Gemini Very Stuck.... Help!!!

soooo.... ive become very attached to a Taurus... and this isnt not good seeing as how he is kinda talking (his exact words) to his ex. -_- We met on facebook, and i added him bc hes just downright cute as hell. 🙂 Well when he added back i wrote on his wall and it started from there. We have been talking everyday, conversations he would start. We made several arrangements to hang out, but on my end being so busy could never keep them. Well low and behold one day we both have the time, and he comes over to my house and we go to my Theater room and spend hours watching movies. By the end of the night im in his lap (upon his request) and its getting touchy. The night ends, and we kiss goodnight. He tells me he would get in contact of when we could hang again. I lit. stayed up all night thinking about what just happened, and what to say to him. Well my best friend is a Taurus and told me to be honest and completely out there with him. So i did. I knew he would be busy but i texted anyway. Sure enough he replied, Sorry im at work... whats up? I told him that i really liked him and that i wanted to see where it could go and it was up to him. He said he would, but hes kinda talking to his ex, and can we be friends? I was so bummed all i replied was yeah. sure. He was like are you sure? I said yeah. At this point, im like UGH!!!! i know right now i need to move on, but damn it!! i really like him. Any Gems with Taurus, or gems that had a taurus experience. what do i do? 😢 Please help me!!!

Thanks for your responce 🙂 Ive sat up talking to both my Virgo & Taurus friends and they said the same thing. Just take it slow, which can be hard for me bc I like to have what i want. I think ill slow down and just go with the flow and see where it goes 🙂

I agree with Earthy.

-Chumps a Skittle-

well thank you both for feedback. So what do i do now? Lay low till he comes to me, or what? bc i dont want to be clingy bc thats not me, but i can come on strong if not careful, and i dont want to chase him, i want him to chase me so i know its real.

Posted by GeminiMixture

i know right now i need to move on .....

Move on?

Move on from what?


Dude seriously ... your feelings attached to a guy after one date?


Your emotional road ahead is going to be hard as hell, if you use the words, "move on" from a person you never had.

Posted by GeminiMixture

... i want him to chase me so i know its real.

So, you know what is real?

The fantasy in your head?


You guys hung out one time and watched movies ... and because you have zero control over your feelings, which you've let get attached to the (idea) of a possible love, you're now letting these imaginings spin even further into believing that your fantasy is real, you merely have to wait for him to prove it to you by acting out the role you've given him in your head?

This is all in your head ..... and you think it's real?

Move on as in not waste my time. I cant claim something that isnt mine, but my time sure is, and i wont waste or put it somewhere where its not needed or wanted.

haha theres no fantasy. like i said before my time is everything and not placing it on the wrong person is clue.

Posted by GeminiMixture

.... ive become very attached ......

Fantasy is probably to strong of a word for you maybe imagination. Ahem.

-Eats a red Skittle-

lol ok so maybe im moving faster than i should. Thats fine, ill slow down.

Looking back to your first post you would think the shit would know he needs more time with his x. But he spent time with you and now he "sees" some would call it stringing you along but this is how idiots move when there hearts, dicks and pussys think for them. Nothing wrong with it just usual relation bullstuff. You knew about the x to which is irrelevant the relevant is you know where he stands. As far as trying to get him anyways remember a man that leaves his woman for another woman can do the same to you.

thanks earthy 🙂 ill try that. 🙂 and i do love to cook hehe.

Hmmmmm I guess ill come with you to hold the invisible X back. Lemme get me gear I dont know if youve seen warthogs but this can get ugly.

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Posted by GeminiMixture
thanks earthy 🙂 ill try that. 🙂 and i do love to cook hehe.

In other words, either he is or isn't.

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+1

Now Come on Earthy me and you are going on a date pick any space on Dxp. 😛

Sidenote: Geminimixture keep us updated.

yeah i know the ex is there. Idk. This could get really messy. I dont know if its best to move in while that is still being taken care of. Maybe just sit back and see what happens there. They get together, cool. If not, ill see whats up with us. Other than that, i dont think i want to get involved, bc honestly if it was me trying to get my ex back i wouldnt want anyone trying to change that. Thanks tho 🙂

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Posted by GeminiMixture
thanks earthy 🙂 ill try that. 🙂 and i do love to cook hehe.

In other words, either he is or isn't.

+1

Now Come on Earthy me and you are going on a date pick any space on Dxp. 😛

Sidenote: Geminimixture keep us updated.

Definitely one of those photos on the Cap Board, on the "If" thread. We'll go for a scenic drive and hang out. It would be nice up in the mountains. 😉

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Yip I need to respond there btw gimmie a sec.

@Gemini, I am not a fan of stealing folks but you are your own person. Maybe youll be the greatest thing that happened to him who knows. I suggest you take a look at all the advice and sum it up and use whats best for you. Good luck.