some are scared. However Pope now is under fire!!!
So what ta heck with us lowly souls if Pope screwed up?
Go Trump— Lmao
Do you live in the US? Ha he's got that sag moon!
I am in US. And I don’t give a damn about his moon! He is just another puppet in a feds game!
It’s above our understanding!
I rather to know where my Scorp’s dick right now then thinking about politics! Lol
I hope it’s in his pants and nobody near it! Lmaoclick to expand
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