Gemini with Virgo Moon, but I love this kind of stuff so I took the test....

ISFP - "Artist". Interested in the fine arts. Expression primarily through action or art form.
The senses are keener than in other types. 8.8% of total population.


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Type 2 Helpfulness |||||||||||||||||| 73%
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Type 4 Individualism |||||| 26%
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Type 6 Security Focus |||||||||||| 50%
Type 7 Adventurousness |||||||||||||||| 63%
Type 8 Aggressiveness |||||||||| 33%
Type 9 Calmness |||||||||||| 43%

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Posted by sweet_and_low
Posted by gemini64
Posted by Weeds
Not you op I was referring to mister optimistic being too serious. Annnnyyywaaay. ..
On topic.. sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.
They have their reasons. Sometimes valid sometimes not. While it takes them time to figure things out on their own. It's hard to fix what they intentionally break.
Loner life style consists of pushing people away.
Comfort zone.


*sometimes a Virgo will intentionally sabotages a friendship.

*Loner life style consists of pushing people away.

Truer words never stated.




not really, we're probably just busy, virgos dont sabotage...loll we save.

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Not relating to any zodiac sign or male/female. Strictly something I've learned as I've aged. "Busy" is bull butter. When one wants to make time for something/someone, they will. I'm not talking about the "busy at work couldn't answer your text" thing. I mean, "Sorry you haven't heard from me in two weeks/months/years. I've been really busy."

bull butter.
Posted by IV_NAMED
Him getting hit by a car was part of God's plan..if he wants him to live then he will, if he don't, then just hope he wasn't living in sin, because he will be going to hell..thats in the bible


Take the words of your avatar to heart. Please.
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Posted by 81gems
Kept having too many arguments the last couple of years. Landlady living in the house is someone he hates. Every so often he projects yet another despised characteristic of hers on to me.

Late Oct. he called to yell, scream and swear. I had taken too long to mail something I had to make for him that he wanted. Indeed I did take a while, still I thought he was a little excessive since I'd told him just HOURS before this that I was mailing it the next day.

I was pissed and told him so in an email some days later. He ignored everything I said. Continued to ask for another item he wanted. I pressed the issue and it got worse from there. He kept emailing back more and more snide remarks every time. I sent him the damn stuff he wanted and put myself at more of a distance.

He emailed the NIGHT BEFORE Thanksgiving. Said "Happy Thanksgiving" and "Got the stuff. Thanks! Etc., etc., etc....." I didn't check my email until Thanksgiving EVENING I was so busy. By then, he emailed a second time, calling me a cookiemonster for not acknowledging his previous email.

I was shocked and mad. From that point on it got worse. Nothing I said got through. Another reply with another jab from him. I finally had to say my peace and tell him I was done talking. He followed that up with yet another dig.

I am sad that his refusal to see how he acted, and his continued insults finished ruining our friendship. And I'm pissed off with myself for letting all he said bother me to begin with.

I stayed friends with him because it wasn't all bad. He was much nicer a few years ago and we bonded and were pretty decent friends that respected one another. He's all alone and has no family or real, longstanding friends now. The times I felt like ending the friendship before, I never did because I'd always feel guilty. Ugh!


Holy hell, what an marker! You okay?
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Yeah. I'm fine. Thanks for asking.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
so far we had three "I'm tired of" threads for Sags and one for Virgos on DXP.

friends help Saturn master.

Let's look at it positively. Team Sag wins.


Well this guy has a Sag moon, so no. Both teams LOSE!
Kept having too many arguments the last couple of years. Landlady living in the house is someone he hates. Every so often he projects yet another despised characteristic of hers on to me.

Late Oct. he called to yell, scream and swear. I had taken too long to mail something I had to make for him that he wanted. Indeed I did take a while, still I thought he was a little excessive since I'd told him just HOURS before this that I was mailing it the next day.

