i have a curious generalized question...

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by misslissa on Monday, October 22, 2012 and has 12 replies.

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

what's your personal experience with communicating, as in do you state things in factualities and admit it if you don't know or do you state with the disclaimer what you think, 'but don't quote' type of thing.... or do you just make things up for the sake of being embarrassed of not knowing everything? me, i am factual and if i don't know, most times i'll tell you i don't know. other times, i'll state it's what i think, but i will tell you, "i could be wrong". i have noticed all the traits in the gems i know irl and i am curious if others have as well?

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This was posted on 10/11/12

Posted by misslissa
i'm taking a break.... not that i need to announce it, but i thought i would tell everyone so there are no mistakes. i feel like i don't belong at this time. also, i feel like i am no longer able to learn and me being cynical with short harshness isn't doing anyone any good. i feel that i am no longer able to help due to my previous statement. it's really the whole "it's not you, it's me"... i am having some issues with disrespect that i need to work through. no, i am not deleting my account. god! i feel like i have to give a disclaimer.... i'll be back in a day, week... who knows.

So, you're leaving lasted 11 days

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Posted by P-Angel
This was posted on 10/11/12

Posted by misslissa
i'm taking a break.... not that i need to announce it, but i thought i would tell everyone so there are no mistakes. i feel like i don't belong at this time. also, i feel like i am no longer able to learn and me being cynical with short harshness isn't doing anyone any good. i feel that i am no longer able to help due to my previous statement. it's really the whole "it's not you, it's me"... i am having some issues with disrespect that i need to work through. no, i am not deleting my account. god! i feel like i have to give a disclaimer.... i'll be back in a day, week... who knows.

So, you're leaving lasted 11 days

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hi P-Angel! 🙂 today must be my lucky day for you to grace me with your presence.... i am totally and thoroughly honored! note bold text..... and?

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17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by GeminiLovesVirgo

Posted by misslissa
what's your personal experience with communicating, as in do you state things in factualities and admit it if you don't know or do you state with the disclaimer what you think, 'but don't quote' type of thing.... or do you just make things up for the sake of being embarrassed of not knowing everything? me, i am factual and if i don't know, most times i'll tell you i don't know. other times, i'll state it's what i think, but i will tell you, "i could be wrong". i have noticed all the traits in the gems i know irl and i am curious if others have as well?

I do that! I say "I dunno" or "I think" or "in my opinion" haha. I mean, I honestly do not know everything! I don't like to make up stuff when I don't know something because it might backfire at me sooner or later and that's trouble. Wahahahah. Although I think most gems can definitely talk themselves out of the situation if that happens. 🙂

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i agree!

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I confirm info/facts with the mobile google and I always bet a friend if they challenge me and I know I'm right. I used to have to read rules/regs all day for my job. People hate when they are wrong so pretending that you stumbled on this information that they already knew is so entertaining to me...hint wink nudge

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Posted by misslissa

Posted by P-Angel
This was posted on 10/11/12

Posted by misslissa
i'm taking a break.... not that i need to announce it, but i thought i would tell everyone so there are no mistakes. i feel like i don't belong at this time. also, i feel like i am no longer able to learn and me being cynical with short harshness isn't doing anyone any good. i feel that i am no longer able to help due to my previous statement. it's really the whole "it's not you, it's me"... i am having some issues with disrespect that i need to work through. no, i am not deleting my account. god! i feel like i have to give a disclaimer.... i'll be back in a day, week... who knows.

So, you're leaving lasted 11 days

hi P-Angel! 🙂 today must be my lucky day for you to grace me with your presence.... i am totally and thoroughly honored! note bold text..... and?

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LMAO!!.. A true Gemini.. gracious, eloquent and always a sunshiney smile.. lol lol

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If I'm sure I know, I just put it out there as if it's a fact. If I'm not sure I know, I say, "I think...". If I don't know something I'm supposed to be in a position to know (and the other person doesn't know, either), then I might b.s. If I'm proven wrong, I have zero problem accepting it (it's an opportunity to learn, and that's more important than always being right).

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by CuspyGem
I confirm info/facts with the mobile google and I always bet a friend if they challenge me and I know I'm right. I used to have to read rules/regs all day for my job. People hate when they are wrong so pretending that you stumbled on this information that they already knew is so entertaining to me...hint wink nudge

lol!

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by guccigemini55

Posted by misslissa

Posted by P-Angel
This was posted on 10/11/12

Posted by misslissa
i'm taking a break.... not that i need to announce it, but i thought i would tell everyone so there are no mistakes. i feel like i don't belong at this time. also, i feel like i am no longer able to learn and me being cynical with short harshness isn't doing anyone any good. i feel that i am no longer able to help due to my previous statement. it's really the whole "it's not you, it's me"... i am having some issues with disrespect that i need to work through. no, i am not deleting my account. god! i feel like i have to give a disclaimer.... i'll be back in a day, week... who knows.

So, you're leaving lasted 11 days

hi P-Angel! 🙂 today must be my lucky day for you to grace me with your presence.... i am totally and thoroughly honored! note bold text..... and?

LMAO!!.. A true Gemini.. gracious, eloquent and always a sunshiney smile.. lol lol

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🙂

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@misslissa
17 Years1,000+ PostsGemini

Posted by Whimsy
If I'm sure I know, I just put it out there as if it's a fact. If I'm not sure I know, I say, "I think...". If I don't know something I'm supposed to be in a position to know (and the other person doesn't know, either), then I might b.s. If I'm proven wrong, I have zero problem accepting it (it's an opportunity to learn, and that's more important than always being right).

i definitely agree with that! 🙂