guccigemini55
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EUUUURRRRIKA! ah genius!!
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Posted by Samiamascorpio
Gucci you are out of your mind.
And I love it
Hell I dont even take drugs.. Gemini with aqua moon, I dont know if im cursed or just clever
O_o
Posted by guccigemini55
So ive been busting a blood vessel all night thinking ways I can put this guy off being interested, ignoring doesnt work (he must share our gemini fetish! O_o ) being nonchalant doesnt work, saying I dont want to date doesnt work, but I dont mind being friends, I would like guy friends but they dont want to stop at that, sooooo...
I am going to sport a rice crispy above my upper lip and pretend I have sprouted a wart!! I may even take it to another level, I know it just not the done thing but does anyone actually have any pubic hair nowadays? feel free to donate towards my new look 🙂..
I do believe I have just invented an ANTI-kiss shield ...OH MY! I AM A HEAVEN SENT GENIUS! 🙂
Lol...just tell him you're madly in love & want to get married like yesterday. That should do the trick! 😉
Posted by RealTalkPosted by guccigemini55
So ive been busting a blood vessel all night thinking ways I can put this guy off being interested, ignoring doesnt work (he must share our gemini fetish! O_o ) being nonchalant doesnt work, saying I dont want to date doesnt work, but I dont mind being friends, I would like guy friends but they dont want to stop at that, sooooo...
I am going to sport a rice crispy above my upper lip and pretend I have sprouted a wart!! I may even take it to another level, I know it just not the done thing but does anyone actually have any pubic hair nowadays? feel free to donate towards my new look 🙂..
I do believe I have just invented an ANTI-kiss shield ...OH MY! I AM A HEAVEN SENT GENIUS! 🙂
Lol...just tell him you're madly in love & want to get married like yesterday. That should do the trick! 😉click to expand
Whilst sporting a hairy wart 🙂
Realtalk IM NOT taking that risk, this is a long term pursue and Im mopping my brow here O_o .. I even told him I look like a dude in the morning, I almost weakened and thought be nice and give him a try but NAH! Ive got my scowl on, Im back jogging.
^^^Damn, lol do you really think he would consider it?
Posted by RealTalkPosted by guccigemini55
So ive been busting a blood vessel all night thinking ways I can put this guy off being interested, ignoring doesnt work (he must share our gemini fetish! O_o ) being nonchalant doesnt work, saying I dont want to date doesnt work, but I dont mind being friends, I would like guy friends but they dont want to stop at that, sooooo...
I am going to sport a rice crispy above my upper lip and pretend I have sprouted a wart!! I may even take it to another level, I know it just not the done thing but does anyone actually have any pubic hair nowadays? feel free to donate towards my new look 🙂..
I do believe I have just invented an ANTI-kiss shield ...OH MY! I AM A HEAVEN SENT GENIUS! 🙂
Lol...just tell him you're madly in love & want to get married like yesterday. That should do the trick! 😉click to expand
Dammit realtalk! You stole my idea! Desperation usually turns most people off quick!
Lay it on extra thick.... like that realtalk ketchup .... yeah that's should do the trick....
Also confessing to have herpies might do it but that might be a little excessive ....lmao...
Go with desperation! !!!!
Hmmmmn lets analyse...
1) told him twice to go away and sort himself out and to stop putting demands on me and assuming he knows me because I dont like it, he came back and apologised prefusely, maybe he is just a nice guy.
2) I act like i would be a real shit wife type.. he acts like he wants to fix me.
3) He texts me at least 7 times a day to my one, two if he can crack a laugh.
4) he wants to phone me every day, sometimes i answer, sometimes I dont.
5) he wants to come and see me, since january i have said nope! I told him once that it takes me the whole day to have my hair done, he said he wanted to come and sit with me whilst i had it done.. HELL NO! 😛
6)Desperately wants to take me out to dinner, I told him I would so fall asleep
7) I told him I look like a dude in the morning, he says ive seen you without make up you look beautiful (rose tinted maybe just a lil huh 😉 )
8) i ignored him for 5 months, he still likes me.......... O_o
9) i told him I dont want to date, he is still pursuing.
10)If Im kind hearted and show my softer side he mistakes this for vunerable.... like PFFFFFFTTTT! check out the cunning plan above 😉
Maybe Im just really horrible but Im not feeling this guy! I dont want to be unkind.
1) told him twice to go away and sort himself out and to stop putting demands on me and assuming he knows me because I dont like it, he came back and apologised prefusely, maybe he is just a nice guy.
