Gemini wants his Ex gf back. Help?

HI fellow Geminis- I am a 31 year old Gemini that just got dumped about 3 weeks ago by my ex gf. Ill be honest she went through my phone twice and saw some dirty textes. She forgave me the 1st time but then caught me the 2nd. I know its no excuse but I was in a depressed mode for a few months and it was easy to get attention from other woman. I know its wrong. I know I was wrong. Bottom line is she means the world to me and I want her back. Her mind is tainted right now with negative images of me, yet she does text me sometimes asking how I am doing? Long story short I have made changes and love her. What do I do? What do I say?
Thanks

Well you can start by not sexting anymore! And if you cant stop then you shouldn't be involved or should be in an open relationship! Next time you're feeling neglected or depressed talk to HER about it and maybe she can help..you need to tow the line and prove you aren't gonna fuck up again. But I'm sure she won't believe a word you say cuz she has no reason to...so you'll have to everything in your power to gain her trust back and dont stop til you have and continue to prove yourself for a long long time. The end.

Posted by top_recruit
HI fellow Geminis- I am a 31 year old Gemini that just got dumped about 3 weeks ago by my ex gf. Ill be honest she went through my phone twice and saw some dirty textes. She forgave me the 1st time but then caught me the 2nd. I know its no excuse but I was in a depressed mode for a few months and it was easy to get attention from other woman. I know its wrong. I know I was wrong. Bottom line is she means the world to me and I want her back. Her mind is tainted right now with negative images of me, yet she does text me sometimes asking how I am doing? Long story short I have made changes and love her. What do I do? What do I say?
Thanks

What's her Sun, Moon, Venus?

Thanks for your feedback. Truly I am sorry and aware of my actions. I am not sure how to figure out her sun, moon and venus?? Can anyone help? Her Bday is March 12th. Again thank you for all your replies and support. Her and I talked last night and she doesnt seem to want to give me a chance- but I guess I am holding on to a little hope.. if any

Thanks

Sorry March 12th 1992

That makes her a pisces... You might get better help on the pisces board.

Good luck!

Posted by Lust
Pisces ? Oh easy brezzyy.
Emotional pisces always love gesture. Not so much in word. Don't explain things in a logical way. Words that associate with emo pisces: pain, suffer, ache, emptiness, very sad, lonely,... You got the point.

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LOL, talking about the misunderstood Pisces.

Your girl has Gemini Moon, Aqua Mars and Venus. She could be as cool as ice queen, yet with a sharp tongue (Aries Mercury).

The good news is that a Gem partner would be perfect for her. The only thing you could do is to persevere. It would be difficult for an Aqua Venus to take you back though, once they detach. I'm one and just can't take anyone back, but like to remain friends with my exes.

Just had a second look at her chart. Pluto is Scorpio aspects Sun, Moon, Mars and Venus. She may have a jealous, possessive streak that she hates, but can't control. If she made a scene when she caught you the second time, she probably regrets it. Try to appeal to her strong rational side. Do not text her, but phone to arrange to talk to her face to face.

She will not leave you, btw, but she will not trust you. You will have to earn it, Pisces can love eternally.. If she comes back, I suggest you treat her right. They are lovely souls, seriously, they love beyond words and bullshit.

I feel bad bc most people can't appreciate the love they give.

It makes me really want to jump your ass for being so selfish and self absorbed..

Why is it's so hard for people to just appreciate what they have while they have it?

Thank you all so much for your responses. Yes I agree I messed up and realistically dont deserve her back. Truth is I really do Love this girl and am aware of my flaws and my actions. I will admit I am the worst when it comes to creativity and don't really understand astrology that much at all. So if any further clarification you could give would be great.

On a side note we did talk 2 nights ago on thursday. She wasnt happy- she said she was done and I was pretty emotional. She cried a bit too. I suggested taking some steps back and going on some dates and allowing me the chance to start to rebuild that trust- again she declined. Im really lost here- I have no idea what to do. Please help

Lust and Watery Gem- Im not disagreeing with you. I really dont deserve her. Why was I doing what I did? I cant explain it.. she really was enough and is enough for me. We do have a bit of a long distance relationship but that was working. Really I know its wrong to ask for help and for forgiveness but I dont have any other card right now to play. I do Love her!!

Posted by Lust
Pisces ? Oh easy brezzyy.
Emotional pisces always love gesture. Not so much in word. Don't explain things in a logical way. Words that associate with emo pisces: pain, suffer, ache, emptiness, very sad, lonely,... You got the point.
Create something, & write her name on it. Don't buy already made stuff for a gift. Bake her something. Send her a picture of one piece of sad rose, or any picture that symbolize pain or suffering. In her brain this translates to how dark & lonely the days have been since she's gone. The more dramatic you are, the better. Not in hostile way but more in suffering way.

She is scared that you are going to betray her again, but it's not difficult to win pisces back. They don't understand logic, though. So don't try to be, since you are gemini you might get tempted to talk or explain things. If you want to do something daring, pinch your finger, write her name & draw hearth with your blood. This will get her to run back to you & hold you fast for real. Pisces & scorpio are into these dark stuff generally. But becarefull when you do this, dont hurt yourself though.

The fact that she still contacts you, means she still loves you. Don't worry. Just keep your promise to not do it again, you will be fine. Just keep up with your appearance, it's imposible to say no to a good looking guy 😉 lol

Lust is there a way I can personally contact you? Perhaps your email?
Thanks

Thank you Lust- I am going to try and mail her something creative. Im not very good with words but I am going to do my best. I am having a hard time not contacting her. We talk a bit in the mornings via facebook chat but nothing really of any substance. Any other ideas? How do I get out the negative thoughts and replace them with happy ones??

Thanks

Posted by cancerleolibra
as a water sign that has been kinda in the same place with a gemini... water signs get deeply hurt by their lovers when they betray them, and as someone whose given people more than two chances and they still mess up.. she might be done with you for good, its hard to gain our trust back after its been broken.. you have to do everything in your power to absolutely prove yourself, and it has to be in person.. words mean more when said then read.. but if she has a gemini moon conjunct your gemini sun.. she probably has a soft spot for you in her heart, something shed never be able to forget, its a strong synastry aspect. with all the air in her chart you need to appeal more to her head than her emotions

Thank you

Any suggestions on how to do that?

Her bday is march 12 92