"Oh, my name, it ain't nothing. My age, it means less..."
"Time... it changes people's hearts. It'll change yours too. Someday you'll understand."

"You can't run from what you see and feel..."

"Even if it's to save your life, there are some things you just don't do."

"But just as some things can be right and useless at the same time, can’t something be wrong and priceless?"

"I want to follow my heart. Whether it is right or wrong will be judged by history."

Is it normal for a taurus to constantly accuse someone else (me) of arguing? Like, he expects me to see things his way. If I don't and explain why, I'm arguing and it's sickening.

Do bulls always expect their friends to go along with how they view things, and what they think? I seem to have encountered this problem A LOT with Virgo's. What with their criticisms, unsolicited advice, and them thinking something is wrong with you if you have a different opinion. But Taurus too?

It actually makes me pretty sad because I feel this kind of thing is putting a strain on our friendship.


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Yeah. And maybe the men never stop to think either. You know why? BECAUSE MEN DON'T THINK. Period. They have butter for brains.

They also don't listen. And they don't know what's good for them. That's why they're always getting caught up in stupid situations that could have easily been avoided. DUH......

Trust me, Virgo's do disappear all the time for no reason, or for their own misinterpretations. Or their own stupid reasons. Is this d-bag worth hanging around for? Probably not. He is a man, after all.

Wow, a man hater and a Virgo hater, rolled into one. How rare and refreshing.

Pretty much everything you said was wrong, though, and contradictory. But I'm not going to argue with you about it; clearly you have issues, and you're probably just looking for someone to fight with you on them. But you're not important enough to waste my time.

But I will say this. As a Virgo and a man, if I disappear for more than a few days then it's either because:

(a) you disappeared first;

(b) you've sent a lot of signals that you've lost interest and I'm protecting myself; or

(c) I've totally lost interest.
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Sorry dude, you've already wasted your time...

I actually am not a man hater. That person, whoever he was, made all those blanket statements so I figured I'd join in.

I actually get along with Virgos better than my own fellow Gemini's (my Virgo moon to blame?) But I will tell you, your reasons for disappearing seem on point with a big flaw Virgo's have; nothing is ever their fault. Ever.

Even when they do something blatantly wrong, it's someONE or someTHING else that drove them to that. They're not wrong for their mistakes; someone else MADE them mess up. You follow me?

Aren't you the guy with "White Knight Syndrome" ??? Tell me, if you get involved with such women, and it all ends badly, who's fault is that? The woman's? Sure, it's easy to blame ANYTHING else, but really, who knows better? Who's been through it before? Who knows what they're doing and getting themselves into, and still forges ahead with it anyway?

Some Virgos do whatever necessary to spin things around so that their actions, however shady, or wrong, are the result of someone else who did something else first! This isn't hate, but straight forward honesty. As a Virgo you can appreciate that.
My niece has this placement. She also has a libra ascendant. Too much venus. That's why she's lazy as sin.
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bulls and bullettes


Shouldn't that be bulls and cows? Cause I guarantee, taurus gals are just as stubborn, hard headed, and immovable as cows. Ever seen some poor soul try to get a cow moving when it thinks it's stuck? Yeah...

stupid cows.
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I have a Aquarius Sun and Gemini Moon and i'm confuse because this two sign has a lot in common for example there both air sign but can you tell me the main difference in personality and attitude of this two signs


They are not that similar. Gemini is the crazy, psycho, nut! I mean, seriously, they're nuts!

Aquarius is like the marker of the zodiac. And they're weird. While gemini is a hyperactive maniac, aquarius is the weirdo that hangs out with all the freaks, winos, drugged out hippies. And boy, is aquarius ever a mean marker to boot.

Big difference.
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we tend to cut off people when they've hurt us... without giving them an explanation or warning

we might ghost on you if we feel unappreciated
^^^^ very true no warning no second chance


i've gotten like 3984503498534985034958340958304958340953845 chances from the virgos in my life but it's not like anything changes. so it's really pointless.

sometimes it's me that reaches out. sometimes it's them.

same butter different day.


U never hurt them clearly honey. Just deemed urself stupid
And we accept ppl as they are


Really hurt one an u won't ever know uve been ghosted
Cuz we'll calmly step away and u'll have never existed



I've hurt one in particular in ways I'm not proud of. But I'd assume pretty deeply by the icing outs I got. We alwYs reconnected though. One time she told me she thinks I'd say anything to try to hurt someone. Took me to that moment to realize how sensitive she was and that I was actually probably deeply hurting her. Not something I'm proud of by any stretch.



