Signs to know Gemini is Serious about you?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by unknownlegend on Tuesday, September 1, 2015 and has 15 replies.

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@unknownlegend
12 Years

I want to know what are the signs that Gemini is Serious about you?

Do they touch you often? become clingy? sweet? like that?
I'm dating a Gemini girl right now 🙂

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@downstairsmixup
11 YearsAquarius

Haha they definitely hit you up more often. Wanna do more things with you in social settings. I think all Geminis Dont wanna cross any boundaries so being clingy only happens if you put in your clingy two cents also lol

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@unknownlegend
12 Years

Posted by downstairsmixup
Haha they definitely hit you up more often. Wanna do more things with you in social settings. I think all Geminis Dont wanna cross any boundaries so being clingy only happens if you put in your clingy two cents also lol

I'm dating this gem girl right now 🙂 though she's like new to all these things called love because her last bf was in highschool 😄 now we're both employed

She's always the one to initiate for us to see each other, she always texts me and says she miss me and she likes me... She already introduced me to her family and relatives and also to her officemates... we held hands when we walk and she even hugged my arm tightly while walking... but I never got a response whenever I said "I love you" she just laughs and smiles... and sometimes she's so shy when I look her directly in the eye she covers her face and laughs like a baby... I want to know if she loves me because I know she likes me but I don't know if she loves me you know....

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@downstairsmixup
11 YearsAquarius

Posted by unknownlegend

Posted by downstairsmixup
Haha they definitely hit you up more often. Wanna do more things with you in social settings. I think all Geminis Dont wanna cross any boundaries so being clingy only happens if you put in your clingy two cents also lol

I'm dating this gem girl right now 🙂 though she's like new to all these things called love because her last bf was in highschool 😄 now we're both employed

She's always the one to initiate for us to see each other, she always texts me and says she miss me and she likes me... She already introduced me to her family and relatives and also to her officemates... we held hands when we walk and she even hugged my arm tightly while walking... but I never got a response whenever I said "I love you" she just laughs and smiles... and sometimes she's so shy when I look her directly in the eye she covers her face and laughs like a baby... I want to know if she loves me because I know she likes me but I don't know if she loves me you know....

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Ask her how she feels

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@LadyGem86
11 Years

Posted by unknownlegend

Posted by downstairsmixup
Haha they definitely hit you up more often. Wanna do more things with you in social settings. I think all Geminis Dont wanna cross any boundaries so being clingy only happens if you put in your clingy two cents also lol

I'm dating this gem girl right now 🙂 though she's like new to all these things called love because her last bf was in highschool 😄 now we're both employed

She's always the one to initiate for us to see each other, she always texts me and says she miss me and she likes me... She already introduced me to her family and relatives and also to her officemates... we held hands when we walk and she even hugged my arm tightly while walking... but I never got a response whenever I said "I love you" she just laughs and smiles... and sometimes she's so shy when I look her directly in the eye she covers her face and laughs like a baby... I want to know if she loves me because I know she likes me but I don't know if she loves me you know....

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Maybe she's not sure if she loves you or is in love with you yet...but it sure sounds like your getting close! I honestly would respect her for not saying it back yet because it means she's not just saying it just to be saying it, you know?

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@butterflygirl
12 Years

If she takes initiative with morning texts and makes plans to see each other I'd say yes she does like you. Love will come naturally on her own terms when she least expects it.

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@Pandala
12 YearsGemini

^^This

We see something, and go for it. Sometimes Gems get so involved that they can (temporarily) get tunnel vision. The only true reason we get cold is if you did something out or character (or out of the character we've build of you in our minds) we'll be likely to bolt.

Touch, eye contact, laughter, compliments, flirting... All basic "I HAZ CRUSH!" motions.

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@unknownlegend
12 Years

Posted by Pandala
^^This

We see something, and go for it. Sometimes Gems get so involved that they can (temporarily) get tunnel vision. The only true reason we get cold is if you did something out or character (or out of the character we've build of you in our minds) we'll be likely to bolt.

Touch, eye contact, laughter, compliments, flirting... All basic "I HAZ CRUSH!" motions.

All of the signs are exact! but she is so conservative! and also one thing... she doesn't know how to cook... she's like a princess 😛

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@ozzzy
11 Years500+ Posts

Posted by unknownlegend

Posted by Pandala
^^This

We see something, and go for it. Sometimes Gems get so involved that they can (temporarily) get tunnel vision. The only true reason we get cold is if you did something out or character (or out of the character we've build of you in our minds) we'll be likely to bolt.

Touch, eye contact, laughter, compliments, flirting... All basic "I HAZ CRUSH!" motions.

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Well, I would not agree. Our last date was really fine, and after that, she distanced herself, who knows why. She would never text first since then, and was flaky, and now it's totally ignoring my texts. It's been like that for a couple of weeks. And on all our dates she displayed all that signs of interest that you mentioned, and was chasing me from the first date. So, this is now really strange for me, cause, this was the first Gem girl I was dating, and I know three more, and they were all attracted to me, and still want to be near me. They enjoy my company. So, who knows what's up with her. I think that I didn't deserved an ignore.

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@GemGal92
11 Years

As a gemini gal myself I can only say that at the start of dating/relationship I tend to take the back step and see how things go..If she is wanting to see you and spend time doing things then that's a sure sign she is into you.. Give it time, she might not come across that way at the start but wait it out! When she starts texting you and making the first move you know your on to a winner lol

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@Whimsy
15 Years1,000+ Posts

If she's dating you regularly, and you're both calling it "dating", then she's into you. Gems are social, but very picky about who we date. I always like someone BEFORE I date him. I don't date to find out if I like the person.

I don't know about other Gems, but if I'm presenting a guy with gifts (especially ones I made myself), then he's in.