Flaky as a Toaster Strudel :(

Hey Gems 🙂

I met my soulmate last Tuesday.

His/Mines
Sun-Gem/Cancer-Gem-Cusp
ASC-Cancer/Sagg
Moon-Pisces/Aqua
Mercury-Taurus/Gemini
Venus-Cancer/Cancer
Mars-Leo/Leo

There was a mutual INTENSE attraction. This feeling of love was too much!

We made each other nervous, and our tries to be nonchalant did not go unnoticed by either of us. Like me, he's completely nuts! 🙂
He asked to see me, asked to date me right then. So, in feeling this for the first time, I got bold: telling him he should spend time with me. After exchanging numbers and him asking me to see him almost everyday, he dropped off the face of the planet yesterday (after asking me if I wanted to see him).

Today I asked him to a movie, I got such blas? answers to the point that I feel and think I'm being sidelined. He was busy with school work (normal), just the lack of...want left me with a weird gut feeling.

I know I'm flaky and usually fall out of attraction from one switch to the next, and with him being so like me...it's a bit unsettling. Guess I finally met my match eh?

Some insights pretty please?

Posted by dreamer23
I have no advice for you...just love th title of your post. Good luck!

LOLLL.

Posted by nats

Posted by dreamer23
I have no advice for you...just love th title of your post. Good luck!

LOLLL.

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HAHAHA! That actually made me feel better 😄

BUT...if anyone does 😉

Pomba,

Don't make yourself too available to him before HE makes himself available to you. We enjoy the excitement of being with someone who makes us weak in the knees, however, we don't like you sitting around waiting on our beck and call. Move around, go places without him, when he sees that you're having fun w/o him, he'd be sure to want to tag along. 😛

MedullaOblongata:

I totally understand that thinking, as it is very like my own...

However...

I'm naturally aloof, don't pay attention to his light touches and looks. Don't really give much thought to his asking to see me, in fact I haven't seen him everyday, although he's asked, and I'm not one to text a whole lot either...
I've always been very freedom oriented and individualistic (having been trained by my aqua ex haha)

Goooo figure!

Ty for the none selsun blue response haha 😄

In that case he may be mirroring you or he may not think you are into him as much as he first thought. Good luck!

Oh, Lordy...if we had a nickel for every post about a Gem guy that disappeared. Good luck to you, Pomba.

Sounds like you're all set Pomba!

Good luck!

P.S. Oftentimes, even I don't understand Gem men. 😉

I must say, THANKS to all the Gems 🙂)

& all the luck! haha

You're very welcome. Update us soon. 🙂

Posted by Whimsy
Oh, Lordy...if we had a nickel for every post about a Gem guy that disappeared. Good luck to you, Pomba.

Ain't that the truth!

You know what is REALLY great about a gemini guy though? When YOU disappear and come back a few months later 9/10 times he's got no beef with that 😄. Doesn't even mention it usually. I'd say thats fair enough, right?

Posted by Sickleesweet
You know what is REALLY great about a gemini guy though? When YOU disappear and come back a few months later 9/10 times he's got no beef with that 😄. Doesn't even mention it usually. I'd say thats fair enough, right?

lol Why is this so true?

Gemini peoples don't hold grudges when someone is busy and forgets to call for a few days (read weeks), so why is everyone else so quick to over react on us? One of my best buddies is a leo woman. Why? She completely understands that I still ADORE her whether I'm around 24/7 or not. Take a cue from leo! Love yourself and most relationship problems go away.

Posted by Sickleesweet
Gemini peoples don't hold grudges when someone is busy and forgets to call for a few days (read weeks), so why is everyone else so quick to over react on us? One of my best buddies is a leo woman. Why? She completely understands that I still ADORE her whether I'm around 24/7 or not. Take a cue from leo! Love yourself and most relationship problems go away.

AMEN.

There are less Geminis complaining on here about how miserable their life is than any other signs (Maybe except Saggis. Those kids are drunk and high on life 24/7) hehe... Things happen in life that is out of your control, YES, "that one person" you thought would never hurt you, could possibly betray you someday. Although you cannot control what others and life throws at you, however, you can control the outcomes so deal with it and get over it. There is no reason to dwell in the past when you can't do anything about it anymore.