I'm Tinder dating.....

I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Posted by RedemptionSong
LOL. Your pisces comments sound hilarious. New year new possibilities. Why tinder as opposed to other online dating.

Ha. The pisces is wearing me down...and is pretty confident that I'm going to give into him. Thank God we live 40 mins from each other because it might me game on lol. Tinder was just easier...no filling out a bunch of bs.

Posted by ufo
why happened to gemini? i'm w/ one and it's a nice time

Honestly, I have no idea. I know he was digging me...I could sense it but maybe he was hiding something and since I could pick up on it (Scorpio rising) it freaked him out? It really does still bother me...because he seemed so eerily familiar.

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Goes on Tinder. Surprised people are only after sex.

Who said I was surprised??

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by AnotherTaurusGuyReturns
Goes on Tinder. Surprised people are only after sex.

Who said I was surprised??

Why mention some of them are “only interested in sex” or similar then?

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I mentioned one

Posted by Lala1393

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpio men are posed and respectful. They don't pounce. They wait and make sure you feel comfortable.

At the beginning ...

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He's going to end up wrecking my world..isnt he? lol.

Tinder more for hookup, it's well known. Dont expect more from there

Posted by Sheever
Tinder more for hookup, it's well known. Dont expect more from there

Technically...any "dating" site can be. But yes, I'm well aware of what it is known for.

Posted by Librasetting
Wish that shit worked for me.

What...getting laid from tinder? or just dating?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Librasetting
Wish that shit worked for me.

What...getting laid from tinder? or just dating?

Lol both really.

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Haha. Hey, keep trying. You never know.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Librasetting
Wish that shit worked for me.

What...getting laid from tinder? or just dating?

Lol both really.

Haha. Hey, keep trying. You never know.

Shit I gave up yrs ago.

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I hear ya....I pretty much did too but thought what the hell....I'll try and see what happens. Even if nothing...I'll have some pretty interesting stories to share lol

Posted by VirgalLuvsCoffee
Tinder creeped me the eff out. My Virgo buddy told me to check it out & I’m regretting the day I created that god forsaken account. I have the account on pause but can’t get myself to delete it. GO EFFING FIGURE. It’s my Virgo brain saying but what if.... 😋😬

Its interesting to say the least lol. I will probably be deleting it soon because I'm starting to get carpel tunnel in my thumb lol

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Posted by Sheever
Tinder more for hookup, it's well known. Dont expect more from there

Technically...any "dating" site can be. But yes, I'm well aware of what it is known for.

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I met my love of life on a dating app, (it wasnt tinder) so must admit it's great thing these apps to exist. I wasnt up for long but my experience was, most people there has no idea what they want. The majority just hanging out, the expectations are sky high what they deserve but the person itself aren't serious or have insecurity and baggages they can't deal with. In other words disaster. About 3% of the users actually clear about themselves and emotionally and intellectually stable.

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Posted by Lala1393

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpio men are posed and respectful. They don't pounce. They wait and make sure you feel comfortable.

At the beginning ...

He's going to end up wrecking my world..isnt he? lol.

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Don’t do it sis. These Scorpio men are W I L D

I met my Libra fiance on Tinder.

Posted by Sheever

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Sheever
Tinder more for hookup, it's well known. Dont expect more from there

Technically...any "dating" site can be. But yes, I'm well aware of what it is known for.

I met my love of life on a dating app, (it wasnt tinder) so must admit it's great thing these apps to exist. I wasnt up for long but my experience was, most people there has no idea what they want. The majority just hanging out, the expectations are sky high what they deserve but the person itself aren't serious or have insecurity and baggages they can't deal with. In other words disaster. About 3% of the users actually clear about themselves and emotionally and intellectually stable.

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I agree with your assessment.

Posted by sierra_
can't believe i'm saying this but..

scorpio seems like the best choice there

2nd is pisces

So far he is but idk. I can't read him thru texting but he likes the idea that we are so similar. He said it again last night. I'm trying to not be pushy with him but come on dude...like he needs to step his game up if he is interested. If not, then move along.

Pisces is cool. I told him I may claim him as a friend. He said it's the small victories. Lol.

Posted by LibraMudra
We live in a strange world now. Swiping for dates.

That we do but I work like 10-12 hrs a day. Not really able to be out meeting people. I'm not a fan but it is what it is.

Posted by Koniuchaa
Online dating was a horrible nightmare for me

It's so anxiety provoking and giving me heartburn lol

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Lala1393

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpio men are posed and respectful. They don't pounce. They wait and make sure you feel comfortable.

