I am Gemini and my Venus is in cancer and I constantly have this battle with wanting to be single and play the field and wanting a relationship. do others have this same problem ?
Gemini with Venus in Cancer
What's your mooon bro
Posted by LoveSeeker
What's your mooon bro
Aries
Posted by LoveSeeker
What's your mooon bro
Libra rising also
Oh dear
Posted by Blue18
Oh dear
lol what is that bad ?
Posted by TokerXPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Blue18
Oh dear
lol what is that bad ?
Yes, Gem with Cancer Venus en Libra Rising... Best to kill yourself now. 😉click to expand
Haha can't be that bad !
TokerX- Whats your rising sign?
Actually, you should just post your chart. All of us Gems should..
Actually, you should just post your chart. All of us Gems should..
Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by TokerXPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Blue18
Oh dear
lol what is that bad ?
Yes, Gem with Cancer Venus en Libra Rising... Best to kill yourself now. 😉
Haha can't be that bad !click to expand
Aha nah, I was just comparing your placements to mine
Posted by WateryGem
TokerX- Whats your rising sign?
Actually, you should just post your chart. All of us Gems should..
Its Libra
Posted by Blue18Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by TokerXPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Blue18
Oh dear
lol what is that bad ?
Yes, Gem with Cancer Venus en Libra Rising... Best to kill yourself now. 😉
Haha can't be that bad !
Aha nah, I was just comparing your placements to mineclick to expand
Haha must have been a perfect match
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.
Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.click to expand
This is strange indeed, I feel the same "wandering mentality" except mine is with jobs and where I live, not relationships. I blame this on my Sag moon...but yes, I know very well Gems my ex was Aquarius Moon and after 4 years still wouldn't commit to marriage, but also I had to break up, he wouldn't. Then I have this really good Gem friend with Cancer Venus and we have amazing connection I can tell he feels torn between wanting a solid loving relationship and freedom from having one...so yeah...totally typical. Let me ask you this though, how does one know when a Gem w/Cancer Venus has real feelings toward them? I mean the combo of gregarious flirty Gemini and sensitive, caring Cancer can be misleading afte rall..haha
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.
This is strange indeed, I feel the same "wandering mentality" except mine is with jobs and where I live, not relationships. I blame this on my Sag moon...but yes, I know very well Gems my ex was Aquarius Moon and after 4 years still wouldn't commit to marriage, but also I had to break up, he wouldn't. Then I have this really good Gem friend with Cancer Venus and we have amazing connection I can tell he feels torn between wanting a solid loving relationship and freedom from having one...so yeah...totally typical. Let me ask you this though, how does one know when a Gem w/Cancer Venus has real feelings toward them? I mean the combo of gregarious flirty Gemini and sensitive, caring Cancer can be misleading afte rall..hahaclick to expand
When I really truly like someone the flirtation with other ppl stops for me. I get completely involved in that person and don't even want to flirt with anyone. Only one person has ever made me feel that way the....stupid Taurus with Gemini Venus _??
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.
This is strange indeed, I feel the same "wandering mentality" except mine is with jobs and where I live, not relationships. I blame this on my Sag moon...but yes, I know very well Gems my ex was Aquarius Moon and after 4 years still wouldn't commit to marriage, but also I had to break up, he wouldn't. Then I have this really good Gem friend with Cancer Venus and we have amazing connection I can tell he feels torn between wanting a solid loving relationship and freedom from having one...so yeah...totally typical. Let me ask you this though, how does one know when a Gem w/Cancer Venus has real feelings toward them? I mean the combo of gregarious flirty Gemini and sensitive, caring Cancer can be misleading afte rall..hahaclick to expand
well for me I stop flirting and become a bit clingy and I show you off to my family and friends but this doesn't last forever, i've never met a girl that made me feel secure enough to not flirt with others!I have a millions of crushes everyday haha sometimes I wonder myself if I really like a person or do I just want some company..
Posted by AirManPosted by ThatGemGuy336but I just can't let go of my relationship.
neither can i.click to expand
I think we are just afraid of being alone.
Posted by GemWoman92Posted by MoonbutterPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.