Well then u suck ?


Sometimes I do. ?

You'll be happy to know she is now very happily with someone else.



Are u a Aries by chance....if anyone gets a billion shots a still screws up it's a ram. But I just can't resist?
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I know your question isn't directed at me, but it reminded me of the last two people I've recently iced out of my life, who kept screwing up chance after chance after chance after chance; they were both Virgo men.

And the taurus male I know... good grief. I love earth signs but, they just NEVER, EVER learn.

Ever.

Or maybe it's just a guy thing. Yeah.... probably that.
Posted by SagChick72
After 5 months of seeing each other and the Virgo games of get close then disappear-I thought things were finally heading in a good direction. We went from seeing each other once a month to almost once a week-he was actually initiating conversation, we even had a convo about liking each other. I was finally feeling we were getting close-intimate. Then out of the blue, he starts pulling away. Not like the other times (or maybe I just didn't notice since I wasn't liking him as much in the beginning). We had plans he initiated, then he was a no call no show. He had a plausible explanation, but during that conversation he blurted out "I am not looking for a relationship if that is what you are asking". I was blown away-pretty hurt-like I said, things were moving along (finally!) and then this. I kept my cool (this was a phone convo) and said I appreciated his honesty. He basically said he enjoyed spending time with me and then we kinda ended the call on a normal note. I am devastated. I don't understand what could have happened?? My best friend who has known him for years says she thinks he is scared. I need advice. My gut says he really likes me (he is no player-quite the opposite so I find it VERY hard to believe he could have faked the level of intimacy we shared). What in the heck do I do? I initially told him I thought we could continue to see each other in a physical sense now that I knew what he was feeling, but I know I cant. I will just keep falling harder. I am so heartbroken. Advice would be GREATLY appreciated. I have posted before-I am a Sag, he is Virgo/Libra cusp.


You should probably let this guy go.

People make butterty excuses for a Virgo's behavior; "Virgos are sensitive. They get hurt/scare easily. They need time to think, which is why they disappear for 3 months at a time."

Tell me, WHO DOESN'T get apprehensive, nervous, scared at the start of a new relationship? Difference is, Virgo's like this guy (and like many others) don't have the balls to say "F the fear, I want to give it a shot. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work."

I've read most of this post and skimmed over others. He gave a pathetic excuse for why he stood you up (he probably deserved having his phone destroyed.) You say he's flaky. He's told you he's not looking for a relationship. Well, there's your answer!

Lemme tell you something about earth signs; I personally like them a lot (caps are boring but anyway...) Unfortunately, any romantic relationship you have with them, the real important stuff is their way or the highway. Especially in the beginning. You have to give in all the time. You have to just be strung along for months or years because that's what they want. And your feelings only matter after a long time has past, or you move on and they try to get you back. F that. You are a human being with your own desires and feelings.

If this guy has a habit of disappearing, he can go to hell. Let him find some fellow, slow as hell moving earth sign to court. Let him take seven years to do so. Whatever. Pick yourself up and move on. It's hard, but there's a lot of other men out there who would be willing to take your feelings into consideration.

Go find yourself a crazy gemini, an emotionally dead aquarius, or a wishy washy libra. Or an aries. A dynamic, fast paced, adventurous aries. You'll have a much better time.

Good luck.
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After 5 months of seeing each other and the Virgo games of get close then disappear-I thought things were finally heading in a good direction. We went from seeing each other once a month to almost once a week-he was actually initiating conversation, we even had a convo about liking each other. I was finally feeling we were getting close-intimate. Then out of the blue, he starts pulling away. Not like the other times (or maybe I just didn't notice since I wasn't liking him as much in the beginning). We had plans he initiated, then he was a no call no show. He had a plausible explanation, but during that conversation he blurted out "I am not looking for a relationship if that is what you are asking". I was blown away-pretty hurt-like I said, things were moving along (finally!) and then this. I kept my cool (this was a phone convo) and said I appreciated his honesty. He basically said he enjoyed spending time with me and then we kinda ended the call on a normal note. I am devastated. I don't understand what could have happened?? My best friend who has known him for years says she thinks he is scared. I need advice. My gut says he really likes me (he is no player-quite the opposite so I find it VERY hard to believe he could have faked the level of intimacy we shared). What in the heck do I do? I initially told him I thought we could continue to see each other in a physical sense now that I knew what he was feeling, but I know I cant. I will just keep falling harder. I am so heartbroken. Advice would be GREATLY appreciated. I have posted before-I am a Sag, he is Virgo/Libra cusp.


