Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowPosted by 81gems
My dad was in the hospital. He has issues with his heart that he needs to be concerned about. He also may have sleep apnea, but he still doesn't change his diet. Yesterday we got into an argument and he kept saying "let me be." and other stupid bullbutter. So I told him "Well, next time don't make Mom waste time taking you to the hospital. Just collapse here and let us call the ambulance!"
A male friend of mine told me he was going to have some wine at lunch. The idiot has already had a DWI and kept making up reasons why he won't get pulled over on Easter Sunday, in the middle of the afternoon, and how he won't drink that much. That isn't the point though! And he kept saying, "what? I'm never going to drink again? I can't have a drink when I go out anymore?"
"NOT IF YOU HAVE TO DRIVE HOME!!!"
But did he listen? Of course not!
An "employee" of mine has been in and out of the hospital and said yesterday, he wasn't getting better, but would wait until Monday to go to the doctor. This means he will miss work on Monday. He has a lot of health issues and, just with the way he says it, "I'll be out if I have to be out." just reeks of him not caring.
So I ended up hating my parents last night. And hating my friends, and "employee" who's also my friend. All of these individuals are men, and I ended up telling my husband how men never change, and they don't listen. They don't ever do what's reasonable and sensible and end up putting others or themselves in a bind, and their too stupid to know what's good for them.
It's gotten to the point where I'm seriously considering switching job locations next year, and distancing myself from my family, and also isolating myself from people. But I wonder if I should also look at it and myself from a different perspective too. And before anyone makes a claim to the contrary; no, I'm not a man hating feminist. I hate women just as much, but don't have much to do with any woman.
How old is your dad?
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Posted by OCJack
This is actually a very intuitive question that gets to the heart of the most central factor to what is going on with the current generations.
For the longest time there has been a stark contrast between Masculinity and Femininity, and a strict rule that Men are always Masculine and that Women are always Feminine. Not because of some conspiracy by the people on top to engineer the species that way. Even if they DO abuse said system in their own favor. Rather it is simply a product of nature, as all other primates follow something nearly exactly the same. Even among the ones that DO defy this system to some degree, only do so in the sense that the roles are reversed with the females being Masculine and the males Feminine.
Among other species this extremely rarely ever changes. The one documented case where it did, just involved yet again an absolute flipping of roles between the 2 sexes. Humans however are a genuine departure from this as recent generations have been defying this rule in much smaller chunks, much more gradual ways, and much less absolute switching. In otherwords a true Masculinity/Femininity Grey, is beggining to form for the first time in the history of Evolution on Earth.
This is most likely because unlike other species we have a strong ability of Awareness, and thus have become aware of the 2 boxes and the necessities and shortcomings of both. With this has come a shift towards men becoming more feminine and women more masculine, without the likelihood of a complete and absolute flip.
A simultaneously good and bad result of this is that both men and women have risen to challenge oppression inherent to the original system. The bad is that women have come to believe they hold the power in a relationship even when they are predominantly feminine.
This is a problem because the answer to the question of this topic is in fact that Masculinity is inherently superior to Femininity, in the same way that Strength inherently trumps Weakness, or in the same way that Dominance inherently trumps Submission, or Courage inherently trumps Fear, etc.
If a Man is in fact Masculine, then he will trump any Feminine Woman. It is the femininity that has overtaken men that convinces them that women call tell them what to do, or that they have to worry about a specific woman withholding da pusspuss. As if women have ALL the options and Men have NONE. An Alpha sees through this facade, there are literally 4.5 billion other women and it is a flagrant lie if you believe all of them are going to have the same attitude. Especially cause NONE of them will if you know the power of masculine charm.
So to answer the question. We are onto you, cookiemonsteres. We see the game you are trying to play. Remember, you can't change the game, you can only join it.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
When did you know you needed to end a friendship? what was the final straw for you?
Posted by Brittnie
Would be a Gemini 😂 Dump him please, tell him no. You have feelings for the other guy so he can move on
Posted by GeminPhilly
My aqua found out that I was sleeping with one of his close friends and wants to stay with me and work it out but if I'm being honest it's not just so easy to cut off his close friend because we have developed feelings for each other now. I feel really bad because I hurt my boyfriend but I can't deny the feelings that I have smh
Posted by SentimentalCrabby
Is this placement bad?
Is it just me, or do Virgo moon's get annoyed with someone asking such an obvious question?
🙋🏻 I have to admit that I get annoyed.
Are you guys' careful with handling your money? Cause I get mad when my mother carelessly spend her money on things she doesn't really need and ends up not wanting it later on. 🤦🏻♀️
Y'all like to make sure you have all the information you need to know?
I need to know everything. I need to know what are the plans for my meetings, appointment, what I need, a full detail, a brief explanation, so I could write it down on my agenda - and see if my schedule would be open.
I'll prepare a list of questions right before my appointment.
I feel like I have OCD when it comes to my class notes. Everything needs to be neat - and must be highlighted or written in different colors. ( I've looked at other classmates notes and theirs was sloppy, hard to understand and the words were everywhere. )
When plans are just at the last minute - I get so frustrated. My schedule has to change, and I get stress out when I've to met up with the deadline with other important things.
I've push other people away just to take care of my health first. My health is number 1 priority to me.
Virgo moon's do you relate?
Or this is a common trait with people.
Posted by csdude55Posted by 81gems
Yeah. And maybe the men never stop to think either. You know why? BECAUSE MEN DON'T THINK. Period. They have butter for brains.
They also don't listen. And they don't know what's good for them. That's why they're always getting caught up in stupid situations that could have easily been avoided. DUH......
Trust me, Virgo's do disappear all the time for no reason, or for their own misinterpretations. Or their own stupid reasons. Is this d-bag worth hanging around for? Probably not. He is a man, after all.
Wow, a man hater and a Virgo hater, rolled into one. How rare and refreshing.
Pretty much everything you said was wrong, though, and contradictory. But I'm not going to argue with you about it; clearly you have issues, and you're probably just looking for someone to fight with you on them. But you're not important enough to waste my time.
But I will say this. As a Virgo and a man, if I disappear for more than a few days then it's either because:
(a) you disappeared first;
(b) you've sent a lot of signals that you've lost interest and I'm protecting myself; or
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Posted by Geminlove
bulls and bullettes