Gems and ignoring?

Hey

Long time lurker here 🙂

Im an Aquarius and have been on a 3 dates with this Gem guy. Every single date has been wonderful, spoke a lot, had a laugh, flirted and he would always plan to see me next during the date.
On friday we arranged to meet up, had dinner, had some wine, went to a bar, drank a bit more and then walked by the river and sat down for a bit. it was very romantic and we were holding hands and getting on so well, he even told me that hes got me a gift and hes going to give it to me next time i see him, which is this wednesday. Towards the end of the night, I called for a cab and when it came, we kissed goodbye, again very romantic!
We text each other when both of us got home and he said "I would love another kiss goodnight, but guess i'll have to wait the next time 😉 xxx".

I replied saying that I couldnt wait to see him again and he said the same thing back.

Fast forward to Monday and I text him asking how he was and no reply....ok he could be busy.
so i text him today asking if we are still on for tomorrow and if not, i can make other plans, and no reply again!
so after 8 hours i text him this " hey dont really get why youre ignoring me since friday as I thought we had a good time?if you dont want to keep in touch just say so? if i dont hear from you, i get the hint lol xx 🙂"


AND guess what!! NO REPLY! :-|

I really dont get this at all. did he get scared because we got on so well? im so confused

i am great at ignoring... most times. 🙂

Posted by JLwhittaker
Keep in mind: geminis are only interested in you if you have something to offer to them / if they need you somehow.

Biggest load of tripe I've ever read on this forum.

He may have gotten caught up in something. I know quite a few gems and they tend to get a bit engrossed in things easily. If so, you've reminded him you're still there and it's now up to him.

its just so annoying not to get a reply from him, as things were going so well and i feel every things at a halt.
Ive heard nothing from him today so i assume the date tonight is off

my last text to him, wasnt rude or off putting was it? :-s

Posted by misslissa
i am great at ignoring... most times. 🙂

This^^^

Lost his phone in laundry basket? I do that pretty often.

God I nearly puked at the first line! I thought id been found out by aqua laxroix! But then it said GUY! uhhh phewwww! haa breathe 😄 .. Im in/was in the same position but the other way around, not that that helps you much.. just call him, dont text him, as a gemini I am terrible with texts i look at them and think oh i will respond later... BUT!.. NEVER DO! 😄 .. Doesnt mean anything bad, we just get a lil distracted, I cant see any reason why he would just go on a complete u-bend with you, but then again dont know why aqua did neither, what ever you do dont moan at him, try and call him and then leave it at that, leave him a message which would probably make him laugh, I cant stand it when i get text after text saying im ignoring them, usually im busy and have an intention to get back to them, EVENTUALLY! the minute its assumed im ignoring them it actually makes me ignore them, although i will put them out of their misery and tell them i dont like it and now thats why i really am ignoring them, i come around eventually though...

hope the do`s and donts at least help 🙂

I dont agree that gems only want you when they want something, if i want THAT PERSON, yes, personally there`s nothing else i would want off anyone.

found out that hes with someone

Posted by qwertty
found out that hes with someone

Oh douche :/ .. sorry to hear that

He did lead me on, talked the talk, what an a**hole!

Yeah, what gucci said.. He's probably just distracted. Depends.


I could ignore someone for many reasons.... I could not find you that fun and be putting on a show, just found something else that distracted me, you start annoying me with constant "confirmation" texts.. yuck.
Or in most Aqua cases, I just start to hate you in general ^_^ lols.
But in cases where it's a bad thing, I'll probably snap at you before just simply ignoring you. So, I wouldn't fret

D'oh 😢

Posted by B7888
It's alright hun. Just ignore him to death. Seriously, don't pick up if he calls. Ignore him if he passes by and whatever you do .. DON'T show him you're angry and most of all.. don't blame or yell at home. Just cut him out. You're an aqua. It's easy for you to ignore someone. 😉

Yeah but dont ignore me.. i will start thinking ya hot! O_o .. Fetish yeah 😉

lmao

Posted by qwertty
found out that hes with someone

I assumed that when you had no response. As a Gemini if you are into someone you would not ignore their texts or calls if anything you would be initiating them. As we are so impatient and need everything like yesterday.
Ignore this guy completely do not text him or call him move on and heal and take care of yourself.
x

Posted by B7888

Posted by guccigemini55

Posted by B7888
It's alright hun. Just ignore him to death. Seriously, don't pick up if he calls. Ignore him if he passes by and whatever you do .. DON'T show him you're angry and most of all.. don't blame or yell at home. Just cut him out. You're an aqua. It's easy for you to ignore someone. 😉

Yeah but dont ignore me.. i will start thinking ya hot! O_o .. Fetish yeah 😉

lmao

You do know i'm a female right? LOL! Oh gemini, stop!! 😛

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LOL! yes but some of us gemini`s or most rather! have recently realised we get messed up when we are ignored and even worse realisation its a fetish lol, makes us want the ignorer, we cant stand it 😄 .. so yes try that for a bit with him.

I vote for engrossed in a project.