There is a reason why he is doing that. Maybe something you doing are to cause it.....have you ever stopped to think about it? Most women don't take a minute to there self to think about what they did. What was the last conversation about?

A virgo does not just disappear for no reason. There is always a reason. The woman never stops to think, why....did he say that or do that.

BTW ... Your best friend does not know him or what he will do regarding you.

Your best option left is to ask him but instead of that you are ready to throw in the towel with him. Your towel is getting dirtier by the minute the longer you wait.
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Yeah. And maybe the men never stop to think either. You know why? BECAUSE MEN DON'T THINK. Period. They have butter for brains.

They also don't listen. And they don't know what's good for them. That's why they're always getting caught up in stupid situations that could have easily been avoided. DUH......

Trust me, Virgo's do disappear all the time for no reason, or for their own misinterpretations. Or their own stupid reasons. Is this d-bag worth hanging around for? Probably not. He is a man, after all.
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No, but I talk butter about people who don't accept of apply productive advice given to them.


But drama just for the sake of drama? No



That's not any better. In fact that's cowardly. But you're a Virgo, so....


Your sign has a reputation of being a conniving backstabber. Please don't talk to me about being a coward. Your whole element is known for being flighty(running away)



Virgo prides itself on being honest and straightforward. They frequently don't live up to it though. Also they turn tail and run when one points out their mistakes. Supposedly it's cause they don't like confrontations. Yeah. Sure... Cowards.

And lord help you if you don't do as they command. They get all cookiemonstery when one doesn't take their "advice." Just cause they have low self esteem... But that's another thread for another day.

Truth is truth. As a liar I don't know if you know anything about that.



None of that changes the fact that your sign is known as the lying Benedict Arnold of the entire zodiac. Everyone knows geminis lie the most, do any comment you have is null & void
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Bullbutter.

And you believe that because you're a Virgo, and everything you say is the absolute final word on anything? Typical earth sign. Whatever, sista.

Gemini's can be butters, and so can Virgo's. Either sign can be a coward, and do cowardly things. Keep on with the delusional self righteousness. Virgo's can actually excel at that if they allow themselves to. Everything you say just proves it.
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Yep they love pain ... And hurting people as long as they are in control ... No matter who feelings get hurt ... They lack empathy hun... It's all about control ...even if it means destroying people's lives ... In the end it leaves them overindulging prescription meds and liquor ... You catch my drift ... Love to control... Control... So they will even use their addictions as a form of control ... Some pretty sick shyt to be honest ...


I'll tell you that the last Virgo I had to cut out of my life, he began to drink more frequently. His moods became worse when drunk. He later claimed it was to surface emotions and deal with them. I was concerned, and told him he needed counseling. But, no. According to him, he was fine. Typical alcoholic.
Posted by csdude55
Some of you have obviously been hurt by a Virgo, and frankly, you need to get over it. Blaming all Virgos for your bad relationship is like blaming all white people because your ex was white. Or blaming all men because your ex was a man. You're being childish and ignorant.

Speaking as someone with three Virgos in his chart, I can't say that I've ever really caused drama, discord, or conflict.

BUT!!!

I do have what's commonly called "White Knight Syndrome". I find myself drawn to women that are going through a rough time (bad breakup or divorce, financial problems, lost their job, etc). And in those cases, I'm always the one trying to help. Which doesn't really work out well, because even though we connect quickly, once the problem is gone they tend to fade away from me.

But the point is that I'm often the one solving the discord or conflict. So it's the opposite of thriving on it; it's more like I see it, and need to fix it.


This coming from someone who asked in a previous post if he was being childish...

Personally, I've never really been "hurt" by a Virgo. I have virgo relatives and numerous friends and co-workers. I like them. I have a Virgo moon, so I "get" them. See right through them. I know what they're like. And yes, all but one of the virgo males I've known have had that White Knight Syndrome.