At the beginning ...

He's going to end up wrecking my world..isnt he? lol.

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Oh fucking YES!!! 🤣🤣🤣

Posted by sierra_

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by sierra_
can't believe i'm saying this but..

scorpio seems like the best choice there

2nd is pisces

So far he is but idk. I can't read him thru texting but he likes the idea that we are so similar. He said it again last night. I'm trying to not be pushy with him but come on dude...like he needs to step his game up if he is interested. If not, then move along.

Pisces is cool. I told him I may claim him as a friend. He said it's the small victories. Lol.

and the pisces lives only 40 mins away, huh?

but also hey you gotta step up your game too

can't expect apples to fall without you exerting some effort

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Yep...sucks he that far but meh.

Oh trust...I've been doing all of the asking of questions. He responds than says ...you? Lol. He said he was shy...but shit lol.

Idk why all the water men are attracted to me to be honest. The gemini was a fluke but I'd like to snag me an Aries lol.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Lala1393

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpio men are posed and respectful. They don't pounce. They wait and make sure you feel comfortable.

At the beginning ...

He's going to end up wrecking my world..isnt he? lol.

Oh fucking YES!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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Haha...oddly enough I'm down. Idk if he will be a match for my scorp rising though. It will be interesting if something comes of it.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by sierra_

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Posted by sierra_
can't believe i'm saying this but..

scorpio seems like the best choice there

2nd is pisces

So far he is but idk. I can't read him thru texting but he likes the idea that we are so similar. He said it again last night. I'm trying to not be pushy with him but come on dude...like he needs to step his game up if he is interested. If not, then move along.

Pisces is cool. I told him I may claim him as a friend. He said it's the small victories. Lol.

and the pisces lives only 40 mins away, huh?

but also hey you gotta step up your game too

can't expect apples to fall without you exerting some effort

Yep...sucks he that far but meh.

Oh trust...I've been doing all of the asking of questions. He responds than says ...you? Lol. He said he was shy...but shit lol.

Idk why all the water men are attracted to me to be honest. The gemini was a fluke but I'd like to snag me an Aries lol.

must be your scorp rising

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More than likely.

Scorpios are always respectful in the beginning... until things don’t go their way lol

Posted by Mhmmm
Scorpios are always respectful in the beginning... until things don’t go their way lol

I'm kinda up for the challenge. Done dealing with Cancers and Pisces. I need someone on my level lol.

Jk I love me some cancers and Pisces...they are good people.

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Posted by LibraMudra
We live in a strange world now. Swiping for dates.

Which only feeds the "instant gratification" culture since it's tied to physical/sexual attraction above any other consideration. I find it so vain and shallow. There's been plenty of times in my life where the physical/sexual attraction came as a result of having established the mental, emotional, and spiritual connection. I just don't know if I can attribute that to my Libra Moon, my Aqua Venus or how I was nurtured and raised. Most likely from nurture; Mom (Cancer Sun / Virgo Moon) was the matriarchal disciplinarian - to the point where even Dad would just shake his head and say, "Ohhh, when your mother gets home, she is gonna..." and trail off ...

Nobody knew what she was gonna do, herself included ... 😄

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I get where you are coming from but let's look at it like this:

if you go to a bar...you can't tell me you don't start out the same..correct? Only difference is everyone can see you checking out some chick.

If you want to take it further then you get to know the person and establish the mental/emotional connections.

Just because you click with someone online doesn't make it any less meaningful. Not everyone is out to just get laid...and if they are, you tell them to get bent unless that's what you are looking for.

Unfortunately...times have changed. I don't personally like it as I'm pretty old school but it's an easier solution to the people who work a lot or have some type of social anxieties.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Try them both! You'll figure it out but I think scorp is a better match for us virgals, more grounded...

Good can be found everywhere - even Tinder although chances are low.

A friend of mine met her husband on Tinder. I met my husband via another dating app (but no swiping there 😎 you could easily select what you were looking for chats/relationships/„friends“ + select distance etc)

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

I think I kind of get it why women keep talking about online dating on here. For a man this would be expensive and there are just better ways to spend time and money than going on a bunch of dates with people you come across on the computer. Like you can literally be putting yourself underwater and for what? But women look at it more as possibility for free dates and "who knows not much to lose lets see what happens?" Cause I just didnt get it but looking at it from that point of view kind of makes it make more sense for women. Whatever floats your boat.

