do gemini men run fr love?

I am so confused hav been seeing a gemini man on a weekly basis for 7 months..he said fr the begining he did not like commitment...and that was fine as our lives r 2 busy to hav a commited relationship....over this time we nevertalked about serious personal issues or opened up to one another about serious life.now suddenly he says he feels like we r in a relationship ...as I said b4 neither of us want that and he GUESSES we should end things....I should say we were very good friends years ago and both were excited when we reconnected..can anyone help clear this picture up for me?...is he developing deeper feelings that he is running from?...or just moving on?

Move on. Stop the games..... Both of you.
Keep it real with each other.
If he feels like its getting serious and wants to end it
and you dont want anything serious.....then end it.
whats the problem again?

Norcalmaan 67...thank you for ur insight...I should add that in the start of things he rushed in....did alot of things I found unusual since we had so recently reconnected. He paid for car repairs that were costly...wanted to meet my children...then he started backing off slowly untill we came to the point we r at now.I suppose we talked about some things of importance...but mostly spent our time talking about what had gone on in the years we lost touch. I hav always been in a relationship...and he has never been in a truly committed relationship...so I think our ideas of a relationship are not the same.I see us as still getting to nknow one another and he must feel we hav moved beyond that. I must admit I don't ask him a lot of questions about his feelings ..only because I didn't want to push him or scare him away and im also just not that good at exposing my heart to others myself. Im always very scepticle. Not the most trusting of people when it comes to my emotions I just don't understand His actions when we r together tell me hne enjoys us being together...but then he tries to avoid me. He never says outright we should stop seeing one another...he always says *is that what u want ?*...while he was in this avoiding me phase he asked me once again if that's what I wanted....or he text me this...I replied...what do u want...after asking a couple of different times...he then told me maybe we should ..because we both know its not going anywhere......but I thought. He didn't want it to go anywhere—? He soooo confuses me.

At this point, who cares what he wants. He keeps asking you so, by golly, let him know! I think you do want more as you have been over-analyzing the situation and are voicing concerns about him opening up.

If you are falling, let him know. If you like the way things are, let him know. If you like the NSA part but still want a legitimate friendship, let him know. Yes, you will probably alter the course of the outcome but it's worth knowing who will stick with you. Why be "polite" and keep beating a dead horse?

I am a Leo, I suppose, so being straight-forward about what I want comes naturally. I try not to hold on to the potential outcome unless it's someone I absolutely love. I had a year long tryst with a guy where it was fwb only. It was good for me for a while but I caught feelings. I voiced my thoughts/feelings, he cared but did not reciprocate, and I left him. I sure liked him a lot, was starting to fall, but we wanted different things at that's ok. I'm with someone now who makes me feel like I made the right choice practically every day. 🙂

Wanted to add the guy I was seeing is a taurus/gemini cusp....I don't know if that would make a big difference. Only began looking deeper into astroloyt to find answers to this emotional mystery🙂

All gemini men only can guess as the children of the zodiac they learn by time age. Mistakes. My gem bf only GUESSES...never sure bout anything. We started off pretty rough with a softness...after a year...he has opened up hinself. Through my conditioning..patience..he finally is where he shouldlve been when we started. He is awesome now.

Your man seems he is going through a process in which he is analyzing both ideals. He has to feel that u can be someone he wants to b with aalllll the time in every aspect commitment to s msn like him may mean marriage.

All gemini men only can guess as the children of the zodiac they learn by time age. Mistakes. My gem bf only GUESSES...never sure bout anything. We started off pretty rough with a softness...after a year...he has opened up hinself. Through my conditioning..patience..he finally is where he shouldlve been when we started. He is awesome now.

Your man seems he is going through a process in which he is analyzing both ideals. He has to feel that u can be someone he wants to b with aalllll the time in every aspect commitment to s msn like him may mean marriage.

Thanks for ur insight candi.....this forum has helped enlightan me....he called out of the blue recently and we met for dinner. He explained to me almost word for word what u said...lol...it is the marriage thing he fears..and much disappointment from past relationships. Hopefully things are on track now that I assured him im not looking for a ring anytime soon....