@Adreamuponwaking
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Sex wearing a wedding ring (but not married)?!?!?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
That’s interesting & different .. I would do it with the right person lol
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
I'd rather wear an engagement ring than other kinky shit people can think of like a mouth spreader so yes.
Posted by Fantum
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.
maybe you weren't the placeholder
but secretly
he was trying you out
Hawt
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.
maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
Not problem. A fantasy it’s a fantasy
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
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That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
well for me ..it might not include sex
it could be someone you don't even know too well ....but just the play with intimacy..
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yeah but the sex is the point though lol
well half of it
Posted by Fantum
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.
maybe you weren't the placeholder
but secretly
he was trying you out
He would definitely do well not to let me know I was being "tried out" either. I'm a proud one. 😄
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of course he wouldn't say
BUT
i think it's kind of implied when a dude in general asks you to act out one of his sexual fantasies with him
they usually propose to women that make them feel empowered ,liberated and energized them in the bedroom ( as in they are just as kinky and don't shame them)
but maybe conservative / the girl next door type outside
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
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maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
well for me ..it might not include sex
it could be someone you don't even know too well ....but just the play with intimacy..
yeah but the sex is the point though lol
well half of it
I would like him to be the one to wear the ring...in that case
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i think he would like that
Posted by Fantum
I wouldn't like it. I'd feel like he was dressing me up to pretend I was the girl he wanted to marry, when really I was just a placeholder.That said, there's something weird but endearing about that kink.
maybe you weren't the placeholder
but secretly
he was trying you out
He would definitely do well not to let me know I was being "tried out" either. I'm a proud one. 😄
of course he wouldn't say
BUT
i think it's kind of implied when a dude in general asks you to act out one of his sexual fantasies with him
they usually propose to women that make them feel empowered ,liberated and energized them in the bedroom ( as in they are just as kinky and don't shame them)
but maybe conservative / the girl next door type outside
I've seen that different guys propose to different types.
But anyway, the poor guy would get nowhere with me. Since about the age of 22 I've demanded to know my status before anyone touches my twat. I will not play games with sex.
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fair play
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
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🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
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a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
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Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
Sure. But I get to keep the ring.
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
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i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Posted by Adreamuponwaking
If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.
Sure. But I get to keep the ring.
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haha
i like your style .
happy birthday boo by the way.
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
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Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
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No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
click to expand
Uh-oh why a married woman?
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
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no clue
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
no clue
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
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I'm not surprised at all. I'm fully aware that there are many women that are bicurious (Wed and unwed). My problem is the behind someone's back part. As long as there's consent from all parties, I say go for it.
This is very interesting. So when are going to start looking? Have you already started? What type of female is ideal for you?
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
no clue
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
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loyal
funny
creative
smart
at the end of the day...has a good heart.....
i"m not really looking ( not online dating ) .....because I feel like I've already found her......
well at least the prototype....but it seems it can't be
trying to be positive though.....i don't know what the universe has in store for me
it was a miracle that i even met someone that could make me feel the way she did.
today is her birthday btw......
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
no clue
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
loyal
funny
creative
smart
at the end of the day...has a good heart.....
i"m not really looking ( not online dating ) .....because I feel like I've already found her......
well at least the prototype....but it seems it can't be
trying to be positive though.....i don't know what the universe has in store for me
it was a miracle that i even met someone that could make me feel the way she did.
today is her birthday btw......
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Well I think that's sweet. Hope it works out for you. 🙂
I see no harm but would question why does he have that ring? Former gf?
Then I would feel awkward...
Posted by STILL
Idk. That's funny. I'd first ask him what makes it so hot for him.maybe he had commitment issues
and finds the idea of marriage terrifying
but at the same time it really turns him on
a lot of fetishes originate from fear actually
That's a thought. I'm very curious. I would love to pick his brain. Oooh how the psyche works.
Is this a real situation?
maybe 🙂...............
yes of course it is
🙂 It's very interesting. I agree with @Fantum it's weird, but a little endearing. How do you feel about?
a little weird but endearing
sums up my personality lol
Lol Well you have a match. That's cute. I like weird. Have fun with it. 😄
i don't have a match unfortunately
but i'm hopeful
p.s- i'm the guy
i'm a girl actually but technically i'm the guy
Lol oh so you've already asked someone? Or are you hoping to meet someone?
No i haven't yet
the powder room on dxp is my testing grounds....
marriage has always been a fetish of mine
*taurus venus here*
if i was into a girl and i wanted to sleep with her ( which is really rare)
this is a fantasy that i would potentially would like to reenact.
sleeping with a married woman (could be to someone else or to me is) a real turn on for some reason
even if it's pretend....maybe especially if it's pretend
Uh-oh why a married woman?
no clue
it's just always been a turn on for some reason
you'd be surprised in terms of the amount of bicurious women who are trying to pursue fantasies involving another woman ( with and without their husbands consent)......
but to tell you the truth
sleeping with a woman who was married to me is better imho.....
the ultimate turn on
? What type of female is ideal for you?
loyal
funny
creative
smart
at the end of the day...has a good heart.....
i"m not really looking ( not online dating ) .....because I feel like I've already found her......
well at least the prototype....but it seems it can't be
trying to be positive though.....i don't know what the universe has in store for me
it was a miracle that i even met someone that could make me feel the way she did.
today is her birthday btw......
Well I think that's sweet. Hope it works out for you. 🙂
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THANK YOU. 🙂
I'd think it was sexier if the guy truly was proposing...but my ex husband left me allergic to engagement rings unfortunately.
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to play
Afterwards ask him to come with you to pick up the wedding dress and rings that you've put a deposit on
Then tell him......"Summer 👰 🎩 Wedding"
😆
Posted by Jules-ll
I'd think it was sexier if the guy truly was proposing...but my ex husband left me allergic to engagement rings unfortunately.
damn
that's a shame
Posted by MyStarsShine
Afterwards ask him to come with you to pick up the wedding dress and rings that you've put a deposit onThen tell him......"Summer 👰 🎩 Wedding"
😆
HAHA!
Posted by Libragirl321
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to play
what's your mars in?
Posted by Fantum
Well, shit, OP. If I'd known this was your fantasy I wouldn't have been as dismissive. I thought the "dude" wasn't here. 😉If I were into a guy and he suggested that, I'm sure I'd do it and think it was sweet, but it would also set off all those questions I posted earlier, and I'd likely end up causing a scene of some sort afterwards.
So...be careful. lol
lol
it was good that i didn't say
i got more objective answers which is what i wanted
It's pretty hot for me to think about from a roleplay perspective. I would even go as far as letting some random guy play the part of my partner's significant other while we fool around behind his back. Can also go two ways and have another girl play as my SO. It's actually not a bad way to 'swing' without actually doing it.
Posted by Libragirl321
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to playwhat's your mars in?
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Lol virgo
Posted by Libragirl321
IMO it sounds like a delicious little fantasy. But I would most def want him to wear the ring. Only because this is how it would play out in my head. LOL air signs and the mental aspect of sex is always amusing. Ok he has the ring on and that means in the game that I seduced him to go to a level that is not "supposed" to be the norm. And while I was on top in control of it all even my orgasm that watching him watching me is going to make me finish 10x harder because I somehow managed to get him to abandon all morals just for his own guilty pleasure of wanting to playwhat's your mars in?
Lol virgo
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oh that makes sense
cap mars here
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If a guy you were sleeping with ( could be fwb , or dating or your even current bf) asked you to have sex with him wearing nothing but an engagement ring primarily because it was a kink of his would you do it? How would it make you feel?
Also he made sure to make clear he wasn't proposing btw...it was just a sex thing.