2) I act like i would be a real shit wife type.. he acts like he wants to fix me.
3) He texts me at least 7 times a day to my one, two if he can crack a laugh.
4) he wants to phone me every day, sometimes i answer, sometimes I dont.
5) he wants to come and see me, since january i have said nope! I told him once that it takes me the whole day to have my hair done, he said he wanted to come and sit with me whilst i had it done.. HELL NO! 😛
6)Desperately wants to take me out to dinner, I told him I would so fall asleep
7) I told him I look like a dude in the morning, he says ive seen you without make up you look beautiful (rose tinted maybe just a lil huh 😉 )
8) i ignored him for 5 months, he still likes me.......... O_o
9) i told him I dont want to date, he is still pursuing.
10)If Im kind hearted and show my softer side he mistakes this for vunerable.... like PFFFFFFTTTT! check out the cunning plan above 😉
Maybe Im just really horrible but Im not feeling this guy! I dont want to be unkind.
the Sag men i know fall fast with a click of your fingers then you cant get rid of them.
Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sensePosted by RealTalkPosted by guccigemini55
So ive been busting a blood vessel all night thinking ways I can put this guy off being interested, ignoring doesnt work (he must share our gemini fetish! O_o ) being nonchalant doesnt work, saying I dont want to date doesnt work, but I dont mind being friends, I would like guy friends but they dont want to stop at that, sooooo...
I am going to sport a rice crispy above my upper lip and pretend I have sprouted a wart!! I may even take it to another level, I know it just not the done thing but does anyone actually have any pubic hair nowadays? feel free to donate towards my new look 🙂..
I do believe I have just invented an ANTI-kiss shield ...OH MY! I AM A HEAVEN SENT GENIUS! 🙂
Lol...just tell him you're madly in love & want to get married like yesterday. That should do the trick! 😉
Dammit realtalk! You stole my idea! Desperation usually turns most people off quick!
Lay it on extra thick.... like that realtalk ketchup .... yeah that's should do the trick....
Also confessing to have herpies might do it but that might be a little excessive ....lmao...
Go with desperation! !!!!click to expand
haha!.. and another thing, the shit that comes out of my mouth at times, i know how to turn it up when in need, how can he not think ive got issues— I DONT EVEN KNOW WHY HE WANTS ME!!!—
WOOOOOO! Check 3dimes sporting his pic for the first time!!!.. get you sir! 😉
Posted by guccigemini55
WOOOOOO! Check 3dimes sporting his pic for the first time!!!.. get you sir! 😉
Lol thanks Gucci ...
He wants you cause he sees your "Gucci " and he likes it and he wanna take you home
so he can see your "Prada".....(wink,wink) lol....
Good luck! 🙂
Well... I don't know if your are being honest with yourself... You know he does not want to be just friends... yet you still talk to him... You know he just wants your cookie jar and you don't want to give it up... So why still talk to him... The worst thing about this is I think you keep him around to keep your confidence up or something... and say a real guy you are interested gives you a hard time... he will be right their to cry on... I think you will feel sorry for him eventually and take a date or you would not be talk to him... and come on you like the attention... everyone likes the attention... But who knows maybe he is like this with anything that looks semi good looking... I know it can seem sweet and innocent but just be careful not to hurt or get hurt...
I would tell him that he needs to get on a more of a friend level or you are going to cut him off... Say it in a nice way...
It would be healthier for you...
You heart breaker you 😉
No its fine Im not offended.. yes Im being honest with myself, i talk with him because im genuinely ok to be friends with him BUT Im feeling I only want to be friends with him, thats why i have stated to him I dont want to date him, I dont want to offend him and knock him as a person, although I was firm with him when he text me demanding me to explain why I hadnt answered his text all day, I was in a work meeting and im not involved with him to be having to explain anything, He could be a real guy, he could be a nice guy, this is why I dont want to knock him but Im also thinking people should be able to be friends, thats how I am regardless of sex and friendly... Maybe Im wierd I dont know but the whole dating thing, I dont like it, i find it awkward and it puts you under pressure because then youre putting yourself in a position where the guy is expecting it to go further so i would rather it just be friends then youre not leading them on and if anything blossoms then so be it, it evolves naturally, not just that i dont want to jump into anything I want to know a person first, there could be red flags, I wont be crying on him, thats what my best friends are for.