This is strange indeed, I feel the same "wandering mentality" except mine is with jobs and where I live, not relationships. I blame this on my Sag moon...but yes, I know very well Gems my ex was Aquarius Moon and after 4 years still wouldn't commit to marriage, but also I had to break up, he wouldn't. Then I have this really good Gem friend with Cancer Venus and we have amazing connection I can tell he feels torn between wanting a solid loving relationship and freedom from having one...so yeah...totally typical. Let me ask you this though, how does one know when a Gem w/Cancer Venus has real feelings toward them? I mean the combo of gregarious flirty Gemini and sensitive, caring Cancer can be misleading afte rall..haha
When I really truly like someone the flirtation with other ppl stops for me. I get completely involved in that person and don't even want to flirt with anyone. Only one person has ever made me feel that way the....stupid Taurus with Gemini Venus _—click to expand
do you prefer the relationship or the freedom ?
Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92Posted by MoonbutterPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.
This is strange indeed, I feel the same "wandering mentality" except mine is with jobs and where I live, not relationships. I blame this on my Sag moon...but yes, I know very well Gems my ex was Aquarius Moon and after 4 years still wouldn't commit to marriage, but also I had to break up, he wouldn't. Then I have this really good Gem friend with Cancer Venus and we have amazing connection I can tell he feels torn between wanting a solid loving relationship and freedom from having one...so yeah...totally typical. Let me ask you this though, how does one know when a Gem w/Cancer Venus has real feelings toward them? I mean the combo of gregarious flirty Gemini and sensitive, caring Cancer can be misleading afte rall..haha
When I really truly like someone the flirtation with other ppl stops for me. I get completely involved in that person and don't even want to flirt with anyone. Only one person has ever made me feel that way the....stupid Taurus with Gemini Venus _—
do you prefer the relationship or the freedom ?click to expand
ultimately I prefer being in the relationship. I like being single and playing the field but the feeling of "belonging" to someone overpowers that. BUT that's only if the person im with makes me feel like they truly love me because ik I love hard. We're just complicated lol its like we want love because of the cancer but gemini just wobt let u be vomplrtely content. Its kind of like I feel like im missing out in a way. Even when I am with someone there ar
Venus in Cancer definitely forces us to love hard even if our mind is begging us to go outside and play. Its an odd feeling to go through while in a relationship and in the past when I've tried to explain this to a partner they just think Im making excuses... Then my moon in Aquarius is like "forget this! Im MUCH better off alone". The feelings will definitely linger but I usually don't look back
Gem I was involved with has Venus in cancer - I have broken up with him 100 times for emotional infidelity (then he has been sleeping with this girl but now wants g to sleep with me again) but he will not let me g. If I break up with him, he pursues me harder. Very clingy. I've seen is with him with all the women he's been involved with.
I'm also a Gem with Venus in Cancer and Moon in Libra -- and I TOTALLY get you! I LOVE being in a relationship just as much as I love to play the field. But I also tend to get this little voice that rises up from the dark bowlels of my heart and whispers "it ain't gonna work, he's not the right one, just you see." And once I hear that voice... that's when I cheat. Without fail. And that voice ALWAYS hits me before I even get into the relationship, but I'm too stubborn to listen and go for it anyway. Then I'm caught in the "I want to BE with this boy, but I want the sex from that other boy." It makes me feel like a horrible person, tbh, and I'll get super clingly with my partner afterwards to make myself feel better, like I'm proving to myself that I SHOULD be in a relationship (but really I shouldn't.)
But, there have been two times where I've never heard that voice. The first was with my ex-fiance (we split because I left the country) and the second is with my current mate. When there's no voice, there's no confusion. No temptation. Just full-on red hot, unbending dedication. So... listen to your little voices!
But, there have been two times where I've never heard that voice. The first was with my ex-fiance (we split because I left the country) and the second is with my current mate. When there's no voice, there's no confusion. No temptation. Just full-on red hot, unbending dedication. So... listen to your little voices!
Posted by Everything
Wow no one seems to give a clear answer. So you gems with venus in cancer can't really be trusted for eternal commitment?
Unless you've got a whole lot of scorp in your chart? Including the ascendant?
To give you a clear cut answer I never cheat when im with someone because I only date people I reeaaallllyyy like and are attracted to. I am a flirt but I only date someone if I see the relationship actually going somewhere. If u have a prospective gemini with cancer Venus boo it'll also depend on their moon to know how he'll act in a relationship. Mine is in aquarius so like some people say Gemini with cancer venus are clingy im totally not. And I could be all about you and in love but that aquarius moon plus the flirty nature of gemini would make it seem as if I could care less and didn't love my partner deeply. We definitely express our love differently but are faithfully. Just be patient 🙂 curious the...what does the rest of this gems chart look like?
