Gemini man, talking all sexual...

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I'm a Leo and had a date with a Gemini man yesterday and he's really keen and very cute which is great! We spoke last night after seeing eachother and he called again this morning and wanted to see me tonight but i have other plans. I let him kiss me after many failed attempts, so I didn't make it easy but he likes that. However, he keeps talking about sexual stuff and what he wants to do to me but i try to change the subject because I want more than just sex. So he says he wants a relationship but i really didn't expect a 37 year old to be talking like a horny teen, is this how all Gems are? Or does this indicate a lack of respect and means he just wants some between the sheets action and not much else?
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Yeh i'm going to have to TRY to take things slow which sucks because i'm a fairly impulsive person and self-control in that area is not my strong point. I like that he's open about everything and says whatever without worrying about how silly he sounds. He said he doesn't want a fling or one night stand or anything cos he can get that anywhere, he wants something on a deeper more emotional level. But they're just words and and the sexual stuff is just a bit of a shock from someone that old. On the other hand, it's good to know i get him going and his equipment works. But i guess you never know what might happen unless you try.
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Gemtaur, I've known him since yesterday! He finds me VERY hot, sexy, attractive 😉 And I have been very aloof and he said im really hard to read and asks me if he turns me on and stuff and i kept giving him vague answers. I'm making it difficult for him because I'm unsure about my feelings and don't want to lead him on by saying more than i mean right away. So you might be right. What you're saying makes sense.
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Posted by geminiwizard
I would trust him. Us gems find leo girls really attractive physically and mentally. Dont be put off by him being aggressive, its actually a good thing coming from a gemini.



So if a Gem guy is being consistent but not aggressive is that still a good thing?

I seriously can't see this guy dirty talking and being a sleaze bag. He is taking me out to a really trendy restaurant tonight so I am not terribly worried. Just a little tiny bit worried. lol.
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OH GOD NO!!! HA HA HA! I didn't mean it that way. I'm actually a little envious. I have no idea if this guy is attracted to me and how much. She knows he is all over it. She probably knows his sexual expectations, sexual limits, what he likes, doesn't. I have no idea on any of that stuff. I think it is quite enviable.

Yeah. I talked to someone who use to be a member here on the telephone. They were shocked. I was all pink bubbles and rainbow cloud giggles. It is that Libra charm. I can say I hate you but the person just melts and says your. so. cute!!! but my intonation and playfulness doesn't come across here.

I can be blunt sometimes but knowingly lying to someone and telling them everything is fine, when you know it isn't, isn't very helpful. People sometimes are reluctant to tell the truth here. I don't really understand why. I find that more damaging than ripping off the bandaid. Plus, I am always hoping I am wrong.
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Posted by gemtaur
LOL Libra why have you created a thread asking that Q??

Seriously, you are doing the Libra over-thinking thing. The guy likes you. The only consistent thing about a Gem is that we are consistently inconsistent, so if he's being consistent with you, RELAX 🙂

You guys are adorable. Every other week, there's a Libra having a panic attack about a perfectly interested Gem.

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HA HA HA! Okay. That is what I needed to hear. I just got my head all twisted around.
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Posted by gemtaur

You being a Leo, you need to negotiate this with him early on if you establish a relationship Lioness. You will try to make him jealous when you feel you're not getting enough attention, and this will irk him.

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I don't really get jealous. I've dated a Libra and if anyone is going to make a girl jealous it's those flirtatious, cheating bastards. I don't need as much attention as i did when i was younger so i've grown out of the whole attention seeking drama. But sometimes attention finds me and i have been with a few of those obssessive/posessive guys who almost cry when another guy looks at you and i'm not really into that.
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Why piss him off?


If he is a tosser, then toss and walk away with some dignity.


I didnt' read all of this, only the OP and this page .... so, what I gather is that you want him to want you for the woman you are and he wants you for the pussy you have ... and so, rather than face the fact that he's a player who needs to meet the curb, instead, you would want to "play" back by making him angry = playing mind games.


The reality .. you don't care that he only wants to fuck you because you know that if he wants it badly enough, he'll stick around long enough to play the attention game with you
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Posted by lioness81
Ok... another question... How do you turn off or piss off a Gemini man? I am no doubt going to make this mistake so knowing in advance may aid in avoiding it. 😉 Thanks Gems! Love you xo



You are a lot younger so maybe your attention is just an ego thing with him. If he's just talking sex with you then maybe that's all he wants if he's not getting mental stimulation. The ONLY way into his heart is a mental connection and friendship. Is that happening? Does he get a kick out of talking to you? Do you challenge him?

And why oh why, should you care at this point about pissing him off? You are the woman so shouldn't HE be the one to worry?
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OKkkkkkkkkkkkk so, here is the update:

He wasn't after just sex! He fell hard & quick! & I broke his heart hoping we could be friends... But he wasn't interested in that and got rather angry about it and i was a little taken back by it. I work in a detox unit with homeless people, criminals and heavy drug user and I am fairly confident in dealing with high risk people but I was actually quite unsettled by him when i told him we're just different and i don't see it working. It maybe an individual thing rather than astrological but i felt like he sucked the life out of me. No fun, and nothing was funny around him and i'm a very playful little lion cub. Soooo... I met a Libra at the doggy beach last night. Seem to have hit it off. So i'll see where that takes me. xoxo