I dont look towards a guy to give me confidence, I dont feel you should look towards others for that, its something you need to build within yourself to feel secure about yourself and thats something i feel should be gained through your own actions and beliefs not through the attention of others, for me its a
I would tell him that he needs to get on a more of a friend level or you are going to cut him off... Say it in a nice way...
It would be healthier for you...
You heart breaker you 😉
No its fine Im not offended.. yes Im being honest with myself, i talk with him because im genuinely ok to be friends with him BUT Im feeling I only want to be friends with him, thats why i have stated to him I dont want to date him, I dont want to offend him and knock him as a person, although I was firm with him when he text me demanding me to explain why I hadnt answered his text all day, I was in a work meeting and im not involved with him to be having to explain anything, He could be a real guy, he could be a nice guy, this is why I dont want to knock him but Im also thinking people should be able to be friends, thats how I am regardless of sex and friendly... Maybe Im wierd I dont know but the whole dating thing, I dont like it, i find it awkward and it puts you under pressure because then youre putting yourself in a position where the guy is expecting it to go further so i would rather it just be friends then youre not leading them on and if anything blossoms then so be it, it evolves naturally, not just that i dont want to jump into anything I want to know a person first, there could be red flags, I wont be crying on him, thats what my best friends are for.
I dont look towards a guy to give me confidence, I dont feel you should look towards others for that, its something you need to build within yourself to feel secure about yourself and thats something i feel should be gained through your own actions and beliefs not through the attention of others, for me its a
...for me its about looking beyond a sexual attraction, I want to be valued for me and my mind not because someone wants a piece of my cho cho. ive actually stayed in quite alot and only hung around my partnered guy friends because Im not enjoying the attention, I like to see depth in people, I dont like casual either so i would rather go without and thats probably why im so selective because if im going to go there in the first place then ive the intention its for keeps.
Maybe I will feel sorry for him but that wont make me want to be with him, thats all the wrong reasons for getting with someone, I was able to have platonic friendships when I was in a relationship so why cant they stay platonic, I found the minute you are single some of them are on your case and get all angry when you tell them no you dont want to and then you lose that friendship, I find that sad... Unless they are a truely terrible person I can remain friends with ex`s, I can be friends with their girlfriends, Im just friendly and will give them my time of day 🙂
Maybe I will feel sorry for him but that wont make me want to be with him, thats all the wrong reasons for getting with someone, I was able to have platonic friendships when I was in a relationship so why cant they stay platonic, I found the minute you are single some of them are on your case and get all angry when you tell them no you dont want to and then you lose that friendship, I find that sad... Unless they are a truely terrible person I can remain friends with ex`s, I can be friends with their girlfriends, Im just friendly and will give them my time of day 🙂
Posted by piscesmoonPosted by guccigemini55
the Sag men i know fall fast with a click of your fingers then you cant get rid of them.
I hope I did not hurt your feelings... I was just trying to be realistic... sometimes the best lies or justifications are to ourselves... I can say it shows you think about him enough to post here though... lol
Any again sorry... I am here to help but also be realistic... ask the hard questions...
Good luck
PMclick to expand
No of course not 🙂 no need to be sorry 🙂 .. Lol Im not needing to lie to myself, all I need is a good plan to avoid the guy jumping in for a kiss 🙂
Well either karma is biting my ass or I have a guardian angel, im not joking I have now got a pimple right where i was going to stick my pretend wart, I swear on it 🙂
Posted by 3dimes2nickels1penny0sensePosted by guccigemini55
WOOOOOO! Check 3dimes sporting his pic for the first time!!!.. get you sir! 😉
Lol thanks Gucci ...
He wants you cause he sees your "Gucci " and he likes it and he wanna take you home
so he can see your "Prada".....(wink,wink) lol....
Good luck! 🙂click to expand
lol nutter 🙂 .. well I dont give my prada, neither my gucci to just anyone, lets see how much he values friendship, maybe he will, if not then thats another one bites the dust.
Gucci, what ever happened to your friend, the aqua?
Posted by WaterCup
Gucci, what ever happened to your friend, the aqua?
