@DazedStarr
13 Years
Dazed that is a beautiful thing!
Things are going ok, I think we are just going to be friends.
Ive never dated an aquarian before. I havent been attracted to my own sign as of yet. I do attract alot of aquarian men though. Not sure why. We make good friends though. Ive always wondered how the two would fair. You have a pisces moon like me. I need some deep intimacy going on.
Posted by DazedStarr
Things are going ok, I think we are just going to be friends.
You never know with an Aqua. Enjoy the ride, but remember, you can get off the merry-go-round at anytime. 🙂
Yeah that's pretty much how it was. I really like him and think he is very interesting in a lot of ways but after a while it seemed like he was just going to end up hurting me in the end if I got too emotionally invested. He was always flirting with this other girl in front of me and joking around like "HEY WE'RE BOTH AQUARIUS SO ITS OK! WE'RE EXACTLY THE SAME!" and I'm like, uuuuuuh no. Lol.
I've never been able to make anything close to a commitment happen with an Aquarius guy. It's too soon after my last relationship to have a boyfriend anyway.
Of course, I have been told that I am very hard to read myself. But it dawned on me that in reality he was laying his cards on the table for me to see but my romantic Pisces moon probably just didn't want to see it at first. Agh.
Posted by DazedStarr
Yeah that's pretty much how it was. I really like him and think he is very interesting in a lot of ways but after a while it seemed like he was just going to end up hurting me in the end if I got too emotionally invested. He was always flirting with this other girl in front of me and joking around like "HEY WE'RE BOTH AQUARIUS SO ITS OK! WE'RE EXACTLY THE SAME!" and I'm like, uuuuuuh no. Lol.I've never been able to make anything close to a commitment happen with an Aquarius guy. It's too soon after my last relationship to have a boyfriend anyway.
Of course, I have been told that I am very hard to read myself. But it dawned on me that in reality he was laying his cards on the table for me to see but my romantic Pisces moon probably just didn't want to see it at first. Agh.
Dang. Aqua-Aqua combination is like a cycle of repel and possess. It can be great and then all of the sudden turn stagnate and unpleasant. 😢
I dated one Aquarius girl in my life and it went south when I got to emotionally attracted...
Guess what! She is single now and she showed so much interest toward me now just recently...
Even though that brief relationship with her was over 10 years ago .... 12 years—w/e
I think the point is... if you want him you are going to have to find romance in intellectual stimulation and just be freindly...
1)How long have you known this guy??
2)If not long and he does not know a lot about you why not just tell him... and show how you are on his level with your
own thought processes.
3)I mean if your Aquarius you should surely find value in this... right?
4)I know for me the more I know about someone and how they think... It is a lot easier for me to be open if I find there mind attractive and intimacy comes right behind that. I guess it's just I hate to waste time with intimacy with someone who I don't know for sure or not will challenge my mind and stimulate my intellect... I mean it's selfish to get too close without knowing beforehand... You could be so HAWT but if your an airhead and can't even understand me... can't comprehend what I'm talking about... It will never work.
Like the way I see it is the long held desire of an Aquarius is to truly feel like they are understood by someone...
That someone really gets them... Can keep up with there mind...
Whether they have tons of friends or a recluse... they usually always feel alone until that certain someone comes along and takes the lonely out of being Aquariun.
I haven't logged in here for a while, thought I would elaborate a little more regardless. He and I are good friends, and I value his friendship and company. Just seems like we're not on the relationship level. Which is okie dokie with me. 😉
Welcome back 🙂 seems like Aquas are far easier to be friends with after dating for a while, from experience anyway 😛
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His birthday is the day after mine. We were cuddling and giggling under a full moon to japanese psychedelic music..so Aquarian right? We couldn't stop laughing the whole time. He is the definition of a mad genius, insanely talented and creative and I love it. I kind of worry about the intimacy factor though. I get the impression I'll need to make the next move with him. He is very easily distracted, lol.
He is adorable.