Flip-floppity

What's the deal? I'm always flip flopping with my emotions! I've been seeing this Scorpio guy for about a month; he's different than the other scorps I've dated and we get along well and have a good time. However, usually when someone does or says something I find myself passively telling them so. With him, I've found I can be kind of snappy/bitchy...a LITTLE manipulative, why? Maybe because I get away with it...who knows.

But for the most part I like him. I'll go through moods where I feel I'm losing interest, but then that will go away and I feel more emotion. I'll be like "meh maybe I'm over him", then it may take him awhile to text me back and I'll flip out. What's the deal?? He's a really good guy and we get along well, he treats me great and we are compatible and have the same goals and aspirations; we are at the same place in life. We can joke around and he likes all my friends etc, I can just tear him a new one when he offends me and give him massive shit (I get over it quickly though and don't dwell or keep bringing it up) but I'm not usually like that with people.

I like him...so what is the deal?? Why am I being so difficult? -.-

I just went and took a look at your chart and we have some of the same placements. I read this and I felt you were talking about me LOL! Both of us have Sun/Merc in Gemini, Moon in Libra, and I have ascendant in Libra and you in Aqua (both air). With my Scorpio ex you basically described how we were exactly. However I'm not sure I can give you a straight answer because I really didn't know myself. The closest I can get is that you might be falling for him. I know...I know...believe me. I was all over the place with my ex. He loved my fiesty attitude and just gave him what for constantly. Felt I could really be myself and just let it all loose. We feel most comfortable that way when we can just run our mouths and not be judged or picked apart, just listened to. Scorpios take the abuse like a champ. Then they will return it 10 fold with their mystery, silence, and intensity. Don't really have to say anything to us. Just not texting us back in a timely manner is enough to understand what kind of grip he has on you. I just think you might be in love as F'd up as it sounds. The second you start to slip with your coolness and control on your emotions is a sign for us Gemini girls 🙂

Lol wow! Crazy, already? This wasnt how I was with my Leo ex but with him...the Scorp, he will say something that pisses me off and I'll give him so much shit and he will huh me and kiss me and say it was just a joke and he was sorry and I'll reluctantly accept the hug and roll my eyes etc.

There are things he says where I'll literally just roll my eyes and be like..."seriously? That was dumb. Don't say that" etc

I guess I just haven't found many people I can be this way around. But honestly it's weird because I feel so bored with him at times and annoyed but then in an instant I'll be like "well MAYBE I like him....MAYBE"

I'll be posting pics of us and smitten and then 3 hours later I'll be, "ugh he's so annoying...I wish he would just shut up"

Dafuq??

Yeah pretty much. LOL! It's that Libra moon too. I do this a lot especially when I like someone.

Plus you know our emotions is one of the hardest things for us to come to terms with. You feel like you're going crazy and then we sit and try to rationalize our irrationality. I totally know where you are coming from. But I think you might just have to realize that you really like this guy and be ok with it. You're fighting your Gem nature, an internal battle. Heart vs. Mind = Bat shit. Trying to find a way out. Reasons why you shouldn't be in love. IE: Im so bored with him, I like him...MAYBE...Maybe I'm over him. Right there it's clear as day that you are constantly thinking about it. And when we constantly think about someone it consumes us. Just going to have to accept (like I mentioned before) that you might be falling for him and hard at that. Don't mean to expose you but shit I know exactly how it looks and how crazy we feel about it. Enjoy your time with him. Because believe me when he's gone you will think about him every day. This intensity you feel right now won't vanish forever. I still think about my ex every day.

What exactly are the traits of a libra moon?

He spoils me. He takes me out nice places, is affectionate, buys me things, says all the right things when he think it through and it's not something dumb.

My Leo ex was a total cheapo yet he is still in the back of my mind. I left him for a reason, I cheated on him for a reason, granted I would NEVER do it again and it was 16 months ago but still. He even texted me last night!

I still have feelings stirring around for him but I hold strong attachments to people. Him, this Aquarius I went on a few dates with but couldn't be with due to distance and had a lasting bond with of a year. He's seeing someone now and I am too but it stings a little oddly. Then the 43 year old Virgo I dated for 1.5 months. I ended it but we had a VERY strong bond, we are still friends but I haft a soft spot for him. What's my deal?? Why can't I just let go...