LOL, I dont think he loves me no more 😢 .. he`s doing the aqua ignoring me thing, weird as hell given the story and how we click, maybe he didnt mean what he said otherwise his actions would be telling a different story, see im happy to remain friends with him, im a big girl i can take it, if hes not into me then thats life, he did the same last year then pops back up asking if there had been anyone else since, I was honest and said yes and i didnt think he liked me so moved on, he responding with " i do really like you, I really fancy you!" at the time i said omg so whats this about have you backed off to observe me? and he responded yes, he stayed in touch from then on until we met again and now he has backed off again, its probably been what, 4 weeks now, i guess alot can happen in that time, he is a gorgeous magnetic guy... If im honest with myself, I think I may be waiting it out this time, hense why the attention of other guys is not too important, but im not going to be his doormat, im just curious what on earth and why on he is doing this ignoring thing.. APPARENTLY i was wrong last time, who knows, he could be a player, it could be the way he does things to test? I think its pretty rude if you ask me, he knows im attracted, ive not pushed for anything other than communication and to resolve why he is feels he cant communicate as normal, im not bothered about rejection, i would rather it than guessing games, i cant make assumptions, maybe he has issues.. I will just get on with it, if I meet someone then I meet someone, i dont want to just jump in with him either, although if it was to be with anyone i liked the connection.
I saw your pics, you're a pretty decent looking girl so im sure the issue is not looks, lol- his loss. I find you funny, smart with an attractive (on screen) personality- as an aqua those are the things that pop up (and like) 1st when dealing with ppl- believe me he notice too. Its really not u, its him- its difficult that i cant explain in words. Aquas avoid/stay away from people they fancy, but stick around more around ppl they dont have feelings for. Another thing, i think i told u this b4, we have a need to give ourselves a break from ppl to break routine, routine bores and wears us down. Talking everyday for lets say a wk can =routine in aquas mind and routine leads to expectations (more of the same eg. more calls, meetings, etc) and expectations= suffocation. Now he is breathing. U get what i mean? Just do u and live a fabulous life and if he wants u, he knows where to knock to get u.
Lol ok confession of the gemini girl, im a complete prat and im not going to lie, he is on my mind, Im curious about him .. BUT again im thinking dont waste my own time on someone clearly not behaving available or mature (yes i know!! that looks like a joke with the way my humour is 🙂 )
Dont get me wrong, it would be nice sharing the right kind of loving with someone but its got to be the right someone this time and I plan to take my time, when I love its the purest kind, its not the be all and end all to rush into a relationship, what will be will be, if it happens with someone then wooo! bonus 🙂
Dont get me wrong, it would be nice sharing the right kind of loving with someone but its got to be the right someone this time and I plan to take my time, when I love its the purest kind, its not the be all and end all to rush into a relationship, what will be will be, if it happens with someone then wooo! bonus 🙂
Oh, i wish u all the best, gucci and i hope u find the kind of love u r looking for. Aqua men are arseholes, i'll admit that about them, but its something beyond their control- they need to retreat or they become irritable and cold. But girl, aqua or not, dont accept whats unacceptable to u as a person. All the best and hugs to u, sweety.
Posted by WaterCup
I saw your pics, you're a pretty decent looking girl so im sure the issue is not looks, lol- his loss. I find you funny, smart with an attractive (on screen) personality- as an aqua those are the things that pop up (and like) 1st when dealing with ppl- believe me he notice too. Its really not u, its him- its difficult that i cant explain in words. Aquas avoid/stay away from people they fancy, but stick around more around ppl they dont have feelings for. Another thing, i think i told u this b4, we have a need to give ourselves a break from ppl to break routine, routine bores and wears us down. Talking everyday for lets say a wk can =routine in aquas mind and routine leads to expectations (more of the same eg. more calls, meetings, etc) and expectations= suffocation. Now he is breathing. U get what i mean? Just do u and live a fabulous life and if he wants u, he knows where to knock to get u.
Awwe thankyou your words are very kind, Im quite lively and just as nutty offline, Im just me and the same with everyone, from my boss, strangers, family who ever, I dont want to pretend to someone else with anyone because then whatever you build with them its not in true form.. I dont know if I screwed up by messing around with him by saying oii im going to ignore your ignoring and just carried on as normal by sending the usual nutty mail and joking around in the same form we were, lol he ignored it! so i turned it up and said ok cool ya wanna ignore me then im coming over and sorting this butters out, dont let me get on this train if you arent going to show, lol he didnt show! i was just being a bit hmmn daring and to see what he would do? a kind of test.. i didnt go to his house i was leaving him with a choice, might`ve freaked him out and looked a bit off beat or desperate, i wasnt going over to claim him as mine i was going over to say hey chill wassup? im sponateous and face things, never done anything like that in my life, even i thought after it was a bit kooky! O_o lol..