I was pissed and told him so in an email some days later. He ignored everything I said. Continued to ask for another item he wanted. I pressed the issue and it got worse from there. He kept emailing back more and more snide remarks every time. I sent him the damn stuff he wanted and put myself at more of a distance.

He emailed the NIGHT BEFORE Thanksgiving. Said "Happy Thanksgiving" and "Got the stuff. Thanks! Etc., etc., etc....." I didn't check my email until Thanksgiving EVENING I was so busy. By then, he emailed a second time, calling me a cookiemonster for not acknowledging his previous email.

I was shocked and mad. From that point on it got worse. Nothing I said got through. Another reply with another jab from him. I finally had to say my peace and tell him I was done talking. He followed that up with yet another dig.

I am sad that his refusal to see how he acted, and his continued insults finished ruining our friendship. And I'm pissed off with myself for letting all he said bother me to begin with.

I stayed friends with him because it wasn't all bad. He was much nicer a few years ago and we bonded and were pretty decent friends that respected one another. He's all alone and has no family or real, longstanding friends now. The times I felt like ending the friendship before, I never did because I'd always feel guilty. Ugh!
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Posted by Damnata
Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Thread #74838292939387447747474 that validates my theory: all Virgos shouldnt date smh.
Someone needs to take us to an island by ourselves.


No, not ALL Virgos shouldn't date.

I don't get this "oh we're just awful" mindset.


There are a few that can date and they do it wonderfully. But from my prerogative some of us are really not the best in relationships. That doesn't mean that we cheat or anything (or that it's our fault in general for why the relationship doesn't work out), I just haven't seen many Virgo pairings work out, for whatever reason that is.


So maybe a better idea is to strive for self-awareness than throw self-deprecating humor and hyperbole at every turn like it's funny we're treetrunked up?

Just a thought.
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That is funny...

Posted by leeblove
Posted by ladylibra21
Posted by TheLibraMudra
How did I get over my Gemini ex of 6 years? Easy. I was so sick and tired of the bullbutter, lying, and emotional cheating... I grew absolutely disgusted with him and it was easy to cut him off.

To this day he still tries to message me on Facebook to say hi and I still cringe.

It's like they are that shape shifting illusion trick when you try to cut them they multiply but except it's not physically it is an increase of messages!


Haha yes this is the way I want to be!! Why do they emotionally cheat? :/

Anyway good news is his phone is broken so Im hoping he wont be in touch for a while and this can be my fresh start. I don't think Ill tell him how I feel but if he gets back in touch and asks whats going on I think Ill just say I need some space for a while.
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Not being upfront isn't the right.

You say he was being flirty, that he was having an emotional affair, etc. Perhaps he was entertaining the idea of possibly having a relationship with you. Him and his girlfriend were having trouble. In a way, it's not so surprising.

He doesn't know that you had feelings for him, and were "gutted" when he got back together with his girlfriend. You instead become distant. He revs up the communication because something seems different with you. You continue to pull away, say nothing about what you really feel, etc.

Do you not think that it would be a bit more fair to him to come clean? You could just say that you are not going to break up his relationship, but that you liked him more than a friend, and need some space from him for your own sake. So that you can process, and deal with whatever feelings you have on your own time.

If you don't tell someone what the problem is, don't expect them to know. Don't expect them to understand the way you feel, and how they contributed if you say nothing.

Good luck.
Wow what a just like me.
Posted by PEITHO
P-Angel go away if you don't have anything to say in regards to this particular topic.


Ignore that troll. This individual makes similar posts everywhere on this site. About how the OP is to blame because they lack dignity, self respect, etc. P-Angel must speak from experience.

Put he/she/it/them/that thing on block.
"this thread is worthless without pics..."

or something like that.
Well, if you two are done publicly blaming each other and "winning" the argument, perhaps the original discussion can continue.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Yet many men act like this without the aid of alcohol....



Oh, I've been around plenty of women who never needed alcohol to "act like this."

