Fuck us right?!

Why is it that when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys. Gemini are very mistreated and I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me. Right now I am at the mid center of letting go and holding on. Although I really feel like as much as I feel I'm letting go, the tighter my grip gets to not.

"when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear"

Maybe they didn't agree that they "needed" to hear it? Maybe it was delivered in a way that made them...not like it?

Idk, ofc. Just wrote the reaction I got when reading your post.

Posted by AlantheGemini
Why is it that when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys. Gemini are very mistreated and I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me. Right now I am at the mid center of letting go and holding on. Although I really feel like as much as I feel I'm letting go, the tighter my grip gets to not.

First, if the "friend" is manipulating on a regular, then they're not really much of a friend, are they? Honest, real, true friends don't manipulate... they respect each other!

Second, if I were to have a friend like that, they wouldn't be a friend of mine for long. How could they learn from it if you keep allowing them to? Cuz, essentially, that's what you are doing when u continue to keep them around as a friend.

With that said, I am always honest and tell ppl what they do need to hear. Always with some level of tact. If they don't like it... Oh well! It's not my resposiblity for how they react to it.

Posted by AlantheGemini

Why is it that when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys.

Gemini are very mistreated and I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me.

If you are so wise that you just know what a person needs, to the point that you are actually telling this other person what to do ... then how is it that you're so oblivious, that you can be manipulated.

If this person is able to manipulate you .. then in reality, you don't know shit about what they need, so therefore you just run your mouth to this person like a know-it-all would.

That would be YOU mistreating the other person.

So, my counsel to you would be to do a self check because you're definitely fucking up.

Posted by AlantheGemini

1. when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys.

2. Gemini are very mistreated

3. I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me.

1. who is "they" that you speak of? Also, nobody can make you look bad. Only you can make you look bad. A person can point out to you that what you said was bad, but, that person is incapable of speaking those words for you. Only you can speak the words that made you look bad.

Kind of like .... this person noticing that you said something bad, and so points it out to you, is pretty much the same thing as telling you what you need to hear. If you're saying something that makes you look bad, then shouldn't you be told this?

So, basically, you cannot handle what you dish out. You tell people what they need to hear, but, if someone tells you back what you need to hear, then you think you're being mistreated. which leads to #2

2. Clarify how Gemini's are very mistreated. You can explain how you are mistreated, but, you've taken it upon yourself to speak for 1/12 of the population, and you did so with a generalized sweeping statement. So, explain how you believe Gemini's, in their entirety, are being mistreated.

3. How has this person continually manipulated you? What is the manipulation?



If you are going to present a situation, then you can't honestly expect answers back when you aren't even presenting the details.

Posted by libraqueen
When a human being enters society as a fully functioning adult, they tend to pick up social cues on when and when not to say something and in what way, to avoid conflict. One who refuses to maintain a classy way of living tend to brainwash themself into thinking as long as the truth is told, they have done nothing wrong.

Geminis are misunderstood because they have a big mouth and they don't think before they speak.

Maybe if Geminis adopted empathy they will cure their Tourette's.

Donald Trump is an example. Kanye West another.

I got news for you, every Virgo I've ever known is the same way. But we're both ruled by Mercury, so, no surprises there.

Posted by AlantheGemini
Why is it that when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys. Gemini are very mistreated and I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me. Right now I am at the mid center of letting go and holding on. Although I really feel like as much as I feel I'm letting go, the tighter my grip gets to not.

I think this is true of ANY person who "tells people what they need to hear" regardless of sign.