.. I totally get the whole routine thing, im the same i feel suffocated, im not bothered about talking every day or all the conventional it should go like this kinda stuff, lol we never got into a routine to start with, we just randomly communicated and responded with the most stupid funny stuff which never went past 4 days to a week..
Ivw got to work on this fetish, it does me no good! (being ignored lol) .. oh he is probably loved up with someone else, it doesnt matter, I enjoy what I do and like both you and i agree, just go get on with it, if its meant to be then it will find a way, im going to stay myself about it, if im a bit too kooky then it doesnt fit does it 🙂
Ivw got to work on this fetish, it does me no good! (being ignored lol) .. oh he is probably loved up with someone else, it doesnt matter, I enjoy what I do and like both you and i agree, just go get on with it, if its meant to be then it will find a way, im going to stay myself about it, if im a bit too kooky then it doesnt fit does it 🙂
Posted by WaterCup
Oh, i wish u all the best, gucci and i hope u find the kind of love u r looking for. Aqua men are arseholes, i'll admit that about them, but its something beyond their control- they need to retreat or they become irritable and cold. But girl, aqua or not, dont accept whats unacceptable to u as a person. All the best and hugs to u, sweety.
Lol well its either me or him who`s the jerk, we are very alike in our mannerisms, humour, style , music, home decor, things we buy, bit messed up really, shit does it make me a narc?!! or incestuous??!! its a bit twin isnt it O_o .. SEE! he tells me how compatible we are... frustrating, no I wont accept it, its about being courteous to others regardless of how you feel, Im not unapproachable.
.. Thankyou for your well wishes watercup 🙂
Thats the spirit, gem. He'll be back, they always do, but a word of advice- dont contact him next time he disappears (not even out of kookiness). Its annoying to us tbh, let him have his time and he'll be back in a jiffy. Ur so bubbly, lol, that i wish i could date u myself, too bad i like men. Good life, gucci! Bye
Posted by DeeGee
Ha...Gucci you funny....yeah, if you're willing to be patient enough to wait for the right one.....give him the old, "I like you...but not in that special way"....😢
Lol DeeGee 😄 .. Oh god, been texted twice today, havent got my head around responding, he is assuming im still in bed and being lazy UHHHHH!.. He is suggesting us watching a horror movie together (ok this is where im a total wimp, I cry for my momma, i get scared!! in the ring things come out of the tv, how do i know it might not happen here, HE KNOWS THIS!) .. *Gemini brain scans over this suggestion* ... YUP! Im on to him, ITS A TRAP!!!.. I see right through that cunning little set up, yeah you sneaksy lil sag! he wants me to freak right out and jump on him, setting up to be my hero so I get all wrapped around him like a shakey koala bear so he can make his play for naughty cuddles.. PFFFTT! like Im gonna fall for that one.. Yawwwwwwwn, NEXT!
Posted by WaterCup
Thats the spirit, gem. He'll be back, they always do, but a word of advice- dont contact him next time he disappears (not even out of kookiness). Its annoying to us tbh, let him have his time and he'll be back in a jiffy. Ur so bubbly, lol, that i wish i could date u myself, too bad i like men. Good life, gucci! Bye
Haha! 😄.. no I wont, I will annoy myself just as much 🙂
lmao! Ignore me and Im on ya trail, so careful there 😉 haha, its some inbuilt malfuction thing, you`ll be having me have a war go on in my mind!
Pics or it didn't happen
Posted by Geminems
Pics or it didn't happen
LOL!!! Of my pimple scab? hahaha now thats abuse 😄 .. I will private email it to confirm if needs be lmao
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
Posted by misslissa
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
Why did he disapear lisa?
Posted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissa
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
Why did he disapear lisa?click to expand
there were some problems that he needed to fix and needed time to sort things out without involving me. it was a real down time for him and he didn't want to bring me down with him. which i thought was incredibly sweet. 🙂
Posted by piscesmoonPosted by guccigemini55Posted by piscesmoonPosted by guccigemini55
the Sag men i know fall fast with a click of your fingers then you cant get rid of them.
I hope I did not hurt your feelings... I was just trying to be realistic... sometimes the best lies or justifications are to ourselves... I can say it shows you think about him enough to post here though... lol
Any again sorry... I am here to help but also be realistic... ask the hard questions...
