madly in love with my scorpio

He says he loves me but he doesn't show it. He even said he can't show me he loves me but he does
everytime we fight he brings up the beginning of our relationship that he use to care a lot
things happened and now I'm in his position and its to late. I don't understand
it feels like a game. I can't handle it. Help?

I thought Pisces and Scorpio are highly compatible now I'm not so sure.

Posted by sharareperez_808
He says he loves me but he doesn't show it.

how so? scorps are more of the actions speak louder types...what is your interpretation of SHOWING it? is it with flowers? intimacy? perhaps your visions of how love is displayed are not congruent. have you asked him what his interpretation of love is?

every time we fight he brings up the beginning of our relationship that he use to care a lot

what is he bringing up? and what are you fighting over? is he throwing it in your face or...?

things happened and now I'm in his position and its to late. I don't understand
it feels like a game. I can't handle it. Help?

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what happened? and how are you in his position? what feels like a game? i'm kind of lost without any background...

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Those are very good questions.

+1 I am completely confused by the OP, but I'm not in the "let me ask more questions" mood. Why do people post these vague posts? No wonder they have communication problems with their Scorps.

Meh.

Sorry guys I was talking to him. See in the past before we met I fooled around with this one guy but this was while I knew my Scorpio boyfriend. He held his feelings about everything in all these years and now its come back to haunt me. He wronged me and then I him. So now were in a situation where the past is always brought up. Past as in a few years ago. He is angry that my feelings for him I only now show. He feels it's to late. But he loves me but everything bugs him so he can't show me how he feels. What can I do to fix this?

You are so right. I love when a guy response who better to know a guy then another experienced guy.

Wow you're right on the dot. We broke up because of a fight we had then he fooled around with this girl I knew I never saw it but he told me. I then dated that girls boyfriend for a short time. He saw pictures and a hickey on my neck. Does this mean he doesn't love me? He brings that up too. How he saw what I did but I saw nothing and don't know how it feels.

..your story sounds like..game playing to me....there's not much trust there.. if you truly love your current boyfriend..then make it known...and show it with actions..in time he will slowly trust you ...and review his true self and how he really feels... So, don't question why he's not SHOWING his love to you..the question is..HAVE YOU been showing your love to him ?

That makes a lot of sense thank you

Are you two together now 'officially' in a relationship or trying to get back?What exactly is the current 'status'?

Were together and yes we are having a baby. But communication, that's complicated he keeps his feelings barried.

Since the 'cheating' episodes,he does not 'love' you the same way as before.

I agree with neutro,no trust=no love.

He still cares enough to stand by you since you are having a baby and perhaps 'wants to' love you like in the beginning but can't because of trust issues.

As for the 'buried feelings',he won't open up unless he trusts you sufficiently.Also,he will make an attempt to trust you again only if he wants to.

In summary,I see him sticking around you,supporting you and taking care of you and the baby without having to/feeling like investing his emotions 100% this time.The 'barriers' help him stay safe, yet there.

Its funny how all of you are correct 100% .
He puts a lot of blame on himself. I hope he can be all in love but he says it will take time for him to love me the way he did. That's exactly what you all said.
Now it's the fear of losing eachother and knowing the other deserves better.
Why must we have feelings?!

Thank you for bringing me to reality lol I mean that though