Curious tho**
Posted by Everything
How can you leave the country when you are engaged to a man?
What are your mens charts?
I left for a six month study abroad program. I was fine with the time and distance but as it turns out, he wasn't, and broke it off after four months. I ended up staying abroad...
Ex-fiance was Taurus with moon in Pisces and Venus in Gemini. Current man is Libra with moon and Venus both in Scorpio.
Sun Gemini
Ascendant Libra
Moon Aries
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Taurus
Ascendant Libra
Moon Aries
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Taurus
Posted by TokerXPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Blue18Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by TokerXPosted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by Blue18
Oh dear
lol what is that bad ?
Yes, Gem with Cancer Venus en Libra Rising... Best to kill yourself now. 😉
Haha can't be that bad !
Aha nah, I was just comparing your placements to mine
Haha must have been a perfect match
Most certainly not! Crabs are only meant for dinner!click to expand
Nah, I hate seafood
Posted by blackphase
I am not even a flirt at all. I tend to be pretty rude to to guys that try to come on to me. I don't really like attention from random guys. Things most girls would enjoy I am repulsed by.. Whistle at me.. you're getting the finger.. Bars.. don't go there cause I end up really ticked off with 90% of the people there. I only want attention from the one person that I care about 🙂
I don't know that I'm rude to guys but I don't flirt or engage with men.. It takes someone special to get my attention.
To the poster who said we can't commit.. I was in a committed relationship for 11yrs, the reason we aren't together is bc of the other person. I want someone to spend the rest of my life with. I played the field for a very short period of time before I settled down. I think Gems just need to either mature or find someone they see themselves with forever.
There isn't anyone that would say I'm fickle like a Gem or doesn't get attached. I'm an extremely loyal friend and partner.
I am interested in Gemini guy with Capricorn moon n Venus in cancer. He is playing disappearing act with me. I am also playing as hard to get. But he told me once he will definitely let me know if things r not working out between us. But then y this disappearing act. What does he wanna do!?
Posted by theblueseagull85
I am interested in Gemini guy with Capricorn moon n Venus in cancer. He is playing disappearing act with me. I am also playing as hard to get. But he told me once he will definitely let me know if things r not working out between us. But then y this disappearing act. What does he wanna do!?
What's his Moon and Venus? I find the guys are so much harder to deal with when getting in a relationship. How old is he?
Gemini sun cancer Venus guy told me he wants his wife to act like a whore in bed. We just started dating over a month. We agreed upon doing only foreplay before v know if v r really into each other. He says M his personal whore now. He is also playing mind games being distant n all. What do you think... Is he serious about this relationship or just playing!? He is mature enough guy. He also told me if things don't gonna work out between us... He will let me know n same goes for me. So m bit confused about this guy's word n actions. Please help decoding him.
*to act like a whore in bed. He calls me his personal whore.
Ohk I guess w**re word is getting deleted. So I was saying he wants his wife to act as a whore in bed n he calls me his personal w**re.
I am Venus in cancer moon in gem.. June 5..om stable and want a home life and then I want to be single.. Ugh
Posted by theblueseagull85
Ohk I guess w**re word is getting deleted. So I was saying he wants his wife to act as a whore in bed n he calls me his personal w**re.
He calls you his personal wh**re? That's a pretty strong word, I would be offended. You are not bothered by him calling you that?
Posted by ThatGemGuy336
Sun Gemini
Ascendant Libra
Moon Aries
Mercury Cancer
Venus Cancer
Mars Taurus
My guy friend is Gem w/Venus Cancer and he is early 30's still battling this internal struggle. I say, you are still soo young don't worry most guys your age feel this way anyways just ride it out a bit. You will be more inclined to have a relationship when you are late 20's I would say, due to your Venus and Mars.
Posted by ThatGemGuy336Posted by GemWoman92
Same situation here except my moon is Aquarius. I find that when I do get into relationships and actually really like the person its hard for me to let that person go. And even when I'm in a relationship i still feel like km missing out on something or being restricted lol
Yes i'm the same but I always stay in the relationship but I'm usually not happy because I want to explore the other side.. but I just can't let go of my relationship.click to expand
Can you suggest how a guy with sun Gemini, moon Capricorn, Venus cancer, virgo ascending will behave while dating someone!?
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