Good luck
PM
No of course not 🙂 no need to be sorry 🙂 .. Lol Im not needing to lie to myself, all I need is a good plan to avoid the guy jumping in for a kiss 🙂
Well either karma is biting my ass or I have a guardian angel, im not joking I have now got a pimple right where i was going to stick my pretend wart, I swear on it 🙂
gucci... Your alright... I respect how real you are and how unwilling you are to settle for something less then what feels right or not what you want... I never understood how people just keep running into relationship issues... when they walk right into them...
The problem with this guy is he also can be a problem later if you have bf... lol
Don't know how that would work out... meet my stalker friend that has been trying to get into my pants forever... lol
Keep your head up and no worries about the other guy he is just playing games... I am sure it is not you... he must have some issue he does not want to tell you... maybe he is not ready for a relationship...
Either way... I would not worry... you will find someone great... You have a lot of positive energy...
PM
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Thanks pisciesmoon 🙂 .. Yes I agree with you thats why Im feeling cautious and would rather take it carefully, Ive had my fair share of those and yes it does go on forever, its hassle!.. hence being a recluse at the moment... dont get me wrong Ive not always got it right in the past where Ive not noticed red flags so Ive had to learn a very hard lesson and correct myself from the situation because the problem lies very much in ourselves also when we get caught up in the wrong relationship, I dont want to make the same m
... mistake again 🙂
Ive no idea what is going on with mr aqua and until I know theres nothing I can do about it, courtesy costs nothing so I dont think thats too much of a good sign either.
Im in no rush.. thankyou 🙂
Ive no idea what is going on with mr aqua and until I know theres nothing I can do about it, courtesy costs nothing so I dont think thats too much of a good sign either.
Im in no rush.. thankyou 🙂
Posted by misslissaPosted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissa
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
Why did he disapear lisa?
there were some problems that he needed to fix and needed time to sort things out without involving me. it was a real down time for him and he didn't want to bring me down with him. which i thought was incredibly sweet. 🙂click to expand
How long was you with him before he did that? .. I dont think Im important enough for him to be considering me in that way at thew moment if ever 🙂 .. although we have kept in touch for the past year we have only had 3 dates, 2 last year and the one a month ago, we have just joked around accusing each other of being in love with each other and saying that we think we will end up marrying each other lol, see i would make him laugh alot and he would say stuff like "you so make me laugh, I really actually do think we would make the perfect couple" Now wishful thinking on my part! lol BUT I have to take it with a pinch of salt, same as all the stuff he said when I was over last, mid snog, he kinda goes mmmm MMMM OOO ARRRH (LOL) I really wanna marry you (are you all laughing?? I am 😄 ) so I screeched at that moment and said oh shut up bet you say that with everyone behave! So then he stopped and was saying stuff like why the fuck would I do that? look how we click! youre this, youre that, it was a lovely night but if im honest I havent had much experience with players, I can usually see right through guys but i dont know with this one.
I really just want to message him and open up and say what i want to say but if he isnt contact me its pretty pointless, like I said alot can happen in 4/5 weeks 🙂 .. as crazy ass as I am A girls got to keep her dignity in tact right other wise i will look like a crazy ass bunny boiler, eurrgh 🙂
Posted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissaPosted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissa
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
Why did he disapear lisa?
there were some problems that he needed to fix and needed time to sort things out without involving me. it was a real down time for him and he didn't want to bring me down with him. which i thought was incredibly sweet. 🙂
How long was you with him before he did that? .. I dont think Im important enough for him to be considering me in that way at thew moment if ever 🙂 .. although we have kept in touch for the past year we have only had 3 dates, 2 last year and the one a month ago, we have just joked around accusing each other of being in love with each other and saying that we think we will end up marrying each other lol, see i would make him laugh alot and he would say stuff like "you so make me laugh, I really actually do think we would make the perfect couple" Now wishful thinking on my part! lol BUT I have to take it with a pinch of salt, same as all the stuff he said when I was over last, mid snog, he kinda goes mmmm MMMM OOO ARRRH (LOL) I really wanna marry you (are you all laughing?? I am 😄 ) so I screeched at that moment and said oh shut up bet you say that with everyone behave! So then he stopped and was saying stuff like why the fuck would I do that? look how we click! youre this, youre that, it was a lovely night but if im honest I havent had much experience with players, I can usually see right through guys but i dont know with this one.
