Gemini & Leo Dynamic?

So a few years ago I was at a house party. There was a woman there who at the end of the night made it EXTREMELY clear she wanted to have sex with me....loudly (and explicitly)..in front of everyone. I was at the other end of the house on a different floor and heard my name being yelled out. The woman was also pretty drunk. So even though she was definitely attractive, hooking up with a WASTED stranger is just a bad plan. At that point I had barely uttered a full sentence to this particular person.

Anyway, last weekend I saw her at another party with. She apparently brought her current boyfriend. I didn't engage her at all because I really didn't have anything to say. I figured it was all water under the bridge.

Then I realized that when I moved...she moved. Whenever I turned my back to her, she managed to get in front of my line of eyesight. I've only had this happen (to my knowledge) one other time with a Scorpio ex. Eventually I started moving around the party and at no point was she not right in front of me. I also caught a few glances from her. I thought I was being paranoid, but one of my other friends noticed too.

It's then that I remembered that she was a Gemini and that I've always had this weird mutual attraction with Gems. I always think they are attractive and they go crazy for me if they're around me too long. I'm usually cold to them at first, then I slowly warm up over time. From what I've been told by Gems my cold/logical disposition keeps them wondering.

So have any other Geminis (or Leos) experienced this dynamic with the other sign? I can definitely see why Leos would go after a Gem. Geminis, have you noticed this type of attraction to a Leo?

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Looks like you have a lion on your tail.

Just straight up remind her that she has a boyfriend and she isn't girlfriend material.

She's already gone. I'm more curious to see if this behavior makes sense among other Geminis and Leos. Just seems like the Geminis around me tend act funny after a some time, which is usually when I'll notice them.

I've never dated one but I find them mildly attractive

I find a strong attraction to Geminis.

I had one that was pretty much obsessive about me. Almost stalkerish lol

No, not the men.

The women, speaking platonically though, are

often some of my favorite people.

I have encountered a few Geminis who were

way too serious, and had a devious air about

them, but they are the exception.

Word to the wise-- never trust a quiet Gemini.

Does this apply to Leo risings??

Cause I have 0 air in my chart and yet I'm surrounded by air signs.

Posted by LadyNeptune
Does this apply to Leo risings??

Cause I have 0 air in my chart and yet I'm surrounded by air signs.

Sure, I'm more curious about the Leo energy and Gemini energy dynamic than the sun placements in particular. So Leo/Gem Moons, Risings, dominants, feel free to chime in too.

Posted by -Flo-
That's creepy lol

It was somewhat endearing. This particular Gemini had a thing for me and barely uttered a word. So I can only imagine following me around would be her outlet.

As talkative as Geminis can be, they can get very shy when they're intrigued. I dated one Gemini who said she had a thing for me and didn't say anything for years. I was utterly shocked because we never had a single conversation. She knew all of my friends, but I never interacted with her, so she assumed that I hated her. Yet that didn't turn her off.

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Posted by -Flo-
That's creepy lol

It was somewhat endearing. This particular Gemini had a thing for me and barely uttered a word. So I can only imagine following me around would be her outlet.

As talkative as Geminis can be, they can get very shy when they're intrigued. I dated one Gemini who said she had a thing for me and didn't say anything for years. I was utterly shocked because we never had a single conversation. She knew all of my friends, but I never interacted with her, so she assumed that I hated her. Yet that didn't turn her off.

...you definitely like attention even the creepy kind lol

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Well let me say this. IF I didn't know that the woman wanted me inside her, I would've been be a bit more unnerved by her (if I had noticed her at all. There were a lot of people at the party). She's also tall and gorgeous, so there was an ego boost there. There's also some history that put her actions into context.

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Posted by -Flo-
That's creepy lol

It was somewhat endearing. This particular Gemini had a thing for me and barely uttered a word. So I can only imagine following me around would be her outlet.

As talkative as Geminis can be, they can get very shy when they're intrigued. I dated one Gemini who said she had a thing for me and didn't say anything for years. I was utterly shocked because we never had a single conversation. She knew all of my friends, but I never interacted with her, so she assumed that I hated her. Yet that didn't turn her off.

...you definitely like attention even the creepy kind lol

Well let me say this. IF I didn't know that the woman wanted me inside her, I would've been be a bit more unnerved by her (if I had noticed her at all. There were a lot of people at the party). She's also tall and gorgeous, so there was an ego boost there. There's also some history that put her actions into context.

I'm sorry chuckcem, but I'm attracted to the guy who doesn't care to get noticed or screaming out that he wants to dick me down in front of everyone. My Aries moon can handle blunt but that's just sloppy lol

I won't be flattered, I'll leave the scene. What gets my attention is a man confident enough to come up to me, introduce himself, and go from there.. like that one Leo guy at my job I was crushing? I would go up and start convo but he was acting weird. Eventually the flame inside of me died off, now I don't feel any attraction to him.

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I actually did leave when that all happened at the first party years ago. I also didn't feel it was necessary to bring it up at the second party years later.

That being said, the dynamic is a bit different as a guy to see a woman completely lose it. A guy losing his mind over a woman isn't shocking at all (and yes a guy screaming that he wanted to be inside you wouldn't be flattering either).

Ha ha ha, I don't know if it matters who in the relationship, Leo or Gem, is the female and who's the male.

From my experience, nah! Gems are better kept off as friends, I guess. Nothing more would work. I like it that way because even if there are some attractive qualities initially, nah! B-O-R-I-N-G!

The Gem I knew even sent me a few apology texts for boring me. I accepted the 'apologies' every time, but the boring continued. He couldn't even spell romance! He didn't know how to express his feelings or impress a woman. Even his female friends would laugh at him.

I'm not saying all Gems are or will be like this, but that was my experience - brief dating and liking, and I'm glad it didn't go further!

Fuck it. Worst combination possible.

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Posted by Undine
Fuck it. Worst combination possible.

But why?

Gem+ Scorp is the worst combination

Gems do well with fire signs

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Nah, I'm just jealous.

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Posted by Undine
Fuck it. Worst combination possible.

But why?

Gem+ Scorp is the worst combination

Gems do well with fire signs

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Yeah Gem and Leo is actually a fairly easy combo as long as there is a little understand (compatible placements helps).

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Posted by Undine
Fuck it. Worst combination possible.

But why?

Gem+ Scorp is the worst combination

Gems do well with fire signs

Yeah Gem and Leo is actually a fairly easy combo as long as there is a little understand (compatible placements helps).

But I haven't seen this combo in romantic relationships.. you guys favor Libra or Aqua girls

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It can work well. My parents are a Leo/Gem combo. Both are Aries Moons. I myself have had more encounters with Libras and Geminis than Aquarius woman. For whatever reason I don't encounter Aquas often.