Scorp said something I loved to hear this morning, he said "you look extra skinny today". But instead, I wasnt super thrilled. I reluctantly accepted the compliment and then began to argue with him about it, "thanks, but I don't like this part..."

Why am I so weird? I piss myself off.

I really like Scorp but whenever Leo ex texts me my heart strings tug. We were together for 4 years after all. But it was my longest relationship, it's all I know. I'm comparing everything to it because I have no other experience.

I have feelings for Scorp, but then feelings for others (espec ex) stirring around.

And this Capricorn I dated briefly but ended it because he made no effort to see me and was a total ass hole I can't stop thinking of how amazing our sex was. Amazing.

Sex with Scorp is pretty good, not my best, but pretty good. Sometimes it's decent, other times it gets really good. But I have that strong emotional connection and affection that Leo stopped caring about and Capricorn thought he only had to show once in a blue moon.
Stahp thoughts...stahp!!

Why can't I just be happy with what I have? ~.~

Also I should mention, even if I'm trying to figure out if I'm losing interest I still think about Scorp constantly. We spend a lot of time together. At least 3 days a week but the usual is 4-5x a week.

I saw him briefly Monday night at the gym. He was sick so I didn't see him tues or weds. Last night he took me out to dinner and stayed the night. Tonight he is coming over after work and we may go to a bar (gets off work late) and I'm making dinner and a pie lol.

Then I'll be spending time with him sat until he goes to work (staying the night) and ill be going to dinner with my friend couple (I am equally close friends with both) Pisces and Gemini. Then drinks with one of my Leo best friends since I was a kid when she's off work. Then he and I will do something Sunday after his church.

Not to mention we text all through day and talk on phone etc. I'm so sensitive with how he words things sometimes and I'll blow up when I feel it comes off insensitive. I obviously like him but why do I keep longing for and thinking of my Leo Ex and have feelings for others??

We constantly dwell on the past to see how we measure up today to it. or atleast i do. I keep thinking if I made the right choices in my life all the damn time. Sometimes even second guess myself about the guy i married. It happens with us. A Lot... its hard for us to be constant on one thought only.


i need to run outside.. will get back and finish my thought... until then try and stay calm, breathe and dont overthink it. The choices you made are good, you just need to realise it yourself.

Running would help me! I did 10 miles of cardio the other night.

My Taurus room mate is like my rock, he's helped me out a lot and even helped me get with Scorp. Taurus and I get along great, he makes me laugh sooo much. He would be a great bf, the difference is however I'm not at all physically attracted to him so he's taken the step brother/life coach role.

I have a weird habit of getting strong feelings that feel like romance even though it's not for best friends/people I see all the time and am really close to, weather it's male OR female.

I'm not bi but I have an intensely strong/passionate friendship with my Leo friend I've had since I was 12 etc.

@Agent - Stop looking for reasons first. Second let it go and enjoy it. This Scorpio seems to be really nice to you and I am envious of it. There are a lot of women including myself who would like to have a chance with an EVOLVED Scorpio and by the sounds of it seems that's the case with you.

Gemini with Libra moon we can have many guys we like at once. Each one offers us something different but you will have to accept that you might never find one man that encompasses everything you like about each one. Im still trying to come to terms with that even at my age. I find something I like about so many people that it's hard to just stop thinking about them, curious to see how they are doing, or just generally dating many people at once. We are so multifaceted that its virtually impossible for a man to satisfy each and every part of us.

You're also still young. I see you are 24. When I was that age I was having fun and just weighing my options felt restless all the time. Looking for something but didn't know what. With time you will eventually come around and find that the answer lies within you. Ive since then lost my "restless" nature looking for something, chasing a ghost, thinking it would be fulfilled by another. It doesn't lie within them. Im 10 years older than you and you need not to look back at that age and regret something you did now. Just enjoy it.

Yes you like things about each guy and yes it's not going to be easy to just loose the feelings for the Leo. It was four years after all. You also should allow yourself some time in between relationships to come back to your center.