I really just want to message him and open up and say what i want to say but if he isnt contact me its pretty pointless, like I said alot can happen in 4/5 weeks 🙂 .. as crazy ass as I am A girls got to keep her dignity in tact right other wise i will look like a crazy ass bunny boiler, eurrgh 🙂click to expand
about 3 months. i understand what you're saying. i had a hard time with it, and told him so! even broke up with him! but, my lesson in it was... don't assume and just ask. it may take alil while for him to answer, but he will and you will know for sure then, instead of assuming. lol!@ bunny bo
Posted by piscesmoonPosted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissaPosted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissa
the aqua i'm with disappeared for 2 months.... that was a year and a half ago. :]
crazy ass bunny boiler, eurrgh 🙂
I agree often relationships fail because of how they start... this guy must respect or gucci will not put up with future disrespect-fulness... I will say don't talk about getting married so quick maybe... guys can worry about that... but have a question...
MMMM trying to picture a crazy ass bunny boiler...
Just can't to it..
What is that... I mean really—
PMclick to expand
Oh sweet jeezuz bahhh marraige!.. Lol im no rush, beleive me this girl can stretch out the longest engagement!! .. erm try 9 yrs lol.. think I may have a lil commitment phobic issue 😉
Soooooo...
I just got a text...
🙂
I just got a text...
🙂
@ misslisa...
"about 3 months. i understand what you're saying. i had a hard time with it, and told him so! even broke up with him! but, my lesson in it was... don't assume and just ask. it may take alil while for him to answer, but he will and you will know for sure then, instead of assuming. lol!@ bunny b"
Well thats the thing, Im not already with him like you was.. sooooo I dunnoooo what to doooooo, APART FROM NOTHING!!!..
"about 3 months. i understand what you're saying. i had a hard time with it, and told him so! even broke up with him! but, my lesson in it was... don't assume and just ask. it may take alil while for him to answer, but he will and you will know for sure then, instead of assuming. lol!@ bunny b"
Well thats the thing, Im not already with him like you was.. sooooo I dunnoooo what to doooooo, APART FROM NOTHING!!!..
that's all i could do, too... just have to go on living life. get out and have a good time! he'll probably be back around when you least expect it. 🙂
Posted by guccigemini55
Soooooo...
I just got a text...
🙂
?? from aqua? or the other guy?
Posted by misslissa
that's all i could do, too... just have to go on living life. get out and have a good time! he'll probably be back around when you least expect it. 🙂
Lol he`s a maniac, he sent a text today, just a random word what he calls me with a kiss, WTH?! .. Im guessing he`s still my friend from that.. thats good 🙂 he will be around when he is ready.. back to sticking pretend warts on my face for mr sags visit tomorrow then! 😄
i LOVE it when the aqua does weird things like that!! lol! i wish you lots of good luck with the warts! 😄
Gucci, now that he is back, play it cool and dont question him about where he was all this time- let him tell u himself. And we are good at giving excuses for the disappearing thing-anything from being busy, sick, phone broken, got blind & deaf for 2mnts so i could call and come see u, etc. Its all excuses so that u dont get angry coz he also doesnt know why he vanished, but he HAD to do it- cant say no to that 'have to go' feeling. Logically, if u think about it, nobody is too busy, too stressed to spare 1 second to send a text and say 'hi'- its all excuses to be excused for what he cant control. If an aqua doesn vanish and is still around u daily, u'll notice him being distant emotionally (thats him 'bouncing' without really walking away to do it). Its all part of the package. I hope both u gals happiness with your men.
Posted by harry99
😄 I taught her everything she knows. My work is done here.
LOL @ Harry!! haha you do make me laugh 😄 .. yeeeeks tonights the night for warty night O_O
Ive actually traumatised him already, we were talking about ages ect and he was arguing Im obviously bad at maths and need to go back to school and his 4 year old daughter would be able to work it out and GET IT! lol, I couldnt get my head around how we can be the same age if he was born in 1974 when I born 1973, it didnt make sense what he was saying but professed he was 39 this year as I was, lol this went on for a good 30 mins where i was almost convinced I needed a trip to the docs because i was feeling that if i couldnt work out a simple sum then my brain was seriously malfuctioning and it meant I HAD MISSED MY 40TH BIRTHDAY!! therefore ripped myself off of a massive party, so it turns out the guy doesnt know how old he is and has been thinking himself a year older for as long as he remembers lol!!! he phoned a friend and his momma to check, the funny thing was that earlier on in the conversation, i HAD SAID OH GAWWD! youre a sag my experiences with sags are bad, they are the ones who are most likely to try and screw me over or try and get one up on me but it "USUALLY BACK FIRES!" .. and well hey, SOOO! when you going back to school dude? LOL!
