who's better for him? me or her?

Her:
01/24/1991

Sun Aquarius 4.20
Moon Taurus 20.22
Mercury Capricorn 12.36
Venus Aquarius 24.34
Mars Gemini 0.53
Jupiter Leo 9.08 R
Saturn Capricorn 28.29
Uranus Capricorn 11.08
Neptune Capricorn 15.01
Pluto Scorpio 20.10
Lilith Sagittarius 19.46
Asc node Capricorn 28.10

Me:
09/26/1991

Sun Libra 3.11
Moon Taurus 8.31
Mercury Virgo 27.32
Venus Leo 24.12
Mars Libra 16.38
Jupiter Virgo 3.02
Saturn Aquarius 0.15 R
Uranus Capricorn 9.51
Neptune Capricorn 13.59
Pluto Scorpio 18.34
Lilith Capricorn 17.04
Asc node Capricorn 15.24

Him:
03/22/1991

Sun Aries 1.42
Moon Gemini 26.11
Mercury Aries 19.14
Venus Taurus 4.45
Mars Gemini 24.11
Jupiter Leo 3.38 R
Saturn Aquarius 4.28
Uranus Capricorn 13.31
Neptune Capricorn 16.34
Pluto Scorpio 20.09 R
Lilith Sagittarius 26.07
Asc node Capricorn 26.01

You both will probably end up getting played.

First of all, Gemini men and Aries men are two of the most shameless notorious cheaters/players out of the 12 zodiacs. This male in question happens to be both. Any Gemini influence is bad news for an Aries man. My man is an Aries with Mars in Gemini (fickle, craves variety) and Venus in Pisces (falls in love easily, major sucker for sob stories from other women). I gotta have two eyes on the front and two more eyes on the back of my head to keep this son of a cookiemonster from sliding out and doing his dirt.

But I'm a Sag so I'm tough enough to handle men like that. Aqua women are extremely tough as well. Libra women on the other hand, I'm not so sure about. This man will most likely break you down.

What the fuck does it matter what is better for him?

This thread looks like it's in honor of his choice, and how lucky are you if you are the best choice for him.

There's nothing in here that honors you ... what about if he is good for you?

that doesn't seem to be anywhere in the equation

You're just another lost female who is so desperate to be loved that you will make your fate his decision.

:::: shakes head ::::

Probably her, because she is probably not so doormatty ...

And as far as crimeofpassion, you are only 22 years old, which means ...

1. you extremely limited experience to make that assessement, or

2. you have a lot of experience, which means you started fucking men at a very young age, which means you've been jaded

Actually, I guess there is a third option ..

3. you started fucking as an adult, and have ridden numerous penises in order to have enough to make a statistical assessment for comparison

i asked him what his views are on cheating and he said it's a horrible thing to do to someone and that only weak willed people with no regard for anybody else resort to cheating. i know all that gemini in his chart makes him look bad but he also has a taurus venus. isn't that supposed to make him faithful??

this aqua just won't go away. i know i'm horrible and selfish for thinking she's in the way and that maybe if it weren't for her existence things would be much better. but i'm losing hope.

Well, she HAS to look like that, you know ... because how else is she going to keep the Aries?

Posted by MelanieG

... she's in the way and that maybe if it weren't for her existence things would be much better. but i'm losing hope.

JesusFuckingChrist

You seem to not even notice that you hand your own worth over to another person to decide whether you are deserving.

P-Angel,

Umm no I've only fucked two men and you wish you looked this good.

MelanieG,

I'm just saying his chart looks ridiculously fickle but if he told you he's not a cheater and he's always been honest in the past then you should believe him. Use your intuition.

Posted by MelanieG
i asked him what his views are on cheating and he said it's a horrible thing to do to someone and that only weak willed people with no regard for anybody else resort to cheating. i know all that gemini in his chart makes him look bad but he also has a taurus venus. isn't that supposed to make him faithful??

this aqua just won't go away. i know i'm horrible and selfish for thinking she's in the way and that maybe if it weren't for her existence things would be much better. but i'm losing hope.

She's NOT in the way, if you were better for him then she wouldn't be capable of being in the way. He's an Aries, he goes after what he WANTS, through any and all obstacles. Move on...