My Libra moon is sated once I make an actual list and write my thoughts down. I always weigh pros and cons to everything I do. Whether it be a purchase (doing comparisons), people I am dating, feelings, etc. It will help. If you still can't make your mind up about a guy write it down. It puts it in perspective. List the pros and cons of each one and read over it, spend some time alone. Might take a while to figure out what you truly want but by the time you do you know it will be a choice you know 100% is the one for you.

I'm a very watery gem.

My venus and mars are in Cancer. My Pluto and Midheaven is Scorpio and Pisces is in my second house.

Yes I have abandonment issues. When I don't get attention, I pout. I over analyze everything I do, second guess myself and others constantly. I'm hyper sensitive and my emotions can change in an instant. I'm quick to tears when im really stressed.

My closest family, and some of my closest friends are cancer and Pisces. My favorite person at work who recently left is a Scorpio.

I think I'm just afraid. I want to go police so bad, it's my dream. But I'm so terrified of failing and coming up short. It's not just a relationship thing.

Also I'm very sensitive with sex. I can't just do it randomly even tho I have a very strong drive, stronger than my Scorp even. Even if I'm not crazy about the person I need commitment and to be the only one that person is physical with. It's impossible in most cases, for me to set aside emotions in intimacy.

Trying to figure out why I can be so short and snappy with him at times. Idk he can just really annoy me and I'm not usually like that to ppl. I'm pretty critical of him.

Why am I such a brat at times??

I understand water quite well. I'm flip floppity, but I swear I'm a cancer a lot of the time.

My friends that I'm going out with tomorrow are Pisces female and Gemini male, together 9 years and will be married this year. They are totally in love. Same with my Pisces female friend and her Aquarius husband of 11 years together. It's possible!!

I think I may be extra moody too because I recently switched to a different, slightly higher hormone level birth control. This one is generic and FREE where as the other one I was paying $ 40 a month for and I'm broke...

I feel slightly more emotional, espec my period and 1st week of new pack but not nearly as bad as when I was on the depo shot in the beginning with Leo ex...oh poor man. I had withdrawals when I got off it and needed meds to counter act the withdrawals too! That thing is horrible. Ladies, never take it.

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@Agent - Stop looking for reasons first. Second let it go and enjoy it. This Scorpio seems to be really nice to you and I am envious of it. There are a lot of women including myself who would like to have a chance with an EVOLVED Scorpio and by the sounds of it seems that's the case with you.

Gemini with Libra moon we can have many guys we like at once. Each one offers us something different but you will have to accept that you might never find one man that encompasses everything you like about each one. Im still trying to come to terms with that even at my age. I find something I like about so many people that it's hard to just stop thinking about them, curious to see how they are doing, or just generally dating many people at once. We are so multifaceted that its virtually impossible for a man to satisfy each and every part of us.

You're also still young. I see you are 24. When I was that age I was having fun and just weighing my options felt restless all the time. Looking for something but didn't know what. With time you will eventually come around and find that the answer lies within you. Ive since then lost my "restless" nature looking for something, chasing a ghost, thinking it would be fulfilled by another. It doesn't lie within them. Im 10 years older than you and you need not to look back at that age and regret something you did now. Just enjoy it.

Yes you like things about each guy and yes it's not going to be easy to just loose the feelings for the Leo. It was four years after all. You also should allow yourself some time in between relationships to come back to your center.

"You're also still young. I see you are 24. When I was that age I was having fun and just weighing my options felt restless all the time." Pretty much sums up my take on it too. I'd listen to what Xin has to say here. I think she's spot on.

Their birthdays are march 13th, 1982, and June 4th, 1982.

They had some bad issues for a little bit...the Gemini cheated a few times and the Pisces was battling bad depression/anxiety but they have been issue free for 4 years and I usually always hang out together with them, they have true love. They are so cute together.

Yeah well I guess they made it past their differences, they do really love eachother.

The Pisces/Aquarius duo was no cheating and completely solid.

My mom is cancer and married 2 saggaterius with the same name! One lasted 6 years, one 15.

Libra is an indecisive sign by nature, and the moon representing our emotions can only mean that a Moon in Libra person is very often indecisive about what he/she feels, hence the flip flopping..

Moon sign is as equally (if not more important) than sun sign in females than in males.