Do Gemini make excuses a lot? If so, why..

This is about Gem #2.

Every time we come close to meet, or do something together like go on a date or when he say he'll come see me next week, there's always a reason why he can't.
I know Gems have a tendency to move around in life, but I know him and his friends and I know he's not finding excuses to do something else. Because he's just home on the weekend doing nothing or Netflix'ing all day.

Like, for examples.
A couple of times we talked about meeting. All things he initiated. Like, hey let's go get tattoos next week together! Or, hey, let's go try those new Taco Bell tacos together!
But then, he ends up going alone or with someone else. I told him a couple of times how it made me feel, and he said he was sorry each time, but keep doing those things!

Last week he said he would come over to help me for a photo project I'm working on today. But yesterday he said his car had problems and that he wouldn't be able to come.
Last night, I told him I found a solution, that a friend could drive me to his city and all he had to do is come and pick me up. But his phone apparently died when I wanted to talk about it and I ended up losing my ride.

Each time he's always sorry! But keeps on doing the same find excuses all the time dance.

Yes we do =/. It doesnt mean that we dont like you but somehow we end up doing these things...I really don't know why.

I guess last minute calls works more than making plans...I have a lot of Gemini friends and I love them and they love me but we always do this to one another...lol..weird. And sometimes I just lay on the couch doing nothing...because I'm comfortable that way...it's really complex.

It really doesnt mean that he doesnt like you but it's a force that torment us and I really fell guilty sometimes 😢

Yes some Gems do that when they don't want to do something they planned to do. But that's not just a Gem trait sheesh; everyone does it! No matter what the sign; I wouldn't accept that kind of bs; a friend doesn't do those kinds of things. I give people chances but the third time's the charm. After that I'll write you off and forget about you.

Yea, I don't know cuz I am not like that... If i say I'm going to do something, I'll do it! I understand that no one likes someone who doesn't keep their word... But in your case, I would have to say that I'm a firm believer in if someone really wants to be with you, they'll make the time to be with you.

Posted by misslissa
I'm a firm believer in if someone really wants to be with you, they'll make the time to be with you.

I'm like that too.

Same goes with phone calls and texts. If someone wanna pick up or text back, if they really want to, they'll find time for it.

If they ignore you, it means they don't want to, simple as that!

Posted by Geminivixen
Personally if I KEEP coming up with excuses especially Lame ones lol I literally just Don't want to hang out with you because either 1.) I am not into you 2.) I made plans with you but found somebody 'better' or Ideal to hang out with 3.) hes trying to give you hints to stop.. Sometimes I will say Yes to plans to people who keep 'Bugging' me to hang out with them and I would say yes and KEEP coming up with lame excuses so they can eventually Read between the lines and stop.. That way I don't have to say it by word of mouth like this "I am not interested to hang out with you, I'm sorry".. LoL it's not nice so I rather just keep standing the person up until they catch on. Stop asking to hang out with him lol.. I can see you have a thing for Gemini men.. It's okay.. I have a thing for Aries & Libra men but it doesn't have to go good all the time that's boring right 😛

And this is why I love Geminis so much.

The blunt truth, no sugar coating, right to the point, no fucking around!

Ok, so it's Saturday, and you and I make plans to go out for pizza on Tuesday. I don't know who I'm going to wake up as on Tuesday! Whatever sounded like an excellent idea on Saturday might not sound the same on Tuesday. Maybe Tuesday's personality wants to go chase butterflies, or sit in a bubble bath all day. Maybe Tuesday's personality is feeling reclusive, or decided to go on a diet. Who the hell knows what Ms Tuesday will be into? In that case, I would need to make up an excuse to get out of seeing you, but wouldn't want to hurt your feelings...or try to explain the billion personalities that live inside of me.

Posted by Whimsy
Ok, so it's Saturday, and you and I make plans to go out for pizza on Tuesday. I don't know who I'm going to wake up as on Tuesday! Whatever sounded like an excellent idea on Saturday might not sound the same on Tuesday. Maybe Tuesday's personality wants to go chase butterflies, or sit in a bubble bath all day. Maybe Tuesday's personality is feeling reclusive, or decided to go on a diet. Who the hell knows what Ms Tuesday will be into? In that case, I would need to make up an excuse to get out of seeing you, but wouldn't want to hurt your feelings...or try to explain the billion personalities that live inside of me.

lol this about covers it.
I've been guilty of this in the past. This changed when I met my Cap husband, he helped me understand how hurtful it is to be on the receiving end of this behavior.

After what some of you said. How you make excuses when you don't like someone and wanna get rid of them.

Another situation happen tonight where he was telling me about a shirt he bought.
I asked him to send me a pic, and he said later.
After a while, I said "Don't forget!" because, he's forgetful.

And he said, I will tomorrow.
So, I asked, why not tonight.

He said he was too tired.

To what I said "Too tired to take a pic of a shirt with your phone and send it? sure.. *Roll my eyes*"

So, yeah.. I'm gonna take the hint and tell him to fuck off next time he talks to me.

Yes, I think I do that a lot... and not even noticing am doing it... it just comes out of my mouth :O
Whenever there's a sticky situation my brain just instantly offers me awesome way out excuses and even before I inspect them fully, my tongue is forming them into words :/