Posted by Explicit
I think women are more free at strip clubs because it's very, very rare for a woman to be labeled a pervert or get called out for "inappropriate touching." So when they go to male strip clubs they take full advantage. And most men won't be like "oh my God, she touched me inappropriately, I feel so abused." lol.

But if a man behaved the same way in a female strip club without the permission of the stripper, cops would be called on the spot.


Quite right...

Most men won't say anything because first off, a woman isn't as much of a physical threat. Second, if he complains some woman grabbed him, he'd be told by his fellow male strippers to "man up" or "take it like a man" or "Dude, you funny?" or some other stupid butter like that.
So, to you Virgos, I have a question...

Do you ever realize that people are different, and you're not going to mold them into an individual who shares your every desire to learn about every subject you hold near and dear.

No sarcasm intended. It is an honest question. I mean, what do you do if after a few years of friendship or romance you realize, "Wow, he/she's never going to master the art of art appreciation like I did." What do you do then? Give up the conquest or give up the person?
I am a university educated woman and believe I know my field pretty well. I am an educator, and say to people, "You don't need to be smart to be a teacher. You just need a bachelors degree." And I've expressed how many individuals with Masters are dumber than rocks. I do not see a professor as smart just because he/she is a professor. Many of my older, more intelligent friends and colleagues agree.

I am married to an older, brilliant man. I do not feel intimidated with him. He sees me as being smarter than what I give myself credit for... God bless him.

Most of my friends are older than me. Some smarter than the other. Some "get it" when it comes to common sense, and life, more than others.

One friend is another brilliant individual. After a few years, I would feel intimidated talking to him about something. He knew so much more, it was hard to contend with his vast knowledge about something. I felt stupid. HE WASN'T making me feel stupid at the time, I just felt that way. I think it was my subconscious alerting me to something...

This same friend later said things to intentionally MAKE me feel stupid. I'm pretty much too dumb to be his friend... That really bothered me too, for a good while. I guess I had a right to feel intimidated.

When I am around OLDER people, who have lived and learned, I might feel like the "little kid" who doesn't know much. There is probably some truth to that when you add a lack of age and wisdom to the mixture.

So to answer your question, I typically do not feel intimidated by "intelligent" guys. They usually turn out to be chickeny markers sooner or later, or snore fests to be around.
Posted by P-Angel
Posted by CancerGirl25

After the breakup I ran after him, convincing him that we can be a super cool couple




You're disgusting.

I'd break up with you too.

You get thrown around like a piece of trash ... then come cling yourself to his leg.

Nobody wants a doormat.

There's no doubt in my mind that you were like this the whole time, and he had all he could take, and so scrapped you off the bottom of his shoe to go find a woman with convictions, and dignity ... one who isn't going to wait on his decisions like a submissive servant.

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Wow you're a real black hearted cookiemonster.

Just cause you're some harpy no self respecting man/woman would ever want...
Posted by AlantheGemini
Why is it that when a Gemini tells people what they need to hear, they make us look like the bad guys. Gemini are very mistreated and I am currently heart broken from a recent incident with a very close friend that basically kept manipulating me. Right now I am at the mid center of letting go and holding on. Although I really feel like as much as I feel I'm letting go, the tighter my grip gets to not.


I think this is true of ANY person who "tells people what they need to hear" regardless of sign.
Posted by libraqueen
When a human being enters society as a fully functioning adult, they tend to pick up social cues on when and when not to say something and in what way, to avoid conflict. One who refuses to maintain a classy way of living tend to brainwash themself into thinking as long as the truth is told, they have done nothing wrong.

Geminis are misunderstood because they have a big mouth and they don't think before they speak.

Maybe if Geminis adopted empathy they will cure their Tourette's.

Donald Trump is an example. Kanye West another.



I got news for you, every Virgo I've ever known is the same way. But we're both ruled by Mercury, so, no surprises there.