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lol this sounded low-key passive aggressive. No, it's not a woman thing and it's not the 50's anymore-- if you feel like you're being taken advantage by a bunch of dates just stop paying for them. With online dating, being clear about your wants is necessary. Go dutch, it can't be just my circle of friends that don't bat an eye when paying for their share.

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I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

@Date#4 This is every virgo friendship I've had lol I love that pisces/virgo energy.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.

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Posted by ufo
why happened to gemini? i'm w/ one and it's a nice time

Honestly, I have no idea. I know he was digging me...I could sense it but maybe he was hiding something and since I could pick up on it (Scorpio rising) it freaked him out? It really does still bother me...because he seemed so eerily familiar.

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Could be some past life aspects there

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

I think I kind of get it why women keep talking about online dating on here. For a man this would be expensive and there are just better ways to spend time and money than going on a bunch of dates with people you come across on the computer. Like you can literally be putting yourself underwater and for what? But women look at it more as possibility for free dates and "who knows not much to lose lets see what happens?" Cause I just didnt get it but looking at it from that point of view kind of makes it make more sense for women. Whatever floats your boat.

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sounds like someone has been burned one to many times. lol.

I get though. I personally do not like going out on dates...i'd rather go to a park or something first.

Meet, talk...see if we even hit it off in person before being that intimate in a restaurant setting or something else.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

@Date#4 This is every virgo friendship I've had lol I love that pisces/virgo energy.

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I do too. We can just be our true selves around each other.

We did finally exchange numbers...so who knows.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.

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Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by ufo
why happened to gemini? i'm w/ one and it's a nice time

Honestly, I have no idea. I know he was digging me...I could sense it but maybe he was hiding something and since I could pick up on it (Scorpio rising) it freaked him out? It really does still bother me...because he seemed so eerily familiar.

Could be some past life aspects there

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It was something (still is and makes me sick to my stomach). I've never felt or had a reaction that way about someone before. Not even my ex (there's a long story here).

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

@Date#4 This is every virgo friendship I've had lol I love that pisces/virgo energy.

I do too. We can just be our true selves around each other.

We did finally exchange numbers...so who knows.

yeah i feel that way about pisces too 😍

like i can just be

i hope it goes well

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Thank you 🙂

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

I think I kind of get it why women keep talking about online dating on here. For a man this would be expensive and there are just better ways to spend time and money than going on a bunch of dates with people you come across on the computer. Like you can literally be putting yourself underwater and for what? But women look at it more as possibility for free dates and "who knows not much to lose lets see what happens?" Cause I just didnt get it but looking at it from that point of view kind of makes it make more sense for women. Whatever floats your boat.

lol this sounded low-key passive aggressive. No, it's not a woman thing and it's not the 50's anymore-- if you feel like you're being taken advantage by a bunch of dates just stop paying for them. With online dating, being clear about your wants is necessary. Go dutch, it can't be just my circle of friends that don't bat an eye when paying for their share.

It did? Im being genuine. I have no critique but I never understood why women talk about online dating on here so much. I never got it. This is the first time I can understand. Different perspective. I honestly believe in do you. People who gravitate to online dating should be in their lane with others in their lane is something inherently wrong? I dont think so. This was actually informative and gave me a better understanding. I guess I could have taken my new understanding and said nothing But the whole sharing information thing came up.

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Nay, don't keep your thoughts to yourself! Info sharing is the backbone of internet forums.

You said you finally understood women like serial online dating because they like to get free stuff from their dates, I'm saying that's not true and if it happened to you it's easily remedied by clearly stating you'd like to share costs when hanging out. Don't let no bishes take advantage of your generosity.

I myself haven't done much online dating, in this case tinder, but I understand the appeal-- there's something very direct about it, no vague intentions or the like.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by ufo
why happened to gemini? i'm w/ one and it's a nice time

Honestly, I have no idea. I know he was digging me...I could sense it but maybe he was hiding something and since I could pick up on it (Scorpio rising) it freaked him out? It really does still bother me...because he seemed so eerily familiar.

Could be some past life aspects there

It was something (still is and makes me sick to my stomach). I've never felt or had a reaction that way about someone before. Not even my ex (there's a long story here).

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Damn. Maybe whatever past life stuff yall have maybe it was bad. I wish you could look at his chart. That's crazy though

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Posted by Cg2016

Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.

Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.

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What makes you think that?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

@Date#4 This is every virgo friendship I've had lol I love that pisces/virgo energy.

I do too. We can just be our true selves around each other.

We did finally exchange numbers...so who knows.

yeah i feel that way about pisces too 😍

like i can just be

i hope it goes well

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I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.

Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.

What makes you think that?