Posted by WaterCup
Gucci, now that he is back, play it cool and dont question him about where he was all this time- let him tell u himself. And we are good at giving excuses for the disappearing thing-anything from being busy, sick, phone broken, got blind & deaf for 2mnts so i could call and come see u, etc. Its all excuses so that u dont get angry coz he also doesnt know why he vanished, but he HAD to do it- cant say no to that 'have to go' feeling. Logically, if u think about it, nobody is too busy, too stressed to spare 1 second to send a text and say 'hi'- its all excuses to be excused for what he cant control. If an aqua doesn vanish and is still around u daily, u'll notice him being distant emotionally (thats him 'bouncing' without really walking away to do it). Its all part of the package. I hope both u gals happiness with your men.
Lol the text was this:
"Biff x" .. lmao would you consider this as back—? .. Yep!.. we`re cool at least on a friend level, thats the biggest thing that matters to me,
I can rest and do my thing now, out of limbo 🙂 FETISH cured! haha.. if he wants to tag along to anything then the invites are there, if he doesnt then he doesnt, I love my lil life, if he wants to join in on the fun waggon then he knows where to find me.. I guess the good news is that anyone else he has been involved with in the past for him they stay in the past, its been the way he rolls, he hasnt wanted to have anything to do with them, im the only one that he has kept in touch with, I would stay his friend see, might teach him a different way here and put some faith back, im consistent in friendship. Im not too bothered why he vanished, sometimes thats life, being A gem with aqua moon im often the same and happy as a pig whilst I am vanished.. I visit his youtube account, he knows I steal his music, we have the same taste, some of it has been a bit lovey dovey O_o or deep, Im guessing someone is on his mind, could be wrong, who knows time will tell (please God! LET IT BE MEEEEE!! Haha!.. Dont think it is though 🙂 )
Im going to wait it out for a little while, no harm done if he doesnt come back in the way I wish 🙂 ...
Posted by misslissaPosted by guccigemini55
Soooooo...
I just got a text...
🙂
?? from aqua? or the other guy?click to expand
As above 🙂 .. AQUA!! LACROIX!!!!! ...je t`aime 😉... LOOOOL!!
Jeeeezuz I would just die if he ever stumbled across any of this.. All of this romaticising in my head, its a bit off key!.. THE SHAME!!!! o_O
Right! Ive got to shut up about him, its not cool... Im just sharing my thoughts 🙂
Yeah, its a return, trying to worm his way in. I do that to my friends all the time after a 'stint', something i know will make them laugh. Its like that magic word- 'open sesame'. I wasnt speaking to my taurus bff (a nurse) for 3mnts for i dont know why and then out of the blue i decided to send her a pic of my dead plant (she gave it to me as a gift, lol) with a text saying- CPR...PLEASE! And guess what? We are friends again. Hahaha
Posted by WaterCup
Gucci, now that he is back, play it cool and dont question him about where he was all this time- let him tell u himself. And we are good at giving excuses for the disappearing thing-anything from being busy, sick, phone broken, got blind & deaf for 2mnts so i could call and come see u, etc. Its all excuses so that u dont get angry coz he also doesnt know why he vanished, but he HAD to do it- cant say no to that 'have to go' feeling. Logically, if u think about it, nobody is too busy, too stressed to spare 1 second to send a text and say 'hi'- its all excuses to be excused for what he cant control. If an aqua doesn vanish and is still around u daily, u'll notice him being distant emotionally (thats him 'bouncing' without really walking away to do it). Its all part of the package. I hope both u gals happiness with your men.
i so agree with the whole post! i've noticed... and thanks, WaterCup! extremely happy! 🙂
Posted by guccigemini55Posted by misslissaPosted by guccigemini55
Soooooo...
I just got a text...
🙂
?? from aqua? or the other guy?
As above 🙂 .. AQUA!! LACROIX!!!!! ...je t`aime 😉... LOOOOL!!
Jeeeezuz I would just die if he ever stumbled across any of this.. All of this romaticising in my head, its a bit off key!.. THE SHAME!!!! o_O
Right! Ive got to shut up about him, its not cool... Im just sharing my thoughts 🙂click to expand
actually, (i know everyone is not the same) it didn't bother the aqua. altho, i didn't post much about him, cuz i know how much he likes his privacy. but, he might take it as it being cute... ya just never know. 🙂 i'm sure he will understand that you need your outlet and this is it. 🙂
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