Why do Geminis do this? Especially in relation to romantic interests and relationships?
Gemini Logic : lying to oneself until you believe it.
Posted by Squishy_Marshmallowe.g- lying about characteristics of an ex or yourself and why it didn't work outPosted by Adreamuponwaking
Why do Geminis do this? Especially in relation to romantic interests and relationships?
Will you elaborate?
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p.s- i've seen mainly the men do this in attempt i guess to help them get over their ex
actually trying this out for myself and i think it's helping
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowyeahPosted by AdreamuponwakingAwww
actually trying this out for myself and i think it's helping
Well no point dwelling on the good days if there isn't a future with them... I would say remembering the bad days isn't bad, as long as we don't make up stories to make them look bad or affect their reputation.click to expand
i mean i'm just rewriting the facts about her and even the current person she is dating
to help me detach in my head
i've since renamed her ( amy gonzalez)
changed to her star sign - she's now a virgo
musical interests ( e.g- she now loves taylor swift and country music)
and she is now a trump supporter from chicago
though i know these things aren't necessarily true i think they illustrate an important truth that i need to keep at the forefront of my mind to help me move on which is that
the person that i fell in love wasn't exactly real.....i fell in love with my projections i conjured up of who i thought she was and not what was really there
she was a different person than i thought she was when we met and even a different person now two years later
Posted by nanoyeah i meant more like
I lie when I don't have the care or respect for someone to tell the truth. Like someone demanding to know something that's none of their business or to a complete stranger about something I don't want to discuss
Sometimes I lie about stupid things when I'm forced to small talk.
I also lie when people nag me about things, to get them off my back
I have lied before to take a day off work
I don't believe those things to be true though
in the case of my uncle who made up things about his leo ex regarding compatibility and the ultimate reason why they didn't work out
which was really due to his infidelity.
i had another gemini coworker who dated this other coworker i knew before
and it was basically a similar story
Posted by Fantumit literally happens to everyonePosted by AdreamuponwakingIt can happen to anyone...that whole falling in love with who we think we see instead of the real person.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowyeahPosted by AdreamuponwakingAwww
actually trying this out for myself and i think it's helping
Well no point dwelling on the good days if there isn't a future with them... I would say remembering the bad days isn't bad, as long as we don't make up stories to make them look bad or affect their reputation.
i mean i'm just rewriting the facts about her and even the current person she is dating
to help me detach in my head
i've since renamed her ( amy gonzalez)
changed to her star sign - she's now a virgo
musical interests ( e.g- she now loves taylor swift and country music)
and she is now a trump supporter from chicago
though i know these things aren't necessarily true i think they illustrate an important truth that i need to keep at the forefront of my mind to help me move on which is that
the person that i fell in love wasn't exactly real.....i fell in love with my projections i conjured up of who i thought she was and not what was really there
she was a different person than i thought she was when we met and even a different person now two years laterclick to expand
it's basic psych 101
we can never truly know a person...... we can only know our interpretation of who we think they are
which is based on our own subjective experiences we had interacting with other human beings since birth.
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
in the case of my uncle who made up things about his leo ex regarding compatibility and the ultimate reason why they didn't work out
which was really due to his infidelity.
i had another gemini coworker who dated this other coworker i knew before
and it was basically a similar story
You no think incompatibility creates infidelity?
Posted by Whorpiothey were super compatible (in terms of her tolerance for putting up with his s h i t)Posted by Adreamuponwaking
in the case of my uncle who made up things about his leo ex regarding compatibility and the ultimate reason why they didn't work out
which was really due to his infidelity.
i had another gemini coworker who dated this other coworker i knew before
and it was basically a similar story
You no think incompatibility creates infidelity?click to expand
he just fudged up twice ( got the same sidepiece pregnant twice and had two children by her) while they were dating.
you would think she would break up with him for good after the numerous DUIs or definitely after the first kid he had with her sidepiece
but no
she took him back
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