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Just my paranoia lol

And the Scorpio is.......A REGISTERED SEX OFFENDER. Having sex with of age inmates as a correctional officer.

He did not tell me but I was able to find out with the very tiny bit of information I got from him. Fanfuckingtastic...

Now I'm going to have to search on the others...I wouldn't doubt it in the least bit that one of the others are too. I apparently have some type of face or aura that screams criminals come to me.

I need to figure out why that is...

and looks like I will be deleting my tinder...

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why happened to gemini? i'm w/ one and it's a nice time

Honestly, I have no idea. I know he was digging me...I could sense it but maybe he was hiding something and since I could pick up on it (Scorpio rising) it freaked him out? It really does still bother me...because he seemed so eerily familiar.

Could be some past life aspects there

It was something (still is and makes me sick to my stomach). I've never felt or had a reaction that way about someone before. Not even my ex (there's a long story here).

Damn. Maybe whatever past life stuff yall have maybe it was bad. I wish you could look at his chart. That's crazy though

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Now I'm wondering if my strong reaction was because he too is some type of criminal...hmmm

Just don’t do it. Tinder is hell.

Posted by LostinmyMind11
and looks like I will be deleting my tinder...

noooooo! I'm living vicariously through you 😄

but don't worry, one criminal does not make them all criminals

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
and looks like I will be deleting my tinder...

noooooo! I'm living vicariously through you 😄

but don't worry, one criminal does not make them all criminals

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Hahaha.

True but knowing my luck...ugh I will probably be the only person that attracts them all lol

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
I have no idea what got into me but I signed up for tinder.

Date #1- Gemini (ugh lol)- witty conversation, hot, seemed nice. We hung out for about an hour but there was something about him that I couldnt help feeling like we had met before or I know him from somewhere. It nagged at me in the pit of stomach (still does), even his voice sounded familiar. I asked him a couple days later and poof...he was gone. hmmmm.

Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet.

Date #3- Scorpio- I cant really call this a date because he hasnt even asked me out or asked to meet. We exchanged numbers and have been texting since Weds. He really nice and has been the only one that has been respectful. No sexual shit etc but I have to keep the conversation going. Asking questions etc. and when I start to think hes not interested...I get a good morning text each morning. So I dont know what to think about him. He's revealed quite a bit though (not eveything of course) and said last night that we are a lot a like. Not sure if thats a good thing or bad. I'm digging him but not sure if the feeling is mutual.

Date#4- Pisces- We have not went on a date and have not exchanged numbers but man oh man. This guy brings out my fiesty, witty, sarcasticness in a way that I'm like wtf. I wasnt really feeling him but he was able to keep up with me in my shit posting of a conversation. I felt like I could be myself talking with him. I was crude, vulgar and he said he liked it and I believe him. I pretty sure though that he only wants sex but he has me questioning my morals lol. Damn it Pisces.

Thats it so far. I have so much anxiety from this and I keep wanting to just say fuck it and stop and I'm not even sure why I'm doing it for...its so not like me.

Can someone clue me in on the Scorpio guy though...his respectfulness has me intrigued.

Scorpios and virgos are usually a great match. See where that one goes. We are alike. And we respect each other so hey you may have something there.

Maybe?....idk he still hasn't really initiated anything so I will be keeping my guard up with this one. Either I'm being catfished, he's married or has a girlfriend. I will be calling him out on it soon lol.

What makes you think that?

Just my paranoia lol

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Don't speak bad things over your life. What you say is powerful. Now say it will be great and he's a great guy

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"Date#2- Cancer- he was good looking, seemed nice, but he was already basically proposing marriage, wanting to take me on vacation all before we even met in person. I rolled with it because I know how Cancer men are. We finally meet because I just wanted to get it out of the way without having to go on a date date. We did the whole side hug, talked for a minute, then he says well I think we should both get in our vehicles and um go ahead and leave, we'll do dinner or something soon. Me being me...I took it as "I'll call you when I really wont" and he was blowing me off. Then I get a text from him, saying stupid me, I should have known. Huh, I was so confused then he says...you were hiding your hugh tits. ok..wow. He then calls me, I answered and I told him hey, I thought you were blowing me off and then the text message about my tits. He very angrily told me he was cooking dinner and his dog was bugging him and said we'd talk later. My spidy senses told me, he has anger issues and no thank you. I do believe he had mars in scorp...he was very dominate like for being a Cancer. I think its safe to say I dodged a bullet."

Oh yeah tell us more about this Cancer with a Scorpio mars, how angry did he get

The type of angry that beats his gf or wife 😳