It was pathetic. Like, they NEEDED to be the savior. They NEEDED to be needed. They HAD to help. It always ended the same way; not well.

But that's what they wanted!!!!! No one forced them. They knew what they were getting into. Right?

Right.

Virgo's have got some really hard heads. Really thick skulls. They may not START the drama, but this doesn’t mean in a way they don’t THRIVE on it.
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No, but I talk butter about people who don't accept of apply productive advice given to them.


But drama just for the sake of drama? No



That's not any better. In fact that's cowardly. But you're a Virgo, so....


Your sign has a reputation of being a conniving backstabber. Please don't talk to me about being a coward. Your whole element is known for being flighty(running away)
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Virgo prides itself on being honest and straightforward. They frequently don't live up to it though. Also they turn tail and run when one points out their mistakes. Supposedly it's cause they don't like confrontations. Yeah. Sure... Cowards.

And lord help you if you don't do as they command. They get all cookiemonstery when one doesn't take their "advice." Just cause they have low self esteem... But that's another thread for another day.

Truth is truth. As a liar I don't know if you know anything about that.

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No, but I talk butter about people who don't accept of apply productive advice given to them.


But drama just for the sake of drama? No



That's not any better. In fact that's cowardly. But you're a Virgo, so....
Posted by csdude55
For the last couple of years, I've been keeping up with who messages me on my birthday and who doesn't. The ones that don't... I take a real serious look at our friendship, and more often than not I'll cut them right out. Or at the very least, I'll demote you from "friend" to "acquaintance" in a heartbeat.

Some instances are forgivable, but if I see you posting on Facebook (when I know you got the notification) or if you watched my Snapchat Story about it being my birthday and you didn't say anything... oh, yeah, I'm remembering that.

I know it's silly and childish, but still, it hurts my feelings. It takes 10 seconds to say "happy birthday," so if you can't find 10 seconds for me then I have to really question how much you value our relationship.

Today, I found myself making a tough decision... a guy that I consider a good friend's birthday was today, but he didn't wish me a happy birthday a couple of weeks ago. I usually buy him a case of beer and send him a message, but he didn't say anything to me, so... do I send him a message, anyway, and buy him the traditional beer?

So I'm curious if other Virgos are as childish as me on this, or similar issues.



You Virgos..... always ending friendships for lame, stupid reasons that most mature adults wouldn't, because other adults are grown up. They're not so dependent on being acknowledged, and praised.

Your friend didn't wish you a happy birthday, so you're weren't going to wish him one either? Tit for tat is also childish. I hope you did better than that.




That book "You're Only Old Once" by dr. Seuss. Treat it like a birthday card. Write a message inside and sign it,

"Love, Me"

or whatever your name is.
You got an abortion without telling him. Despicable. You didn't take him into consideration, and that's putting it mildly. That and all the other scatter-brained "stood him up" crap... no wonder he left you.
Posted by AllegoryAddictX
First, what's your ethnic background? And are you averse to dating people of a different background?

*If you prefer to just list your race, that's fine, too.


I am hispanic. Or Latino. Whatever my people feel like calling themselves. I grew up around a bunch of stereotypical "Macho Mexican" men though my dad wasn't quite like that. So I knew I didn't want to marry into that kind of world.

I married a caucasian of Western/Eastern European decent. Anyone who doesn't think there's a difference between latinos and whites has never spent enough time around either.

I totally am all for dating/marrying outside of ones race. In fact I encourage it.
I'll be meeting up with a friend to visit and catch up with. Then go off to a local theater to see an old movie. Then meet up with another friend after that.

Tomorrow I'll probably do laundry and get all the classroom materials ready. And review paperwork, etc., in preparation for the first day of school on Monday.

Video games and pizza is something I might have to try tonight if I'm not too lazy....
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I'll ask about "d"

His behavior towards me over the last year; why?


We can't know the inner workings of D because that person's energy is not present.

How about:

"Advice in regards to dealing with D"

Okay?


Thats fine.


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I don't know your relationship with this person (whether it's romantic or platonic) but the cards tell me you need to let it go. Whatever pain or old wounds this person keeps re opening--let it go. You need to move on. Or perhaps it is this person who resents You hence D's behavior.
Just let this person go, it's not beneficial to you having this person around upsetting you.
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Thank you.

And thank God this WASN'T a romantic relationship.